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Topic: Delays in love, late bloomer: aspects and placements indicating it?
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ueharaa
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posted June 28, 2012 08:49 PM
  
What do you think in a natal chart could indicate someone who encounters some delays in the love department and is sort of a late bloomer ? IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted June 28, 2012 08:58 PM
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Dreaming111
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posted June 28, 2012 09:01 PM
I'm 29. I've never had sex, kissed, held hands with a guy. I've only recently fallen in love....I think..lolI think it has to do with my saturn in the 12th with pluto?
My 8th house is packed so I am sexual, but I think my sun in cancer and scorpio moon makes me picky? I need to trust first before anything. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted June 28, 2012 09:04 PM
Venus in Sag.IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted June 28, 2012 09:09 PM
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ueharaa
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posted June 28, 2012 09:34 PM
In which house is your venus? And, out of curiosity do any of you have venus retrograde? I'm 22-23, I've never dated and been intimate. I've been in love once, and yet it took me quite some time to acknowledge it.
Guys have always been my last priority (if not at all) I guess lately because of the pressure my sisters and friends have been putting on me, I've been trying to understand why things were such, why some people not only fall in love easily and have plenty of opportunities so that it is very easy for them to be in a relationship while others just are the complete opposite. Some signs definitely need a lot of trust to start a relationship like cancer, scorpio, or capricorn. And this can definitely delay the beginning of a relationship IP: Logged |
neptunicity
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posted June 28, 2012 10:55 PM
Well, first it depends on the person's attitude and environment. Attitude wise, i think these traits are responsible: -picky
-has high standards in general
-extremely shy or introverted
-not fond of going out
-finding love isn't a priority
-doesn't need to be in a relationship to feel better about themselves And environment wise, if your group isn't the 'boy crazy' type and there isn't any peer pressure for you to be in a relationship for you to be considered 'cool' then i guess it contributes to being a late bloomer. I've never had a bf, and although some people were interested in me before, i just didn't feel anything. Astrology wise, i have venus in aries retrograde in the 3rd house, plus empty 5th, 7th, and 8th houses. I noticed that people who have personal planets like the sun, moon, venus and mars in those houses are 'destined' to enter long term relationships, and that will be one of the focal points in their life. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted June 28, 2012 11:12 PM
Venus retrograde is, to me, a higher indicator of one who blooms late or feels more than slightly nervous-awkward in the romance department. A loved one with this placement has a very up and down view about love; they sometimes are very man-crazy but if you talk even a little about sex around them they get very, very offended, even shocked. They contradict themselves. Also, when they were younger, they were on the introverted side... didn't like dating much at all, and never picked a good date without help. All of her romantic partners to date have mostly been bad men. One almost beat her to death. Another indicator: strong Saturn-Venus. Although I have seen this one lead to extreme artistic ambition in many cases it can also lead to deep restrictions either real or imaginary - made up in the head, as in, Saturn contacting Venus from the 3rd for example - that makes love come late. This one can definitely make love a serious issue, it can make you feel lonely and like you have a harder time relaxing and letting go in love. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted June 28, 2012 11:15 PM
A late bloomer or delays in love could be Venus Rx
Someone who marries late could be Saturn in the 7th house (also it's house of exaltation)
When I hear the word delay and it's associated with Astrology I always think of Pluto BUT... in aspect, it is usually associated with a death or seperation and not late bloomers.Librio, you're kidding right? 
ANYTHING in Sag is impatient and in a hurry to experience life.
They want to try it all and then make up their own mind about it.  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted June 28, 2012 11:26 PM
i have saturn conjunct my descendant ruler and my venus is afflicted, you could say i have delays in love, but i prefer the term bs,because thats the way it usually is, i have the miraculous luck of finding girls who have gotten out of bad relationships, whether it be 1 month or a year before i met her, and its always the same, he was a liar,cheater etc. but right when it seems things are finally going good for me the ex ******* has to suddenly decide he cant live without her and she inevitably goes back to him, this is the story of my lovelife in a nutshell.IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted June 28, 2012 11:47 PM
I was a late bloomer both physically and romantically speaking. My Venus is opposite Saturn, and Venus rules my 5th H. I didn't have sex until I was 21, and then that was the end of that. I also didn't have a real relationship until I was 22 and that just ended, I have no idea what's ahead now. Being a late bloomer is a blessing in a lot of ways. You get to bypass all the confusion you would've suffered in your teenage hood and instead got to know yourself better. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 29, 2012 01:23 AM
I'm a late bloomer.
I have a stellium in Scorpio (+ 2 planets in Libra) all in the 6th and a Virgo Moon in the 5th opposite Saturn in the 11th.Also, my DSC and 8th house ruler Jupiter trines Saturn, which means delays in the love department, yes, even with the trine! So my guess would be a chart with indicators of shyness/introversion/pickiness and probably some Saturn going on. Agree with the Venus Rx also.
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beloved
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posted June 29, 2012 01:27 AM
I was not a late bloomer physically but definitely was on a romantic level...had the interest all along but relationships never happened for me (nor sex obviously) till late in life. I have a loaded 8th house as well with my Sun, Pluto, and several other planets there, many of them conjunct and most of them in Virgo...IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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posted June 29, 2012 01:47 AM
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Originally posted by neptunicity:
Well, first it depends on the person's attitude and environment. Attitude wise, i think these traits are responsible: -picky
-has high standards in general
-extremely shy or introverted
-not fond of going out
-finding love isn't a priority
-doesn't need to be in a relationship to feel better about themselves And environment wise, if your group isn't the 'boy crazy' type and there isn't any peer pressure for you to be in a relationship for you to be considered 'cool' then i guess it contributes to being a late bloomer. I've never had a bf, and although some people were interested in me before, i just didn't feel anything. Astrology wise, i have venus in aries retrograde in the 3rd house, plus empty 5th, 7th, and 8th houses. I noticed that people who have personal planets like the sun, moon, venus and mars in those houses are 'destined' to enter long term relationships, and that will be one of the focal points in their life.
