posted June 22, 2012 01:04 PM            

what would it mean that Aprhodite is conjunct my Mars? Or that Sappho is conjunct Pluto and sextile Neptune?

posted June 22, 2012 01:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
A quick question. Do you consider yourself very sexual? Do you crave sex compared to other? Sorry if it was too blunt, but those 3 planets are the most sexual planets, and they seem to be in hard aspect.

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posted June 22, 2012 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
So Ail...

what would it mean that Aprhodite is conjunct my Mars? Or that Sappho is conjunct Pluto and sextile Neptune?

Also, cosmic lords of the universes... WHY must everything touch my Mars? I need softer aspects... :/

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posted June 22, 2012 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Yes, of course, ariesdragon, she must always feel safe around you...protected from harm and also safe to be herself without fear of judgment. But laughter is the greatest aphrodisiac.

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posted June 22, 2012 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Yes, of course, ariesdragon, she must always feel safe around you...protected from harm and also safe to be herself without fear of judgment. But laughter is the greatest aphrodisiac.

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posted June 22, 2012 03:50 PM            

Different people have different priorities and different desires. And I only attract my own kind, so I don't bother with trying to attract those who are not my own kind.

My type is the Alpha personality over-achiever, and most of us like our material possessions. So, I'm sorry to be a jack a$$ but success sells in my instance.

posted June 22, 2012 03:52 PM            

Once I am seeing a man, I do not drop my life for him. I dislike mind games, and if I pick up player vibes, cut loose and move on. I love confident men who have a sense of humor, and various interests/social life. I am very put off my rude and clingy men, who try to curb my independence and spirit.

posted June 22, 2012 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Sorry, but I have to speak only the truth. Confidence and achievement works wonders. Nothing breeds success like excess.

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Confidence and success AND.... c'mon. And?

A sense of humor. It is the cherry on top of everything else, and those three working in tangent will do wonders.

posted June 22, 2012 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Marilyn Monroe (the epitome of the essence of sexuality of her time) said that if you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything, and by anything, she was referring to the bedroom. Humor tops the list in what a woman finds attractive in a man, but it has to be the right type of humor. There are comics who can make an audience laugh, but their humor is immature, and they don't really attract women. Then you have the Vince Vauhn (however you spell his last name), who has average looks, but he has dated some of Hollywood's most beautiful women (like Jennifer Anniston). Occasionally, one might see a very unattractive man with a stunning woman and assume that he must have lots of money, when, in fact, he can just make her laugh.

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posted June 22, 2012 05:24 PM            

My Cancer ascendant doesn’t hurt either as far as physical features go lol although I would rather be noticed for more than what I look like.

Really when it comes down to it I just try to get to know someone for who they are and not put on too much of a show about it.

posted June 22, 2012 05:26 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
I agree to this too Make her laugh & always be ready to throw down if she's in danger.

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That's cute ariesdragon

posted June 22, 2012 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by sunnigrl83:
I don't approach men. I like them to approach me. so I just use body language. Smiles and flirty eye contact.(people usually say my eyes attract them) I find myself doing certain things when I'm attracted to a guy. Like biting my lip, and fiddling with my hair. Showing of my neck, or other bits of skin here or there. Alot of times I do this subconciously, but I do catch myself. I tend to have a different way of walking too. A lil strut. Yep all body language... I want to be chased. If a guy asks me out or something. My first answer will almost always b no. I want to know they're really interested.

asc, sun - Leo
venus, merc - Virgo
mars - Cancer

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You seem to know exactly how to melt a guy's heart. I remember someone intentionally showing me of her neck. I was pretty much enthralled and mesmerized. But, she was clear that she wasn't available for a date. Maybe it might've been important for her to see if she was still desirable by others even if she was going out with another guy. Are you like that?

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Originally posted by sexyaqua30: My eyes get me in a lot of trouble. I'm the biggest flirt. I use words to create the ultimate mind ****. I start off innocent making most of the conversation all about them...men love this. I play coy then let the bad girl side out every once in awhile. Disappear....reappear more interested than before then bam...I end up with stalkers.
I've wrapped the strongest sags, scorps and taurus' men around my fingers. Got a taurus sun, taurus venus now hooked. Hehehe...

