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Topic: Saggi with Venus in Scorpio?
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Gem-Gurl
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From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 27, 2012 03:54 PM
  
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
So I re-added him to facebook and playfully gave him my number. What'd he say? "Maybe you can delete me for no reason again and re-add me in 2 months." TOUCHY TOUCHY...
Thats kinda funny..... *sigh* its all that water.... give me fire any day!!!!! IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl
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From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 27, 2012 03:55 PM
Are you still interested in him? Or is it just kinda funny now? Im following this just to see what happens now  sorry, your entiertaining IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 27, 2012 04:01 PM
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Originally posted by Gem-Gurl:
Are you still interested in him? Or is it just kinda funny now? Im following this just to see what happens now sorry, your entiertaining
Well I said "I didn't know you took it seriously. Better late than never!" and no response or text, so I figure he's not going to. He's a Scorp, Sag, Pisces mix... it'll be awhile. IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 27, 2012 04:15 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Well I said "I didn't know you took it seriously. Better late than never!" and no response or text, so I figure he's not going to. He's a Scorp, Sag, Pisces mix... it'll be awhile.
Millions of centuries in Aries and Gemini years.... IP: Logged |
starzy54
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posted June 27, 2012 05:56 PM
A close female friend of mine is a Saggi with a venus in scorpio, moon in scorpioShe has a temper and hates to be told what to do.Really desires independence, and freedom.
She is constantly traveling, and has lived in numerous foreign countries.When things arent working out good for her in one place, she bolts.Also has a huge thing for Brazilian men and Spaniards.Very few male friends, its hard for her to be friends with guys without it turning romantic.Also she doesn't have many friends in general..she's a bit of a loner, and happy to be.very kind and spiritual. IP: Logged |
Ann7
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Registered: May 2009
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posted June 27, 2012 09:52 PM
My boyfriend is a sag sun cancer moon venus scorp. His venus makes him all or nothing in love his sag sun (and mercury) give him a bit of a wandering eye. Which ****** me off but I digress. In the big picture, I like this combo because I'm a scorp sun with a venus sag. I will say one thing, fair warning about mars in pisces, while they are super sweet and have big hearts, they tend to be flakey/ wishy washy in relationships.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 27, 2012 09:56 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Well I said "I didn't know you took it seriously. Better late than never!" and no response or text, so I figure he's not going to. He's a Scorp, Sag, Pisces mix... it'll be awhile.
not gonna lie i would be kinda confused if someone deleted me than re- added me and gave me.their number. IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl
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From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 27, 2012 10:29 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
not gonna lie i would be kinda confused if someone deleted me than re- added me and gave me.their number.
You do have a point.... IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 12:19 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
not gonna lie i would be kinda confused if someone deleted me than re- added me and gave me.their number.
well he ignored my message so i was impulsive and deleted him thinking i'd be able to write him off and i'd never re-add him...but i kept thinking about him so i finally swallowed my pride and did. After I said I didn't know he took it seriously, he was like "I don't care one bit...do what you do." One, someone is obviously butt hurt and two, what does "do what you do" even mean. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 12:46 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
well he ignored my message so i was impulsive and deleted him thinking i'd be able to write him off and i'd never re-add him...but i kept thinking about him so i finally swallowed my pride and did. After I said I didn't know he took it seriously, he was like "I don't care one bit...do what you do." One, someone is obviously butt hurt and two, what does "do what you do" even mean.
haha you said butt. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 12:49 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha you said butt.
LOL. I should've known.. but obviously it bothers him or he wouldn't say s...t. He's a dude. Dudes don't SAY anything to things they don't care about. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 01:34 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
LOL. I should've known.. but obviously it bothers him or he wouldn't say s...t. He's a dude. Dudes don't SAY anything to things they don't care about.
haha true. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 02:12 AM
We have Venus and Moon opposition Pluto.... he can't stay away that long, can he?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted June 28, 2012 02:19 AM
ohhh gurl that sounds hotIP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 02:33 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
ohhh gurl that sounds hot
LOL. How does it manifest in long distance relationships? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 3974
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 02:36 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
LOL. How does it manifest in long distance relationships?
hm dont know. i havent had it for a long distance relationship. but interestingly most of mine have been long distance. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 02:58 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
hm dont know. i havent had it for a long distance relationship. but interestingly most of mine have been long distance.
I'm thinking that's the only kind that will work for me. Otherwise they're gone in about a month or so. Whatever. Thanks for humoring me, but he doesn't want to put in any effort to the friendship so I can't keep dwelling on it. He might get butthurt over being deleted but it's ONLY because of that. Not because he cares about me. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 03:04 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm thinking that's the only kind that will work for me. Otherwise they're gone in about a month or so. Whatever. Thanks for humoring me, but he doesn't want to put in any effort to the friendship so I can't keep dwelling on it. He might get butthurt over being deleted but it's ONLY because of that. Not because he cares about me.
