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Topic: How do you seduce opposite sex?
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Milkyshutter
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From: Bellingham, WA
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posted June 22, 2012 04:29 AM
  
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Being playful and humorous, I think the way I speak (laid-back) also helps, but I'm seductive in my walk and the way I carry myself.Gem ASC
Aries Sun
Taurus Moon
i find woman who knows how to walk the walk so sexy. That's like subtle way of saying, "comon, chase me." That just makes my heart race. Ha! IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
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posted June 22, 2012 04:45 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Smile - Bat Eyelashes - Repeat.Occasionally speak.. but always in a very lost, dreamy - la dee da kind of way... Pisces Merc... Some men love it!! Some are just confused.. when it's too subliminal for them. I have Taurus Venus trine Mars conj Neptune in Cap.
Do you ever make the first move? What if the guy dosesn't gets it? You move to the next target? Knowing that your sun and moon are both cardinal, I think you will make your move pretty loud and clear. Am I not correct? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 22, 2012 04:46 AM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
i find woman who knows how to walk the walk so sexy. That's like subtle way of saying, "comon, chase me." That just makes my heart race. Ha!
I just feel like it speaks more volumes than anything I verbally say. Plus having Mars in Gem conj. my ASC I just intuitively know the looks to give, the glances, the giggles... it just sucks when I'm playing it for the chase and not the person. I rarely play for a person. If I REALLY like you - I don't play. I keep my distance 'til you approach me (I'm stubborn in my ideas, 'k?) IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
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posted June 22, 2012 05:01 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I just feel like it speaks more volumes than anything I verbally say. Plus having Mars in Gem conj. my ASC I just intuitively know the looks to give, the glances, the giggles... it just sucks when I'm playing it for the chase and not the person. I rarely play for a person. If I REALLY like you - I don't play. I keep my distance 'til you approach me (I'm stubborn in my ideas, 'k?)
That's a new information. So having your Mars conjunct AS, do you consider yourself visceral? Where is your venus?
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Odette
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posted June 22, 2012 05:03 AM
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I think you will make your move pretty loud and clear. Am I not correct?
I'm not that sexed to tell the truth!
My Mars is conjunct Neptune so I am very passive and non-physical. My idea of love is very spiritual at the end of the day.. and if something feels *empty* or purely physical - I don't feel interested. I am most attracted to men who are clear on what they want... since I'm not all that decisive (due to the Neptune influence).
I'd prefer to be with a guy who is very clear on the fact that he wants me and who makes it clear. Men who play hard to get- are a sexual put-off for me.
Having Capricorn Mars - I really don't like feeling like I'm wasting time or energy... so unless it feels like it is *real* and *going somewhere* - I don't really bother. I really don't like games at all.
If he didn't get my hints... I wouldn't really care.. I would feel like he is not my kind of person. I also like men who have some water in their chart so we can have ESP happening. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 22, 2012 05:05 AM
 bahahahahahahahahahah!!!! LOL You know me so well Gem Gurl  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 22, 2012 05:10 AM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
That's a new information. So having your Mars conjunct AS, do you consider yourself visceral? Where is your venus?
If I'm thinking of the right definition for visceral (more feeling than logic?) then yes. Especially since it's in the 12th house... whenever I pick up a man's interest in me it isn't from anything directly that he says. It's an undercurrent, sometimes strong, sometimes it's a passing thought but if I get it then I assume he thought it. Kind of loopy to read back to myself as I type this but I'm just being honest. My Venus is also in Aries but it's in the 11th house. It's sextile my ASC. IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
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posted June 22, 2012 05:21 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
If I'm thinking of the right definition for visceral (more feeling than logic?) then yes. Especially since it's in the 12th house... whenever I pick up a man's interest in me it isn't from anything directly that he says. It's an undercurrent, sometimes strong, sometimes it's a passing thought but if I get it then I assume he thought it. Kind of loopy to read back to myself as I type this but I'm just being honest. My Venus is also in Aries but it's in the 11th house. It's sextile my ASC.
Not long ago, I completely fell head over heels for someone. I think I was played by her games. And it seems your planetory placement is somewhat similar. I think I'll watch out for your type next time! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 22, 2012 05:28 AM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
Not long ago, I completely fell head over heels for someone. I think I was played by her games. And it seems your planetory placement is somewhat similar. I think I'll watch out for your type next time!
Maybe she wasn't completely sure of your interest. I mean I feel these things, but feelings are passing. Actions (and maybe I'm biased because I'm an Aries and actions are what I respond to) are more concrete than intuitive vibes or hunches. Mine, anyway.
