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hannaramaa
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posted December 01, 2012 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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My gf is an Aries. We've been together for 4 years now.
This was what I had observed when I was pursuing her. She is HOT at night but COLD during the day.
She is like a warrior during the DAY doing battles here and there. Then at night that is the time she will drop her sword to rest. Like you, I have also complained about that HOT and COLD treatment. Don't expect that an Aries will tell you the exact time they are dropping their sword. You just got to be there and ask her How her day has been and go from there. Be original. I remember the first gift that I gave to my Aries was a stuff toy and she said YUCK. My pride was hurt but what can I do she is really not into stuff toy. I did things I've never done in my life just to win her. Like singing a song and record it and send it to her.

Be 10 steps ahead you are dealing with a Military.


Exactly! We don't run on anyone's time but our own for the most part.

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posted December 01, 2012 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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So should the Aries girl always make the first move or would that not be wise to wait? Suggestions?

Let me put it this way - they will start the game, but they want to finish it together. An Aries woman doesn't like to be "caught," (I'm speaking from my own perspective - Aries Sun, Mercury, and Venus) because they're competitive. You have to make her feel like she's your #1 priority or we lose interest. High-maintenance and yet not really. It's all in the mindset. Pay attention to other girls, but pay the MOST attention to her. Does that make sense?

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posted December 01, 2012 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So the stuff toy idea is bad? uh oh, lol. Usually i get to know someone then I give them gifts I know only they will like, is this not the Aries type protocal? 10 steps ahead sounds a bit dangerous. I mean would an Aries girl feel uneasy about being approached? Oh and tell me this ..do they act like theydon't like compliments or is this a bad sign already? My compliments have either been ignored or kind of brushed aside..now I guess I should point out not allof them were taken like that but alothave been..recently.

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posted December 01, 2012 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yea and thats exactly what I have done. She does absolutely get my full attention. But hell thats what I want too!

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posted December 01, 2012 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok so how about this to the Aries females or those that know them best or to the guys who are with them ...what would you say is the one thing that would def be a good tip on how to for sure know if an Aries REALLY likes you?

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posted December 01, 2012 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How long have you known her exactly? I'm a little bit confused about your relationship status with her. Have you both been casually dating each other and you want to make it exclusive? Or have you just been talking to each other (i.e. not even dating) and you now want to start going on dates with her?

If you've known her for less than a year, I wouldn't get some big fancy gift. Does she like sports? If so, take her to see her to see a game. Stuffed toys are fine in my opinion. If a girl is rude about a gift, she's not worth your time.

You need to just be blunt with her. Ask her if she's looking for a long-term relationship, something casual or just friendship.

You need to know where she stands and she needs to know where you stand. Cut through all of the games and misunderstandings and get to the point. If you want a long-term relationship while she abhors the idea, then it's time to leave her. Don't let her send you running around in circles because of her mixed signals. Call her out on it...in a nice way. Say something like: "Look, sometimes I get the idea that you like me, but other times you seem to pull away. I don't want to move fast or make you feel uncomfortable, but I've been getting a lot of mixed signals from you, so it's been hard for me to figure out your comfort level on how quickly I should move. I really do like you and hope that we can become a couple in the near future, but if you don't feel the same way, then I need to know now. I don't like playing games or reading minds. I need to know where you stand."

Just lay it all out on the table. Anyone (especially Aries) would respect someone having the guts to lay out all of the cards. Be straightforward with her.


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So the stuff toy idea is bad? uh oh, lol. Usually i get to know someone then I give them gifts I know only they will like, is this not the Aries type protocal? 10 steps ahead sounds a bit dangerous. I mean would an Aries girl feel uneasy about being approached? Oh and tell me this ..do they act like theydon't like compliments or is this a bad sign already? My compliments have either been ignored or kind of brushed aside..now I guess I should point out not allof them were taken like that but alothave been..recently.

