posted June 28, 2012 09:37 PM            

This guy didn't save my friend's phone number when he had it. He said he didn't see the point because he was never going to see her/us again. With that kind of mentality I doubted it would matter if I deleted him, set his profile on fire, whathaveyou. I figured I didn't matter.

I'm also an extremely nice person to my friends, and I don't need your validation specifically to know that. I deleted him because he never responded to my message, never said anything to me. Did I to him? Occasionally I'd leave relevant comments on his status, or like a drumming video of his. But again, another affirmation I didn't matter.

And yeah I tried writing him off in my head, who likes to fixate on someone who won't give them the time of day? It's not healthy, and it's a bad habit I have.

posted July 11, 2012 05:27 PM            

I'm rather passionate, emotional and "extremist" in love - that's my "half"! The other is cooled down by my Sag nature, and moon in Aqua...

posted July 11, 2012 06:32 PM            

As a Sag Sun, I do get over anger/discord fairly easily but Venus in Scorpio does not forget a slight/hurt. While I am once again on speaking terms with my brother and love him dearly, he damaged my trust and once that happens, not the same anymore.

Maybe your friend felt the unfriending was a hurtful action, and is not willing to put himself out there anymore. Sorry, but yes although Venus in Scorpio may forgive we rarely forget.

posted July 11, 2012 07:23 PM            

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Hmmmm seems like he is cutting his losses, after being defriended. My little brother got upset with me, and actually posted something stupid on twitter about the disagreement and then unfriended me.

As a Sag Sun, I do get over anger/discord fairly easily but Venus in Scorpio does not forget a slight/hurt. While I am once again on speaking terms with my brother and love him dearly, he damaged my trust and once that happens, not the same anymore.

Maybe your friend felt the unfriending was a hurtful action, and is not willing to put himself out there anymore. Sorry, but yes although Venus in Scorpio may forgive we rarely forget.

Oh and I have Moon in Pisces too.. Pisces takes rejection and hurt very deeply. Once we are hurt it is very hard to feel at the same level with that person again.

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He never really put himself "out there" on Facebook. In person he did while he was here. But I guess he just didn't want to be friends at all. Some people are like that - *shrug*.

I guess I'd think his reaction was more logical if we traded comments, likes or you know... some verification of existence. But he never did (I did, not often but more often than him) so I was like "What?"

posted July 11, 2012 10:51 PM            

Sags with Libra Moon will easily brush things off, and pretend everything is okay, but that Scorpio Venus is definitely keeping tabs. We admire the forthright and go-getting Aries energy, but Venus is still super sensitive. We'll hide it when we've been hurt, and we'll never forget it. I imagine it's especially so with that Pisces energy on his Mars. Then there is that Libra energy, which insists on being liked by everyone, so we adjust ourselves to suit the situation.

Sagittarians adore honesty, and value it very highly. Aries can be blunt. Libra can counterbalance that. That Scorpio Venus, though - that's what you need to be careful of.

Venus is in fall in Scorpio, so the Pluto energy is very strong. Intense, intense, intense is the word of the day. It seems against the easygoing nature of Sagittarius, but in classic Scorpio fashion, it's all buried and hidden beneath the surface. Libra moon makes for mediation, so no ruffling of feathers, and his true emotions and thoughts won't be bare for anyone to see, unless he has complete and absolute confidence in them.

Now, as for his Mars, I can't say from experience how the Pisces energy affects his motives and actions. Capricorn lends a slow and steady longetivity, a "loyalty", if you will. Pisces are dreamers, and less prone to sticking to one thing. He might be absently searching for a fairytale, and not even know it.

One more thing - Sagittarians are reknowned for sticking their foot in their mouth. They know the "truth", and love to share. Problem is, a lot of the time, it might offend others. We don't mean to, it just happens on accident. Scorpio Mercury makes a person more discerning and particular about the things they say [we'll avoid lying, but there is no rules about not saying half-truths]. But that also means when things do inevitably slip out, it's especially cutting, and comes off as that person being "touchy" or vindictive. It isn't that, so much as a need for precision, getting to the point quickly, and just not pursuing the topic any further. The combination of Scorp Venus/Merc, Libra Moon, and Sag Sun means they hate arguments, even if they do have passionate opinions to express from time to time. We want to be heard, but not dwell or create a huge scene, hence the short and clipped remark.

The thing you have to remember about Sagittarians, is that they are one of the dual signs. There is the side most people associate with them - the easy-going, optimistic, adventurous spirit - but most seem to forget that Sagittarians are also called the "philosopher" of the Zodiac. We are exceptionally intelligent and aware of the world and people around us. We're fairly blind to ourselves, but have a fairly good grasp on everyone else. There's much more than meets the eye - just keep that in mind.

posted July 11, 2012 10:59 PM            

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I have a Saggitarius Sun, Libra Moon, Scorpio Venus, Scorpio Mercury, but a Capricorn Mars. Aquarius rising.

