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Topic: VIRGO MEN
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Junethird
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posted August 03, 2012 01:07 AM
  
ladies and gents of LL...In general... whats the trick to a virgo man's heart?  IP: Logged |
awakemer
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posted August 03, 2012 01:18 AM
There is this virgo man on this dating site forum.. and he would reply with long essay and he would nitpick everybody and was very self righteous about his knowledge etc..how he has traveled all the world and that he knows everything there is to know about dating and why people do this or do that but he did this in a very condescending way.The way he nitpicks everything and is super opinionated well.. it made me think he is defiantly on the less evolved version of a virgo energy. I have known so many virgos and they are so often too critical. they will analyze everything about you and seem to only see the bad things. This makes me nervous to even consider dating a virgo i know thats bad lol IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 03, 2012 01:26 AM
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Originally posted by awakemer:
There is this virgo man on this dating site forum.. and he would reply with long essay and he would nitpick everybody and was very self righteous about his knowledge etc..how he has traveled all the world and that he knows everything there is to know about dating and why people do this or do that but he did this in a very condescending way.The way he nitpicks everything and is super opinionated well.. it made me think he is defiantly on the less evolved version of a virgo energy. I have known so many virgos and they are so often too critical. they will analyze everything about you and seem to only see the bad things. This makes me nervous to even consider dating a virgo i know thats bad lol
Awakemer, Thank you. Yes they over analyze everything... Worse than geminis lol. Very critical too  always so pessimistic in my opinion -_- atleast i think my guy has more Libran tendencies, but thats not much better, because they are fence sitters and slower than taurus and take forever to decide something... More infuriating than an indecisive gemini lol
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awakemer
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posted August 03, 2012 01:31 AM
Yeah i've never actually been with a libran man so i have no idea but I've heard many women frustrated by their indecieiveness..i seem to experience only the good things in Libras for some reason  Virgos have a hard time deciding too though don't they? IP: Logged |
awakemer
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posted August 03, 2012 01:34 AM
i'm actually talking to a libra man right now... but don't know him very well. I have mostly attracted air signs or fire signs. mostly air though. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 03, 2012 01:44 AM
I can never decide who or what i attract the most... I just know i dont like capricorn men too much lol too serious for my liking... Odd considering my juno is in capricorn lolAnd yes libras are indecisive. My guy is almost on the cusp, but is a virgo nonethelesss, but the libra description fits him alot better. Other than maybe being a bit of a clean freak, critical and a minimalist... Lol all key virgo traits, i still say he sways with more libran tendencies. Altho his ASC is in scorpio and iam not even going there cuz ill start getting upset  IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted August 03, 2012 09:47 AM
How to catch a Virgo man? Oh that's easy. Just be perfect.  Seriously though, what I've noticed is that Virgo men love: good conversation, people who present themselves immaculately, and people who thank them for all their efforts. Dress well, speak well, be gracious. I had Mercury trine Mercury exact with my Virgo ex, and I think that's why we stayed together for so long...they really love satisfying conversation. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 03, 2012 09:22 PM
Thank you faith!!Yes being perfect would be the ideal for mr virgo lol... Thanks for the tips... Good conversation and finding their funny bone goes a long way. IP: Logged |
redshift
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posted August 03, 2012 09:28 PM
I knew of a very typical Virgo man. Just glancing at him, you knew he was Virgo through and through. He was GAGA for my super piscean friend. They were together for years and he just adored her. He was super critical of everyone else, but she could do no wrong. I think they can really be drawn to difference from themselves. Like ultra feminine, emotional, batting eyelashes, oh my brave prince kind of ladies. I think it's the only way they can access those soft feelings and that way of being, so it's attractive to them.ETA that I feel this too with my Virgo moon. I admire and like being around emotionaly open flowing people, because they are so different from me and it's the only way I can touch that sort of life as I can't have it with my planets. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 03, 2012 09:50 PM
@redshift,Right on point... My cancer moon draws him like moth to a flame lol. Thank you!!! IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted August 03, 2012 10:33 PM
Hold on...*VOMIT*...Masochistics apply only otherwise dont bother. Virgo men are hardly what I'd call "men". Yeah, I said it.
http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/virgo.htm IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 03, 2012 11:24 PM
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Originally posted by redshift:
I knew of a very typical Virgo man. Just glancing at him, you knew he was Virgo through and through. He was GAGA for my super piscean friend. They were together for years and he just adored her. He was super critical of everyone else, but she could do no wrong. I think they can really be drawn to difference from themselves. Like ultra feminine, emotional, batting eyelashes, oh my brave prince kind of ladies. I think it's the only way they can access those soft feelings and that way of being, so it's attractive to them.ETA that I feel this too with my Virgo moon. I admire and like being around emotionaly open flowing people, because they are so different from me and it's the only way I can touch that sort of life as I can't have it with my planets.
that's so true IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 03, 2012 11:39 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
Hold on...*VOMIT*...Masochistics apply only otherwise dont bother. Virgo men are hardly what I'd call "men". Yeah, I said it.
http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/virgo.htm
Thank you for the link birdy. Altho very insightful... He doesnt fall neatly like described. Iam learning that Virgos are quite complex... I just feel he falls more libran than anything else ... Regardless,his dob falls on the dirty virgin IP: Logged |
awakemer
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posted August 03, 2012 11:58 PM
Yeah i have a lot of virgo in me and i'm drawn to the water of pisces. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 12:20 AM
@awakemer,Iam surrounded by virgo females in general... But the virgo men are far and few in between... They are very interesting and it never occured to me about them being drawn to water altho it makes perfect sense, since we both agree that we need to live by the water lol  IP: Logged |
CAY_512
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posted August 04, 2012 01:29 AM
Based on just the sun sign; I'd say be clean, no strong smelling perfumes. Lots of Virgos like the smell of soap. Not a lot of make up. Natural beauty. I'm a Virgo girl. We tend to be hard on ourselves and not on our partners. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 01:38 AM
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Originally posted by CAY_512:
Based on just the sun sign; I'd say be clean, no strong smelling perfumes. Lots of Virgos like the smell of soap. Not a lot of make up. Natural beauty. I'm a Virgo girl. We tend to be hard on ourselves and not on our partners.
