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Topic: Gemini men - out of sight out of mind OR absence makes the heart grow fonder?
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Junethird
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posted August 07, 2012 08:07 PM
  
The forum. Soul unions is great for pouring your heart out. Lots of love stories and support happening there. Check it out  IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 07, 2012 08:11 PM
Ugh, I'm sorry to hear you're going through the same thing. Well, I found out I think it's this weekend not last. But even if it was last weekend, I don't know if it would have made any difference. I was doing some reading about male psychology. Pretty interesting. Sounds like most men fall in love from a distance. Women fall in love when they're in our presence. So, I'm just going to fall off the radar. If I meant anything to him, he'll eventually realize and come back. But, honestly - the result terrifies me. Thinking this has all been in my head. That he's been over me and I've been trying to keep this alive. It will break my heart and make me a bit more damaged. Just wish I could go back to how I was before I met him - independent. Never needed a man in my life - ever. I was perfectly content with being on my own for the past decade it was nice!IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 07, 2012 08:13 PM
Btw, how accurate is a synastry chart? Unfamiliar with those.. It really seemed good, positive. So, why isn't our relationship good and positive?IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 07, 2012 08:17 PM
Oh dear heavens. Dont think like that!!!! Its hard at first. The shock, the numbness... But it does get better. I promise you that  Mmmm... Its so cliche, and this one annoys me the most but its still so very true. Altho me and my guy are at a standstill, he came back to me after 4 years... There is hope, that if you are meant to be he will turn around to get you back. Saturn is still retro... So take this time to focus on evolving but dont let this heartbreak moment harden you IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 07, 2012 08:20 PM
Wow, he came back to you 4 years after you two split? That's amazing and so incredibly sweet. I just am so incredibly impatient (sag mars) I don't understand how or why someone would wait so long to come back when they love someone. Life is so short. When I want something, I go out and get it. No waiting. I trust my feelings and go for it! That's so great for you. Why, might I ask, are things at a stand still?IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 07, 2012 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Btw, how accurate is a synastry chart? Unfamiliar with those.. It really seemed good, positive. So, why isn't our relationship good and positive?
Lol i have a good comp/syn with my guy too... Its timing babe. Check your current progressed composite... And being on the same page and capitalizing on that moment to lay it all on the table... Iam still working on finding/preparing for mine. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 07, 2012 08:23 PM
Progressive composite? I don't know the first thing about that! How do I go about finding all this out?IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 07, 2012 08:23 PM
Yeah me too... I go somewhat hesitant but i still charge ahead... Now iam plagued by indicision and fear...Check out my thread on this forum virgo menBut if you wanna pour your heart out... Check out the forum soul unions. Its a great place for love. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 07, 2012 08:26 PM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Progressive composite? I don't know the first thing about that! How do I go about finding all this out?
Go to astro.com
Go to extended chart selection
And from the pull down menu choose the composite progress chart... You can post it here or in personal readings. Lots of astro experts willing to help out Goodluck. Stay strong. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 07, 2012 09:48 PM
Ah! Just found your thread. Virgo with moon in Gemini. We have the same problem! I think that's a lethal combo! Gemini's already have the wheels constantly turning in their minds, then they have the Virgo that makes them analyze every single thought they're thinking. It's got to be maddening. Scorpio rising probably makes him even more confusing - emotional but hides it. At least he possesses sensitivity, that's a good thing! What's his Venus and Mars in? IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 07, 2012 10:10 PM
Venus scorpio
Mars leoThanx for the support. Hopefully venusDisirius will be able to help you interp the progressed composite... V, has some good insights and very knowledgeable in astro. IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 07, 2012 10:45 PM
That's some intensity! I would assume he's a pretty passionate guy. Loyal, it would seem. I'm sure he'll come back and stick it out, maybe he just needs sometime to pull back and think. When guys pull back, it's best to just give them their space. It's not always a bad thing. I forget that Venus has been in retrograde since April! We're just now pulling out of it. I hope relationships get back to normal soon. It's wrecked havoc on my love life, that's for sure.
Honestly, the extended chart section of Astro.com is a bit over my head - couldn't figure which one to chose. It's ok though. If it's mean to be, he'll come back. Just have to be patient, and that's definitely not one of my strong points. I'm glad I understand now why I feel such a strong pull to him (from the synastry chart), but I wonder if it's toxic. Just because it's strong doesn't mean it's healthy. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 07, 2012 10:55 PM
Aw thank you... Its actually the same process like you did for your other charts just select the progressed composite one, instead of synastry, natal..etcIP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 07, 2012 10:57 PM
Actually, Venus did the chart! Couldn't figure out how to post it here.IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 07, 2012 11:02 PM
Oh ok... I would upload it but i cant ipad doesnt support flash  IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 08, 2012 02:45 PM
I decided to send him a text message asking if he was getting excited about his trip. He responded, "Yes! Tomorrow can't come soon enough " I said for him to let me know how it goes. He said nothing to that. Am I being too impatient? I feel like maybe it's time to let go.IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 08, 2012 03:06 PM
Mmm... Playing it casual. Its a tough call when to throw in the towel. Iam struggling with mine aswell, even tho i know ive obsessed over it for alot longer than i should. Letting go of your hopes and dreams with someone is difficult. Post in soul unions or sweet peas for more insight IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted August 08, 2012 03:38 PM
Thanks! Just reposted it there.
A part of me just wants to go off on him! But, I refuse to go out looking crazy. He's conditioned this whole situation to have it just be casual friends. It angers me because I've accepted this thinking we could work back to where we were. But, I'm finally starting to get the hint that he's cool with me, but doesn't have feelings. My Scorpio wants to come out so badly! Feel like I was played.IP: Logged |
KathrineKatz
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posted December 14, 2012 01:47 AM
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Thanks! Just reposted it there.
A part of me just wants to go off on him! But, I refuse to go out looking crazy. He's conditioned this whole situation to have it just be casual friends. It angers me because I've accepted this thinking we could work back to where we were. But, I'm finally starting to get the hint that he's cool with me, but doesn't have feelings. My Scorpio wants to come out so badly! Feel like I was played.
Hey Kennedy!
What ever happened in your relationship?? I feel like we are in the same position. My guy was also born on 6/6 but 11 years after yours! Did you guys get back together?
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KathrineKatz
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posted December 15, 2012 09:24 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
time of births,place?
Hi VenusDiSirius, Can you please help me with my situation as well? IP: Logged |
Londongirl8
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posted December 16, 2012 06:51 AM
In my experience Gemini are the masters of the zodiac when it comes to leaving a trail of broken hearts. My sister has a Gemini ex who is dying to get back with her but ONLY because he knows my sister does NOT want him and rejection is killing his ego. I would move on. My Pisces ex was driving me nuts but I'm so glad I dumped him and met a great Sag guy (I'm Aqua)IP: Logged |
kennedy80
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posted February 16, 2013 11:14 PM
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Originally posted by KathrineKatz:
Hey Kennedy!What ever happened in your relationship?? I feel like we are in the same position. My guy was also born on 6/6 but 11 years after yours! Did you guys get back together?
Hi Katherine! Just randomly ran across your post - Interesting, are you a Scorpio as well? Not back together, but there have been some new developments. What's going on with you and your Gemini? IP: Logged |
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