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Topic: The "C" word
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Jim
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posted September 17, 2012 04:41 PM
  
Im surprised no one said aquarius, but yeah i would think about heavy aquarius people aswell
afflicted planets in 7th house * maybe geminis too , but not as in afraid of commitment but more like not being able to commit Its a very general description , but its what i can think of IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON
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posted September 17, 2012 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by Jim:
Im surprised no one said aquarius, but yeah i would think about heavy aquarius people aswell
afflicted planets in 7th house * maybe geminis too , but not as in afraid of commitment but more like not being able to commit Its a very general description , but its what i can think of
OMG! I was just about to say Aquarius! Again, like you said this is all very general... But I am quite the commitment girl with strong Saturn in my Chart, but I also have strong Uranus/Aquarius in my chart... Moon in 1st in Aquarius and Sun // Uranus and few other aspects...I get bored quite easily. I'm happily married, but if we get too stuck in mundane schedule, I have been known to get a little dramatic...I get bored doing the same things over and over... I would also think strong Sag aspects too could produce this...Freedom loving, philosophical, exploratory... Suprisingly Taurus too...because part of their incarnation is to develop a strong sense of self and that might be why some Taurus seem slow to commit. IP: Logged |
Jim
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posted September 17, 2012 04:58 PM
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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
OMG! I was just about to say Aquarius! Again, like you said this is all very general...But I am quite the commitment girl with strong Saturn in my Chart, but I also have strong Uranus/Aquarius in my chart... Moon in 1st in Aquarius and Sun // Uranus and few other aspects...I get bored quite easily. I'm happily married, but if we get too stuck in mundane schedule, I have been known to get a little dramatic...I get bored doing the same things over and over... I would also think strong Sag aspects too could produce this...Freedom loving, philosophical, exploratory... Suprisingly Taurus too...because part of their incarnation is to develop a strong sense of self and that might be why some Taurus seem slow to commit.
Yeah aquarius Hates routine and gets tired of it easily , i would believe aquarius is the lover that is not 'always' all gushy mushy when theyre with their partners i would even think that when the partner needs too much attention aquarius would start getting annoyed ,same with jealus partners, they can feel how their freedom is being taken away from them. haha or thats what i think, i am aquarius moon annd ascendant IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
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posted September 17, 2012 05:44 PM
Moon/Uranus or Venus/uranus I'd say are the most obvious. Although not always, of course. For example, my dad has Venus conjunct Uranus in Leo oppose his Aqua moon and as far as I know he's never cheated on my mother (I am fairly certain on this, at least since I've been old enough to observe these things), and they've been married for 31 years now.IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
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posted September 17, 2012 05:47 PM
I wonder what everyone's first thought was... Mine was "c*nt" but then i said: "nah, it's in 2.0.. It's probably about conjunctions". ------------------
"To PLAY is human. To Rewind is divine." IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted September 17, 2012 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by Jim:
Yeah aquarius Hates routine and gets tired of it easily , i would believe aquarius is the lover that is not 'always' all gushy mushy when theyre with their partners i would even think that when the partner needs too much attention aquarius would start getting annoyed ,same with jealus partners, they can feel how their freedom is being taken away from them.haha or thats what i think, i am aquarius moon annd ascendant
I disagree, aquarius is fixed and fixed signs like stability. I'm an aqua sun, ascendant, and venus and I don't have any fear of commitment or intimacy. its just I need breathing room , if I have that I'm fine, if I don't I run.
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Gabby
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posted September 17, 2012 06:06 PM
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Originally posted by Venus:
thumbs up if u had another c-word in mind..
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hannaramaa
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posted September 17, 2012 06:10 PM
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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
Moon/Uranus or Venus/uranus I'd say are the most obvious. Although not always, of course. For example, my dad has Venus conjunct Uranus in Leo oppose his Aqua moon and as far as I know he's never cheated on my mother (I am fairly certain on this, at least since I've been old enough to observe these things), and they've been married for 31 years now.
Yeah I was about to say I have Moon trine Uranus, and an Aries stellium in the 11th which adds a little Aquarius flavor (or so I was told.) Sagittarius, Aries, Aquarius, Gemini, and Pisces ruling the 7th house or having some affiliation with it maybe? I have Sag ruling my 7th house too with Uranus sitting pretty in there at 5.20 degrees. I don't understand why romantic commitment makes me choke so much. I want it, and I think I'd be a good girlfriend. I'm an EXCELLENT friend (sorry, getting a little Aries here boasting.) and have kept the same friends for years but for whatever reason (Uranus most likely) my romantic partners are never in my life that long. One was for a whole year but it was dramatic and I don't look back on that fondly. I feel like I'm destined for flings and nothing serious, even though I find the stability in that very attractive and appealing. EDIT: Maybe it's not the commitment that scares me, just the emotional intimacy! I constantly wonder what it's like for the girls who find guys that are devoted and trustworthy. IP: Logged |
Robin Goodfellow
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posted September 17, 2012 07:34 PM
moon trine uranus, venus square saturn here but also venus opposed uranus, I dont like the idead of commitment/marriage but stay friends, even if I had a child I wouldn't commit.IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted September 17, 2012 08:22 PM
Commitment issues...look to Venus aspects with Uranus, Neptune and look to the ruler of the Fourth, and maybe Seventh. quote:
Aren't you always complaining about not being able to find a girlfriend?
