posted August 05, 2012 05:33 AM            

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Originally posted by awakemer:
my experience have been with them were either good or bad. This guy i was talking to.. was so annoying~ he was would text me 10 times what i'm doing.. and then whine and complain A LL THE TIME why i do not respond to each and every text..are you MAD? and when i told him why i'm not interested he wines and says i must hate him.. its like are you a little baby? can't you see how annoyingly clingy you are? and we haven't even gotten together yet.. and this kind of behavhior is NOT cute.. I know not all cancer's are like this but they can be soooo pushy/clingy/whiny at times.

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They can make good friends but for romance I stay away.. they can be a turn off for me. The few experiences I have had with them they tend to be clingy and constantly need reassurance. One Cancer in particular, I noticed he liked things to be sugar coated and he would sugar coat things. I hate sugar coating it's insulting to my nature people who try to sugar coat things when I can very well see what they're doing annoys me to be frank.

Cancerians are for some but certainly not for me. There will be tears. Also I like my space and solitude at times this is hardly possible with Cancers I have experienced even as friends.
They do mean well but I just don't find the men attractive. Aries, Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus are more my cuppa tea.

posted August 05, 2012 10:04 AM            

Most Cancer relationships I've had, I've really been able to pull a lot out of the person and they've unburdened themselves to me quite a lot without me asking. I have a Scorpio stellium but... as an Air sign predominantly it can be a little much for me to process it all. It doesn't mean I don't emotionally like them or care for them, but it can be overwhelming sometimes, that's all.

posted August 05, 2012 10:33 AM            

Hmm..interesting, i'm a cancer, and the only thing that bothers me is when someone takes a whole day to reply to a message when i know that the notification gets sent to their phone, and come on, we know everyone has their phone glued to their face, looking at text messages and facebook. It also bothers me when someone takes over 10 minutes to reply in a text convo. I just dont have the attention span to remember to go back to my phone when ive already set it down and started to do something else, and its annoying, i forget what we're talking about lose motivation to reply and its annoying. I would prefer it go like an instant messenger conversation. I would probably mention it to someone maximum twice if they take over a day to respond to anything i send them, and then i would just ignore their messages. Why should i put up with that when i know the notification is going to your phone, yet you say "oh i'll answer back when i feel like it" and i see you posting other things in other places/chatting with other people. No, sorry. If you're an acquaintance that's fine, i do that to acquaintances all the time, but if ur a best friend, hell no. You better answer my messages right away. Also, i would never reproach someone about forgetting about my birthday. I forget other people's all the time. If it weren't for facebook i wouldnt remember, and if it werent for school everyday i wouldnt know what day it was.

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posted August 05, 2012 10:42 AM            

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Why should i put up with that when i know the notification is going to your phone, yet you say "oh i'll answer back when i feel like it" and i see you posting other things in other places/chatting with other people. No, sorry. If you're an acquaintance that's fine, i do that to acquaintances all the time, but if ur a best friend, hell no. You better answer my messages right away.

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But texting is so that people can answer at their leisure. Most of the time people are doing other things and not just staring at their phones waiting for people to text them. If you want a quick answer, just CALL THEM.

posted August 05, 2012 10:50 AM            

somebody answering at their leisure means ill have to keep checking back on my phone and that is tiring. also it's annoying when ur excited to talk to them and u want the conversation to go faster.

posted August 05, 2012 12:08 PM            

The Crab wants all of the normal cancer traits all to themselves, compassion, nurturing, comfort etc. Whereas the Lunar is fulfilled by giving those things out to others.

The Crab tries to hide its feelings, and becomes moody and clingy. Sort of "Hoarding" everything with their crab claws . Crab cancers can also be surprisingly mean as they try to pretend like they have no feeling and they close their "shell". Sometimes out to hurt others in the way they feel they have been hurt.

The Lunar on the other hand shines like a full moon, with their feelings out there for everyone to see. They cry a lot and let their feelings flow. They are the first person to come hug you and comfort you and ask you if you are ok. They will go out of their way to make sure everyone feels comfortable and loved, especially FAMILY! The Lunar lives a much harder but more fulfilling life IMO, as they confront their feelings more which is hard for Cancer to do. Being more receptive as a person also makes them more susceptible. If they can handle the ups and downs they will be more open and there will be more possibilities for positive experience.

I have met a certain amount of Crabs, and a few Lunars. I haven't dated any yet, but I would like to date a Lunar as I am quite partial to Cancers . Probably my Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon probably helps as well .

posted August 05, 2012 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by depth:
Im0, all 3 water signs are clingy. I can't stand those with a water stellium or a water m0on in a r0mantic partnership. They're c0ol as friends but anything m0re is a strict NO. They text you about hundred times a day, get ann0yed and insecure if you reply late or d0n't reply at all for legitimate reas0ns, keep calling... Last week, this cancer asked me, 'did you wish me on my birthday? No! Why?' jawdrop! She had a wounded expressi0n on her face. My experience with a pisces m0oner was worse. Scorpios are fine. Better than the 2.

