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Topic: Why do all libra women do this??
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pancakes22
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posted August 18, 2012 02:22 PM
  
I've met a good ammount of libra women. They'll have the greateat conversation, be so into you, keep asking you questions. She's usually gorgeous so it feela great. Then all of a sudden she flips a switch and is no longer entertaining. Doesn't initiate convo, short responses through texts,etc. What gives? IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted August 18, 2012 02:42 PM
i am not aware that ALL libra women do this. Perhaps you need to see where Libra is in your chart and what planets of yours are making aspects to it and why this is happening to YOU. Most of the time, there is something in the chart that triggers a particular type of reaction to a particular sign. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted August 18, 2012 03:19 PM
omg I also have lots of experience with libra women and I have encountered the same stuff!IP: Logged |
maira
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posted August 18, 2012 03:52 PM
not ALL Libra women do this  *but the ones who do: you caved They are flirtatious and will bend over backwards to win you over, for no reason at all (sort of like Gemini men do). When you're smitten, it's usually game over, if the person they were trying to woo was not long term material to begin with. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted August 18, 2012 05:28 PM
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Originally posted by pancakes22:
I've met a good ammount of libra women. They'll have the greateat conversation, be so into you, keep asking you questions. She's usually gorgeous so it feela great. Then all of a sudden she flips a switch and is no longer entertaining. Doesn't initiate convo, short responses through texts,etc. What gives?
yeah, i do this. men might not be aware of it, but libra girls like a challenge and if you're not one... it's easy to move on. plsu, we're (at times) indecisive, so maybe the libra gals just changed their mind IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted August 18, 2012 05:43 PM
Maybe she's just not into you. shrug.IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted August 18, 2012 06:00 PM
Im a sun libra stellium/7th h stellium woman and I have never done this before. Maybe I have too much pluto/saturn energy in my chart?
Sounds like your attracting the player type of libra, that type is simular to the bad geminis. But if she had really been into you she wouldnt have done this so its no great loss to you.
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C1ND3R
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posted August 19, 2012 12:10 PM
I know one with mars in cancer and venus in libra who does this... It's usually to other men and she'll string em along FOREVER and never let up that she's not interested. Psychic vampires, is what i've learned to call em.. I've met two guys with moon in libra that also do it, too... I have mars in aries and seeing it drives me NUTS!!! If they're not willing to take action, i usually am the one who'll initiate it for them. They find the behaviour to be "nice" of them but it isn't,. When they're so deep in sh*t, who cares about a dandelion? What they're doing is sitting on the fence, just in case and if ever they were forced to choose a side, they like to have options and will keep em open almost at all costs and at other people's expense... One astrologer referred to libra as the constellation not of love or the scales but, of the venus flytrap! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted August 19, 2012 12:25 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Maybe she's just not into you. shrug.
well yeah. but why must they act like they are? IP: Logged |
Padre35
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From: charlotte, NC, US
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posted August 19, 2012 12:36 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Maybe she's just not into you. shrug.
Yep. Libra women I've dated tended to be really into it, or not at all, no middle ground and really not much mystery. The Scorpattarius in me does not mind that approach as it is better to know upfront then not to know. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted August 19, 2012 12:44 PM
I do that when I feel hurt, or if I feel like I am annoying someone and they don't want me around. If I feel like someone doesn't like me, I go cold and distant. Other times, I just feel sad or crabby or irritable. We all have our off-moments. Even Libras. Also, as for romance, I have to point out that Libras are highly social people. Just because a Libra talks to you or likes hanging out or is charming does NOT mean that she is interested romantically or sexually. Guys tend to think that any contact is automatically interest, and it just is not that way. We like to get along with everyone and be nice, most of us, anyway. It's not our fault that people take that the wrong way. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted August 19, 2012 12:53 PM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Yep.Libra women I've dated tended to be really into it, or not at all, no middle ground and really not much mystery. The Scorpattarius in me does not mind that approach as it is better to know upfront then not to know.
I haven't noticed that. I notice they tend to be really into you then suddenly change their mind.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted August 19, 2012 12:55 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I do that when I feel hurt, or if I feel like I am annoying someone and they don't want me around. If I feel like someone doesn't like me, I go cold and distant. Other times, I just feel sad or crabby or irritable. We all have our off-moments. Even Libras. Also, as for romance, I have to point out that Libras are highly social people. Just because a Libra talks to you or likes hanging out or is charming does NOT mean that she is interested romantically or sexually. Guys tend to think that any contact is automatically interest, and it just is not that way. We like to get along with everyone and be nice, most of us, anyway. It's not our fault that people take that the wrong way.
yea I agree. but with all the experience I have with libras I have noticed they will flirt and lead you on sometimes, they are responsible for that.IP: Logged |
7thGuardian
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posted August 19, 2012 01:03 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I do that when I feel hurt, or if I feel like I am annoying someone and they don't want me around. If I feel like someone doesn't like me, I go cold and distant. Other times, I just feel sad or crabby or irritable. We all have our off-moments. Even Libras. Also, as for romance, I have to point out that Libras are highly social people. Just because a Libra talks to you or likes hanging out or is charming does NOT mean that she is interested romantically or sexually. Guys tend to think that any contact is automatically interest, and it just is not that way. We like to get along with everyone and be nice, most of us, anyway. It's not our fault that people take that the wrong way.
Not sure if this is a pattern - but i noticed this behavior in some libras ... they have a huge fight with their bf or don't get along for the time being - and look for attention in other place "and they're really in to it with that newly found friend" - they open-up as other would do only when falling in love - which might confuse the other person... then latter - they get back with their bf and from that point - they engage the other person only on a passive level... might even ignore him...
