posted October 18, 2012 08:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
The things people come up with these days..

What's next? "Scorpio men = low sex-drive" ??!!!

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posted October 18, 2012 08:28 AM            

I lived in a house with a Gemini couple. The girl Gemini had a lot of bad bipolar episodes and was saying all sorts of f*cked up stuff at her Gemini bf. He was a giant of 6'7ft and he was always gentle and patient. Not once did he yell back at her, nor did he ever lay a hand on her. He always spoke respectfully towards all females and opened doors for them.
He was always trying to be polite and accommodating towards the people he liked and there wasn't anyone that I've ever seen nor heard that he disliked.

I have an Aries (female) friend who use to live with me and her Gemini Sun Libra Moon bf was pretty much always around. He's always been super nice and talkative but never was verbally abusive towards her, nor anyone in general. Yeah, he rambled on a lot, but that's a Gemini thing. He would say some of the weirdest and silliest stuff while drunk but that's probably what everyone does drunk. He was always really nice towards me and liked talking with me. If there were people he didn't like, he wouldn't bother trying to make any conversation and would just politely walk away from them.

I've dated 2 Geminis- one had Gemini Moon and the other had Virgo Moon. They were always very nice and loving towards me. Even when we split, they didn't say horrible things to me nor treated me like crap. They tried to make everything good between us and we split without much hassle.

I don't quite agree that Gemini is a "weak" sign. Gemini is actually the only Air sign that's in good position as a Sun sign. Aqua is detriment which explains the weirdness and psycho idealism and Libra is fallen which explains the wishy washy indecisive nature. Gemini is mutable and flexible, but not weak. We're not coward, we just prefer to NOT fight but we can and will fight if it comes down to it. There's many signs that would run away from fights that Gemini would stay and keep going (usually stuff that has to do with freedom). Gemini is rational and spacey at the same time and just because we're uncomfortable with emotions and seek ways to escape feeling weird and mushy, we don't seek to kill emotions nor do we have any interest in bashing others verbally unless someone REALLY got to us. The people who tend to complain about Gemini men tend to be water women who are generally super needy and overly emotionally demanding. Why would any air sign, let alone, Gemini being super airy want to be with someone like that?! That's super depressing so yeah, I can see why they would get verbally abusive to push the women away.

As a Gemini female, when I want to totally get rid of someone, I use verbal and written words as my weapons of choice and just find ways to f*ck up people's egos so they would leave me. There isn't any malice in my words and I suspect there wouldn't be any malice from my male counterparts. The stuff that gets said/written would be so horrible and messed up that it wouldn't matter, the target would think there's malice behind it and would leave (if they're smart and get the hint). Geminis verge onto verbal abuse as last resort.

In general, Gemini would prefer to run away when things get a bit too difficult, because we just don't like lingering around and holding onto to things and people when it's better to detach and fly away. When we're held against our "wills" and exhaust all elusive methods, we can verbally knife the one who's holding us behind.

For those who physically beat up their chicks, look for the Cancers and Scorpios. My Scorpio Dad has 4 Scorpio planets in the 7th house and has an Air kite... he was punching my Mom around for years, and me too. The only difference was, I always fought back. I just a little kid. He swore he would kill my Mom if she ever left him and he told me he'd hunt me down if I leave without permission. It took a long time, but eventually I appealed to my Dad's Air kite and he loosened up... for both me and my Mom (who did leave him). Trust and believe, I know first hand of water's abuse.

posted October 18, 2012 09:26 AM            

Taurus Merc explains why he talks a lot of crap when he's angered and gets disrespectful

Cancer Moon makes him extremely emotional low key and he always says I hurt his feelings with my critical nature

But his Gemini Sun makes him funny, fun, he can be charming

Gemini men are usually wonderful loving fathers that hate to discipline their children

posted October 18, 2012 11:25 AM              

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
This thread doesn't sound very fair. It is based on stereotypical notions. Just because there is a pattern of observation, the sample size isn't large enough to draw conclusions.

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doesnt sound fair?? wth is wrong with you all?
it was a question, see this ”?” ?
meaning i am asking to see if its my impression or they really are.

