posted July 25, 2012 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by neptunicity:
I have sagittarius too in my 11th house. You must be an aquarius rising too. Well, you are fortunate that people don't take advantage of you or deceive you, its effect on you is leaning towards idealism instead of deception. I'm a pisces sun and moon, yet i never remember thinking about the best in people, i always think that there's a flaw in their personalities somewhere that i have yet to uncover that will irritate me in the future. True enough, with time i get too see it. I do get to sense if the person is lying, if i know the person for quite sometime or if the event is "weird", but the overpricing stuff, i don't, so i now have to research the price in general in advance so as not to get deceived. Like when i intended to get a hot oil treatment i already know the usual price, but the hairdresser tripled the price when i asked! So obviously i didn't avail of the service. Geez i don't even "look rich" to begin with, lol.

With mars in capricorn in the 11th, i agree that the fiery and aggressive nature of mars is tempered. I read that mars in the 11th house can make you argumetative as well towards your friends, mainly because of being impulsive, but at least capricron offsets that.

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Yea, I'm an Aqu rising. *brofist* You being a Pisces sun seems to just amplify the traits of Neptune. Me, on the otherhand - I am a Sagittarian sun, so the Sag traits are amplified.

Mars in 11H in Cap does significantly help offset aggression, but I think the square to a Libra Saturn-Jupiter helps, as well. It also squares my Libra Moon, which is all about peacemaking, so I'm not really the type to argue, despite the usual explosive Mars-Moon square formula. Mars is actually an earth singleton in my chart. My 3H cusp is at 29°Ari, which is a bummer. I also have a ton of Aries dwads [Sun, Moon, and Mars].

posted July 26, 2012 06:30 PM            

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Originally posted by neptunicity:
Ah so you have uranus in the 11th too, you must have a diverse group of friends and can pretty much hang out with anyone. Do you have a tendency to just subtly and suddenly avoid someone when you feel that you don't want to be close to that person anymore for a "valid" reason? (they annoy you, you don't like how they think and their personality, they did something wrong to you, etc.) but you do it in a manner that your last interaction with them was pleasant, then you cut contact? You know, the infamous uranus/aquarian "detachment"?

Venus in scorpio in the 11th house is quite a paradox indeed. I'm guessing you put a premium to be good friends first and wanting to be intense at the same time, with lots of personal space needed.

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Very, very much so in regards to all of the above. I do love having a diverse group of friends, especially graviate towards those who display an eccentric side and an open mind. I love meeting people with unique personalities, especially when different from my own, as love learning new things.

I do have the tendency to flake out when wanting space. I love my friends veyr much, and will be there in a time of need without hesitation. But I am really random, don't really make plans and just go do things on a whim.

So it is hard for me to stay in touch with friends on a consistent basis, as I'm not quite sure what I will feel like doing on my spare time I also don't like feeling smothered, so my closest friends are those who are also independent and don't feel blown off when they haven't heard from me in awhile.

Yes, the Venus in Scoprio is quite something. Once I trust someone on a sincere level, feel very loyal and protective of them, whether they are friends or lover.

I will defend my loved ones, sacrificng myself at times, and give them the upmost respect and love. But if I feel my caring isn't appreciated, the Uranian 11th house kicks in and I detach myself rapidly and without looking back.

posted July 26, 2012 10:21 PM            

My venus square uranus (in2nd) - I raed it someewhere , that the native will love to be with friends who is extreme self -individualism.
Venus sextile pluto and mercury .,Venus trine Neptune .

posted July 27, 2012 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreamweaver:
I have sun, moon, venus in pisces in 11th house. I'm not really sure how it has affected me. Would like to find out more. But in general, I guess my compassion is outward driven - I'd consider myself a humanitarian & work in the legal system with people from minority groups who are economically & socially disadvantaged. Support a lot of charities & causes both donating & trying to raise funds. Get a lot of support from friends in doing this & then again some of my friends are the charity cause! I'm one of those people who cannot say no to a charity call. With friends, I would say that I have friends from all walks of life and I treat them all equally, many friendships come & go. A lot of friends come to me in times of crisis, not sure if that's an 11th house thing. Actually I have 2 spare rooms at home for guests, they are full nearly every weekend. My husband occassionally complains that I give too much time & energy to others & that people use my generosity. But honestly, I don't mind. I feel like if I can help them & they move on, that's ok.

