posted August 25, 2012 04:36 PM            

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its totally cool no need to apologise truth be told i find your little fights very funny !

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posted August 26, 2012 07:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
It's better when we leave it alone but apparently, there will be flare-ups.

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YES it IS better when you leave it alone.
And that is what you had PREVIOUSLY agreed to do.

But lookie here. On a PET PEEVE thread of all places. You just wouldn't quit:

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Originally posted by Faith:
Sure! It was mere coincidence that you imitated my comment verbatim with the first phrase, directly after I posted it.

Earth to Neptune, literally, you are whacked out if you think anyone buys that.

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Are you wearing a tin foil hat too? Because it seems you have me confused with a PLANET!

Sadly, now I know that your word is meaningless. So now I know what to EXPECT from you.

Try if you can to keep that stick out of your ass because you're still never getting an apology from me over my comment about my relationship. Guess you'll never be able to get over yourself.

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she has rained down slander on me

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You need to correct yourself here. You have been HOUNDING me on threads after I had repeatedly asked you to ignore my comments. Because if you start with me again, it's going to come right back to you.

And do you know why? Why of course you do.
Because you don't respond to simple requests, made directly or indirectly, as evidenced by this thread, to just let it go.

So let's be mindful or where we stand, just for future reference sake, shall we.

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Stating this for the record, because I'm at that point, anticipating the usual deluge of insults after I go.

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As a reply to your deluge of insults when I had asked you to let it go. More of this from me:
Your manipulative spin on things is so, well I'd like to say refreshing...BUT it's just plain ol' predictable.

Glad that you've finally finished this round. I'll be ready when you decide to go at it again, seeing as you just can't help yourself. And then of course, yet again, you'll be playing victim and crying wolf. But next time, just try not to embarrass yourself by "starting sh*t" on a pet peeve thread.

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Are we quite comical? You know Faith and I both have Leo Rising.
I'm Pisces Sun/Capricorn Moon. She's Capricorn Sun/Pisces Moon.
So the Earth --> Neptune comment should really be LOL right now. Maybe you were talking to yourself, Faith dear?
She has Aquarius Mercury opp Saturn so she's naturally critical and has to monitor her words lest she come out looking like a complete doofus (her schoolyard banter has 'inspired' me, temporarily ). And here I am, also with Mercury in Aquarius, and I believe it's opposed to her Saturn; she's been wanting to silence and squash practically every comment I make, projecting that devil of an aspect in my direction. I can only be eternally grateful that I don't have to deal with it in my natal, because if it's anything like the BS I get from her, it's a nightmare. And we might or might not have Mars sq Mars and/or Mars sq Sun. See, she's also been getting off on trying to "turn others against me" because she thinks I have some big upstanding reputation here (I remember at one time her and Aquacheeka both alluding to me as a SAINT ), so she thinks she's really sticking it to me with her pithy comments. HA! I don't give a fig about any "rep" (and I definitely don't want to be a saint) -- that's all about her and her Capricorn or Saturn something. I have Sun/Uranus here so I'm A-OK flying solo and being me. Faith just hates that. Stay tuned (!)

posted August 26, 2012 05:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
As a reply to your deluge of insults when I had asked you to [b]let it go. More of this from me:
Your manipulative spin on things is so, well I'd like to say refreshing...BUT it's just plain ol' predictable.

Glad that you've finally finished this round. I'll be ready when you decide to go at it again, seeing as you just can't help yourself. And then of course, yet again, you'll be playing victim and crying wolf. But next time, just try not to embarrass yourself by "starting sh*t" on a pet peeve thread.