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Gem-Gurl
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posted June 22, 2012 06:03 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
bahahahahahahahahahah!!!!LOL You know me so well Gem Gurl
Lol i do, dont i? I can clearly see you doing that  lol bet that scorpy boy would be like  LOL ------------------
Quote i like---> "A collection of rare thoughts is nothing less then a cabinet of intellectual 'Gems' " - William B. Spraque with slight editing by me!! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted June 22, 2012 06:10 AM
Black magic,obviously xD Venus in aspect to Pluto IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted June 22, 2012 06:54 AM
I don't seduce, even though I have some Scorp and Libra influence. I don't like people trying to hit on me or seduce me, either. It makes me feel really angry and threatened. I'm still mad at this creepy person who made inappropriate pick-up comments to me over a year ago, and another who did it a few months ago. I don't forgive that! I like to daydream about flirting and romance, but I feel angry when people actually hit on me or flirt with me. The only time that I didn't feel angry is when I didn't feel threatened or like the person was trying to take it somewhere. I have had about six or seven female friends tell me literally how they have experienced attraction to me, and for some reason, it didn't upset me, probably because I knew that it wouldn't be acted upon and because they did not try to take things to that level. They weren't creepy about it and I had an intuitive feeling that things were OK. Other people hitting on me and trying to get to physical contact, though, infuriates me. I'm just not into that. IP: Logged |
L0veLess
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posted June 22, 2012 07:31 AM
Well i have a scorp moon conj pluto, a sag mars unaspected and a retro venus conj sun in cap.I don't really flirt. I've never had a guy until now. And I never flirted with him things just sorta happened. The only time i come close to flirting is by trying to seem 'charming' towards ugly guys because they are easy i guess. And i feel like i should be nice to them. I've never flirted with a cute guy and felt confident in front of him. I usually act disinterested to guys i like or i keep my distance! because i'm afraid. Around cute guys i feel like all my flaws are magnified. IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
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posted June 22, 2012 07:51 AM
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Originally posted by L0veLess:
Well i have a scorp moon conj pluto, a sag mars unaspected and a retro venus conj sun in cap.I don't really flirt. I've never had a guy until now. And I never flirted with him things just sorta happened. The only time i come close to flirting is by trying to seem 'charming' towards ugly guys because they are easy i guess. And i feel like i should be nice to them. I've never flirted with a cute guy and felt confident in front of him. I usually act disinterested to guys i like or i keep my distance! because i'm afraid. Around cute guys i feel like all my flaws are magnified.
Hmm...You seem to have self-esteem issue, no offense. You and I share the same sun/venus placement. I, too, have sun/venus in Cap, and a very close conjunction of both planets. I admit I sometimes feel very awkward in front of the girl that I'm attracted too. Accept them as friends rather than potential date. IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze
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posted June 22, 2012 08:42 AM
In order to be loved, you must first love yourself.Therefore I would imagine in order to seduce potential partners, you would first have to seduce yourself. If you don't find yourself attractive and good company, chances are that won't come across when you meet potential partners. If you enjoy your own company, find yourself attractive, and are generally happy with yourself. This will be conveyed in your social interactions. Lets be honest, if you were in a room with people, would you rather spend time with someone who was relaxed, smiling, and happy with themself? Or would you rather spend time with someone who is, overly anxious, worried looking, and not happy with themselves? People generally want to fill their lives with positive people. I see a lot of men acting in a derogatory manner, it is pretty reprehensible to me. I'm not quite sure what it is that makes me attractive but i've been told I am so I just go along with it. I just be myself, a happy, fun loving person with my unique brand of observational cynicism. I'm pretty comfortable with myself and that probably comes across. I can't help myself if i'm attracted to someone, my gaze tends to focus on them. I don't know what it looks like but I would imagine my whole body language says, "I like you." The other part is that I genuinely care and show interest in people. I am fascinated by people in general and try to make the lives of everyone I meet better and more positive by making them smile or feel more at ease. Its hard for people not to like people that show a genuine interest in them. Merc & Mars - Libra
Venus & Pluto - Scorpio
Asc - Leo
Sun - Virgo
Moon - Gemini ------------------
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Milkyshutter
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posted June 22, 2012 09:01 AM
Hi Sweept Freeze. You just reminded me how a libra person would speak. HaIP: Logged |
sunnigrl83
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posted June 22, 2012 10:11 AM
I don't approach men. I like them to approach me. so I just use body language. Smiles and flirty eye contact.(people usually say my eyes attract them) I find myself doing certain things when I'm attracted to a guy. Like biting my lip, and fiddling with my hair. Showing of my neck, or other bits of skin here or there. Alot of times I do this subconciously, but I do catch myself. I tend to have a different way of walking too. A lil strut. Yep all body language... I want to be chased. If a guy asks me out or something. My first answer will almost always b no. I want to know they're really interested. asc, sun - Leo
venus, merc - Virgo
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sexyaqua30
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posted June 22, 2012 11:50 AM
My eyes get me in a lot of trouble. I'm the biggest flirt. I use words to create the ultimate mind ****. I start off innocent making most of the conversation all about them...men love this. I play coy then let the bad girl side out every once in awhile. Disappear....reappear more interested than before then bam...I end up with stalkers.  I've wrapped the strongest sags, scorps and taurus' men around my fingers. Got a taurus sun, taurus venus now hooked. Hehehe...
