posted August 04, 2012 11:35 PM            

7h is in leo - I like leo influenced men without a pers0nal planet(excepti0n's mars) in libra. My Sun's in Sag c0njunct mars and I LOVE arians(m0re than leos). It's c0nj Venus as well. Librans aren't interesting but I do like Taureans.

8h in virgo - virgo Mo0n. I get al0ng with men who have their Sun, mercury and venus in virgo. M0on in virgo? N0pe. They end up disliking me and I'm n0t running behind s0me0ne who doesn't like me. I haven't met any mars in virgo guy yet. Mercury's plat0nic, Venus takes her own sweet time to make her presence kn0wn but when a guy's Sun c0njuncts my m0on, frogs start singing, crickets start tap dancing, skies cry tears of joy...

Then c0me scorpios.
Mercury's in Sag c0nj Pluto in scorpio - news, they are everywhere! :-| Fr0m experience, the men are detrimental for my well being.

Mercury's in the 10th - I've had 2 cap bfs till n0w and b0th were n0t my type!

posted August 05, 2012 02:54 AM            

5th house cusp in Pisces. my Mars is there. i do NOT tend to like Pisces men..but the person I fell hardest for was a Pisces..

7th house cusp in Taurus. no planets there. Taurus men tend to love me, but I don't return the feeling.

8th house cusp in Gemini. no planets there, either. and i do not like Geminis, for the most part.

however, taking the traditional house rulers into consideration...I do have a lot of sexually passionate feelings with men who have Leo Mars (5th house - and that's where my mars is)

7th house ruler Libra..nah, I CANNOT STAND Libra guys! my ex was a Libra sun w/ Libra mars and yeah, couldn't stand him after a while.

posted August 05, 2012 03:07 AM            

Ruler of 7th house (Aries) is Mars (Libra) in the 1st house. I love Libra dominant peeps.. yes. Attraction is mutual always. I have Mars/Pluto/Lilith/Karma/Aphrodite all in Libra in 1st house. Never dated Aries dominant ppl.. but then again, i dun know if their ascendant is Aries.

Ruler of 8th house (Taurus) is Venus (Gemini) in 9th house. Never dated Sag Sun/Mercury/Venus. Some are attracted to me but never mutual from my side. Seldom am I attracted to Gemini dominant peeps but I have plenty of friends I trust in Taurus. Interestingly, my Progressed Moon is in Taurus.

posted August 05, 2012 03:17 AM            

7th House cusp in Libra: I am not really attracted to Libra the Suns that is. Venus in Libra I find attractive. I have only been attracted to one Libra he had his stellium conjunct my 7th house cusp within 0-1 orb.
I tend to be more attracted to Scorpio types. I also attract Scorpio Suns normally the attraction is mutual. I suppose the Sun/Moon thing . I have Scorpio intercepted in my 7th.
Lord of my 7th is in the 8th.
Venus or Mars in Scorpio is appealing for my Moon.

8th Cusp in Sagittarius: A guys Venus or Moon in Sagittarius seems to trigger off this house for me. It seems to create deep bonds/connections out of no where. I have Venus in Sag conjunct Saturn in the 8th. I also find Capricorn very attractive.

posted August 05, 2012 06:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
THE 2ND HOUSE IS THE HOUSE OF SENUSAL PLEASURE AND HAVING SOMETHING TO OFFER

The 2nd house can have to do with a very basic kind of physical attraction in synastry and overlays. The Sun, Moon, Asc, Venus, or Mars here particularly could enhance physical attraction. People who influence this house in a positive way can also bolster your feelings of self-worth, as if we have something of tangible value to offer in a relationship. A person influencing this house will not make them your romantic ‘type‘, but there are other benefits to be gained from 2nd house synastry in a relationship context.

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posted August 05, 2012 07:06 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
For 5H Mars... I really don't do well with Aries people in love. Especially Venus in Aries, it bothers my Scorp Venus.

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That is an important point. You always have to compare your potential attraction pattern (for example 5th house or ruler) back to your personal planets. If there is a conflict it will play out differently than if everything fits.

Also your ruler of the 5th house is mars in Cancer, but also aspecting two outer planets. That definitely will figure in!

My 5th house ruler is in Cappy and square Pluto. And Pluto definitely has to appear in the other`s chart as well. usually in the form of aspects to Venus or Mars or one of these in Scorpio.

posted August 05, 2012 07:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I am so happy to read that. I was thinking that I was the only one seeing the 2nd house that way.