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@lovehate122
Are we quite comical? You know Faith and I both have Leo Rising.
I'm Pisces Sun/Capricorn Moon. She's Capricorn Sun/Pisces Moon.
So the Earth --> Neptune comment should really be LOL right now. Maybe you were talking to yourself, Faith dear?
She has Aquarius Mercury opp Saturn so she's naturally critical and has to monitor her words lest she come out looking like a complete doofus (her schoolyard banter has 'inspired' me, temporarily ). And here I am, also with Mercury in Aquarius, and I believe it's opposed to her Saturn; she's been wanting to silence and squash practically every comment I make, projecting that devil of an aspect in my direction. I can only be eternally grateful that I don't have to deal with it in my natal, because if it's anything like the BS I get from her, it's a nightmare. And we might or might not have Mars sq Mars and/or Mars sq Sun. See, she's also been getting off on trying to "turn others against me" because she thinks I have some big upstanding reputation here (I remember at one time her and Aquacheeka both alluding to me as a SAINT ), so she thinks she's really sticking it to me with her pithy comments. HA! I don't give a fig about any "rep" (and I definitely don't want to be a saint) -- that's all about her and her Capricorn or Saturn something. I have Sun/Uranus here so I'm A-OK flying solo and being me. Faith just hates that. Stay tuned (!)

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posted August 26, 2012 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
^LMAO!

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posted August 26, 2012 06:21 PM            

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whats that supposed to mean . watchu tryna say ...!!

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posted August 26, 2012 11:40 PM            

After seeing Lonake's post and observing her usual total lack of respect for the truth, I realized that I am not done after all.

This would have been the third time I just let Lonake slam me, without fighting back, for the sake of the general peace. But I'm seeing that it doesn't do any good. I get no credit for leaving her alone, I get no credit for being the one who lets it drop.

If I get no credit, why do it? I'm no doormat.

Lonake,

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You have been HOUNDING me on threads after I had repeatedly asked you to ignore my comments.

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That's a serious allegation so I will have to ask you to PROVE THAT, with links.

Of course, you know that you can't, I am just calling your bluff. Also, try and find me even criticizing your chart. This offer also stands for anyone reading this.

I guess today must've been the first time I said something kind of negative that pertained to a group of people including you? So you pounced on your chance to fly off the handle, take it personally, turn it into some big thing. The usual.

Last time I uttered a word to you was over two months ago, on this thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/214115-3.html

It would have ended there except you started with me here. Seriously, WHO KNEW you would confront me directly for that, when you yourself boast of not being overly sensitive? Then, astonishingly, you pretend that you didn't start this, when the record is right here on this thread for all to see.
This whole notion that you weren't alluding to my comment when you imitated it right away is batty as all get out!

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Because if you start with me again, it's going to come right back to you.

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Hey! DITTO! OBVIOUSLY. You don't get to sh*t all over me just because you have sun square Uranus and love "being you."

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And then of course, yet again, you'll be playing victim and crying wolf.

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Regarding victimhood: I love how you're whining here about your poor Mercury being crushed by my Saturn. Boo hoo. AS IF all the negativity between us is caused by my planets attacking yours.

That is pretty funny. Good astrology there.

And Saturn opposed Mercury people = doofuses

Classic. I'll remember that if anyone else posts a thread about it. "Our supposedly best astrologer here, Lonake, says this is the 'doofus' aspect."

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(I remember at one time her and Aquacheeka both alluding to me as a SAINT )

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Did I? Prove it.

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I have Sun/Uranus here so I'm A-OK flying solo and being me. Faith just hates that. Stay tuned (!)

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How dare you say what I hate?

My daughter has that aspect and, not that it's ANY of your business, we get along great. My husband is sun conjunct Uranus EXACT. I've never complained about sun-Uranus aspects. But when you "just being you" means instigating fight after fight with me, and then trying to PIN it on me, that is super annoying, to put it mildly.

It shouldn't really have to be said, but having sun square Uranus doesn't give you a free pass to say whatever b!tchy, insane thing you want, while trying to gag me.

The fact that you even attempt that line of "argumentation" does our Aquarius Mercury no justice.

posted August 27, 2012 02:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
This would have been the third time I just let Lonake slam me, without fighting back, for the sake of the general peace. But I'm seeing that it doesn't do any good. I get no credit for leaving her alone, I get no credit for being the one who lets it drop.

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I can see how this is going to play out.

I let it drop by making a joke about it (if you didn't notice, I laughed at myself in the process) and you kept on pounding on about it, kept right on steamrolling through.

Credit for that? Absolutely not. This is your brainwashing attempt at its finest.

I knew that you'd be at it again, I just didn't think it'd be so soon.
I figured at least a week judging by the tone of your last post.
Not exactly happy to be proven wrong, but not surprised either.

