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Topic: The "C" word
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frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 862
From: yep,ks,usa
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 18, 2012 01:49 PM
  
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Originally posted by Yin:
I don't get people who are afraid of commitment. How many live times do you think you will get to experience a deep and lasting bond with one person?
Isn't relating and coexisting the reason why we are born? How would you evolve your soul if you are afraid to satisfy such a basic human need? To belong, to be loved, to share, to create...My Saggie nature is fickle and ever searching but relationships have so many stages, ups and downs, joys and sorrows... I want to experience ALL of them. How would I do that if I don't bond with my partner, if I don't give it all I got? It's sad to live on the surface of feelings and never reach the depths only long term relationships offer. Strictly my opinion. My chart:
Saturn in a grand trine with Chiron and Mercury. Saturn square Venus. Saturn co-rules my Asc.
i don't believe that commitment and monogamy are basic human needs/urges...because i sure don't feel that way..but maybe i'm not human :-O IP: Logged |
Yin
Moderator Posts: 2869
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2012 01:53 PM
To belong, to be loved, to share, to create... are basic human needs to me. I relate them to commitment as I feel those are best expressed in a stable loving environment and usually but not always after a certain age that commitment is provided by a partner/partners, not your birth family if all else is equal. That is MY MO... but whatever works for you.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 3795
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 18, 2012 03:14 PM
For me it's a one-shot deal, so I have to do it right the first time around, and therefore I wasn't messing around.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 2395
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 18, 2012 03:35 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
Hanna, this is not directed at you.Life is too short. I no longer have time or patience for fear of commitment. Things either work out or they don't. If someone takes my most exposed and vulnerable self and throws it to the wolves - then they are not for me. It's OK. I get up and I try again. Hopefully wiser and more cautious but still without fear.
Oh it's okay. I knew it wasn't directed at me, I was just adding to the discussion. I think it's interesting, and I'm a psychology major after all!
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Gabby
Knowflake Posts: 273
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 02:22 AM
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Originally posted by Gray:
*raises both hands and both feet in the air*I was actually disappointed when I clicked on the thread and saw something different.
LOL 
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scorpy_oh
Knowflake Posts: 259
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Registered: May 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 08:15 AM
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Originally posted by Venus:
thumbs up if u had another c-word in mind..
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