Sun aqua, moon sag, venus cap, merc aqua
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Randall
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posted June 22, 2012 12:01 PM
Marilyn Monroe (the epitome of the essence of sexuality of her time) said that if you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything, and by anything, she was referring to the bedroom. Humor tops the list in what a woman finds attractive in a man, but it has to be the right type of humor. There are comics who can make an audience laugh, but their humor is immature, and they don't really attract women. Then you have the Vince Vauhn (however you spell his last name), who has average looks, but he has dated some of Hollywood's most beautiful women (like Jennifer Anniston). Occasionally, one might see a very unattractive man with a stunning woman and assume that he must have lots of money, when, in fact, he can just make her laugh.------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
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posted June 22, 2012 12:03 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Marilyn Monroe (the epitome of the essence of sexuality of her time) said that if you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything, and by anything, she was referring to the bedroom. Humor tops the list in what a woman finds attractive in a man, but it has to be the right type of humor. There are comics who can make an audience laugh, but their humor is immature, and they don't really attract women. Then you have the Vince Vauhn (however you spell his last name), who has average looks, but he has dated some of Hollywood's most beautiful women (like Jennifer Anniston). Occasionally, one might see a very unattractive man with a stunning woman and assume that he must have lots of money, when, in fact, he can just make her laugh.
I couldn't agree more.
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Xiiro
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posted June 22, 2012 12:08 PM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
Very interesting. Are you born in 1977? I think I can totally relate to your story. So I guess your rising sign is Aries like me. I also have my mars placed in the 5th. My jupiter is in Gemini. Hope to find out more about you
Yes indeed. 12/03/1977, year of the fire snake =) How about you? IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted June 22, 2012 12:36 PM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
I have Cap mercury. But if you are trying to extrapolate how I manipulate the role, I strongly suspect it's my neptune. I have moon opposition pluto, but moon trines Neptune.
I have the opposite of this, Moon trine Pluto and Moon opposite Neptune. I am ususally always in my own little world too much to notice whats going on around me. Untill someone comes up out of no where and starts a convo at which point I can charm my way out of it as to not hurt their feelings.( Libra Rising, Gemini Sun). When I spot someone I'm into though, eye contact is important as is intuition.(Cancer Moon, Merc, Mars). The person must be able to sense what I'm about enough to take it further. Once I have assesed them enough to satisfy my Taurus Venus then I turn my Pluto onn.(Pluto dominant).  IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted June 22, 2012 12:51 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Marilyn Monroe (the epitome of the essence of sexuality of her time) said that if you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything, and by anything, she was referring to the bedroom. Humor tops the list in what a woman finds attractive in a man, but it has to be the right type of humor. There are comics who can make an audience laugh, but their humor is immature, and they don't really attract women. Then you have the Vince Vauhn (however you spell his last name), who has average looks, but he has dated some of Hollywood's most beautiful women (like Jennifer Anniston). Occasionally, one might see a very unattractive man with a stunning woman and assume that he must have lots of money, when, in fact, he can just make her laugh.
I agree to this too Make her laugh & always be ready to throw down if she's in danger.
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violet7887
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posted June 22, 2012 12:51 PM
But you know, I jsut thought of something, the way you seduce might be different with different people and what they activate in you.As in seducing someone who activates my Moon energy and seducing someone who activates my Pluto energy might be verrry different....
just a thought
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ail221
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posted June 22, 2012 12:53 PM
I usually don't seduce the opposite sex,but I am a unconscious flirt sometimes this is what I hear from my friends. First make eye contact do the single double eye bat and widen my top lid slightly. If they come over I treat them indifferently and just charm them with ; Wit, Humor, and Sarcasm. The icing would be slight head turn to the side and smile. I think what I lack in Venus aspects and pluto I make up with Asteroid aspects.
ASC- Taurus sextile Sun
Sun- Cancer 3rd house semi-sextile Venus
Moon- Gemini 1st house(placidus) 2nd (whole sign)
Venus- Gemini 2nd house opposite Uranus
Mars- Taurus 12th house(placidus) 1st (whole sign) Trine Aphrodite and conjunct Sappho.
Eros&Psyche- In Taurus Conjunct ASC & Moon, Eros and Psyche sextile Sun.
Nymphe in Libra & Selene in Aquarius trine Asc, Nymphe Trine Selene.
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