-----"I just let Lonake slam me"

Well when you're asked to quit and yet keep hounding me, well then one good slam deserves another!
I ignored you for a good long while, but that wasn't helping me ANY because you were right up my ass, imagining that my posts were directed at you, all about you.
I then thought, well OK: I asked her to ignore me, that didn't work.
I ignored her, but she likes to play like she's a bug up my ass.
So, hey. If she wants it, here it is.
THEN we had a lil chat on cappy's thread.
BUT BOY it seems you keep on WANTING IT.
I'm throwing every ounce right back at you. You don't like it? Then quit.
From when you didn't like a comment that I made about my relationship you were the one hounding me when I asked you to just ignore.

-----"I'm no doormat."

And it bothers you that I'm not one either.
Did you like it better when I ignored you so you could just keep on with your nasty comments with no one to step in?
This was PRIOR to our chat on cappy's thread.

-----"It shouldn't really have to be said, but having sun square Uranus doesn't give you a free pass to say whatever b!tchy, insane thing you want, while trying to gag me."

Oh please don't misunderstand. Stating that aspect was absolutely NO EXCUSE on my part (Sun/Uranus). In that paragraph I was simply stating astro aspects as lovehate122 had wondered about. And adding some extras!

-----"The fact that you even attempt that line of "argumentation" does our Aquarius Mercury no justice."

Already explained. See above.

-----"while trying to gag me"

This is a new one from you. Obviously stealing another one of my arguments.
You do realize that we're DIFFERENT PEOPLE, correct?
Sometimes I wonder since after you read my posts you get new ideas and twist my words around to use them against me.
I guess this is your "suave" argument technique, or dirty manipulation ploy. I've lost track, there are just so many variants.
I have told you multiple times how it annoys me that you keep trying to censor my comments.
You're the one trying to gag me. Not the reverse.
If I want to gag you then it's only in the sense of getting you to ignore me. Of which I remain unsuccessful and have stopped trying.
If you meant that I wanted to gag you literally, then that is absolutely not the case and way off the mark.

-----"That's a serious allegation so I will have to ask you to PROVE THAT, with links.
-----Of course, you know that you can't, I am just calling your bluff."

Nice one. So if I don't do HOURS of looking through LL over the past months and drag up every little thing then that means it never happened, correct? And I'll be discredited because I'd rather spend my hours elsewhere?

(To which you reply: "Yes!" )

Because, what? You forgot all about it?

Because you think if I do I'll be right, you'll be wrong, and you'll be given a warning, or banned?
No sweetie, don't worry. You won't. You won't be given a warning and you won't be banned and no one will ever tell you that you can't keep going around trying to do whatever it is here that you like to do.
That might satisfy you for a bit, since I know how lalalinda and Randall will handle this: they won't.

And it'll make you look good to your 'supporters' here, right?
Frankly I don't care how you look to people.
So, hey. If me not going through hundreds (maybe thousands) of posts will assuage your ego JUST ONE LIL BIT,
then there: You've got it.

Doesn't mean it didn't happen. Just means that I'd have to care more about it than I do.

posted August 27, 2012 02:58 AM            

Trying to turn my argument against me, AGAIN.
You're the one who kept thinking that I was talking about your chart.
And actually no, you didn't say anything that pertained to my chart in the slightest.
And if you had, would I have cared? Nah.
Our last tiff was about this entire subject, and how you just couldn't let it go.
So again: at this attempt to turn my words around.

-----"Also, try and find me even criticizing your chart."

Where did THAT one come from? LOL. Nope, and I never threw that allegation at you, either.
Good imagination tho!

-----"Last time I uttered a word to you was over two months ago, on this thread"

Yea, you stayed behind on page 3, editing your post to respond to my new comments so that it'd look like you didn't make any new posts, hence my final comments on page 4 since I didn't edit my posts to avoid making new ones. I remember that.

-----"It would have ended there except you started with me here."

I listed a pet peeve on a pet peeve thread. I've stated that, how many times. It bores me to reiterate that.
Talk about being overly-sensitive.
Being over-sensitive obviously isn't the worst thing in the world. It's just not what I'm prone to be.

-----"Then, astonishingly, you pretend that you didn't start this, when the record is right here on this thread for all to see."

See above.