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posted December 01, 2012 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yea thats what I was thinking at some point it has to happen, talking and getting close for about maybe 6 months i'd say. I get the feeling that sometimes it may be just friends and sometimes it could be more but working on an Aries female timetable is really kinda confusing me. Especially if I misstep something for something else entirely. Right now we have a WHOLE lot in common. Where it goes from here?...well thats kind of the point of this entire thread. I am just trying to feel out what i should do, in a way losing out entirely would be very bad. I did the whole ignore thing and that was met with a no big deal attitude, im kinda glad though. It only lasted a few days and she explained to me the reasons that she has kinda given me the cold shoulder...well kinda. And yea no im not a game player at all! Im bad at it and its not my thing but this Aries girl just is too good to lose out on. If we are only friends then it will be disappointing but i'd rather that than nothing at all. Of course my pure intention is for love.

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posted December 01, 2012 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NowOrNever     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do not always be available. Why? Aries is all about chase. If you are always available then there is no thrill of chasing you.

Do forget Aries mantra 'I can but you can't.' Which means she can chase you according to her time table but you can't chase her. Take that with a sense of humour.

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posted December 01, 2012 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Who in the world is *always* available??
We all have jobs, lives, families and friends.

The point is - BE HONEST.

Any Aries will value honesty over BS. Period.

God I am SICK and TIRED of this "play hard to get" crap.

Are you an Aries woman - Now or Never.................. ?

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posted December 01, 2012 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gotta Arians.


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posted December 01, 2012 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So who on here that has given me advice is an actual Aries female..honestly?

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posted December 01, 2012 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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So basically I should try an act more Sadge than Cappy with this Aries girl is that right?

Well yeah... Mercury rules the way you *communicate*.. and yours is in Capricorn. She won't like the cold/practical side to your Capricorn Mercury. The Moon in Cap is not as big a problem - as Mercury.
Try to express yourself in a more direct/fiery - Sagittarian way - whenever you speak to her... so she doesn't get the idea that you are -cold- (as Capricorn can be).

I'm not sure if this makes sense ^... I don't really know how else to explain it.
She is an Aries with Aries Mercury - so it is easy for her to express herself.. Her ego and her mind are on the same page.
But you are not a Sag with Sag Mercury... so you might feel one way - but end up saying something else out loud.

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So should the Aries girl always make the first move or would that not be wise to wait? Suggestions?

In my opinion - this is ONLY true on a purely sexual level.

I'm an Aries as I told you.. I like men who are confident, friendly - who can call me up and ask me to go places (as long as it's somewhere interesting!)... and most of all men who I know have a BRAIN.. and can have a conversation with me about non-sexual and non-romantic things.. like anything from philosophy to politics to their hobbies, dreams etc..

I have a serious aversion to men who bring everything back to romance or sex... instead of telling me something interesting.

This might sound strange, but I would prefer it if a guy called me up and started telling me something about the crisis in gaza and what he thinks should happen politically - I would actually be much more interested in that ^ convo.... than I would be if he said "omg what are you wearing right now...? I'm so ho*ny" - <<< I can't stand that kind of guy!!!!!

I need to KNOW you have a functioning brain - for things to even get romantic later... but that's just me. I can't speak for every single Aries girl.

Anyway - back to making the move... Once you hang out more often and are around each other (you can ask her out etc.)... I'm sure she will eventually make a move sexually.

At least for me - its true that - I would feel imposed upon.. if a guy tried to have sex with me before I made the decision that I want that..
So in terms of anything at all physical from just making out wit her- to having sex - I would say - YES! Let her make a move! By all means!

But if we are talking about just making a call and asking her out - then it's perfectly fine for you to call...... You don't have to wait for her to call. She will like it if you take the initiative in this regard.

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posted December 01, 2012 10:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jlate77:
So who on here that has given me advice is an actual Aries female..honestly?

I'm an Aries, Odette is an Aries.

I have Moon/Venus in Gemini, and can be skittish initially. I don't like games, though.