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ail221
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posted August 19, 2012 01:05 PM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Yep.Libra women I've dated tended to be really into it, or not at all, no middle ground and really not much mystery. The Scorpattarius in me does not mind that approach as it is better to know upfront then not to know.
Libra women have a natural charm that draws people and men to them. My mom has this odd ability, which I finally found out about after looking at her chart; Uranus and Jupiter in Libra in her first house, Uranus conjunct her Sun, Mercury in her 2nd house honestly their not always flirting or playing mind games. There's a natural Venusian Charm/politeness libra's and libra dominated people possess. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted August 19, 2012 01:13 PM
As a Libra woman with a lot of Scorp in me, I can attest that I do continue to interact with guys after great first convos but, like the Justice card of the tarot suit, I will not tolerate one person shouldering too much of the relationship...meaning, I'll quickly begin to feel scorned and annoyed if I'm the only one making plans or texting. So it's a little like retreating and playing hard to get without malicious intentions, if I feel the guy is too distant. Libra women play gentle games, but they don't usually have bad intentions. They can just annoy the heck out of you since they usually have a bit of a hidden agenda behind why they do things. Meaning, they'll pretend to be aloof solely to get their partner's attention, even if they aren't upset. But they do it in an insanely, frustratingly cute and coy way so you can't get angry at them for it most of the time. It's all about deploying little tactics like these to make it 'fair', but in actuality it also helps her feel like her partner has just as much devotion and interest. Sometimes though, certain guys do not do well with the cute games. They get annoyed with the BS. I know a few Scorp Sun guys who were like this with me.... IP: Logged |
Padre35
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From: charlotte, NC, US
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posted August 19, 2012 01:14 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Libra women have a natural charm that draws people and men to them. My mom has this odd ability, which I finally found out about after looking at her chart; Uranus and Jupiter in Libra in her first house, Uranus conjunct her Sun, Mercury in her 2nd house honestly their not always flirting or playing mind games. There's a natural Venusian Charm/politeness libra's and libra dominated people possess.
Flirty can be taken the wrong way, for myself w/Sagi Sun/Leo Moon/Aries Asc I tend to be very direct so it tends to end or grow very quickly..one way or another...but it happens fast either way. Less room for misunderstandings that way.
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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 19, 2012 01:17 PM
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Originally posted by pancakes22:
I've met a good ammount of libra women. They'll have the greateat conversation, be so into you, keep asking you questions. She's usually gorgeous so it feela great. Then all of a sudden she flips a switch and is no longer entertaining. Doesn't initiate convo, short responses through texts,etc. What gives?
You bored her,and she doesn't know how to say it smoothly enough,in order not to hurt you? IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted August 19, 2012 02:04 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Libra women have a natural charm that draws people and men to them. [...] There's a natural Venusian Charm/politeness libra's and libra dominated people possess.
^ this. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted August 19, 2012 02:05 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
You bored her,and she doesn't know how to say it smoothly enough,in order not to hurt you?
^ that is also a possibility we hate conflict in relationships; I can't stress that enough we can balance ideas and hold things in tension in our heads, but in our hearts, not so much
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RegardesPlatero
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posted August 19, 2012 02:07 PM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
As a Libra woman with a lot of Scorp in me, I can attest that I do continue to interact with guys after great first convos but, like the Justice card of the tarot suit, I will not tolerate one person shouldering too much of the relationship...meaning, I'll quickly begin to feel scorned and annoyed if I'm the only one making plans or texting. So it's a little like retreating and playing hard to get without malicious intentions, if I feel the guy is too distant.
I do that too, though in the context of friendship. If I feel like someone is avoiding me, it tells me that the person thinks I'm disgusting, creepy, annoying, and doesn't want to deal with me. So, I retreat. If the person comes back, they like me and things are good. If they don't, I was right. Makes things simple. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted August 19, 2012 05:09 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
yeah, i do this. men might not be aware of it, but libra girls like a challenge and if you're not one... it's easy to move on. plsu, we're (at times) indecisive, so maybe the libra gals just changed their mind
I do this too. We get bored.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted August 19, 2012 06:24 PM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
As a Libra woman with a lot of Scorp in me, I can attest that I do continue to interact with guys after great first convos but, like the Justice card of the tarot suit, I will not tolerate one person shouldering too much of the relationship...meaning, I'll quickly begin to feel scorned and annoyed if I'm the only one making plans or texting. So it's a little like retreating and playing hard to get without malicious intentions, if I feel the guy is too distant. Libra women play gentle games, but they don't usually have bad intentions. They can just annoy the heck out of you since they usually have a bit of a hidden agenda behind why they do things. Meaning, they'll pretend to be aloof solely to get their partner's attention, even if they aren't upset. But they do it in an insanely, frustratingly cute and coy way so you can't get angry at them for it most of the time. It's all about deploying little tactics like these to make it 'fair', but in actuality it also helps her feel like her partner has just as much devotion and interest. Sometimes though, certain guys do not do well with the cute games. They get annoyed with the BS. I know a few Scorp Sun guys who were like this with me....
lol my experience is they expect the guys to make all the calls/texts
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awakemer
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posted August 19, 2012 06:25 PM
I've had that with libra men as well.. to be honest I don't feel Libra's have a lot of substance and can't handle my depthness. I really like them thought  it will only work if they have some water or fire in them. IP: Logged |
awakemer
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posted August 19, 2012 06:28 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
^ that is also a possibilitywe hate conflict in relationships; I can't stress that enough we can balance ideas and hold things in tension in our heads, but in our hearts, not so much
Hmmm well on his defense.. maybe he did bore her but if he is not experiencing it with any other sign maybe there is something to it? I rarely get told i'm bored but i find my conversations with Libras tend to be lacking in substance.. i'm not into talking about superficial things.. maybe its just incompatibility. IP: Logged |
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