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Topic: Non manly men
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 10:34 PM
I dont mean this as offensive in anyway. So excuse me if it comes across as such.. I went out on a date with a Virgo... I met him on line. We just went to dinner. Met at a public restaurant.. IDK if its me because I have alot of fire.. But he just didnt seem manly enough for me.. He was just to feminine for me.. Not girly in any way, just not very masculine.. Is this something in me looking for "more masculine" or is it something with him, that makes him "too" feminine.. I have his birth info except for his time.. He has Sun,venus,mercury conjunct in Virgo Moon shows mid Libra (for 1200) Mars in Aqua IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 07, 2012 10:44 PM
sun conj venusthat's practically a chick IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 10:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: sun conj venusthat's practically a chick
LOL.... So men with Sun conjunct Venus would be more feminine? IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 1523 From: Dorsia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 10:46 PM
It's not his sun conj venus it's his moon in libra!Uff... :/ "docile" would be putting it lightly. IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 6838 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 10:46 PM
He has a lot of androgynous energy and feminine ; Mercury and VenusIP: Logged |
TheManticore Knowflake Posts: 700 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 10:46 PM
What are your 5th, and 7th house placements? Also, mars and sun placements?Also, are you asking what signs we think are "feminine" men? You are a rat right? If my memory serves me correctly . So yes rat women need a strong man that they feel safe with, and can calm their fidgety and jumpy nature . ------------------ Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Aquarius ASC, Year of the Earth Snake "The Manticore is a mythological creature that is half-lion and half-scorpion." IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 10:46 PM
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 10:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by TheManticore: What are your 5th, and 7th house placements? Also, mars and sun placements?Also, are you asking what signs we think are "feminine" men? You are a rat right? If my memory serves me correctly . So yes rat women need a strong man that they feel safe with, and can calm their fidgety and jumpy nature .
H5= Cancer H7= Virgo Sun/Mars = Leo for both Yes Im a Water Rat. Im wondering if its me thinking he's feminine and being extra picky or if its him.. lol IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 10:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by CosmicKarma360: Ah! I have the opposite problem from you To tell you the truth, I like my men a little less...ahem! "Manly." Those rugged, romance novel covers types totally turn me off. Show me a skinny, dorky one who looks like he's comfortable at an art museum, and I'm hooked.Well, I once went out with a Virgo who definitely could pass the less manly test. In fact, he was downright fussy in an almost old grandmother kind of way. Didn't do it for me. You are Leo, and at least *some*--not all--of the Leo women I've ever met seem to really like those "Marlboro Man" kind. Maybe that's it? A little of both? You like them a bit more rugged, and Virgo, well, they're not necessarily the most macho sign of the zodiac.
Your right I do like the rugged men My ex husband has a Virgo Stellium, but he has an Aries moon. Maybe that made the difference. He is very manly and rugged.. When my boss met my husband he later told me, you like those manly men dont you... LOL IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 07, 2012 10:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: LOL.... So men with Sun conjunct Venus would be more feminine?
yes. i have it widely. i'd say i'm not the most manly of men, looks aside. plus they can reverse roles in dating, use what women have going for them, etc.. but i also have more feminine signs. only my moon in leo and aries mercury are masculine. ..and my conjunct happens in the 7th the libra house. IP: Logged |
TheManticore Knowflake Posts: 700 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 10:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: H5= Cancer H7= Virgo Sun/Mars = Leo for bothYes Im a Water Rat. Im wondering if its me thinking he's feminine and being extra picky or if its him.. lol
Interesting, sun and mars in leo is a big indicator for "macho", as well as being a Rat IMO. So you have a strong influence there.
Does his Sun fall in your 7th?? And what houses do your sun and mars fall in? also 5th and 7th house rulers?
------------------ Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Aquarius ASC, Year of the Earth Snake "The Manticore is a mythological creature that is half-lion and half-scorpion." IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 10:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: It's not his sun conj venus it's his moon in libra!Uff... :/ "docile" would be putting it lightly.
Men with Libra moons are more feminine? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 10:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by TheManticore: Interesting, sun and mars in leo is a big indicator for "macho", as well as being a Rat IMO. So you have a strong influence there.Does his Sun fall in your 7th?? And what houses do your sun and mars fall in? also 5th and 7th house rulers?
