posted July 26, 2012 06:33 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I think you need to meet more people maybe, because everyone i know hasnt had healthy relationships at all and has major trouble finding "the one." Another thing is guys are messed up at our age. Its perfectly normal to have had a bunch of crappy relationships. even most relationships that last a while and are still standing today, someone either the guy or the girl starts trying to gain power over the other and lower their self esteem by making them feel like crap. That's basically the norm of what everyone experiences in their relationships. If not, they have been lying to u. Most people have stopped believing in love, and especially those who have had a lot of relationships feel really jaded. Trust me, this is what everyone tells me. So please dont feel like ur the only one. And dont be so desperate to haave a oyfriend bc unless its the perfect guy for you astrologywise, they almost always cause more problems than act as a positive influence in ur life.

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Im not nor have I ever been desperate and I do know people my age who have healthy good relationships. My twin brother for example. And even the ones I do know who have had bad situations don't have or attract nearly as many as I do. My cousin who is a year older that me just got married and I can tell her and her husband love each other dearly. So yes there are people our age who don't or havent gone thru what ive been through. Im not just looking for a bf because if that were the case I would be with someone right now whether or nor they were good for me. However I am looking to connect with someone on another level something I have never been able to do. I have never experienced intimacy, I do not know what that feels like. Even with the guys I dated I have not been able to get deep with them because that wasnt the intent they had for me.

Generally men are very happy to sleep with me but other than that its like im not needed. My ex told me thats the reason he liked me, i mean what person want to hear they are only good for that?

posted July 26, 2012 07:44 AM            

There are no easy solutions, hard core karmic release, Auric Cleansing [removing the vibes of the men who enjoyed you, for those vibes attract more like them], high intensity change in habit patterns and high intensity visualizations, that is the only way forward.

The solutions are more in tune with the Universal Codes forum.

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posted July 26, 2012 09:33 AM            

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Originally posted by popcorn:
Hm I wonder if Im the only one who want be rejected more than reject someone. When someone reject me I always accept and not think so much more about that. I go forward with my life and leave that man behind me. When I reject I sometimes wonder if I really done the right. Thats hurts more. Thats also hurts to know I hurt someone. When Im togheter with someone who not are good for me I often done things so I know he will reject me.

Really true love will not reject.

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posted July 26, 2012 09:50 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
I understand where your coming from but now I'm staring to think does true love really exist? It seems like love is very conditional these days where Im from.

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True love DOES exist, sometimes it doesn't even die for centuries. When you meet such a person, there is no doubt about that.

posted July 26, 2012 03:25 PM            

If the astrology can't help you uncover the root cause of your relationship disappointments (assuming there even IS a root cause involving something you're affirmatively doing "wrong"), you could try a session with my friend who is a psychic. She is less a predictive psychic than a "tell it like it is" psychic and most people I've recommended her to are very pleased with the revelations that have come through her. I won't post her info on the forum, but if you want, send me an email : jbrenner56@yahoo.com and I will give you the contact info for her.

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posted July 26, 2012 09:59 PM            

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Originally posted by iQ:
This kind of rejection and being used is a standard problem for women with Pisces Moon.

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Yeah but you can overcome it, first of all stop playing the victim card your in control far more then you realize. I have Pisces Moon and I constantly did the self pity trip, "why does nothing work out for me romantically speaking, wah wah."

posted July 27, 2012 03:00 AM            

Granted, this is coming from a Sag/Leo moon, however maybe one side of the equation is putting their heart into it, and being honest, the other side will say whatever it is they think the Aries wishes to hear in order to keep the physical part of it flowing so to speak?

posted July 27, 2012 05:03 AM            

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Yeah but you can overcome it, first of all stop playing the victim card your in control far more then you realize. I have Pisces Moon and I constantly did the self pity trip, "why does nothing work out for me romantically speaking, wah wah."

Sometimes as a Pisces Moon I want to almost become one with someone that I lose focus on myself. The trick I've realized is never do this.

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posted July 27, 2012 05:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

Well, I could be wrong however maybe what is happening is too much is expected from one side of the relationship when the other side is perhaps not as into the relationship?

Granted, this is coming from a Sag/Leo moon, however maybe one side of the equation is putting their heart into it, and being honest, the other side will say whatever it is they think the Aries wishes to hear in order to keep the physical part of it flowing so to speak?

Perhaps that is leading to misconceptions?

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Even in situations where I have been cautious and tried to gauge the person Im dealing with before getting super involved somewhere down the line, the games come into play or I find out these people arent who they portrayed themselves to be, the misconception is that I thought they were someone they really weren't.

posted July 27, 2012 05:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I don't want to make it seem like i am a victim and I'm sure some of my behavior in the past should have been diff. I have def made mistakes and learned from most of them. But in addition to letting myself get played in relationships I have had a good deal of rejection from guys that I didnt even really get off the ground with. Like it will start cool and then somewhere along the way it just dies out or it seems like they arent willing to put in any work to get to know me.
[b]Leave that behind you. Its the past.

My friends are always asking me why arent you dating? Or whens the last date you went on and I cant answer it because truely I dont know the answer. The thing is is that its not like Im just falling into bed with every guy who drops me a pick up line Ive had fewer partners than all my gfs, and thats because I find it hard to do with people I barely know. But why do people use people? lie to get what they want? mislead people and furthermore why do I keep meeting such characters? I know there is no definite answer but maybe just maybe there is something in my chart that sticks out, that could help me better understand whats been going on.

Good-luck finding out. I personally think its a moon square mc aspect. You appear caught up in the image. Maybe let that go for a while.[/B]

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posted July 27, 2012 08:44 AM            

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But why do people use people? lie to get what they want? mislead people and furthermore...

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My answer would be this.
The world of relationships is sick because the system is sick and doesn't allow us to have/create healthy relationships with any consciousness of mind.
Did we ever learn how to BE in a relationship, without giving another hit to remember and carry with us for life?
Many have no clue which scars they leave behind by treating another person like crap or something alike UNTIL... The chickens come home to roost!
It serves them right!!

posted July 28, 2012 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
Even in situations where I have been cautious and tried to gauge the person Im dealing with before getting super involved somewhere down the line, the games come into play or I find out these people arent who they portrayed themselves to be, the misconception is that I thought they were someone they really weren't.

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Understood, hmm, us (some/most) men will do this in order to get what we want.

Not astrological advice per se, but what I've found is people will generally let slip what they are thinking if one listens closely to what they are saying all of the time.

The issue is people have to categorize things so they can dismiss them to move on with whatever they are interested in doing, when this happens even the most obvious clues and information is discarded.