Thank you CAY, Good points to keep in mind. I do lean towards heavier, powdery, woody smells... But no complaints so far. He usually tries to figure out what iam wearing... As a gemini i need options and change my daily perfume on a daily basis lol I understand virgo ladies well... Both my mom and gran are virgos but the men are a totally different breed of virgo... Or so iam learning. Thank you for your imput IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 04, 2012 03:46 AM
My ex Virgo husband, Wanted to fix everything.. Ask for help on something IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 11:32 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
My ex Virgo husband, Wanted to fix everything.. Ask for help on something
Lioness, thank you. This one baffles me if its libra or virgo... He is not"handy man" material lol he doesnt like getting his hands dirty or like manuel labour. He hires people to move and pack his things... but he does take out the garbage and reload/unload dishwasher and do laundry... But no folding lol
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CAY_512
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posted August 04, 2012 12:14 PM
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Originally posted by Junethird:
Thank you CAY,Good points to keep in mind. I do lean towards heavier, powdery, woody smells... But no complaints so far. He usually tries to figure out what iam wearing... As a gemini i need options and change my daily perfume on a daily basis lol I understand virgo ladies well... Both my mom and gran are virgos but the men are a totally different breed of virgo... Or so iam learning. Thank you for your imput
Do you know his moon & venus?
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Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 12:23 PM
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Do you know his moon & venus?
Cay_512, He is the worst of the worst Sun virgo
Moon gemini
Venus scorpio
Mars leo
Asc scorpio IP: Logged |
MadameButterfly
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From: Ontario, Canada
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posted August 04, 2012 01:56 PM
Junethird, my longtime boyfriend is a Virgo Sun and Gemini Moon as well. Although they do square each other, my Moon and Venus in in perfect trine with his Moon so I help mellow him out a great deal when he's on edge (which is a lot, he's a tall ectomorph) hehe. I'm a Virgo too. One sure thing that I can say about Virgo men is that they really need to communicate with you. If there's no open communication, then there's really no hope for a relationship. This is especially true of the Gem Moon variety. Oh, and don't worry about being 'perfect' for him. He's way more critical of himself than you. If he acts a bit distant and weird when you're together, it's just the Mercurial Sun/Moon edgyness.. It's not you.
He likes sweetness and abhors pretense. So just be yourself and keep it light at the beginning. He wants to get to know *you* first before anything gets serious.
Hope that helps. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 02:01 PM
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Originally posted by MadameButterfly:
Junethird, my longtime boyfriend is a Virgo Sun and Gemini Moon as well. Although they do square each other, my Moon and Venus in in perfect trine with his Moon so I help mellow him out a great deal when he's on edge (which is a lot, he's a tall ectomorph) hehe. I'm a Virgo too. One sure thing that I can say about Virgo men is that they really need to communicate with you. If there's no open communication, then there's really no hope for a relationship. This is especially true of the Gem Moon variety. Oh, and don't worry about being 'perfect' for him. He's way more critical of himself than you. If he acts a bit distant and weird when you're together, it's just the Mercurial Sun/Moon edgyness.. It's not you.
He likes sweetness and abhors pretense. So just be yourself and keep it light at the beginning. He wants to get to know *you* first before anything gets serious.
Hope that helps. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.
Oooh thank you for this. I have: Sun gemini
Moon cancer
Venus aries
Mars libra
Asc taurus I wish i could say this was a "new" relationship but no. He is an old love... We are at a standstill and quite frankly the most infuriating man i have ever had the pleasure of meeting. He is giving me wrinkles, i tell ya!!!
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MadameButterfly
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posted August 04, 2012 02:39 PM
Ohh, okay. So you're way past that stage I see. May I ask what it is about him that infuriates you so? IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 02:46 PM
Its a long list lolMainly he holds grudges
He is suspicious
Slow to take action... Talking snail pace here
He is perfect, without a fault, never does wrong
He has an ego, iam surprised he fits thru the front door with that ginormous head of his
He is snobby
Inconsiderate
I think he lacks empathy ... Maybe he was dropped on his head idk lol On the flip side He is kind
Very sweet and sheepish
Romantic in an ackward aloof kinda way i secretly like
He is independant! Fun loving kinda guy
He cooks breakfast
He blows out the candles because he knows ill forget
He is funny
He indulges my little silly whimsical ways
He brings me my coffee
He can talk about anything for hours, very smart
He is silly and very funny, just like me
He laughs at my corny jokes
He eats anything i cook, regardless if he likes it or not.
Family oriented... Prolly because they spoil and baby him.
He likes to dance with me
He puts flowers in my hair... *sigh* i love him And last but not least he is sexy as h*ll!!! And he thinks iam the sexiest thing in the world, when he is not holding a grudge against me
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