posted September 20, 2012 03:47 AM            

fire signs aren't exactly charming, to me.

That's more like, air or water.

posted September 20, 2012 03:48 AM            

Leo !
The conversations with them have always been pleasant.

posted September 20, 2012 03:54 AM            

aries would have been my number one pick.cause aries men are damn near perfect (the ones i've met). except once that notorious "aries" arrogance kicks in, i am COMPLETELY turned off. and for that leo beats them LOL. both signs are known for having huge egos, but imo there is a big difference in how both signs express it. in my experience, aries is the more "serious" one out of the fire signs. and leo the most playful ones. and sags seem to be totally oblivious as to how charming they are..when aries is being arrogant, or narcissistic, they've done it with a serious looking face, which repulses me , and go ahead and confront them about their ego issues and see how they react LOL. and EVERY aries i've met (both genders) were seriously inconsiderate (even aries moons). whereas the leo men i've met, are more playful when they express their ego, which makes me not take it too serious .the leo men i've met,were considerate, and SOO charming, and playful yet still aggressive.and they didn't let their pride get in the way of their feelings .they also don't mind sharing the spotlight with you (as long as you don't overshadow them LOL). i LOVE leos. i have a love/hate thing with aries (im a libra, leo moon).sags are fun and charming, but too aloof for my like (so far)

posted September 20, 2012 04:26 AM            

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Originally posted by awakemer:
Ok so I am a leo and i'm just wanting more compliments j /k

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posted September 20, 2012 05:04 AM            

I agree with Moonfish. Most Aries women I knew could have any guy they wanted if they as much as thought about it.

I'd say Sagittarius too, because while they are known as the thoughtless loudmouth of the zodiac, I've also been told the sweetest, kindest things from a Sagittarius. And they know they are charming, I don't think they are oblivious at all lol. I've fallen for the Sagittarius charm a few times and don't know many who hasn't. I find them sweeter than Aries.

posted September 20, 2012 05:29 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
okokok I just had to drop everything for a second and stare at the screen in shock. 11nyhat how did you read my mind so well. Either that's extremely factual and everyone sees it that way, or extremely subjective, and we have the same brain.

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posted September 20, 2012 05:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Call me crazy but I'd say Aries is the most charming. They are energetic and bubbly, who needs sweet words and compliments when you have that?

I agree with Moonfish. Most Aries women I knew could have any guy they wanted if they as much as thought about it.

I'd say Sagittarius next, because while they are known as the thoughtless loudmouth of the zodiac, I've also been told the sweetest, kindest things from a Sagittarius. And they know they are charming, I don't think they are oblivious at all lol. I've fallen for the Sagittarius charm a few times and don't know many who hasn't.

I'd put Leo last. Every Leo I know is too proud to be charming. Like, the Leo men I've met it kills them to even go out of their way and pay a normal compliment. They want to be charmed, lol.

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posted September 20, 2012 05:40 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
LOLL! you have no idea how awesome it is to have someone agree with me on this. whenever i've said this, i always get the side eye especially from aries (of course). i knew i couldn't be the only one who felt this way lol

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lol yeah! i agree with everything u said. everything. even to the last bit about sags being fun and charming but too aloof.
I'm curious, though. How do you know you get the side eye on an online forum. lol. I'm sure I'm reading too much into it.

Lazyscarecrow, I agree that leos don't try to charm you by trying to flatter you and everything like that. But they don't have to because they already charm you by being so funny, energetic and just generally sunny all the time. Aries are very charming indeed. So are sagittarius. And I do think that aries is different because they will flatter you and tell you things to charm you, but because they can suddenly turn serious and cold like 11nyhat mentioned (mood swings i guess?) I think leo is more charming, since their mood is always sunny and vibrant. At least, from the leos i know.
Saggies are funny and charming but TOO over the top, as is often the case with jupiter who tends to go OVERBOARD in what they do. So they come off obnoxious, TOO energetic, TOO sunny, TOO optimistic. lol. it's possible. at the same time, they seem casual and detached. It's almost they dont attach themselves personally to their charm like aries and leo do, which seems to come more from the warmthness of their heart--seems more personal than sag's charm.

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oh, aries are def charming. like i said they are nearly perfect, except for that "serious" arrogance, and inconsiderateness. everything else about them makes me melt lol. which causes the love/hate thing for me

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posted September 20, 2012 05:47 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
oh, aries are def charming. like i said they are nearly perfect, except for that "serious" arrogance, and inconsiderateness. everything else about them makes me melt lol. which causes the love/hate thing for me .and i really hope you meet the type of leo's . i've always heard horrible stories of leos being the way you just described them, and i am sooo grateful that i have not met one of those types LOL.where any of those leos, double leos? (sun/venus leos, sun/moon leos?), i've yet to meet a double leo. the ones i've met had alot of water in them. i guess the water balanced out the not so favorable leo traits?

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posted September 20, 2012 06:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
They can be as playful and flirty as Aries women are capable of but then when also when it comes to giving attention or sharing the spotlight, nah screw that they'd rather be the one getting it.

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OH! thats another thing i forgot to mention about aries too. they are soo "me, me me",yet they are quick to come at your neck if you're getting attention too. so selfish those aries lol...its funny to see someone not be too fond of their own sun sign, i have the same issue. im a libra, and i've yet to meet a libra that i like

posted September 20, 2012 06:34 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
its like im lusting, and despising them at the same time.they drive me crazy lol

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lol me toooo!

Cancer sun, leo moon, libra rising!

Whenever i confronted an aries about their arrogance, and/or temper, they were just like, "well I'm not arrogant, you're just dumb. how could you not know that." (and in the one example i can remember, it was the condensation of water caused by cold A/C inside of a bus that they were explaining to me. I was young then. I didn't understand that humidity condensated on cold surfaces. i knew it happened with a glass of water but didnt understand how the process worked). Which only proves MORE that this guy was arrogant. And when i addressed another aries guy's temper once, he was like, "well, I am not the kind of person who feels like they can control that. I also just don't have the sensitivity to know when i am saying mean things. I have to let out my feelings, and I think I should have the right to let out my feelings to anyone when i need to."

lol. le sigh.

posted September 20, 2012 12:54 PM            

Romance and charm is our middle name, but I'm biased so lol

posted September 20, 2012 02:23 PM            

/serious face

just kidding. leo has got this on lock imo. i am an aries sun/moon and i can be preeeetty charming, though. other times, not so much.:P

depends on a number of factors for me but other peoples experience of aries being moody or otherwise unpredictable is perhaps partly down to transit uranus in aries, which has been lurking over MY luminaries for so long now it has practically set up shop.

funny thread tho. my best mate of the last 10 years is a leo and he really is so effortlessly charming it makes me sick. he does the whole 'tell u exactly what u wanna hear' thing to ppl tho, which i won't.

boyfriend is a sag and he is verbally the least charming person i've ever met. could be something to do with merc in sag also, but he's a total nightmare. i have to write his letters of complaint for him (yes, he also needs to get a life, clearly). he has absolutely no clue how to put things nicely, it's hilarious. i can see it is quite an effort for him so when he does say nice things, it is usually realllly sweet.