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Topic: Gemini men - out of sight out of mind OR absence makes the heart grow fonder?
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kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 05:52 PM
  
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:01 PM
The ruler connections between house of pleasure and romance - H5,partnerships and union - H7 and H8 - sex and psyche are very significant,they are the true glues,and give lasting basis + the spark and passion. You have all that,although he could be feeling it stronger than you.I personally love Sun/Ura conj - uniting 2 masculine,proactive energies,you are mentally invigorated and absolutely in tune with his special self,and he sees you as epitome of everything he holds important that serves to his individuality,the conj is the H8 house,so we have life force and self-realisation + uraninan quirk in the sex department,so it could be that you are sexually liberating to him,for your Sun is in H5 - you are at ease with your sexuality (Sun ruling H3 so,you freely talk it out) and he sees it as your effortless personality trait and in turn feels good about his own sexuality. Moon conj Venus - all sorts of sweet,comforting,comfortable,warm and satisfying feelings between you two - you are the Venus - the seduction part of the union,and your femininity just feel good to him,is what he needs in a woman. (his Moon) IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:07 PM
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:08 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Man, and I thought I knew about astrology! Apparently I know nothing! It's good, hu? I'd love to hear more about it! Might help me understand why I feel the way I feel for him - God knows I'd love to understand that!
No worries,everything I know about synastry techniques I learnt here,especially that H5/7/8 theory : another knowflake here,Ceridwen pretty much slays it... You also have notorious Mars conj Nep,that's tricky to handle. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 06:09 PM
Oh wow awesome synastry!!!Fngers crossed for you!!! IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:10 PM
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kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:11 PM
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Wow, that's very interesting. No other word for it. A lot of that seems very true. He feels it more than I - this is good to hear. Should I be confident that he'll come back on his own?
On his own? I feel there should be some subtle,yet decisive move from you. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:14 PM
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Uh oh, :/ that's not good?
That depends on how you feel about sexless sex and being on the sexual pedestal.
(Not to mention that's his Asc ruler,on your Mars)
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:14 PM
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kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:16 PM
Oh believe me, he knows how I feel. He's trying to keep us at a friends pace. There are reasons. But for now he's saying he wants to be friends - bit know that's not really how he feels. Since you guys will never know this guy I'll tell you he has a problem in the bedroom. It's never been that big of a deal for me - made it very clear I like him for who he is. But, it got so frustrating for him, beating himself up constantly, he had to distance himself a bit. Complicated.IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:18 PM
In the meantime, I'm trying to show him I'm not the kind of gal who just disappears when things get rough. I'm in it for the long haul. To help..Sexless sex you say? IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:19 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Oh believe me, he knows how I feel. He's trying to keep us at a friends pace. There are reasons. But for now he's saying he wants to be friends - bit know that's not really how he feels. Since you guys will never know this guy I'll tell you he has a problem in the bedroom. It's never been that big of a deal for me - made it very clear I like him for who he is. But, it got so frustrating for him, beating himself up constantly, he had to distance himself a bit. Complicated.
I was actually going to ask you was he ever violent (when fantasies go too far) but this could also fit...
Maybe he is intimidated.
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kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:22 PM
Yes, plus a bit of depression from the whole situation, it doesn't help. So, there lies my problem. It's a tough situation, but I care for him like no other. We dated for a year, we were neighbors in a duplex. Convenient! Ha, but we shared everything - never had anything like this before. I know it's not over, but I know when we see each other it's a constant reminder of his inadequacies. So, really the choice is up to him ..IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:23 PM
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Sexless sex you say?
Yeah  On your part,for him you have riled him up.(on many levels) IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:24 PM
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Yeah On your part,for him you have riled him up.(on many levels)
Are you saying I won't be sexuality satisfied on some level, but he will be? IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:27 PM
Sorry for all the questions, just so curious! But, how do I have him riled up? IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:29 PM
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Are you saying I won't be sexuality satisfied on some level, but he will be?
It could happen,you taking it to another level,having spiritual fulfillment from the relationship,but you will satisfy all his fantasies - and the Nep fantasies are perfectly fine when not coming true - feeling it is enough.
I can't really imagine your Sag Mars to be ok with this  IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:31 PM
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Sorry for all the questions, just so curious! But, how do I have him riled up?
sexed up,inspired,provoked,challenged... IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:33 PM
I will keep calling him every once in a while - my Scorpio stubbornness refuses to let this go easily. Hopefully he will get over his fears and come around sooner than later. I know Gemini's have the ability to surprise! IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:41 PM
Any other advice judging from the synastry chart?IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 06:48 PM
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Any other advice judging from the synastry chart?
Not an astro advice,but whatever you do,always respect yourself IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 06:55 PM
Thanks guys. This has opened my eyes and is much appreciated!IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 07, 2012 08:01 PM
Its been a week - nothing from him. I wonder if he does feel it stronger than me, sometimes. At this point, as much as I'd like to call him, I just can't do it. Just seems pointless if he's not going to contact me. Losing hope.IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 07, 2012 08:05 PM
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Its been a week - nothing from him. I wonder if he does feel it stronger than me, sometimes. At this point, as much as I'd like to call him, I just can't do it. Just seems pointless if he's not going to contact me. Losing hope.
You and me both  mine has gem moon... Stay strong, iam going to muster up the courage to call. So he came back from his trip and nothing? IP: Logged |
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