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Mine was "c*nt" but then i said: "nah, it's in 2.0.. It's probably about conjunctions".
Omfg I thought the same but Capricorn instead of conjunctions lmao IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted September 17, 2012 09:05 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
lol I was kidding.
Oh sorry, hard to understand tone on the internet  IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted September 17, 2012 09:07 PM
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Originally posted by Jim:
Im surprised no one said aquarius, but yeah i would think about heavy aquarius people aswell
afflicted planets in 7th house * maybe geminis too , but not as in afraid of commitment but more like not being able to commit Its a very general description , but its what i can think of
Shmeh. The most dominant signs in my chart are Sagittarius and Aquarius and I tend to seek out commitment. I also have an "afflicted" 7th house... Saturn and Uranus conjunct DSC, I also have Neptune in there. My dsc is even in Sagittarius, another sign notorious for wanting freedom and its ruler is in Aries, another independent sign. Maybe my Libra Moon is trumping everything.
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Aquacheeka
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posted September 17, 2012 09:09 PM
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
i have a fear of commitment, for sure. i always think my identity is being taken away in a relationship..and i feel like i can't fully be myself or i feel like i'm missing out on other, potentially better opportunities when i'm stuck with one person.Venus in Scorpio
Moon in Sagittarius
Sun in Capricorn... my Venus doesn't make any Saturn contacts..actually it only makes pleasant aspects, like trine Mars, conj ASC, trine Jupiter, but it does square my MC.. my Moon is conj Saturn..don't know if that has anything to do with it. What i personally think is going on is that I have a LOT of Sagittarius/Jupiter influence, and I think I just want to be free and unattached, always.
It's your moon that's doing that. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted September 17, 2012 09:10 PM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
Oh sorry, hard to understand tone on the internet
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sand
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posted September 17, 2012 09:23 PM
t-square moon in leo -venus in taurus- pluto in scorpio for me.it usually comes out in career since the apex is the leo moon in tenth conjunct cancer mc. like this is it. i'm stuck at this job. it freaks me out. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted September 17, 2012 09:32 PM
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Shmeh. The most dominant signs in my chart are Sagittarius and Aquarius and I tend to seek out commitment.
Air needs stimulation. I find Aquarius can be very committed when it wants to be. With Sagittarius, a sign that seeks and chases, it makes sense to me you crave commitment until you're bored (which also sounds like Libra.) IP: Logged |
Gray
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posted September 18, 2012 01:44 AM
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Originally posted by Venus:
thumbs up if u had another c-word in mind..
*raises both hands and both feet in the air* I was actually disappointed when I clicked on the thread and saw something different. IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
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posted September 18, 2012 12:42 PM
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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
I dont think vens sq saturn means fear of commitment. if anything i believe it leads to commitment.
Yes, I think that too, it proably lead to chaos committment .Fear for COMMITMENT
Maybe look at...
- Uranus hard aspect to Moon(emotion), venus ( definitly) ,sun ( proably), AC/DC ruler (proably) - Uranus ,conj. Ac , in 1st, in 7th ( many has this feeling)
Just my 2cent 
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lilithpluto
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posted September 18, 2012 12:49 PM
Hmmm...I have
-Venus Square Saturn
-Moon Square Uranus
-Venus opposite Neptune
All within 5 degrees. -Sun square Uranus (Wide) Nope, not afraid of commitment but afraid of commitment to the wrong person.  IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted September 18, 2012 01:01 PM
I don't get people who are afraid of commitment. How many live times do you think you will get to experience a deep and lasting bond with one person?
Isn't relating and coexisting the reason why we are born? How would you evolve your soul if you are afraid to satisfy such a basic human need? To belong, to be loved, to share, to create...My Saggie nature is fickle and ever searching but relationships have so many stages, ups and downs, joys and sorrows... I want to experience ALL of them. How would I do that if I don't bond with my partner, if I don't give it all I got? It's sad to live on the surface of feelings and never reach the depths only long term relationships offer. Strictly my opinion. My chart:
Saturn in a grand trine with Chiron and Mercury. Saturn square Venus. Saturn co-rules my Asc. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted September 18, 2012 01:21 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
I don't get people who are afraid of commitment.
I understand your plight, but in my instance it's a fear of being vulnerable and probably has to do with my self-esteem. I'm willing to be people who have a fear of commitment aren't afraid of someone else but what the commitment will bring out in themselves. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 18, 2012 01:26 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I understand your plight, but in my instance it's a fear of being vulnerable and probably has to do with my self-esteem. I'm willing to be people who have a fear of commitment aren't afraid of someone else but what the commitment will bring out in themselves.
aww why do you have low self esteem, your great. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted September 18, 2012 01:28 PM
Hanna, this is not directed at you.Life is too short. I no longer have time or patience for fear of commitment. Things either work out or they don't. If someone takes my most exposed and vulnerable self and throws it to the wolves - then they are not for me. It's OK. I get up and I try again. Hopefully wiser and more cautious but still without fear. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted September 18, 2012 01:35 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
Hanna, this is not directed at you.Life is too short. I no longer have time or patience for fear of commitment. Things either work out or they don't. If someone takes my most exposed and vulnerable self and throws it to the wolves - then they are not for me. It's OK. I get up and I try again. Hopefully wiser and more cautious but still without fear.
*applause*
Very inspiring post.
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Yin
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posted September 18, 2012 01:41 PM
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