posted June 26, 2012 02:32 AM            

Id just kinda feel him out first. Is he trying to mend the little tiff? Is he giving you a cool shoulder? (<-- sagg thing when they dont care much about you, so iv heard) what is his venus sign? If your chillin and he acts in the ways of his venus's wooing traits... welllll... (NOTE: my venus is in Aries. The following will have an Aries flavor) get your flirt on if you feel he is giving further interested signs!! He is a sagg.... so no games. I noticed with these sag/scorp combos that THEY like to play the games if games are to be played. They do not appreciate you playing them in return lol in typical sag fashion, he bluntly told me 'i dont know what kinda games you were playing, but im glad your done.' They must see my(or our) games as patheticness. They would see right through it and know and wonder why, if were gonna fail so epically, why try at all? But we think we are being all cool... whatever... omg. I lost my train of thought. (Earth void here. Let me scroll up to see what point i was trying to make). Oh!!! They LOVE the chase. Once you start chasing back, they retreat. Or try to annoy you so you overreact (sometimes i pretend to be mad just so he woo's me back to him, im sure he knows it too) and ignore them. Then they gotta attempt to earn your forgivness.... and they are unfairly good at it.

Umm ok. Im done babbling! Lol any questions? I dont know if i really answered.... i kinda accidently relieved some feelings to somebody else who might understand what these guys are like. Im sorry!!!

posted June 26, 2012 02:39 AM            

He's Sag sun,
Libra Moon
Mercury in Scorpio (hinters, right?!)
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Pisces

He told my friend he was going to get out and give us a hug before he left but that my temper had thrown him off (shoulda known with all that water... but I didn't know.) it's not like I threw a huge fit or made a scene, I was just super biting and ****** .

When he wrote me in April I tried explaining that even thought I was mad that night, it was just intensified by the alcohol. The fool tried to act like he knew me and was like "You were not drunk." Well, one why do you care about why some random girl got mad that you hit on her and then told her how hot her friend was a MONTH later (I mean do you know how long a month is in Aries time? It's a LONG time.) and two, how are you going to tell me I wasn't drunk when you don't know me? Three - he was offended I deleted him off Facebook. FOUR - that night I did get mad? He'd tried probing my friend about why. Like.... treetrunker - you know why I'm mad, you just wanna hear it.

posted June 26, 2012 03:22 AM            

Ok back to business. Yeah id just feel him out a bit and go with your gut from there. I know thats the worst advice ever and i just HATE hearing it... like, 'wtf, easy for you to say' but... i mean what are ya gonna do? But really, i he sounds like hes into you. NO guy would get ****** and ask around and do that for someone he doesnt give a fig for. I mean, would YOU waste your time, unless you liked him? Bet you suprised him (when you were upset) then kinda intrugued him, after he got over your response to him. He posted that on your wall... you know he was thinking about you that whole time in between, right? Cmon scorps? Obsessive streaks!!!

posted June 26, 2012 10:44 AM            

Lol this one line describes my sag to a "t" he loves telling someone what he thinks is the right. It cracks me up because I'm use to it. I just go ok you're right. His response, "The whole world will be a better place when you learn to understand I'm always right (sarcastically) My sag moon loves his off the wall humour. Your sag has a lot of water....very sensitive but I do think he's trying to mend things. Let him continue to come to you eventually he'll send you an email.

posted June 26, 2012 11:24 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
You're okay! And yes, that actually explains a lot of his behavior. I thought it was his Libra moon but I guess not. Looking back now (this happened around Feb, March) that's exactly what he did.

He's Sag sun,
Libra Moon
Mercury in Scorpio (hinters, right?!)
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Pisces

He told my friend he was going to get out and give us a hug before he left but that my temper had thrown him off (shoulda known with all that water... but I didn't know.) it's not like I threw a huge fit or made a scene, I was just super biting and ****** .

When he wrote me in April I tried explaining that even thought I was mad that night, it was just intensified by the alcohol. The fool tried to act like he knew me and was like "You were not drunk." Well, one why do you care about why some random girl got mad that you hit on her and then told her how hot her friend was a MONTH later (I mean do you know how long a month is in Aries time? It's a LONG time.) and two, how are you going to tell me I wasn't drunk when you don't know me? Three - he was offended I deleted him off Facebook. FOUR - that night I did get mad? He'd tried probing my friend about why. Like.... treetrunker - you know why I'm mad, you just wanna hear it.