-----"WHO KNEW you would confront me directly for that"

Who knew that you'd freak on a pet peeve thread, esp when later you alluded to your comment being directed at my long list. It's OK that people don't like long lists. Red Scorp didn't seem to either.
Who cares? It's a flippin list.
If I was gonna bug out about someone not liking my long ass list, I would've bugged out on Red Scorp who was the first to respond.

-----"is batty as all get out"

I remember using that phrase and you taking offense at it. LOL. But I don't own it, so fair use all around
YES I CAN BE BATTY. I will never deny that.
BUT that doesn't apply to your lil tiff here. It might apply to some of my pet peeves, tho!!!

-----"Regarding victimhood: I love how you're whining here about your poor Mercury being crushed by my Saturn. Boo hoo.
-----AS IF all the negativity between us is caused by my planets attacking yours."

Already responded to comment similar to this above. Reiterating here:
The gal was asking about our synastry specifically.
Did you just put blinders on part way through this thread??? That would explain a few things!

-----"And Saturn opposed Mercury people"

Self-critical, wary of appearing stupid, fearful of being judged, critical of others, etc.
But if by chance you think you're a doofus, well then that's no business of mine.

-----"Did I? Prove it."

You, indirectly. Hence, alluded. And it was on one of my threads. Aquacheeka, directly. On her thread.
This one I remember easily because it was my thread and you really bugged out.

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I have an issue with someone who is very influential here, yet who persistently makes sweeping, negative remarks, many of them obviously directed at me, ie I am "batty as all get out."
When I have tried to defend myself, I get stomped by Lonake's friends. Of whom there are many because she CAN be nice. *

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Same as what Aquacheeka implied. That I'm so "influential" and that people NEVER take issue with ANYTHING I say.
We both know people take issue a bit, sometimes more than a bit, as some people take issue with others on this board, and I'm not bothered by that. It's all about perception.

posted August 27, 2012 03:48 AM            

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It's OK that people don't like long lists. Red Scorp didn't seem to either.

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I was more marvelling...after all, the more peeves, the higher the chance of valuable Lonake info! (Ps I love food...especially the cooking of others! All the flavours...)

But Lonake going ape on me? I'd be running for the hills!

posted August 27, 2012 09:08 AM            

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BUT BOY it seems you keep on WANTING IT.
I'm throwing every ounce right back at you. You don't like it? Then quit.

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*YOU* started this fight.

Two months, NO INTERACTION. And you get all the credit for opening the can of worms again here.

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I have told you multiple times how it annoys me that you keep trying to censor my comments.

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I don't censor your comments or you would have maybe ONE IOTA OF PROOF for this.

Like, MAYBE when we were in the middle of fighting, and you opened a new thread saying sun square Pluto people "want to control everyone and everything in their environment," and I called BS on that. Maybe then I was "censoring."

I call it, offering my opinion. Seeing as how you take it upon yourself to ridicule just about everything in my chart, you know?

It's "CENSORING" if I differ?

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Nice one. So if I don't do HOURS of looking through LL over the past months and drag up every little thing then that means it never happened, correct? And I'll be discredited because I'd rather spend my hours elsewhere?

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Just find ONE then.

Edit: Wait, one wouldn't be "hounding" would it? Even if you did find one, that still wouldn't be hounding. Also, I invited the whole community here to help you in your search.

I've got several links showing how I was minding my own beeswax and you barged in to insult me.

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"Last time I uttered a word to you was over two months ago, on this thread"

Yea,

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What's that? Did I catch a 'YEA'? Wouldn't that be like an admission that I haven't been hounding you?

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Who cares? It's a flippin list.

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Right, so...me saying it's "kind of" annoying when they are long...that was just about the lists. Not really about the people who make the lists even, except they seem like in a bad mood pounding away all their peeves.

You turn this into "not giving people room to be themselves." Ah the magic of hyperbole. Good job escalating things.

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YES I CAN BE BATTY. I will never deny that.

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At least you have self-awareness. In return, I will admit that I can be a Saturn-Mercury idiot sometimes.

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-"Did I? Prove it."

You, indirectly. Hence, alluded.

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In other words, no I never called you a saint. Not my word.