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Same here, charities and helping those in pain/need are big passions for me. I was undecided on a career/college major for a long time, and in the end it was my compassion and empathy that brought me to make a final decision.

I also have NN & Saturn in Virgo, which points to public service, but def the Venus in the 11th has guided me to care about helping the world, beyond just helping those in my immediate circle.

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posted July 27, 2012 05:29 PM            

Aries rules my 11th house, but all of Taurus and a little of Gemini are in my 11th as well. I have mars in Taurus here.

I also ended up choosing a major based on my curiosity about the world and desire to give back in whatever ways I can. I don't know what direction my career will take me since I'm also double majoring in a different subject area lol, but since being in college I've been involved in service projects, humanitarian volunteering, etc. Especially with the service projects, those were very ground up, basically starting with a student group, picking a goal or organization to work with, and fundraising within the community and through networking and making connections... So very 11th house lol.

posted July 27, 2012 07:18 PM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
Me, I have the 11th as Libra. I have my Sun, Mercury, and south node there, and my MC is Libra (I use whole signs).

I have a cardinal t-square and other negative aspects to my sun and Mercury.

Social interaction, friendship, and connection really matter a lot to me, as does communication. Communication is how I feel connected. My seventh is empty, except Chiron in Gemini, and romantic relationships are not important to me. Friendship, though, is very, very important.

I honestly don't feel loved very often and don't really feel like I matter to a lot of people. I don't really feel like I'm special to most people or like I've made a big positive difference in their lives/like they're glad to know me and have benefited from it. I don't have the level of closeness and connectedness with others that I would like. I have a hard time keeping friends. People let me down a lot and disappoint me.

This is going to sound dumb, but whenever I watch shows where there is a group of friends that are very close-knit, have fun together, make memories, and are there for each other, and that like each other even after conflicts, I feel so jealous. I've always wanted that. I thought that I found it in college, but those people turned out to only be fair-weather friends.

I have tried hard in the past to be gracious, kind, and pleasing, and the nicer I am, the more people hurt me. I honestly feel burned out.

I really love beauty and elegance. I like to bring it into what I do most of the time, except during my more silly and Sag-ASC moments. If I could have any job, I'd like to be a personal stylist for regular people (not celebrities). I love going shopping with people when I'm not looking to buy anything for myself (I tend to prefer going alone to buy things for myself) and helping them pick out beautiful things. I like to make people feel beautiful. I also like for people to feel special when I'm with them, which is why I prefer one-on-one interactions, though I also like small groups. I don't like big groups or huge crowds.

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Well since the sun is on your 11th house, i would assume that it is one of the things that you value in life. And with mercury there you would naturally be chatty and friendly towards the people you have just met.

I'm sorry to hear that you don't get to feel valued by the people that you consider as friends. Maybe you just haven't found the right group of friends that you click with? The ones that share your same viewpoint, values, etc and the ones will will definitely make you feel special? But i've also been betrayed before, so my advice would be not to trust them in the same areas where you have been betrayed. I think to effectively weed out those fair weather friends you have to avoid doing favors for them early on in the friendship to avoid being used. Pretend to be broke too if they seem like they are in the habit of borrowing money. There are many user friendly people in this world. Sadly my closest friends also have this tendency of trying to get away with money or stuff that they borrowed, you know, like they avoid paying you or returning the stuff that they borrowed so you have to be persistent in telling them to do their duty? Geez it annoys me, but now i know what they are capable of. We get along so well though, so tolerance and wariness must be applied.

posted July 27, 2012 07:38 PM            

Mercury gemini

Venus taurus

Moon taurus

Chiron taurus

posted July 27, 2012 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by sexyaqua30:
Merc in aqua in the 11th
Capricorn in the 11th house

I have good stable friendships with people from all different walks of life and I have some that come and go. I cherish that time we had and move on. I never meet a stranger although I can be slow to warm up to certain people due to being strongly intuitive. I do however have a hard time having friendships with women. I tend to relate to guys more and gravitate towards them naturally.

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