posted June 22, 2012 09:00 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:

dang yta, sounds like you got a good woman. my experience has been that most women are not very straightforward, its always"we'll see or i dont know or maybe." and im thinking grr, its a yes or no question, is it that difficult?

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posted June 22, 2012 09:21 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I told a couple of women before. "Is 'dunno' or 'maybe' the extent of your vocabulary.". . OK. That was rude, but dunnos drive me nuts, and when you yield to me to make a decision, don't gripe about my choice!

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posted June 22, 2012 09:55 PM            

I agree with Randall and AD about the humor...and Vince Vaughn rules! And I think YTA is right about confidence.

To answer the question:

I never seduced any guy. But it's curious how often I got the guy I wanted, just by being open and honest. I have Leo rising trine Aries Jupiter trine Venus/Neptune in Sag, so when I liked a guy it was just obvious.

That seemed to draw them in: sincere attention and appreciation.

Oh, and I guess I looked okay enough, too.

posted June 22, 2012 10:05 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
That's cute ariesdragon

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posted June 22, 2012 10:12 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I really don't understand why some women like to play mind games and hard to get etc. I've ticked off more than my share of women who want me to "chase" them and want to say no the first time hoping that I would beg. My mentality is I don't have time to waste on such rubbish. Yes or No. It's ok if it's No, but tell it in my face and don't waste my time. To me, yes is yes and maybe is just No. That's what I liked about my wife. The answers are straight up and decisive. And within one second. She outright asked if I like to go out and what my phone number was. And she knew exactly when she was free and what she would like to eat and where she would like to go. I don't do wishy washy.

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posted June 22, 2012 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Interesting thread. Those gifs are hilarious Gem-Gurl!

I agree with Randall and AD about the humor...and Vince Vaughn rules! And I think YTA is right about confidence.

To answer the question:

I never seduced any guy. But it's curious how often I got the guy I wanted, just by being open and honest. I have Leo rising trine Aries Jupiter trine Venus/Neptune in Sag, so when I liked a guy it was just obvious.

That seeme

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posted June 22, 2012 10:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
Hey buddy. This has nothing to do with astrology, but they are sizing you up. You need to prove that you are special. Attractive women gets hit all the time, and you approach like the 9999999's man is nothing new to them. I have read all your posts and you take things too seriously.

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posted June 22, 2012 11:44 PM            

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Care to elaborate? What does it mean to turn your Pluto on?

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Well its pretty simple, when someone is interested or anyone actually(including new friends) I like to get to know them better for a whiillee. Honesty and sincerity really matter to me becasue I only make bonds I can keep. Once anyone has won my respect and affection, I can then give my complete all, becuase people whom you really love and care for deserve that.

posted June 22, 2012 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
My perspective is that most people are not serious enough, and it irritates me.

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Says the Capricorn...reminds me of my brother, he is Cancer Sun though

And yes beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what ever works for you and makes you happy is all that should matter.I respect that you are straight and simple, a basic quality most lack now a days.

posted June 23, 2012 12:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
I guess I could be a flirt if I weren't so against the game-playing frequently involved. I hate anything that feels superficial. It may be Pluto's influence. I use witty banter as an ice breaker, it tends to work. But it's my eyes that kill most of them, and the fact I look more innocent than I let on. My voice gets more bubbly when talking to someone I like, it's almost subconscious.

Anyways, eye contact is key, as most of the women here have demonstrated. Looks can be a factor but honestly, just dress in a way that flatters you and play up your features and it doesn't really matter either way.

The best way of seduction is just be yourself, for either sex. The key is to be happy doing it.

Leo sun, merc, venus. Sun and Venus in the 8th. Aries moon in the 5th. Taurus Mars. Venus sq Pluto, Mars opp Pluto, Sun sext Mars.

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posted June 23, 2012 03:31 AM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Not as cute as u lol

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No not as cute as youuu. This is clearly how I really seduce my men... With flattery. Lol jk... I just thought that was a nice comment A.D.

posted June 23, 2012 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
I used to go a lot with Taurus Venus. Passive, nice, cute. Men loved it. Nowadays I go more directly for the kill (Aries Sun, mercury, Mars) and men find it threatening. I'm losing patience with beating around the bush. Heh..

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Are you fan of Greek mythology? Would you agree that having Mars in Aries make you love the chase? Do you just pursue someone for the chase? Do you actually pursue someone that you really like?

posted June 23, 2012 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Bearee:
I don't.. I'm not that straightforwarded. I just talk to them and when they get to know me, they'll like me hehe
I always do little things to let them know I like them and then just wait for their reactions.

Sun: Taurus (8th house)
Moon: Cancer (9th house)
Mercury: Taurus (7th house)
Venus: Cancer (9th house)
Mars: Cancer (9th house)

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posted June 23, 2012 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
Are you fan of Greek mythology? Would you agree that having Mars in Aries make you love the chase? Do you just pursue someone for the chase? Do you actually pursue someone that you really like?

If I could digress for a second, one thing that really fascinates me is that a lot of people who replied to this thread (at least 40%) have planet(s) in Aries, including myself. It is suppose to be the most impatient sign which makes it all the more interesting how we end up studying astrology. Even Linda Goodman is an Aries. Would it be because astrology helps people figure out others without getting too deeply involved in the first place?

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It might be true. I have thought that astrology might be a way to cut through the chase and learn the juicy stuff about someone without waiting for them to open up to you. I don't know about you or other Aries peeps but I like getting deeply involved ^_^. Shallow interactions never appealed to me in romantic relationships. The chase is really playing games and I intend not to do so with the future man in my life, even though honesty didn't yet pay up. I want to behave more maturely, God knows I have been into the chase and quite good at it but don't want to anymore.. I should also mention Mercury and Mars are opp Pluto.

posted June 23, 2012 08:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
It might be true. I have thought that astrology might be a way to cut through the chase and learn the juicy stuff about someone without waiting for them to open up to you. I don't know about you or other Aries peeps but I like getting deeply involved ^_^. Shallow interactions never appealed to me in romantic relationships. The chase is really playing games and I intend not to do so with the future man in my life, even though honesty didn't yet pay up. I want to behave more maturely, God knows I have been into the chase and quite good at it but don't want to anymore.. I should also mention Mercury and Mars are opp Pluto.

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posted June 24, 2012 02:01 AM            

Unless someone finds an unusual way to break through my walls and find the deep place in my heart that is more loving than I'd like to admit, I'm easily able to blur the lines between friendship and flings, and then right back to friendship again. I have a hard time keeping someone just a friend and especially the vice versa, treating a BF or casual date the way you're supposed to, as a date, not some friend you really like a lot!

I have a definite tendency to just value companionship above all else and I can sometimes be too casual in my dealings which seems to **** certain kinds of people off. 11th house Scorpio Venus is my burden to bear, hah...

posted June 24, 2012 03:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Geminisquared:
chloroform obviously

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posted June 24, 2012 03:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Interesting thread. Those gifs are hilarious Gem-Gurl!

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posted December 19, 2012 12:20 AM            

Tropical:
Venus:Libra 5th
Mars:Scorpio 6th

Sidereal:
Venus:Virgo 5th
Mars:Libra 6th

I loooove the chase!
I try to be silly or fun or smart etc.
I don't play mind games or am hard to get.

If I admire someone, then its set in stone;
though sometimes being TOO susceptive makes