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Topic: Delays in love, late bloomer: aspects and placements indicating it?
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CrazyAquarian
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From: Your ♥
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posted July 01, 2012 03:18 PM
  
I got Venus conj Saturn and its in Cap.
I'm a late bloomer not in a having romantic/sexual feeling way but sharing them with another, relationship wise. And I hit puberty later then most.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted July 01, 2012 03:40 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
I agree with those who bring up Saturnian aspects. Saturn delays or denies.
Delays that turn into denying,often,self-inflicted,as the sign of Saturn gone bad.
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Deliverance
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posted July 01, 2012 04:13 PM
Hard Saturn/Venus aspects.IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted July 01, 2012 04:24 PM
I was a late bloomer... Don't have Venus RX but do have Venus unaspected in Taurus.. Cap rising.. Mars opp Pluto and Saturn, all those sq Asc (I am quite shy).. 6 planets above horizon, 4 beneath.. IP: Logged |
virgolotus
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posted July 01, 2012 05:24 PM
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AscTaurus
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posted July 02, 2012 02:03 AM
I think the sign energy has more to do with it than planetary positions.The more serious/conservative signs tend to be late bloomers. Cancer/Taurus- trust is a huge issue and often they are scared of giving themselves away flippantly(espcialy when the asc, sun, moon and/or venus are there) Pisces- Sometimes the experience of love /sex can be overly romanticized. The individual may be satisfied to cling to the ideal for long before eventualy letting t all go and "facing up" to reality. Scorpio/Virgo- This can go both ways; they can either abstain from sex for long periods of time or experiment with sex and relationships early. There is a Gemini/Scorpio girl I know who has never had a boyfriend.Another Venus in Virgo guy I know claims that he has never had sex. Ever! I have Asc in Taurus, Moon in Cancer, Venus in Scorpio. All classic positions of someone whom might be a late bloomer. My Venus in Scorpio/Asc in Taurus especially made me reluctant to start early. I always wanted to first connect, feel comfortable and be able to relate to my needs first before embarking on experimenting with another.
I had my first sexual experience when I was 21.
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freebrainstorms
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posted July 02, 2012 11:56 AM
moon square venus for me i think.
Neptune doesn't conjunct anything for me, apart from my eros, and trine my moon so i don't know that that would apply for me.
moon in virgo and venus in pisces - my emotions and desire/love for everything are always at odds. IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted July 02, 2012 07:15 PM
I've always been interested in boys, I hit puberty a little later than some, but not ridiculously late. I've had long term relationships (in fact, that's all I'm ever in it seems... I don't know how to be single). I have Venus square Saturn/Uranus.IP: Logged |
Ann7
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From: united states
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 02, 2012 08:31 PM
Saturn in the 5th, especially if it's rx. IP: Logged |
RedIce
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posted September 09, 2012 06:31 PM
Forgive me if this is an old topic but I was browsing through Google and this topic caught my attention and I absolutely need to ask something.Would all these aspects I have point out to an entire life being single? -_- Moon Square Uranus
Moon Square Neptune
Somewhat afflicted moon (2 squares, 1 trine)
Venus Trine Saturn
Saturn square ruler of 5th (Mars Square Saturn)
Venus in Scorpio placed in the 12th house.
A stellium in the 12th house.
Ruler of the 7th house in the 12th.
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asclibrasagsun
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From: Mälmo, Sweden
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 10, 2012 12:51 AM
I have an empty 5th and 7th house but no Venus Pluto, or Venus Uranus squares, or Venus Saturn squares or any of those types of hard aspects. I would not call myself a late bloomer bc I made out for the first time when I was 12, had my first sexual experience with a guy when I was 13 turning 14, however, I still have not lost my virginity even though I am in my early 20s. When I had that sexual experience at 14, it felt strange to me and I knew it was not what I was supposed to be doing, better put - I did not enjoy the guy I was with. I have Saturn in Capricorn in the 4th house so I do feel lonely sometimes. I have a Virgo moon so that makes me critical of things. I have had plenty of "romantic" relationships with guys. But for some reason, I have not lost my virginity yet. I am sexually experienced, but I just haven't had sex if that makes sense. Hopefully, I will make up for lost time with the man of my dreams. I only want to mix sex with love, true love that is. I feel like sex without love is energy wasted. IP: Logged |
Robin Goodfellow
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posted September 10, 2012 11:24 AM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Venus retrograde is, to me, a higher indicator of one who blooms late or feels more than slightly nervous-awkward in the romance department. A loved one with this placement has a very up and down view about love; they sometimes are very man-crazy but if you talk even a little about sex around them they get very, very offended, even shocked. They contradict themselves. Also, when they were younger, they were on the introverted side... didn't like dating much at all, and never picked a good date without help. All of her romantic partners to date have mostly been bad men. One almost beat her to death. Another indicator: strong Saturn-Venus. Although I have seen this one lead to extreme artistic ambition in many cases it can also lead to deep restrictions either real or imaginary - made up in the head, as in, Saturn contacting Venus from the 3rd for example - that makes love come late. This one can definitely make love a serious issue, it can make you feel lonely and like you have a harder time relaxing and letting go in love.
venus square saturn here, I lost my virginity around the age of 31 but it wasnt a love relationship, I wouldn't mind having a couple of those. IP: Logged |
Robin Goodfellow
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posted September 10, 2012 11:39 AM
I've got mars square saturn also and I dont like too much delay and limitations which I experience from time to time, things can be learned I guess but I am a poor gemini and I will rely on it to get someone, this ingenuinity works quite well I think.IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted September 10, 2012 01:08 PM
As for Venus-Saturn, the conjunction is the worst, from what i've been watchingI have a 5 degree square mitigated all over the place, so can't comment. Just wanted to be in love, which was at 24. But it was the kinda love anyone would kill for. And I do not consider myself a late bloomer. Have always been good-looking, socially confident since about 19. Unmitigated Venus sq/opp Saturn is indeed rubbish. From what I've witnessed. Those people can't love. Despite having sex lives if they do have them. They think love is a product for them to consume. That another person's function is to cater to their needs. I am different, I put myself across rail tracks for the ones i love. Venus Rx might be about less readiness to let love in, as well as some issues with awareness of one's own attractiveness and sexual confidence. Don't think it is a prerequisite for becoming a late bloomer per se, but potentially might contribute. IP: Logged |
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