My sentiments exactly!! IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted June 29, 2012 01:49 AM
hit puberty at age 15
and I really had a wall up til 17.
Lost v card at 19
had very bad taste in guys, but that began to change around 20. And now at 21/22 I really feel like I met someone that I really connect with. It all makes sense with him, and comes natural. Very good times! We are just getting started (since like February) so only time will tell. Some of my aspects are
ASC quincunx Uranus
Sun sextile Mars
Moon oppose Mercury
Mercury trine Uranus
Venus square ASC
Mars square Moon
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Rising: Gemini
Sun: Aries 11
Moon: Scorpio 6
Mercury: Taurus 12
Mars: Aquarius 10
Venus: Pisces 10
N.Node: Aquarius 9
Saturn: Capricorn 9
Jupiter: Cancer 2
Pluto: Scorpio 6 IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted June 29, 2012 02:03 AM
1. Venus RX has NOTHING to do with late bloominess. I have Venus direct and I am a late bloomer.
2. People who have many planets in the houses positioned at the top of the chart aka public houses are late bloomers. Their focus is their career life.
3. Saturn in 7th house is an indicator indeed. Also Saturn in 1st (this one gives or early marriage or very late marriage). Empty 7th house is another.
4. Venus/Saturn square Mars/Saturn square or Venus/Pluto square are other indicators.IP: Logged |
depth
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posted June 29, 2012 02:30 AM
I know 3 people with a retrograde Venus in Aries and they aren't late bloomers. They started out somewhere in their early teens. One thing I noticed is that though their Venus squares Uranus/Neptune, they're really faithful and don't display grasshopper syndrome. My first ex had Sun/Mars/Pluto conjunct in Scorpio, Venus in Libra square Uranus in Capricorn and he started dating when he was 13 years old. He's no where close to shy, introverted......
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hannaramaa
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posted June 29, 2012 02:36 AM
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
A late bloomer or delays in love could be Venus Rx
Someone who marries late could be Saturn in the 7th house (also it's house of exaltation)
When I hear the word delay and it's associated with Astrology I always think of Pluto BUT... in aspect, it is usually associated with a death or seperation and not late bloomers.Librio, you're kidding right?
ANYTHING in Sag is impatient and in a hurry to experience life.
They want to try it all and then make up their own mind about it.
That's what I thought too, but I did know a Cap with Venus in Sag who was a late bloomer. He's got a Leo moon and now? Boy, does he know how to use it... Also, thank you lalalinda. Man my parents were not on the New Age bandwagon when I was conceived because what parent would bestow their only child with Saturn in the 7th and Pluto narrowly in the 5th, right?
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crissyx89
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posted June 29, 2012 02:37 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
1. Venus RX has NOTHING to do with late bloominess. I have Venus direct and I am a late bloomer.
2. People who have many planets in the houses positioned at the top of the chart aka public houses are late bloomers. Their focus is their career life.
3. Saturn in 7th house is an indicator indeed. Also Saturn in 1st (this one gives or early marriage or very late marriage). Empty 7th house is another.
4. Venus/Saturn square Mars/Saturn square or Venus/Pluto square are other indicators.
I have venus square pluto natal and a packed 10th house and I'm not a late bloomer! IP: Logged |
crissyx89
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posted June 29, 2012 02:37 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
1. Venus RX has NOTHING to do with late bloominess. I have Venus direct and I am a late bloomer.
2. People who have many planets in the houses positioned at the top of the chart aka public houses are late bloomers. Their focus is their career life.
3. Saturn in 7th house is an indicator indeed. Also Saturn in 1st (this one gives or early marriage or very late marriage). Empty 7th house is another.
4. Venus/Saturn square Mars/Saturn square or Venus/Pluto square are other indicators.
I have venus square pluto natal and a packed 10th house and I'm not a late bloomer! IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted June 29, 2012 02:41 AM
To clarify, Rx Venus could be a late bloomer
not necessarily isI have Saturn in the 1st
Venus square Pluto
Saturn opposite Mars
Saturn Ses (135) Venus and
five planets on top I was anything but a late bloomer
my teenage years felt like a game of
duck, duck, GOOSE C'est la vie  IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted June 29, 2012 02:45 AM
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Originally posted by crissyx89:
I have venus square pluto natal and a packed 10th house and I'm not a late bloomer!
Before start playing the smart with me re-read my post. These are GENERAL TRAITS. Check your whole chart and you will see why you are NOT a late bloomer. IP: Logged |
crissyx89
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posted June 29, 2012 03:52 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Before start playing the smart with me re-read my post. These are GENERAL TRAITS. Check your whole chart and you will see why you are NOT a late bloomer.
Everyone is not gonna agree with you! Please do yourself a favor and get over it thank you IP: Logged |
crissyx89
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posted June 29, 2012 04:05 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Before start playing the smart with me re-read my post. These are GENERAL TRAITS. Check your whole chart and you will see why you are NOT a late bloomer.
Everyone is not gonna agree with you! Please do yourself a favor and get over it thank you IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted June 29, 2012 04:21 AM
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Originally posted by crissyx89:
Everyone is not gonna agree with you! Please do yourself a favor and get over it thank you
Then ignore my posts, OK? I do not wish to start a flame. IP: Logged |
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