Really I was just ****** my friend kept introducing me to guys who were interested in her (unless this was some weird Scorpio test, I don't know.) and then they tell me whatever it is about her they feel. But he didn't need to know that!

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posted June 26, 2012 12:11 PM            

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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
I'm a Saggi sun with Venus in Scorp and Mars in Pisces. My merc is in Scorpio, but my moon is in Pisces, not Libra. When was he born? We might have practically the same chart :P I'd like to help, shoot away with the questions.

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posted June 26, 2012 12:47 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
11-27-1986

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Yeah, I was born a couple of weeks after him.

When I am interested in someone, I can be a little wishy-washy and secretive if I am really already emotionally invested in someone, which happens often because of my natal Venus-Pluto conjunction. Which your man has, too, but at a wider orb. I don't like to expose myself and make myself emotionally vulnerable before I am sure the other feels the same way. I can be a bit goofy, or offer to do a lot for that person who I am crushing on. I do give sultry glances or subtle hints.

But if not too emotionally invested I can definitely come out full-force, leading with lots of discussion/talking and jokes (my fifth cusp is Gemini) and sexual advances and connotation.

posted June 26, 2012 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
Yeah, I was born a couple of weeks after him.

When I am interested in someone, I can be a little wishy-washy and secretive if I am really already emotionally invested in someone, which happens often because of my natal Venus-Pluto conjunction. Which your man has, too, but at a wider orb. I don't like to expose myself and make myself emotionally vulnerable before I am sure the other feels the same way. I can be a bit goofy, or offer to do a lot for that person who I am crushing on. I do give sultry glances or subtle hints.

But if not too emotionally invested I can definitely come out full-force, leading with lots of discussion/talking and jokes (my fifth cusp is Gemini) and sexual advances and connotation.

Let me know if you have any other questions

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My question really stems from my explanation to Gem-Gurl earlier up in the page (actually I think you quoted it so it might be farther down.) I guess I don't understand his actions. He likes me, and I'm pretty sure felt our connection too, but mentions my best friend? Twice? I guess it's not a big deal as I wrote him off Facebook again and this time he hasn't said anything about it (not that I did to provoke a response, but you know how someone's Facebook eventually becomes your home page...yeah, I didn't want that happening.) but it's always puzzled me.

posted June 27, 2012 12:19 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha gabbing

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posted June 27, 2012 12:46 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What about you aquaguy... was he hinting? Am I being a girl and poring over every detail for NO reason?

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posted June 27, 2012 01:01 AM            

Despite our charming, debonair, uninhibited exterior, we want something real, something deep, something soul-changing. BUT you must prove yourself worthy of being allowed to take such a journey with us. The bigger the challenge the better. By "challenge" I don't mean playing hard-to-get, because that's just annoying.... I mean more along the lines of being a strong-willed woman who can stand her own. There's nothing that drives me crazier.

posted June 27, 2012 01:13 AM            

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Originally posted by alaz7200:
I'm a Sag with Venus in Scorpio and a Libra Rising....

Despite our charming, debonair, uninhibited exterior, we want something real, something deep, something soul-changing. BUT you must prove yourself worthy of being allowed to take such a journey with us. The bigger the challenge the better. By "challenge" I don't mean playing hard-to-get, because that's just annoying.... I mean more along the lines of being a strong-willed woman who can stand her own. There's nothing that drives me crazier.

Btw- we won't let on that we're interested because we're quite simply too vulnerable to do so. I understand that it's probably confusing because VIS routinely sends sexual vibes, but if/when he's interested, you WILL know. And I can tell you: if he's giving you the time of day, he's interested.

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This is what I couldn't pin point about him honestly. I feel as though he liked us both, but that our connection was better than his connection with my friend. I miss him a lot even though he's a douchebag.

I certainly have the strong willed woman part down. And you know what's funny is he told me he likes the opposite in a girl. But I think that was just another Scorpio test or something. I rarely believe anything people tell me at face value. Not that I go around like a paranoid schizophrenic but why would someone be so open and vulnerable like that so casually? Especially with Scorpio placements?