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posted December 01, 2012 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually - I should add something... I don't just want to know that the guy has a functioning brain - but also that he is aware of the fact that I have a brain *myself*.

You'd be surprised how many chauvinists still roam free - even this day and age... who think women are there for sex only... and men are there when you want to have a serious conversation.

Out of basically everything you could do possibly do wrong towards an Aries girl - this is most definitely the worst thing,
If she feels like you treat her as though she is a pretty face rather than an intelligent *person*.... she will never EVER ever like you lol... did I say EVER?

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posted December 01, 2012 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK so this makes sense we talk about alot of different things and being a Sadge I love the conversations and exchange and shes actually very intelligent, as I have told her at least a few times. There has been more than one occasion that I have asked her advice or asked her about something to which I know she has a vast knowledge about. The only reason I ask about the first steps to intimacy or possible itimacy would be because some females will want the man or I should say most will need the man to make the first move ie..go in for a kiss. Hey but doesn't everyone at some point have that problem. Yea I have never steered the conversation to something as cheesey as say sex or whatever. Unless thats where it began in the first place ya know. But I never do anyting like that, I do think thats very creepy myself. I like smart, strong girls that know what they want and are not afraid to go after it. The other relationship I was involved in was with a similiar female..her bday was 8/8/73. We got along very well and we actually very good friends first before anything else. Now for another question ..what is it with the 8th of the month and me? Lol..Is there something to that maybe??

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posted December 01, 2012 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
Actually - I should add something... I don't just want to know that the guy has a functioning brain - but also that he is aware of the fact that I have a brain *myself*.

You'd be surprised how many chauvinists still roam free - even this day and age... who think women are there for sex only... and men are there when you want to have a serious conversation.

Out of basically everything you could do possibly do wrong towards an Aries girl - this is most definitely the worst thing,
If she feels like you treat her as though she is a pretty face rather than an intelligent *person*.... she will never EVER ever like you lol... did I say EVER?


I don't! But im not gonna lie either and say that I don't heap compliments..not overwelming. As I said in the earlier post I do think she is VERY SMART!! And have told her this a few times, and its no bs line. If I didn't think she was, I wouldn't bring intelligence into it at all.

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posted December 01, 2012 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok well really - it sounds as though she should like you!
I would be surprised if she didn't.
About kissing her - normally an Aries girl will not feel as though the guy needs to make that first move.
If the time is right and she is attracted and she knows that he is attracted - she would gladly be first to kiss him.

BUT - you have to remember we don't know this girl personally. You are the one who knows her... so you have to trust your intuition as well!!

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Now for another question ..what is it with the 8th of the month and me? Lol..Is there something to that maybe??

This is interesting... I'm born on the 2nd of April and I often end up with men born on the 20th or 2nd or 11th. I always thought this was because they all add up to "2" - in numerology.
Looking at the 11th and the 8th.... I'm not sure what the common link would be..
I know that both of these numbers are considered very karmic in numerology... but the 8th has heavier karma.. they can have difficult lives, whereas the 11th is more 'magical' in some way... there is something special about them, like a special talent for example.

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posted December 01, 2012 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
Ok well really - it sounds as though she should like you!
I would be surprised if she didn't.
About kissing her - normally an Aries girl will not feel as though the guy needs to make that first move.
If the time is right and she is attracted and she knows that he is attracted - she would gladly be first to kiss him.

BUT - you have to remember we don't know this girl personally. You are the one who knows her... so you have to trust your intuition as well!!

This is interesting... I'm born on the 2nd of April and I often end up with men born on the 20th or 2nd or 11th. I always thought this was because they all add up to "2" - in numerology.
Looking at the 11th and the 8th.... I'm not sure what the common link would be..
I know that both of these numbers are considered very karmic in numerology... but the 8th has heavier karma.. they can have difficult lives, whereas the 11th is more 'magical' in some way... there is something special about them, like a special talent for example.