Sun aqua, moon sag, venus cap, merc aqua

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I've noticed aqua girls can be an exceptional flirt. They aren't as emotional as any other signs of the zodiac. I guess it is more easier to make calculative moves? Do you agree?

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Originally posted by violet7887:
I have the opposite of this, Moon trine Pluto and Moon opposite Neptune.

I am ususally always in my own little world too much to notice whats going on around me. Untill someone comes up out of no where and starts a convo at which point I can charm my way out of it as to not hurt their feelings.( Libra Rising, Gemini Sun).

When I spot someone I'm into though, eye contact is important as is intuition.(Cancer Moon, Merc, Mars). The person must be able to sense what I'm about enough to take it further. Once I have assesed them enough to satisfy my Taurus Venus then I turn my Pluto onn.(Pluto dominant).

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Care to elaborate? What does it mean to turn your Pluto on?

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Originally posted by Gem-Gurl:
[b]* I EDITED MY POST TO TELL YALL HOW I SEDUCE* lol just so you guys know...

Lol i dont know how i seduce!! I just... do... i act super fun and i laugh and i look and give little smiles. Or sometimes i do outragous things (Venus in Aries!!!!) Lol id rather not mention that one too much i can also pull of a sultry, i think. But mostly what i have noticed... is that i seduce guys when i think im doing nothing of the sort. When i dont try or think about it you know?

Sun Gemini
Mars Leo
Asc Scorpio
Venus Aries

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posted June 22, 2012 05:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
Yes indeed. 12/03/1977, year of the fire snake =) How about you?

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I've noticed we shared something. Are you saying March 12th or December 3rd? You know that is extremely confusing. Ha...

Jan 15th, 1978, still the year of the snake.

posted June 22, 2012 06:19 PM            

Anyways, eye contact is key, as most of the women here have demonstrated. Looks can be a factor but honestly, just dress in a way that flatters you and play up your features and it doesn't really matter either way.

The best way of seduction is just be yourself, for either sex. The key is to be happy doing it.

posted June 22, 2012 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
To be honest, I didn't flirt when I was dating. Either there was mutual interest or I didn't bother. I would ask to go out just once. If the answer was "maybe" then it was "you made your choice and the answer was no". If the answer was "no" then the attitude was "good riddance". I've never been into games. I never lacked dates anyway. Thats the honest truth, even if it sounds arrogant.

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posted June 22, 2012 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
Do you have your sun/venus in fixed signs? Can you explain your natal chart for us?

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posted June 22, 2012 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
So when you are seducing a guy, is it like a conquest to you? You want to win his heart, and after you find out he is completely enthralled, what happens next?

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For me, flirting is just fun. If i actually want his heart though, i aim to keep it. And yes, it has happened before that once i find out i have his heart then i get bored. But i hate hurting guys like that, its just like... black widow-ish or something!! Im more of a surfacey fun flirter type. My Cancer moon makes me hard to get close to. Im working on being more open and trying to wear my heart on my sleeve more.(my NN is in Sag, they are very open and heart on sleeve wearers) did i directly answer you question? Do you have anymore for me?

posted June 22, 2012 08:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Gem-Gurl:
Do you have anymore for me?

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posted June 22, 2012 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
No, I don't need to. You are too easy. Ha

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Bahahaha!! And what did you deduce from me then?

posted June 22, 2012 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
To be honest, I didn't flirt when I was dating. Either there was mutual interest or I didn't bother. I would ask to go out just once. If the answer was "maybe" then it was "you made your choice and the answer was no". If the answer was "no" then the attitude was "good riddance". I've never been into games. I never lacked dates anyway. Thats the honest truth, even if it sounds arrogant.

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posted June 22, 2012 08:48 PM            

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same for the most part, except i will try to flirt once and if she is being an ice queen i pack it in.

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posted June 22, 2012 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I really don't understand why some women like to play mind games and hard to get etc. I've ticked off more than my share of women who want me to "chase" them and want to say no the first time hoping that I would beg. My mentality is I don't have time to waste on such rubbish. Yes or No. It's ok if it's No, but tell it in my face and don't waste my time. To me, yes is yes and maybe is just No. That's what I liked about my wife. The answers are straight up and decisive. And within one second. She outright asked if I like to go out and what my phone number was. And she knew exactly when she was free and what she would like to eat and where she would like to go. I don't do wishy washy.

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