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Topic: Wow cancers can be clingy actually
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PhoenixFire
Knowflake Posts: 555
From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 14, 2012 01:06 PM
  
Sorry you have experienced that, regardsplatero. That sort of behavior is rude, inconsiderate, and passive agressive. I have not had that situation happen to me, but if it did, would also cut that person off (Venus in Scorpio). I dislike mind games too, and don't have time for shady behavior. Being sincere and direct is key to good communication. I do have an Aquarius friend who like myself, doesn't reply to me the same day, but always does get back to me in a day or two. Blowing people off just isn't cool, if you don't like them, then move on but don't be rudely toying with them. IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 110
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 02:24 PM
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Originally posted by awakemer:
my experience have been with them were either good or bad. I know not all cancer's are like this but they can be soooo pushy/clingy/whiny at times.
Amen.
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RegardesPlatero
Moderator Posts: 3625
From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 15, 2012 03:08 AM
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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Sorry you have experienced that, regardsplatero. That sort of behavior is rude, inconsiderate, and passive agressive. I have not had that situation happen to me, but if it did, would also cut that person off (Venus in Scorpio). I dislike mind games too, and don't have time for shady behavior. Being sincere and direct is key to good communication. I do have an Aquarius friend who like myself, doesn't reply to me the same day, but always does get back to me in a day or two. Blowing people off just isn't cool, if you don't like them, then move on but don't be rudely toying with them.
Yeah, I am sorry that I got intense earlier. It just feels really hurtful to me and it's disconnecting. The thing is, I honestly don't dislike the people themselves, but I do strongly dislike how they treat me. And I can't say anything because they won't change and will just get defensive about it. Plus, who knows, maybe they'd retaliate if I was honest. People say all the time that they want people to be honest and come to them, but when you actually do that, they get mad, even if you're nice and courteous--or they just ignore you. At this point, I don't know what else to do but to avoid, and it aggravates me.
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Lexyr14
Knowflake Posts: 159
From: Tucson,AZ,USA
Registered: May 2012
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posted August 15, 2012 06:52 AM
Leo Sun and mars ...Cancer moon and Mercury conj, cancer Venus.... AND an air void ( hard to detach ) I can be clingy and I know it.. I thrive off of intensity and affection and if you're not that type of person I won't even bother talking to you on that level... lmao... in the same token I'm not a crazy stalker and I don't text someone 10 times who isn't actually texting me back or is being boring..IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
Knowflake Posts: 555
From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 15, 2012 01:11 PM
No worries, regardsplatero  Totally emphatize with you, that sort of treatment isn't good at all. You are right, some people don't take constructive feedback very well & get defensive, it can be a catch 22. IP: Logged |
Junethird
Moderator Posts: 2744
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 15, 2012 01:36 PM
I have my moon in cancer... And i grudgingly admit we may be a wee bit clingy  but its only because we like you  IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
Moderator Posts: 3625
From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 16, 2012 05:55 PM
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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
No worries, regardsplatero Totally emphatize with you, that sort of treatment isn't good at all. You are right, some people don't take constructive feedback very well & get defensive, it can be a catch 22.
exactly hard to really do anything in that situation except keep the anger in and keep smiling (in public, anyway; privately you can vent or do things to cool off the anger) IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Moderator Posts: 3954
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by Junethird:
I have my moon in cancer... And i grudgingly admit we may be a wee bit clingy but its only because we like you
Cancer's are cool lol IP: Logged | |
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