Yea I think she must because even though she acts kinda aloof and cool im not sure im buying into it at 100%...no offense. I think she has a cool way about her but the fact that I did just let like 3 or 4 days slip without so much as a hello and it didn't seem to bad. Normally she knows prob by now that I hadn't done that before even if we didn't talk in depth it was usually a hi how are you kinda thing. I didn't do that to play games I kinda did that as to see if she would easily give up. Happily I was wrong. Convo picked back up as if nothing happened today as a matter of fact. I know when I was first talking to this other Leo that I was with for a few years this girl acted the same way, did the same thing. These 8's I don't know what it is but its funny how either I am attracting them in some way or they are pulled to me.. I don't get it. Didn't know that about 11's though..thats interesting.The only real stumbling block so far is that she is unable to for some reason want to go and do something together, maybe I am wording it wrong. Maybe she isn't at that point yet. Or maybe she doesn't see us as there at that level yet. I don't know but alot of suggestions are met with no reply. Dishearting. I mean these aren't like "date" kinda suggestions so that she doesn't have to feel too weird about it. I don't know. I think I suggested a movie slipped into the conversation and it got no reply.

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posted December 02, 2012 04:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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So the stuff toy idea is bad? uh oh, lol. Usually i get to know someone then I give them gifts I know only they will like, is this not the Aries type protocal? 10 steps ahead sounds a bit dangerous. I mean would an Aries girl feel uneasy about being approached? Oh and tell me this ..do they act like theydon't like compliments or is this a bad sign already? My compliments have either been ignored or kind of brushed aside..now I guess I should point out not allof them were taken like that but alothave been..recently.

Like Odette said, we can give you a lot of advice but you're the one who knows her personally. Trust your own judgment as well and don't bend over backwards to get her! Haha, Aries women really don't like that. I will have to go look at her chart, and come back with my opinion. If your compliments are getting ignored or brushed to the side perhaps you're complimenting her too much? As an Aries sun (Mercury) and Venus myself I get stand-offish when a guy pays me too many compliments! I like them in moderation or rare. In a perfect world I would want a guy to immediately devote himself to me, and then chase each other for eternity. That would be bliss (again in my mind this ends happily and without confusion or anything. Dream world.) I would feel uneasy about being approached by someone I'm not interested in, but that's not an Aries thing. I think that's universal.

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posted December 02, 2012 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an Aries Sun 22deg and a Venus Pisces 6deg.

Hmmm....when am I hot and cold with people?...
If I am liking someone and or beginning to become interested in them...and want to get to know them more...and I get the vibes that they just want to get to the sex and who cares what your middle name is. Then I would play the hot and cold games.

Oh yeah and if I guy blows me off once twice or more...I wont feel bad if I blow them off. Cause they clearly deserve it.

I usually do the hot and cold thing if there is some reason I feel like I can't take the guy seriously. From feeling like he just wants to get laid, to blowing me off a bunch and being full of excuses.

I also love talking on the phone!
Haha...I noticed someone talking about genuine challenge. I'm in a long distance relationship with a marines. And yeah this is my first relationship where I have stability, and hes a scorpio. I like how we do it. We text each other throughout the day, and we can go a long time without saying something to each other somedays, but its not a big deal. And before he goes to bed we talk on the phone from anywhere to a half hour to and hour and a half. Sometimes almost 2 hours.

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posted December 02, 2012 12:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm an Aries Sun 22deg and a Venus Pisces 6deg.

Hmmm....when am I hot and cold with people?...
If I am liking someone and or beginning to become interested in them...and want to get to know them more...and I get the vibes that they just want to get to the sex and who cares what your middle name is. Then I would play the hot and cold games.

Oh yeah and if I guy blows me off once twice or more...I wont feel bad if I blow them off. Cause they clearly deserve it.

I usually do the hot and cold thing if there is some reason I feel like I can't take the guy seriously. From feeling like he just wants to get laid, to blowing me off a bunch and being full of excuses.