Sags with Libra Moon will easily brush things off, and pretend everything is okay, but that Scorpio Venus is definitely keeping tabs. We admire the forthright and go-getting Aries energy, but Venus is still super sensitive. We'll hide it when we've been hurt, and we'll never forget it. I imagine it's especially so with that Pisces energy on his Mars. Then there is that Libra energy, which insists on being liked by everyone, so we adjust ourselves to suit the situation.

Sagittarians adore honesty, and value it very highly. Aries can be blunt. Libra can counterbalance that. That Scorpio Venus, though - that's what you need to be careful of.

Venus is in fall in Scorpio, so the Pluto energy is very strong. Intense, intense, intense is the word of the day. It seems against the easygoing nature of Sagittarius, but in classic Scorpio fashion, it's all buried and hidden beneath the surface. Libra moon makes for mediation, so no ruffling of feathers, and his true emotions and thoughts won't be bare for anyone to see, unless he has complete and absolute confidence in them.

Now, as for his Mars, I can't say from experience how the Pisces energy affects his motives and actions. Capricorn lends a slow and steady longetivity, a "loyalty", if you will. Pisces are dreamers, and less prone to sticking to one thing. He might be absently searching for a fairytale, and not even know it.

One more thing - Sagittarians are reknowned for sticking their foot in their mouth. They know the "truth", and love to share. Problem is, a lot of the time, it might offend others. We don't mean to, it just happens on accident. Scorpio Mercury makes a person more discerning and particular about the things they say [we'll avoid lying, but there is no rules about not saying half-truths]. But that also means when things do inevitably slip out, it's especially cutting, and comes off as that person being "touchy" or vindictive. It isn't that, so much as a need for precision, getting to the point quickly, and just not pursuing the topic any further. The combination of Scorp Venus/Merc, Libra Moon, and Sag Sun means they hate arguments, even if they do have passionate opinions to express from time to time. We want to be heard, but not dwell or create a huge scene, hence the short and clipped remark.

The thing you have to remember about Sagittarians, is that they are one of the dual signs. There is the side most people associate with them - the easy-going, optimistic, adventurous spirit - but most seem to forget that Sagittarians are also called the "philosopher" of the Zodiac. We are exceptionally intelligent and aware of the world and people around us. We're fairly blind to ourselves, but have a fairly good grasp on everyone else. There's much more than meets the eye - just keep that in mind.

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THANK YOU for this. Please comment on all my posts from now on!

posted July 11, 2012 11:23 PM            

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THANK YOU for this. Please comment on all my posts from now on!

I can relate to the private Scorpio nature. I'm extremely private, especially about my feelings and I had a hunch that's what he wanted me to express. But I couldn't. I could not just lay myself out there. I guess the fact he said something actually means it didn't bother him (based on what you say about them hiding their hurt).

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Haha! XD

The fact he specifically hunted you down on FB, sent you messages more than once, and indicated displeasure at being cut off is very indicative of interest. He wants/wanted to see more and learn more, wondering if there was something there to possibly foster or latch on to. He was feeling you out.

It might lead to romance, or it might lead to an entirely platonic friendship. He had some sort of interest he felt worthy of pursing. I can't tell you if he felt a kind of kinship - ie, an array of similarities in the things you like - or something more romantically inclined. That is something you'll have to gently probe and find out for yourself. Perhaps he only mentioned your friend because it was the most obvious common point between you two.

You have to remember also, Libra energy likes to be liked. Being defriended is a significant kind of snub, and probably feels like a personal kind of a diplomatic failure on his part.

posted July 11, 2012 11:43 PM            

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Haha! XD

The fact he specifically hunted you down on FB, sent you messages more than once, and indicated displeasure at being cut off is very indicative of interest. He wants/wanted to see more and learn more, wondering if there was something there to possibly foster or latch on to. He was feeling you out.

It might lead to romance, or it might lead to an entirely platonic friendship. He had some sort of interest he felt worthy of pursing. I can't tell you if he felt a kind of kinship - ie, an array of similarities in the things you like - or something more romantically inclined. That is something you'll have to gently probe and find out for yourself. Perhaps he only mentioned your friend because it was the most obvious common point between you two.

You have to remember also, Libra energy likes to be liked. Being defriended is a significant kind of snub, and probably feels like a personal kind of a diplomatic failure on his part.

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Oh no no... I went and re-added him. He didn't hunt me down. But he did respond to me twice. Ah well. At this point I don't care, it's too minute for me now. I appreciate your input though, and furthermore I actually admire Sags ability to just speak without thinking. I have Gem ASC... it's pretty much like being The Mentalist without getting paid. And exhausting.

posted August 25, 2012 01:26 PM            

Your answer, a hot passionate intense cautious relationship making the other feel secured and loved. Good combo.

posted August 25, 2012 01:33 PM            

To give you an idea of what it's like...we were walking around a museum one day, looking at the Titanic exhibit. Everyone there was given a card with the name of a real person who'd boarded the ship. Each card had a brief bio about the person.

The Saggi got a card that had the name of some mistress on it. She turned to me, rather calmly, like she was making a random statement about the weather, and blurted out, "If she was a mistress, she deserved to die".

I remember just looking at her, speechless. Ever since then I've thought there's something wrong with her.