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posted August 05, 2012 10:13 AM            

I have Saturn and Uranus conjunct Descendant in Sagittarius. I also have Neptune in the 7th. I tend to go for Sag/Cap/Aqua/Pisces type people. I also have Venus in Pisces in the 10th (more Pisces/Cap). Mars in the 6th... there are a lot of men with Virgo placements in my life but I usually attribute that to my South Node and 4th house being in Virgo (I love Virgo Moons) as well as my Sun dwad being in Virgo. Leos tend to go for me (again because of my Aqua influences).

posted August 05, 2012 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
I wonder if the 10th house adds to attraction or at least adds to a long term attraction.

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posted August 05, 2012 10:48 AM            

My 5H cusp is Gemini, with Mercury in Scorpio. If a dude looks smart and intense, I'm always stopped in my tracks. If he backs it up when he opens his mouth, I'm hooked. This is also how I show interest. I just want to talk and talk and talk about intense, personal and philosophical things.

My 7H cusp is Cancer, with Moon in Virgo. This one is a little tougher to see. I love a gentle emotional man, and I am very attracted to the Virgo feel of someone who just has that crystal clean, impeccable, noble Virgo grace and I understand (being Virgo moon) and am drawn to men that seem to have very strong emotions hidden. I want to draw them out. But I do usually have trouble with this kind of man, it never works out well.

My 8H cusp is in Leo with Sun in Scorpio.

Overall, I can't deal with Scoprio sun men, but Scorpio moon, heck yeah. All the men I've loved have had one and have been emotional, intense, a bit mysterious, caring and warm. I'd say 5,7,and 8H pretty accurately describe that.

As for the 11th, I have the cusp in Sagittarius, with Jupiter in Aquarius. However, I have Jupiter opposite my Mars in Aries and I feel like this is a problem area for me because I feel like my Mars and Jupiter are battling each other. Mars supports my Moon in Virgo more, being trine, so I tend to forcefully express the Virgo part of me more, but it's not my core feelings, it's just the filter. SO: If I feel that a man somehow manages to see the less easily expressed side of me that is free, adventurous, independent and unconventional (sag and aquarius), HOLY MOLY, do I ever feel loved.

posted August 05, 2012 11:02 AM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
A lot of my exes have hit my 10th in some way or we have a 10th house stellium in the composite. *I* like the 10th because I like guys with social standing, again, a reflection of my 10th house Venus.

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posted August 06, 2012 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Cool... yeah, the 5th,7th and 8th houses show your type, but the houses opposite... the 11th, 1st, and of course the 2nd kind of reflect back to their opposing houses, like the other side of the coin. They are fun in synastry for different reasons.

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Agreed.

Though I still have difficulties to interprete the 11th house in terms of "love received".

posted August 06, 2012 10:35 AM            

Have dated a few Scorpio men in the past, there seems to be a mutual attraction usually. Strong sexual attraction. They do the flirting first

As far as Capricorns go, don't have much experience with this sign, haven't really encountered many to say whether or not I like or dislike. But I did have an attraction to late degree Cap for a brief time period, unfortunately it was not mutual.

posted August 06, 2012 11:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

Agreed.

Though I still have difficulties to interprete the 11th house in terms of "love received".

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Well, my take is this...

Our 5th house is like a performance (the show, the celebrity, the ‘epic drama’ of our life, how we express our personal ‘saga‘), and the 11th house is like the audience (the crowd, the group, the observers)… We are all hoping for an applause to our personal self expression from those that surround us… When someone positively aspects our 11th house, they have the ability to make us feel appreciated, approved of, and accepted in general… like they are a ‘fan’ of ours so to speak… I guess in a way the 11th house could also with the house of ‘love withheld’, as well as ‘love received’, if it was very badly aspected by someone else… you could potentially feel excluded rather then included…

5th house/11th house =

Performer/ Audience

The spectacle/ The crowd

Celebrity/ Fan

The talent/ The patron

The group leader/ The group members

The experience and drama of life/ The observation and study of life (Aquarius is said to rule astrology, and they are great people watchers)

Expression/ Reception

The beheld/ The beholder

Giving of love/Receiving love

Giving attention/Receiving attention

The privileged/The common people

The ‘special’ individual/The varied masses of humanity.

When we are in 5th house mode we are more concerned about the message that we want to put out, like how we feel about somebody, why we feel that way, and what that means for us.

Strong and positive synastry to our 5th house from a partner, makes us aware of how much in love we are, and what we want to express to that lovable person.