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I'm not clingy, Im a loner. I have close friends but the most we see eachother is 2 times a month, and there the ones that always call when they want to hang out. I prefer to be in my own little bubble.

posted August 05, 2012 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
That's just cray cray. I think that's just called being clueless and insensitive to social cues? Also just being plain insensitive. I mean come on, 10 times in one day? Or even 2 times in one day is annoying for me.

Hmm..interesting, i'm a cancer, and the only thing that bothers me is when someone takes a whole day to reply to a message when i know that the notification gets sent to their phone, and come on, we know everyone has their phone glued to their face, looking at text messages and facebook. It also bothers me when someone takes over 10 minutes to reply in a text convo. I just dont have the attention span to remember to go back to my phone when ive already set it down and started to do something else, and its annoying, i forget what we're talking about lose motivation to reply and its annoying. I would prefer it go like an instant messenger conversation. I would probably mention it to someone maximum twice if they take over a day to respond to anything i send them, and then i would just ignore their messages. Why should i put up with that when i know the notification is going to your phone, yet you say "oh i'll answer back when i feel like it" and i see you posting other things in other places/chatting with other people. No, sorry. If you're an acquaintance that's fine, i do that to acquaintances all the time, but if ur a best friend, hell no. You better answer my messages right away. Also, i would never reproach someone about forgetting about my birthday. I forget other people's all the time. If it weren't for facebook i wouldnt remember, and if it werent for school everyday i wouldnt know what day it was.

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I'm the same way. It annoys me. It annoys me more if I'm in a romantic r/s and the guy is online on IM and STILL doesn't respond. Ironically they get ****** when I do the same. It's like this...

Me: Hey, how was your day?
Guy: Good, what abt you?
Me: blah blah blah.
Guy: blah blah
Me: So what's up?
Guy: (30mins later.) Nm, so want to watch a movie or someting?
By this time I'm gone.
Guy: I guess you're gone, gn.

After a couple hours...
Me: Hey
Guy: Hey! I missed you.
Me: Ok. So....
Guy: So...
Me: Anyway..
Guy: Yeah?
Me: Nothing
Guy: Are you mad at me?
Me: Why did you take so long?
Guy: I did?
Me: ...

Now when I'm genuinely busy.....

posted August 05, 2012 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
I'm not clingy either lol
Scorpio moon

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posted August 05, 2012 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Wait you're a cancer sun and a scorpio moon?

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posted August 05, 2012 01:03 PM            

I'm a fire sun but all my other personal planets are in water. I vibe well with clingyness and I love almost all Cancer placements (Cancer mars I am always attracted to but in practice it doesn't do much for me). I love to be needed and wanted. Being a Saggi sun, I do occasionally need time alone and bounce from clique to clique of friends, but none of my Cancer-influenced friends have seemed to mind too, too much after years of this.

posted August 05, 2012 01:04 PM            

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posted August 05, 2012 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Are u guys making fun of me cos I'm not cancer sun?

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No, sweetie.

Never.

I was laughing at the chat convo she posted

Sorry I'm too lazy to press the quote button. Ah.
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"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." - Lao Tzu

posted August 05, 2012 05:45 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
That's just cray cray. I think that's just called being clueless and insensitive to social cues? Also just being plain insensitive. I mean come on, 10 times in one day? Or even 2 times in one day is annoying for me.

Hmm..interesting, i'm a cancer, and the only thing that bothers me is when someone takes a whole day to reply to a message when i know that the notification gets sent to their phone, and come on, we know everyone has their phone glued to their face, looking at text messages and facebook. It also bothers me when someone takes over 10 minutes to reply in a text convo. I just dont have the attention span to remember to go back to my phone when ive already set it down and started to do something else, and its annoying, i forget what we're talking about lose motivation to reply and its annoying. I would prefer it go like an instant messenger conversation. I would probably mention it to someone maximum twice if they take over a day to respond to anything i send them, and then i would just ignore their messages. Why should i put up with that when i know the notification is going to your phone, yet you say "oh i'll answer back when i feel like it" and i see you posting other things in other places/chatting with other people. No, sorry. If you're an acquaintance that's fine, i do that to acquaintances all the time, but if ur a best friend, hell no. You better answer my messages right away. Also, i would never reproach someone about forgetting about my birthday. I forget other people's all the time. If it weren't for facebook i wouldnt remember, and if it werent for school everyday i wouldnt know what day it was.

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Yeah he didn't text 10 times.. but more like 2 or 3 times. I initially said im not interested in him but he kept saying i should try him out etc etc.He seemed very immature. I wouldnt' answer to his texts and he would go on.. like "how is your day" "i'm near your house" etc and I'd just ignore..after ignoring and saying to f off nicely he would text AGAIN like nothing happened like i didn't say f off and to leave me alone.. i would get "hi how was your day?" WTF.. I told him to please stop messaging me that didn't do it. He kept saying "why do you hate me ?" I told him again im not interested and then he didn't get it. then i just blocked him. He has issues.. i think its his cancer traits mixed with some kind of mental illness. If someone says you are not interested you LET GO. I've had this happen a few times before... one was a scoprio moon.. another also watery person..I have never had this happen with someone who has either a air sun/moon or fire sun/moon. I 'm a leo sun and moon.