posted October 19, 2012 01:02 AM            

Well, the ruler of your 8th house looks like it's Mercury and Mercury (ruler of Gemini) is being squared by that Neptune, Uranus and Saturn conjunction in Capricorn. That might make things confusing with Gem energy simply because of the intimacy involved with the 8th. Also, Mercury is in the 12th which can sometimes be a challenging place for Mercury to be, especially since it is representing your 8th house energy.

So if a Gem's Sun falls in your 8th it will likely have an impact on you of some kind. It could be transformational in a positive sense (depending on the rest of the synastry) or it could also stir up stuff that maybe you didn't want stirred? Again, depends on other aspects. Also, if you have Sun conjunct Mars with someone it can definitely create a lot of excitement but also can lead to a bit of drama in my experience. (And I mean 'my experience' as in 5 minutes ago, as I just had a somewhat heated texting conversation with someone whose Sun conjuncts my Mars in Leo )

posted October 19, 2012 01:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
My goodness with these Sun sign generalizations. Im a double Gemini (Gem Sun & Merc) and I am one of the most non-violent and nicest people you'd ever meet. I am also not a jealous or possessive person AND I have a Libra Moon.

As a matter of fact, of all the Geminis I personally know (two who were born on the same day and same hospital as me), NONE of them are violent or any of these descriptions that are mentioned in this thread.

However, I am sure there are some Gemini Suns out there that fit your description. I am also certain that there are also Cancers, Leos, Libras, Scorpios, Sagittarius, Capricorns, Aquarius, Pisces, Aries, and Taurus Sun signs that fit these descriptions as well.

Back in 2008 when I first started coming to this site, I also was guilty of making these generalization threads about Virgos. That all stopped once I realized how ridiculous I was being making these sweeping generalizations against 1/12th of the world's population. And to go even further, I actually became REALLY close friends with a Virgo female that used to be on this forum.

True, you can make any thread you want so long as it doesn't violate the rules, and I know that is only my personal experience, but we must also be mindful of others.

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posted October 19, 2012 01:13 AM            

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Iv'e asked stuff on here before that people thought were dumb but hey

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yes, but i never thought anything was dumb - my darling.

posted October 19, 2012 01:18 AM            

"are you completely bonkers? it was a j.o.k.e O_O
holy crap! But we really have some interesting newbies around.."

- was directed at .... her own reply, when she said:

"what the hell is your problem?"

I was being sarcastic regarding her reaction to my initial JOKE. This was not directed at the initial thread question.

I did not and do not have a problem... but I was surprised to see that she *thought* I had a problem - when I was only kidding.
So I reacted..saying "Has everyone gone bonkers?" etc...

posted October 19, 2012 02:41 AM              

that is truly hypocritical, what are these rules? i didnt violate ANY rule; how many hateful threads have been opened, at least since i am here, and no one said anything? I personally never said anything when libras for example, were said to be this and that... and almost no one came forward to complain??

DesiringShadows, it would be nice to actually see what you wrote.

Sorcha,thanks.

posted October 19, 2012 04:06 AM            

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Originally posted by geea:

And me hating geminis? nah its like this at least from my part

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aww!! that's so cute... :3

oky, let's see...

- your 5'th house (among other things related to love/romance) is in Pisces.. and Pisces ruler (Neptun) is in 3'rd house/Capricorn (that's where it manifests) - basically your love drives manifest at a communication level around people that try to build a relationship - and having Neptune, Uranus and Saturn in that aria... there's a possibility of being possessive, aggressive, daydreamers or/and alcoholics/drug addicts...your Mars is in Gemini - so yes, you might have a thing for Gemini - but since your love manifests in the house of Gemini - makes more sense that you revolve around that... :3

...in terms of relationship we look at house 7 - and yours is in Taurus wile the ruler (Venus) is in house 12/Libra - and this a area of your life which you'll understand better with time if you haven't by now - having both the Sun (the way you are at hearth) and Mercury (the way your mind works) there... that should be in your advantage, that's your balance in terms of relationship... and it's not as grim as it sounds - even tho it's house 12... because your main culprits (saturn, Uranus) are in house 3, wile the Sun, Mercury and Venus - are charming planets for this aria of life and all 3 are positively aspected ^^ might come as a aid for your 12 house placements.

