posted September 20, 2012 09:15 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
hmm yeah i guess she sounds fake
maybe all about keeping up with appearances?

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Social anxiety.

I actually wouldn't mind a little passive-aggressiveness from her.

I would like to be friends again - she's my sister - but she's just killed it this year.

posted September 20, 2012 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
wait... i'm ONLY speaking about the aries i've met. anytime im talking about any sign, i and not saying in general .i'm only referring to the ones i know. i have not met every single aries to conclude they are all like that lol. it's just that so far, the aries folks i've met, especially the males where like this.

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Oh well, darling, being selfish is a natural inborn trait with men!

posted September 20, 2012 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
As someone with a Sag moon, merc, saturn, and uranus, I'm gonna go with SAGITTARIUS

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posted September 20, 2012 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:

I shower twice a day, and am usually tactful, unless you cross a line.

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posted September 20, 2012 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Oh well, darling, being selfish is a natural inborn trait with men!

And I know it wasn't about every single Aries, you just wouldn't believe how many people say we're all about ourselves!

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posted September 20, 2012 10:53 PM            

they always have to be first at everything(mostly the males). if i (or someone else)came up with a great idea before THEY did, they always tried to downplay it. or just try to find flaws with it. or say how they could have done better etc etc bla bla

the males where disgustingly sexist.they seemed to be "traditional" types, only when convenient for them.

they expected me (and others) to have your world revolve around them. if they needed help with something, they expected you to always drop anything for them,and listen to them when they need to talk about some **** . yet they never reciprocated. or they'd belittle you when they didn't understand you.

they always wanted to compare themselves to you. if they could not relate to your issues, then YOU (or i) was the problem. never them.

they always liked to point out peoples faults, but when you do it back to them? OH GOD.

they got mad when i treated them accordingly. its like , you're suppose to conform to their bullsh*t, but they cant handle a dose of their own medicine?

if they disrespected you, they expected you to get over it fast. no matter how bad they f*cked up. some of them would bring up the "life is too short" crap, as a "reason" why they should be forgiven . FOH lol

me and aries (mostly the males), argue ALL the time. lol. sometimes it's fun, but then when its time for them to see they're wrong, they just cant (or don't want to). and they assumed anyone who disagreed with them on something, is personally against them lol. they never made an effort to see where you're coming from. they were always right, you (or i) was always wrong.the males seemed to like feisty females, but not too independent. they seemed to prefer co-dependent females.if they could not control or tame you? then its wasn't good enough for them. its like they didn't believe in equity or equality. big NO for my libra stellium. aries females are easier to get along with. even though most have had ego issues, but never like the males. the females were more playful, which makes it much less offensive for me. also the females even if they were very pretty, they still had this "masculine" energy to them, which i like (since i'm that way too)

posted September 20, 2012 11:10 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Oh well, darling, being selfish is a natural inborn trait with men!

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i disagree. being selfish has nothing to do with gender.we are all prone to it, but some take it too far. to the point of inconsiderateness

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
you just wouldn't believe how many people say we're all about ourselves!

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posted September 20, 2012 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
Yeah ive heard this before, thats why
I asked for an example. Not the astro descrip of Aires but a real life example.

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that is a real life example. I've seen that with a lot of aries ive met. but of course aries can never admit their own faults. And that's not something i read in an astro site either. It's something i see all the time.

EDIT: I just read what 11nahyt posted. Yes, so true!

posted September 21, 2012 12:30 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
@ arieskat, my response to you was EXTRA long. sorry bout that lol

i've got examples for dayyyys when it comes to my experiences with aries males. i only wrote the ones that didn't risk me getting too detailed or personal.

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posted September 21, 2012 12:33 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
that is a real life example. I've seen that with a lot of aries ive met. but of course aries can never admit their own faults. And that's not something i read in an astro site either. It's something i see all the time.

EDIT: I just read what 11nahyt posted. Yes, so true!

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Yea I am selfish and so is every other sign as they should be. I dont think it's a bad thing

posted September 21, 2012 12:38 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
I feel ya girl....id feel the same way too had I been through the same things with Aries men....I had the same disdain for Pisces men at one point.

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posted September 21, 2012 12:55 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
@ras, of the aries males you bumped heads with, where they earth influenced? or air? if not, then what were they.. the ones i've met, had strong cap or taurus in their charts.or gemini influenced(the WORST so far). i think the key for me might be, an aries with water influence. since im water influenced myself

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leo moons, pisces moons, 1 taurus moon and 1 virgo moon, 1 libra moon also even.. also one gemini moon. cancer moon also

I only know 1 aries with pisces moon who is very sweet and dare i say patient. and never talks about himself endlessly or does any of the typical aries things. doesnt seem overly into himself at all. That's why i thought he was a pisces. turns out it was his moon. I also knew a double aries with what i felt was pisces rising who was very patient and considerate and sweet as well, and an aries with leo moon who seems totally like a libra. very calm, balanced, fair, patient, and charming. actually not energetic at all. He has libra rising though so maybe that's it? Maybe it's the rising sign that changed everything. I only knew the nice ones' rising, and i know two of the blah ones' rising, three were scorpio, one is cancer rising. I dunno, i justdk

posted September 21, 2012 01:20 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
don't even get me started on pisces men LOL. ooohhhh myyy goddddd. which is funny because im very water influenced, and im a pisces rising. so i should have been able to connect with the ones i've met. and they've been heavily water influenced too ... maybe its too much water i guess. on the other hand,pisces females have been cool. no matter what has been in their charts.... so far

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posted September 21, 2012 01:30 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
leo moons, pisces moons, 1 taurus moon and 1 virgo moon, 1 libra moon also even.. also one gemini moon. cancer moon also

I only know 1 aries with pisces moon who is very sweet and dare i say patient. and never talks about himself endlessly or does any of the typical aries things. doesnt seem overly into himself at all. That's why i thought he was a pisces. turns out it was his moon. I also knew a double aries with what i felt was pisces rising who was very patient and considerate and sweet as well, and an aries with leo moon who seems totally like a libra. very calm, balanced, fair, patient, and charming. actually not energetic at all. He has libra rising though so maybe that's it? Maybe it's the rising sign that changed everything. I only knew the nice ones' rising, and i know two of the blah ones' rising, three were scorpio, one is cancer rising. I dunno, i justdk

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posted September 21, 2012 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by MyFavouriteName:
lol nahyt11,

i relate to what you said so so much. i'm a contradiction really, i'm a bit of everything.

i usually 'feel' the way you describe aries, and that makes sense because its more internal for me, and it happens to be my moon sign, (Aries).

but the way i express myself is always leo. which makes sense again because my sun is in leo, and the asc is our expression of sorts and that happens to also be in leo.

i have venus in libra, and i feel the same way about aries sometimes, and my self, as you do - as a libra sun person, though im just the venus.

i'm the most considerate person i know, and i get angry when others don't reciprocate, or give the same in return. the extra contradiction is, if someone is being arien in the way you described (serious, and kinda obnoxious with their ego) then i end up expressing feelings that are about the same as what you have towards them... Even though i think and feel the same way as an Aries does. ahah, i know best not to express it though :P

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