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Topic: Saturn's Badge of Honour: But I didn't give up - I didn't leave you
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Dreaming111
Knowflake Posts: 951
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 22, 2012 06:15 PM
  
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Originally posted by Odette:
It seems to me like - in Saturnian relationships, the Saturn individual can sometimes be very negative and hurtful... and the personal planet individual might put up with this for some time.... but not forever.Eventually the personal planet individual wants OUT so they leave... or in any case, they do something to 'break free'.
At this point Saturn stands on their pride... They never admit to any negative/jerky behaviour... and all they have to say is: "Regardless of how I behaved - the bottom line is.. I did NOT leave you. YOU left ME." And they use this ^ to guilt trip the personal planet individual... as though 'not leaving' is a badge of honour...
It is like they expect the personal planet man/woman - to stay with them through thick and thin no matter what happens and no matter *how* they behave. Has anyone had similar experiences?
Yes, I have....Exactly like this. : / IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini
Knowflake Posts: 111
From: Los Angeles, Calif
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 01:38 AM
I think that I find with people who have Saturn-Venus synastry (with the exception of trine), it's not about not giving up... it's about working it out. Sometimes they seem like they're forever working on everything and not really doing much living or enjoying.IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
Knowflake Posts: 2070
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 02:05 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
now thats good saturn the sextiles and trines give trust to a relationship and feel very fulfilling and deepthis thread's talking about squares and such, and Double Whammies.
Ooooo whoopsie. Thanks RAS IP: Logged |
anno_lucis
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: uk
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 04, 2012 11:43 AM
im starting to resonate with thisi used to think it was my pluto, but maybe it's saturn. i have sun/moon trine saturn, my ex had saturn conj sun(!). he was 14 yrs older so we had opposing saturns, and in the end, he left. although it was going downhill for a very long time, i never once considered breaking up, i figured it would all just blow over eventually. i was fiercely devoted to him, and still not sure quite why... i wasnt perfect but he definitely wasnt either...saturn in libra taught us both massive lessons in the 2 years we were together, and the breakup was the most difficult id ever experienced. they say saturns the love killer but i have never felt anything like this for anyone, either before or after - the depth and passion is unrivaled. with saturn finally moving out of libra i hope he finally gets the hell out of my head! its been like 8 months...and i still think about him and mourn the loss regularly... IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 2323
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 04, 2012 10:25 PM
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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
I think that I find with people who have Saturn-Venus synastry (with the exception of trine), it's not about not giving up... it's about working it out. Sometimes they seem like they're forever working on everything and not really doing much living or enjoying.
Good point. My husband's Saturn is conjunct my Venus (1 degree orb) and sometimes I feel like everything is about damage control. IP: Logged |
crissyx89
Knowflake Posts: 217
From: California
Registered: May 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 02:46 AM
Saturn has been good to me and my on and off again love of 8 years.Nothing but trines/sextiles I'm lucky!IP: Logged |
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