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Topic: Gemini men - out of sight out of mind OR absence makes the heart grow fonder?
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kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 11:58 AM
  
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 12:11 PM
Outta sight,outta mind and therefore heart. Gemini needs constant stimulation,never-ending flirt.
Sure,Virgo Moon can put a different spin on this - for example,that he will be fond of you no matter what,but if you are intent to make it work again,everything is conditioned by the moment: it is essentially as if you two are getting to know each other for the first time. If something has changed about you in the meantime,I am sure he'd think of it as challenging,interesting.IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 12:16 PM
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Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 12:18 PM
Iam a gemini woman and my guy has gemini moon even worse than gemini sun lolI have come to believe that gemini men are the true comittment phobes of the zodiac... They drive me crazy!!! My advice is ignore him. Ha, easier said than done, but its the only way. Gemini like to communicate and be nosy busy bodies and once you deny him that he will be curious. Its the oldest trick in the book but it works well with us gems. My guy has virgo sun not sure how it would apply with a virgo moon placement but essentially be clean and organized with your communications and be organized with key pointers of why you want to try again. Virgos like lists and reinforcement as to why this might be a good idea or not... Etc. No melodrama. Softness yes. Tears. No. Gems are the same in the perspective of clean, crisp signed sealed and delivered. No fuss no muss. Drama and hysterics make us nervous  IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 12:21 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
So, your advice would be to stick around as a casual friend? I am afraid if I disappear he'll be hurt but move on as needed.
Stick around as a ..hm,decisive flirt,to put it like this. You must appeal to his Virgo Moon,that you are serious and sincere,but also to satisfy his Sun-Venus in Gemini and to be fun,flirting,witty,limby goddess  Flatter to that Leo Mars,too. This is based solely on singled out positions you wrote,charts tell the bigger story,in details etc IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 12:23 PM
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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted August 04, 2012 12:24 PM
Disappear! I vote this twice  This only works if you have an established bond between you two, and he still has some way to contact you, FB, e-mail, phone, or mutual friends... IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 12:29 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
I guess I just get worried that ignoring him will hurt his sensitive Pisces rising. Sometimes I think he's more sensitive than I am! But, everytime we hang out, there's still flirtation - I know he still has feelings, he's just scared. But, maybe I should just lay low and let him come to me.
I have no opinion on pisces men. I dont care for them... I find them a bit too unstable and needy. I like to be needed but independance is key for a gemini at heart, and thats coming from someone with a cancer moon. When you are around him, make him laugh, be fun and flirty and cook him a yummy meal. Apply to his taurus and leo. I have asc in taurus and well, iam putty in your hands with a full tummy of yummy goodness lol. Eating, talking, laughing makes us happy. Oh and wash the dishes before you leave... His virgo will love that. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 04, 2012 12:34 PM
i havent had that experience with gemini guys. I've had four close gemini friends, all guys. Two have leo moon, one has virgo moon, the other has scorpio moon. They are all very loyal friends, and honestly, even clingy, i would say (esp the leo moon ones). They are all four very sentimental and sweet underneath their outer facade of almost being too cool for anyone and being a player type. They always tell me they miss me and are almost overly sentimental and sweet. they're also deep people, but they like to play around a lot, which that along with their very varied interests and tendency to be social butterflies might make them come off as superficial, but they really arent at all. They're very idealistic and would like to save the world. Also humanitarian and very good at diplomacy, compromising, and settling arguments. Like a true air sign . I feel like gemini people really live for their friends, unlike aries people who are similar to them in their need of constant stimulation but who dont seem to need people quite as much and are actually a lot more independent than a gemini who really needs other people's love. That is one thing for sure, you and gemmy must have conversations that stimulate their mind. they wont stick around otherwise. But that's not being disloyal, that's just finding someone who gives them what they need. I need lots of mental stimulation too since i have a gemini nametype. So i understand where they're coming from. Also, dont be negative. keep it light keep it fun keep it friendly. and witty. the more you play around with puns and jokes the more entertained they are. i am that way bc of my nametype so it works ok for me. Geminis just want to celebrate the fun in life, it doesnt mean that they are superficial, or disloyal! on the contrary, they are very deep, they just dont like to focus on boring subjects. You can have wonderful intellectual convos about deep subjects as long as they are not boring, but enlightening.------------------
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kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 12:38 PM
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kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 12:44 PM
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 12:46 PM
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If you guys would like to know the back story on us I could share if it would help to understand where we're at..
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Junethird
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posted August 04, 2012 12:47 PM
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This is all very interesting! Ok so - he was telling me about this trip he's taking this weekend - I thought about calling him next week to see how it went. But, I guess I could just not do anything! I'm just nervous because I went a week without contacting him and when I did finally, he seemed kind of hurt. No contact though, hu? I can do that. Just want to play this right because I care for him immensely. Don't want to chase him off!
Ahhh thats tricky. A tough call. I would call randomly a few days after his trip and suggest a cook out to catch up on his adventures. Being genuinly excited and into the happenings of his life are very attractive. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 02:13 PM
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 02:40 PM
You go to astro.com » free horoscopes » extended chart selection » from chart type's drop down menu choose synastry chart and fill in the data,save the chart,upload it to imgur and copy and paste the link for message boards IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted August 04, 2012 02:45 PM
Out of sight out of mind. ------------------
" Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present."
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ueharaa
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posted August 04, 2012 03:30 PM
Hmmm... I don't know many gemini sun men but the gemini sun women I know are very "absence makes the heart grow fonder". It is certainly because they also have a cancer venus. All of them just genuinely love people and keeping in touch with them. There are some of the very few who, even after many months of no contact, will still go out of their way and reach out. And it took a lot of time for most of them to get over their exes.
Now he's a gemini sun and venus and his moon is also mercury ruled because it's in virgo.. so just like it has been said before he could be someone who needs constant mental stimulation for people to have a place in his heart so to speak.
However he's a pisces ascendant. And I find the ascendant to play a huge part in one's emotional outlook. If I take myself as an example, with an aqua venus, and sun moon in cap, anyone could say that I'm just more the "out of sight out of mind" type. Nothing in my chart (planetary signs at least)clearly points to someone who is overly emotional and who would start missing people the second they leave. Except for my cancer ascendant.
So I would think that his pisces ascendant makes him much more sensitive than the rest of his chart points to. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 05:22 PM
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 05:25 PM
time of births,place?IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 05:27 PM
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 05:28 PM
I will post the chart,gimme 5-10 mins cuz I am terribly slow.IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 05:33 PM
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 05:40 PM
 applause for the state of Texas for such a precise time of birth noting IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 04, 2012 05:43 PM
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 04, 2012 05:48 PM
Oh,nice bits,DSC rulers in trine (maybe bit wide)
Your Venus(5/12 ruler) and Sat(H8 ruler) in his H7
his Moon H5 ruler and Vertex conj your Venus H5 ruler
Sun conj Ura
your Moon in his H4
Mars conj Nep... VERY Nice,indeed!IP: Logged |
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