* Edit: The whole issue with Aquacheeka wasn't even really about you. As I said there, at the time, I did like you. What prompted me to step in and offer my opinion was, Aquacheeka was fighting against three mods at once, who were all trying to silence her.

I thought that was really unfortunate. Why couldn't you and Aquacheeka battle it out WITHOUT two ADDITIONAL mods jumping on her? Does't that suggest a forum dynamic that is rather dysfunctional? If what Aquacheeka was saying was so offensive, why didn't someone shut down the thread earlier?

Then aquaguy and Natively Joan stepped in to observe that it wasn't exactly all Aquacheeka's fault, either.

Aquacheeka referring to you as a "saint" was her criticism of the mods, who wouldn't let her state her argument...they were acting as if you are above reproach.

posted August 27, 2012 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
YO! DID A REPLY OF MINE VANISH??? Basically it was something like this but more authentic (and winsome):

I was more marvelling...after all, the more peeves, the higher the chance of valuable Lonake info! (Ps I love food...especially the cooking of others! All the flavours...)

But Lonake going ape on me? I'd be running for the hills!

Also, lovehate122; do you think we should argue or duke it out or something...Lonake and Faith are showing us up!

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posted August 29, 2012 03:49 PM            

-----"say that I am somehow building a coalition against you"
Actually you've misunderstood if you think that I intimated that.

-----"Does't that suggest a forum dynamic that is rather dysfunctional?"
People speak up when they wish. If you think the forum's dysfunctional then that's no business of mine.

-----"why didn't someone shut down the thread earlier?"
Why are you bringing me questions that should be directed to Randall or the mod of that forum?

-----"At least you have self-awareness"
O why thank you. Yes I do. You don't know me so you wouldn't know just how much.

-----"not giving people room to be themselves"
My Pet Peeve. How kind of you to notice that I was stating My Pet Peeve.
As were you.
On a pet peeve thread.

----"And you get all the credit for opening the can of worms again here."
What adult keeps harping on about people "starting it"? And on an internet message board?

----"that I haven't been hounding you?"
O you did awhl rite and we already had our lil chat about that on cappy's thread.
BTW if you have an issue with me again that is off topic, make a thread for it in LL Central.
This is getting too weird having this chat with you on someone's astro thread.

----"I've got several links showing how I was minding my own beeswax and you barged in to insult me."
How wicked of me. You poor innocent thing, I'm so incredibly evil ::sarcastic cackle::
Just don't pull up the ones where you were imagining things, as in the thread that I linked to in my last post, cos that's not gonna fly.
But if that is your idea of an insult then I have a few recent ones that I could pull up about you 'barging in,' if I were so inclined to twist your words around as you like to twist mine, and go through these posts.
But then all we'd be doing is trading un-cared for posts, back n forth, ad nauseam.
This seems a strange thing for you to do, since it seems by your other comment that you're not inclined to *escalate* things. And BTW, we already went over this.

----"Maybe then I was "censoring."
Nah, your example isn't censoring but thanks for insinuating yet again something that I never said. But funny that you should defend it. That's just not caring for my post and reading it as directed at you (!)

posted August 30, 2012 07:09 AM            

You never coughed up the proof I requested for your allegation that I've been hounding you.

Also, "starting it" DOES become an issue here, when we have a tacit agreement not to talk, and you jab me directly, then insist that you didn't.

Apparently, you think you have a right to instigate and then slander. You won't prove your case about "hounding" (maybe because you can't, because I haven't been hounding you.) And you are just plain lying about the "it's kind of annoying" remark.

posted August 30, 2012 08:33 AM            

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women who make men carry their bags + the men who carry them.

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posted August 30, 2012 01:45 PM            

"You never coughed up the proof I requested for your allegation that I've been hounding you."
---Did you even read my reply? You know for a fact we've already gone over that so don't try to paint me in some way that satisfies you.

"Also, "starting it" DOES become an issue here"
---The issue is, and has always been, your paranoia.

posted August 30, 2012 02:00 PM            

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ok.. would u rather i bought u one, and u carry it OR i carry your existing bag?

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posted August 30, 2012 02:15 PM            

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Carry my existing bag,when I am off from plane,for example

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that doesn't count! i was gonna say not a travel bag! smh! handbag!