Also, with Mars in Gemini - u have your answer for Gemini violence - at least verbally, cause that's the only violence you can get out of a Gemini - but not of a pure Gemini... if there's a person with all planets in Gemini... maybe the 8'th houser could show some verbal fangs... but if that guy attacks u verbally... well - he'd be a pacifist and a perfect troll... ^^ by the time you figure out what he meant - you'd have to be a vicious Scorpio to feel resentment towards him ^^

posted October 19, 2012 10:13 AM            

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Originally posted by geea:
”True, you can make any thread you want so long as it doesn't violate the rules, and I know that is only my personal experience, but we must also be mindful of others.”

that is truly hypocritical, what are these rules? i didnt violate ANY rule; how many hateful threads have been opened, at least since i am here, and no one said anything? I personally never said anything when libras for example, were said to be this and that... and almost no one came forward to complain??

DesiringShadows, it would be nice to actually see what you wrote.

Sorcha,thanks.

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Wow. I never said you violated any rules. I was making the point that while we can make threads that don't violate the rules, we should still be mindful of the subject matter. Basically, be thoughtful of others. I also made the point that I'm not telling you what you must do, as you can do what you want.

Furthermore I didn't make my reply with any negative connotations. I'm just trying to say that making negative sweeping generalizations about 1/12 of the worlds population probably isn't the best idea.

Peace

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted October 19, 2012 11:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
yes, but i never thought anything was dumb - my darling.

i was joking.

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posted October 20, 2012 03:48 AM            

Characterised by being funny, humorous, fast thinking, jovial, always brings a rational and supportive mind and can be depended on to considerately lighten things up. The only time I saw the two male geminis I'm close to get angry was when their ideas weren't being listened to. I think of them both as two of the best, most supportive and fun men I know. :-)

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Originally posted by geea:
Are they violent, extremely posessive and jealous in a relationship?

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posted October 20, 2012 03:59 AM            

lol

But seriously I call everyone sweetie and darling. Did you really feel patronised?

posted October 20, 2012 04:00 AM            

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Wow.

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posted March 08, 2013 10:27 AM              

My boyfriend is gemini and he can be posessive and very jealous. gets very territorial when another man is around me.

I am a gemini female and i am the same only worse :/

He is not violent at all.

Look for mars and pluto squares and saturn in natal.

He can be a bit insensitive with his words uf u **** him off. Otherwise hes a sweetheart. He has cancer venus.

I can be a nasty b&%#@ myself if someone ****** me off

posted March 08, 2013 11:36 AM              

I do throw things around if I'm extremely mad, I guess that could be violent. Really when I'm mad I just throw tantrums, you'll just snicker if you're behind me lol.

posted March 08, 2013 12:41 PM            

He pretty much has the jeckle and hyde effect-

The higher end of himself is generous, playful, funny & nice(gemini sun); affectionate,
snuggly, fatherly, deeply in love, Attached, (cancer moon), sensitive moods( pisces mars), wants to lavish lover (aries venus)

However the lower ends of himself:

Verbally abusive and disrespectful(gemini sun combined with taurus mercury), impatient & self bragging, self centered(aries venus), materialistic or hoarding money (taurus mercury), runs from problems or physically fights back (pisces mars), possesive (cancer moon) wondering eyes (venus aries)

&& lastly ANNOYING!!

posted March 08, 2013 01:24 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildOfFire:
Some gemini are capable of cruelty, manipulation, power games, dominance, disappearing acts and emotional abuse.
Its true.

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I wanna say.. "Some people are capable of cruelty, manipulation..".

posted March 08, 2013 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I was married to a gemini and he was very cruel! He called me the most horrible names, c***, being a regular one! One time he even spit on me....because i said my 3 year old son, his step son had beautiful long eyelashes and he took that to mean i was saying my sons eye lashes were better than his!

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posted March 08, 2013 01:36 PM            

Not so sure, a really good friend of mine was a Gemini, married to a Pisces (whom also is a dear friend) and he tried to be what you'd think of as a tough guy.

But it was quite fake, he sort of had to force himself to it and was awkward.

And eventually it led him astray as they wound up splitting up and he tried that tough guy stuff on his fmr wife and it just went as badly as it possibly could.