All 4 of my Leo Planets Sun,moon,Merc,Mars are in H6 H5 ruler caner= moon in h6 H7 ruler virgo= merc in H6 His Virgo planets are in my H6 IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 07, 2012 10:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by CosmicKarma360: Ah! I have the opposite problem from you To tell you the truth, I like my men a little less...ahem! "Manly." Those rugged, romance novel covers types totally turn me off. Show me a skinny, dorky one who looks like he's comfortable at an art museum, and I'm hooked.
i'm very at home in a museum more so than in a stadium but not skinny, maybe dorky idk.. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 1523 From: Dorsia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 10:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Men with Libra moons are more feminine?
It's "feminine" but it's that they're too pleasing.. They never like to smell of man, for example.. They don't take charge and whisk their woman away; they ask for permission and then expect to be whisked the same in return to just keep things fair. I've met two who have been downright pansies and refused to wear any sort of pants in the relationship.. They just go with the flow so much and sit on the fence that it is ANNOYING!!! You just wanna slap em up and tell them to spit or something just to remember you're on a date and not at a baby shower... But, of course, their spit and saliva smells of summer's eve. IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 11:00 PM
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 11:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: It's "feminine" but it's that they're too pleasing.. They never like to smell of man, for example.. They don't take charge and whisk their woman away; they ask for permission and then expect to be whisked the same in return to just keep things fair. I've met two who have been downright pansies and refused to wear any sort of pants in the relationship.. They just go with the flow so much and stand on the fence that it is ANNOYING!!!You just wanna slap em up and tell them to spit or something just to remember you're on a date and not at a baby shower... But, of course, their spit and saliva smells of summer's eve.
LOL.... This guy kept the conversation going.. I did like talking to him.. But I wasnt attracted to him in a physical sense. He's not bad looking... He just was toooo feminine... IDK I'm not sure how to describe it. Maybe he should go chop some tree's and build up his masculinity..
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anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 5456 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 11:07 PM
he probably failed to match the masculinity of your leo placements..I havent met any manly virgo in my life..well Charlie Sheen is one..Men men men men,manly men,oo hoo hoo,hoo hoo,oo!!!IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 11:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: i'm very at home in a museum more so than in a stadium but not skinny, maybe dorky idk..
I dont consider going to a museum as feminine.. Its more of the way he carries him self that gave me the feminine impression... He did the manly things.. He opened the door.. etc... Just his "persona" was very feminine. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 1523 From: Dorsia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 11:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: LOL.... This guy kept the conversation going.. I did like talking to him.. But I wasnt attracted to him in a physical sense. He's not bad looking... He just was toooo feminine... IDK I'm not sure how to describe it. Maybe he should go chop some tree's and build up his masculinity..
I'm telling you, it's that moon in libra! IP: Logged |
TheManticore Knowflake Posts: 700 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 11:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: All 4 of my Leo Planets Sun,moon,Merc,Mars are in H6H5 ruler caner= moon in h6 H7 ruler virgo= merc in H6 His Virgo planets are in my H6
Well jeez lol, that is a lot of virgo/6th house stuff going on so I don't think you mind that part of him. But I think he does need to have a masculine edge/side or you just won't respect him.
------------------ Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Aquarius ASC, Year of the Earth Snake "The Manticore is a mythological creature that is half-lion and half-scorpion." IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 11:15 PM
Im in love with Mark Wahlberg... Why cant I meet him IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 11:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by TheManticore: Well jeez lol, that is a lot of virgo/6th house stuff going on so I don't think you mind that part of him. But I think he does need to have a masculine edge/side or you just won't respect him.
DOHHHHH!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7201 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 07, 2012 11:19 PM
Just curious. What do you consider a masculine persona?IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted September 07, 2012 11:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Just curious. What do you consider a masculine persona?
Its hard to explain.. Its more the way he carries him self.. Being manly yet considerate at the same time.. IDK... how to describe it exactly. Celebrity wise comparison to give you an idea Tom Cruise= fem Nichols Cage= Mas John Travolta= Fem Mark Wahlberg= Mas Ben Stiller= Fem Johnny Depp= Love him, but a mix fem/mas Leonardo DiCaprio = Fem I like these actors but they came across as some what fem to me... IP: Logged |