posted September 08, 2012 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
She wants John Wayne in an old western!! No touchy feely sensitive charming men need apply! She wants testosterone macho-ness!! Lol.

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posted September 08, 2012 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
She wants John Wayne in an old western!! No touchy feely sensitive charming men need apply! She wants testosterone macho-ness!! Lol.

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John Wayne is probably not clean enough...

posted September 08, 2012 12:19 AM            

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Originally posted by TheManticore:

John Wayne is probably not clean enough...

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LOL... Yeah not my type...

posted September 08, 2012 12:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
LOL... Yeah not my type...

Im just toooo picky huh??

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Rat women do have high standards, sorry heh

posted September 08, 2012 12:42 AM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
It's "feminine" but it's that they're too pleasing.. They never like to smell of man, for example.. They don't take charge and whisk their woman away; they ask for permission and then expect to be whisked the same in return to just keep things fair. I've met two who have been downright pansies and refused to wear any sort of pants in the relationship.. They just go with the flow so much and sit on the fence that it is ANNOYING!!!

You just wanna slap em up and tell them to spit or something just to remember you're on a date and not at a baby shower... But, of course, their spit and saliva smells of summer's eve.

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posted September 08, 2012 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Oh, aquaguy91, please don't worry. I've seen pictures of you on another thread. You are HOT!! You are a true cutie-pie hottie. Someone good will come your way. Give yourself some time. You need someone special, and special takes longer. Hang in there, kiddo!

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posted September 08, 2012 12:54 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha have you been drinking?

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Umm... Matter of fact, I have had one martini tonight, but no, I'm sober enough. I'd be misspelling a lot more if I were really drunk.

posted September 08, 2012 12:56 AM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Umm... Matter of fact, I have had one martini tonight, but no, I'm sober enough. I'd be misspelling a lot more if I were really drunk.

You're still young. Don't worry so much!!

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posted September 08, 2012 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
lol I'm not worried bout nothing.

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posted September 08, 2012 01:13 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
here's whats interesting to me, I'm 6'3 and weigh 240 pounds, dress like a normal guy, act like a normal guy except I don't try to act tough all the time, and I am not popular with women lol. the women in my age group tend to go for guys who have a condition I term little man syndrome, they try to pull off a tough persona but I don't buy it lol. lots of guys have admitted to me that they would not try to fight me and if they were in a fight they would want me on their side. But I'm generally a laidback guy and try not to go looking for fights, so I'm not manly enough.lol

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I dont consider fighting or starting fights as masculine...
Being able to handle the situation and take charge of it, and walking away from it..
I would be way more attracted to that..

I dont want a bruit. Masculine is a description of the way he carries him self..

posted September 08, 2012 01:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I dont consider fighting or starting fights as masculine...
Being able to handle the situation and take charge of it, and walking away from it..
I would be way more attracted to that..

I dont want a bruit. Masculine is a description of the way he carries him self..

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posted September 08, 2012 05:58 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
lol i just wanted to say i totally agree with ur list of masc/fem celebs, lioness! lmao

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posted September 08, 2012 06:59 AM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
You just wanna slap em up and tell them to spit or something just to remember you're on a date and not at a baby shower... But, of course, their spit and saliva smells of summer's eve.

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I literally lol'd.

posted September 08, 2012 07:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I dont consider fighting or starting fights as masculine...
Being able to handle the situation and take charge of it, and walking away from it..
I would be way more attracted to that..

I dont want a bruit. Masculine is a description of the way he carries him self..

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Amen.

To be fair, I'd like to point out that a person can be a balance of masculine and feminine.

Since Virgo-Libra influenced guys have been mentioned a lot, my experiences:

I knew a Virgo with a Libra moon who was definitely masculine, especially with his sense of humor (very crass at times and fond of swearing), but also cultured, kind, and intelligent. Very, very snarky and sarcastic, but had a good heart.

I know one other person who is both Libra and Virgo-influenced (Virgo sun), but has a Scorpio ascendant and fire moon. That one is certainly no doormat, doesn't let anyone walk over him, and, while patient, doesn't take crap from people when they cross the line into disrespecting him.

I know two other Libra-influenced guys who often appear gentle, but are still masculine. Both of them have at least one planet in Virgo too--one of them is actually a lot like the Virgo sun/Libra moon guy in some ways, though less crass.

I would say that those people are more of a civilized masculine kind of type. Not the Paul Bunyan or Hemingway kind of "macho", and not brutish, dumb, and caveman-like, but still very masculine.

I tend to get annoyed when people think that any guy who isn't a "me Tarzan you Jane" type is a sissy or somehow "less of a man". I personally find caveman types repulsive.

posted September 08, 2012 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Very built, square jawed, tiny eyes... blech...

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posted September 08, 2012 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:

Im in love with Mark Wahlberg... Why cant I meet him

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posted September 08, 2012 07:32 AM            

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Originally posted by TheManticore:

Rat women do have high standards, sorry heh

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I'm not a rat, but if I dated (I don't), I would have high standards too. I think that all women should, to be honest.

While it's important to not be nit-picky about things to an extreme level, it's also important to know what you want and be highly selective so that you don't end up with a bad person. Balance is key. I think that instead of women lowering the bar and just taking whatever they can get, women should raise the bar and be particular about whom they let into their lives and with whom they are vulnerable. I've just seen too many women put up with bad guys and pay the price for it. Thus, I think it's better for women to use their heads and be very picky about guys so that they don't end up in bad situations, especially given how hard it is to get out of those situations once you're there.

I've seen how having low standards and putting up with bad behavior ruins people's lives. I figure I'd rather learn from other people's mistakes than make them myself.

posted September 08, 2012 07:37 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
i have the same douchey vibe. it's the taurus-scorpio in our charts but u know he is sort of a midget (i mean compared to aquagiant a few posts above) at 5'7 just saying he might be a little smaller IRL.

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Didn't he cause someone to go blind? He's done some really horrible things, and yet he gets to just live his life like it never happened.