same here, lol the only people i really connect with have to be far away, it sucks. haha
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inthemisosoup
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posted June 28, 2012 10:39 AM
tbh I would be offended if you deleted me off facebook too, and would probably be very reluctant to start or pursue anything up with you. I would've already been hurt and cast aside before a relationship even started? No thanks. I would probably move on. I wouldn't do the petty whining or jabs that your current interest is, just move on and maybe have a superficial friendship with you. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 11:32 AM
I know the opposite--Scorpio with Sag Venus.Honestly, I don't know what to make of this person. I'll get all kinds of nice things said to me, but I'll have months at a time with either no contact at all or else like two sentences. We used to be close. I'll get told that the person is busy, but then pictures show up in my feed (I don't go look for it) of that person hanging out with others. Then, recently, the person started talking to me out of nowhere. I frankly do not understand it. I'm just being civil but distant until I figure out what's going on. I would say that this person can be intense, passionate, and cares a lot about people (good) but can also shove people away (bad). It's like a push-pull thing, or else pull-push. Pulls you in, then pushes you away. It comes off as really unstable (not as in mentally unhinged, but as in "shaky foundation") to me, and unpredictable, too. I find the person interesting, but I find it difficult to really trust, relax, feel secure, and feel connected. I myself have Sag and Scorpio in my chart, too, (including Venus in Scorpio and a Sag ASC + 2 planets). Stability and security with people is what makes me feel content. When I feel like people really do like me and want me around, I can "step off the gas" and not worry about things": honestly, that's the only way that I can do that. When I get what I need from relationships, I am much more relaxed, comfortable, and enjoy myself much more. I'm more fun to be around when I feel like things are OK. So, while I'm not a Sag sun, I am Sag ASC plus Venus in Scorpio, and that's how I approach relationships. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
Moderator Posts: 3738
From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 11:38 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
well he ignored my message so i was impulsive and deleted him thinking i'd be able to write him off and i'd never re-add him...but i kept thinking about him so i finally swallowed my pride and did. After I said I didn't know he took it seriously, he was like "I don't care one bit...do what you do." One, someone is obviously butt hurt and two, what does "do what you do" even mean.
I've been defriended and have defriended others. People deliberately ignoring me and avoiding me is, in my opinion, grounds for defriending someone, so I don't blame you for doing that. By "ignore and avoid", I mean like if you message them, and they don't message back, and they are intentionally not talking to you. I can definitely understand being annoyed by that. I would be too. In fact, I have defriended people for that reason. I try to keep things going with people, but I can't be in a friendship by myself. On the other hand, though, I'd also be hurt if someone defriended me, but only if I felt like I didn't deserve it. If I had it coming, I'd feel sad but like I could at least understand it. If I didn't talk to someone a lot, I'd find it mildly irritating but wouldn't get too upset. So, it would depend on the circumstances. *edit to add that I would not consider it 'ignoring and avoiding' obviously if someone wasn't on at all, got back to me in person or another way, their phone messed up, or something like that--I mean if someone chooses never to respond in any way and it's a message that they should respond to, not just an 'ending message' that doesn't need a response IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 01:22 PM
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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
tbh I would be offended if you deleted me off facebook too, and would probably be very reluctant to start or pursue anything up with you. I would've already been hurt and cast aside before a relationship even started? No thanks. I would probably move on. I wouldn't do the petty whining or jabs that your current interest is, just move on and maybe have a superficial friendship with you. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear.
No it's okay. I'm an Aries remember? I appreciate the honesty.  It's true. It was impulsive but he never interacted on my Facebook. Ever. So I thought it wouldn't matter to him. I don't even think he knew 'til I re-added him to be honest and then he just spun it to his advantage thinking I'd feel guilty. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I've been defriended and have defriended others. People deliberately ignoring me and avoiding me is, in my opinion, grounds for defriending someone, so I don't blame you for doing that. By "ignore and avoid", I mean like if you message them, and they don't message back, and they are intentionally not talking to you. I can definitely understand being annoyed by that. I would be too. In fact, I have defriended people for that reason. I try to keep things going with people, but I can't be in a friendship by myself. On the other hand, though, I'd also be hurt if someone defriended me, but only if I felt like I didn't deserve it. If I had it coming, I'd feel sad but like I could at least understand it. If I didn't talk to someone a lot, I'd find it mildly irritating but wouldn't get too upset. So, it would depend on the circumstances. *edit to add that I would not consider it 'ignoring and avoiding' obviously if someone wasn't on at all, got back to me in person or another way, their phone messed up, or something like that--I mean if someone chooses never to respond in any way and it's a message that they should respond to, not just an 'ending message' that doesn't need a response
Yeah he never responded both times other than to "jab" me (and don't even get me started on that.)
So I guess another one kicks the dust.... man do I know how to pick them or what?
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 01:49 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Yeah he never responded both times other than to "jab" me (and don't even get me started on that.)
So I guess another one kicks the dust.... man do I know how to pick them or what?
aww im sorry, but you shouldnt waste time on indecisive wussies.  IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 07:24 PM
You blew him off in the first place, why would he go back with you? Forgetting astrology, you don't really sound like a nice person to begin with, so maybe he also lost interest. Calling people names won't help you win the guys, js. I concur with imthemisosoup. "something real, something deep, something soul-changing"
Verily VIS. They want that obsession..
also, maybe you can delete him for no reason a second time & re-add him in 2 months?  (see how it feeeels?)
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