??it is large enough because so far, all the bitxchin and moaning comes from geminis or people with gemini influence. I value more others opinions = the objective opinions!!!

posted October 18, 2012 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by geea:
doesnt sound fair?? wth is wrong with you all?
it was a question, see this ”?” ?
meaning i am asking to see if its my impression or they really are.

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There have been more than enough posts in this thread - this page alone - that totally and absolutely dispell that notion as untrue.

I swing it back to you. What don't you understand about it not being true?

posted October 18, 2012 01:38 PM            

...and yes, many girls do hate Geminis - but not violence related... they hurt them by braking their hearts not their skull... and maybe it's true - if you're more like a Gemini, u might feel like leaving when things get boring in a relationship - it's what Geminis are known to hate most (boredom)...

I am a Gemini - i even have Cancer ASC - yet i can't relate with violence towards woman... hitting a woman to me feels like hitting a baby - even tho i'm aware that some woman are strong - as a man i'm stronger... and simply don't find it appropriate - wile the ones i like don't even look strong... even if a woman hits me i couldn't fight back - i can take it... but she can't and shouldn't - she's a woman ffs... how low can a man get to hit a woman (or a baby)... -_-

...on the other hand - if a man hits someone special to me... well, i honestly hope that never happens... cause yes - in that situation i can be violent - but even than it's not Gemini related more like Aries + Scorpio...

posted October 18, 2012 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by geea:
i dont care that it bothers you about the number of the posts on this thread.Its my thread and I DO NOT!
Who are you to tell me what to talk about on a public forum?And who are you to tell what is true and what isn”t?
this shows that truth isnt wanted here, only things that are convenient to the eyes the majority.

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I think that the point is that you have asked a question on your thread and therefore you have invited others to speak up about their opinions. If someone's opinion is that your question might be somewhat generalized and applicable to many, many people who are (and are not) Geminis then the chance of actually learning something is diminished.

I have known Geminis who can be violent just as I have known Aires who can be violent as well as Scorpios, etc. etc etc.

This is just *my* opinion (so you may take it with a grain of salt if you like) but I have found that usually the best way to understand why you have certain experiences with a sign's energy is to look at your own chart - that's where you will find your answer. For instance, I had serious issues with Aries men for the first half of my life. Once I began to study astrology I learned that Mars rules my 12th house and my Moon in the 12th squares my Mars in the 4th. That explained a lot to me about why I was experiencing (and attracting) a certain kind of Aries man (they are *not* all alike).

So maybe put up your chart and let's have a look to see if we can figure out why you seem to have these experiences with Geminis???

posted October 18, 2012 08:54 PM              

my mars,vesta and some other asteroids are there in 8t house, trining sun,mercury and venus...theoretically i shouldn”t even have problems with them,right?

And me hating geminis? nah its like this at least from my part

(Odette and yt, if you feel offended talk to a moderator. I will ignore any other comments from you from now on. Thank you.)

posted October 18, 2012 09:34 PM            

you people are seriously nuts.

I was joking.

are you completely bonkers?

it was a j.o.k.e

O_O

holy crap! But we really have some interesting newbies around..

posted October 18, 2012 10:15 PM            

Let's discuss my previous post where I just explained I was joking in my former previous post. In fact let's bring all the moderators here and have a really long and interesting discussion over something completely meaningless and get allllll our panties in one knot...

posted October 18, 2012 11:02 PM            

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Um...I am gonna have to call bs on this one. Sorry, Gemini men I have known CAN be verbally abusive towards their gfs, some of them, but they seem like this needs to be provoked or activated some way, otherwise they are too easygoing. A Mars-Saturn or Mars-Uranus aspect can change this in a HOT minute though.

If anything the MOST violent men I have ever known were usually water signs, usually Cancer.

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This has been my experience with Cancers at the social club. If they feel you're too strong or dominant in a game, they tend to come at your personally and lose sight of the "game."

I think verbally abusive fits Gemini more, than physically abusive. As a Gemini myself, I'm guilty of a few four letter sayings now and then.

posted October 18, 2012 11:40 PM            

>.< very uneasy to watch..