When we are in 11th house mode we are more concerned about what message we are getting from others, like how they feel about us, why they feel that way, and what it means for them.

posted August 06, 2012 11:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
When we are in 11th house mode we are more concerned about what message we are getting from others, like how they feel about us, why they feel that way, and what it means for them.

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In addition to their 5th house?

The thing is I get that theoretically but somehow I can´t apply it practically.

In my personal chart, I have 1 degree Scorpio on the cusp of 11th house, with Pluto on 9 Libra in 10th house on the MC, and Mars on 5 Sag in 12th house conjunct ASC and Neptune and NN.

Uranus is on 1 Scorpio conjunct the 11th house cusp itself.

do I look for synastric aspects to my Pluto, (Mars) and Uranus to see if someone else likes me and how they like me?

May I give an example:

A guy`s DESC-ruler Mercury sextiles my Pluto exact and conjuncts my Mars by 4 degrees.

his 5th house ruler Moon sextiles my uranus by 3 degrees.

his NN sextiles my Uranus exact.

Would these play a role?
(Well I guess he wouldn´t like me too much, pretty boring aspects there. lol)

On the other hand his 5th house ruler conjuncts my Sun and Mercury.

However my aspects to his 11th house rulers would show how I like him?

his 11th house ruler is Saturn, and my Sun-Mercury squares his Saturn. Does that mean I don´t like him?

(well it clearly means that there is a challenge involving his 5th-11th house axis as I just see, as his 5th house ruler Moon in Sagittarius in 10th house squares his 11th house ruler Saturn on the DESC. lol)

Well truth be told, my 5th house ruler Venus in Cappy in 1st house squares my 11th house ruler Pluto in 10th house)

posted August 06, 2012 12:18 PM            

If we want to know how another person feels about us we check how we influence their chart…. When someone else’s 11th house is influenced by us they might feel we know how to treat them well. When we influence their 5th they feel impressed by our self-expression.

In terms of the ‘receiving love’ part of the 11th house, derivative houses really come into play. The 11th house is the 5th house from the 7th, the symbolic 5th house of our partner in terms of our own expectations.

The 2nd house represents our partner’s 8th house in derivative astrology…. Positive synastry to our second house makes us feel useful and valuable to that person, because it makes us feel we have something to offer in an 8th house type ‘merger’ that they would appreciate. As opposed to just appreciating what they have to offer us (which is more an 8th house type theme).

Both of these axis are very interrelated…

The 5th/11th house axis seems to be about special talent and charisma, popularity with people, and how these two things interact. An audience is made of up of many individuals, some may love what you have to express, some may be neutral to it, and some may even hate it. The people who positively aspect your 11th house are those individuals who have an appreciative response towards you in a way that you are able to recognize as your ideal preferred response. Conversely, people who aspect your 5th house express them selves in such a way that they can hold you spell bound and seem like an ideal love object.

posted August 06, 2012 12:43 PM            

I have Sagittarius in the 7th house and the Sagittarius' I do meet I always find myself trying to impress. I was head over heels for a Sag boy in grade school, and then the next one was this past March. Head over heels! They make me feel like I don't really measure up to par though :/

posted August 06, 2012 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Is that one of the reasons, 11th house is the house of friendship? Cause we tend to be positive towards people who like us,e ven though it does not need to mean we are attracted to him on a romantic level?

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Well, the 11th house is about fitting into groups. And it's about 'popularity', with people in general and with specific individuals. Because of this I think the 11th house can have a slightly different meaning depending on the context of a situation. It can function as how you expect to receive romantic love, and yet also refer to your fraternal feelings about entire groups you belong to.

In general I think the 11th house refers to that positive feeling you get when you feel 'popular' with others... Whether you're popular with someone because they think you are a good friend, because they admire your talent, or because they are in love with you... You get that same feel-good boost from others thinking you are 'special' in all those situations. Or the pain of not feeling 'popular'.

The 5th house is a bit like this.... The 5th house refers to that general excited feeling you get when you think someone else is 'special'.... It could be your favorite celebrity, your especially cute child, your sexy sweetheart, or the father that you hero-worship. But, in essence, what the 5th house in synastry is really about is that inspired feeling of someone else being 'amazing' for whatever reason.

The 5th house is not always specifically about romantic relationships, and the 11th house is not always specifically about platonic fraternal connections.

They are about the general feeling of being popular (or not)... Or of thinking that someone else is marvelous (or not).

posted August 06, 2012 01:21 PM            

I have liked all three. My Taurus moon steers away from Geminis because they're too flirty/flighty.