I also love talking on the phone!
Haha...I noticed someone talking about genuine challenge. I'm in a long distance relationship with a marines. And yeah this is my first relationship where I have stability, and hes a scorpio. I like how we do it. We text each other throughout the day, and we can go a long time without saying something to each other somedays, but its not a big deal. And before he goes to bed we talk on the phone from anywhere to a half hour to and hour and a half. Sometimes almost 2 hours.


Ok Stawr, I am not just trying to get laid..and I think or hope she would know that. Why on earth would I continue to try so hard and still hang around if that were the case. We do talk at least a bit each day, and I have talked on the phone with her for as much as 10 hours...pretty much the whole night. The conversation has become very comfortable. Very comfortable,I get a sense that she feels at ease talking to me about almost anything. This isn't just a one time thing for me at all. If this girl is in my life from here on out, I would be very happy! So from all that tell me your thoughts? And thanks for the response.

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posted December 02, 2012 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anno_lucis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i can't offer any relationship 'advice' since that would be somewhat hypocritical. 'the aries mantra' did make me crack up, tho. i want to put it in a sig.

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Having trouble with an Aries female ..we started talking and everything was good and seems to still be good but I need to see if I can get to that next level.

ok there's your first mistake. you're wanting to push things forward, but you don't rush an aries. we operate to our own schedule, as mentioned by the other girls. as a venus in aries, i am direct in my affections, however that is considered a somehwat backwards approach, as opposed by a venus in pisces type, who, i'm assuming, would take a more classical, receptive approach - of which, i would know nothing. so yea, no help there lol

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I mean we have alot in common, talk on fb and the phone for hours but I get a hot and cold feel. Her bday is april 8th. Need some assistance with this and how to deal with your typical Aries girl. I feel that sometimes she pulls away when I put my feelings out there but im not sure if I take the aloof approach would work any better. Help???? Anyone, lol?? If you were wondering about my chart I am a Sag sun, moon in Cap rising sign is Taurus. Help???


i'm a first decan aries, in a relationship with a third decan sag. you are incredibly amazing, precious guys, and frankly, we are..ahem... hard work *deflects pummel of fists from ll aries contingent* so if you have repeatedly made yourself clear, made the necessary effort, and still nothing, move on, my friend. and i don't mean play hard to get. i mean really - move on. she'll probably come running in no time, LOL. and if not, it's really her loss. good luck.

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posted December 02, 2012 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anno_lucis:
i can't offer any relationship 'advice' since that would be somewhat hypocritical. 'the aries mantra' did make me crack up, tho. i want to put it in a sig.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Jlate77:
Having trouble with an Aries female ..we started talking and everything was good and seems to still be good but I need to see if I can get to that next level.



ok there's your first mistake. you're wanting to push things forward, but you don't rush an aries. we operate to our own schedule, as mentioned by the other girls. as a venus in aries, i am direct in my affections, however that is considered a somehwat backwards approach, as opposed by a venus in pisces type, who, i'm assuming, would take a more classical, receptive approach - of which, i would know nothing. so yea, no help there lol

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I mean we have alot in common, talk on fb and the phone for hours but I get a hot and cold feel. Her bday is april 8th. Need some assistance with this and how to deal with your typical Aries girl. I feel that sometimes she pulls away when I put my feelings out there but im not sure if I take the aloof approach would work any better. Help???? Anyone, lol?? If you were wondering about my chart I am a Sag sun, moon in Cap rising sign is Taurus. Help???


i'm a first decan aries, in a relationship with a third decan sag. you are incredibly amazing, precious guys, and frankly, we are..ahem... hard work *deflects pummel of fists from ll aries contingent* so if you have repeatedly made yourself clear, made the necessary effort, and still nothing, move on, my friend. and i don't mean play hard to get. i mean really - move on. she'll probably come running in no time, LOL. and if not, it's really her loss. good luck.
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Thanks for the advice, yea a few things to note. One I am a 2nd decan Sag and she is a 2nd decan Aries..so theres no 1st or 3rd decan compairisons but I do get what you are saying. Note also as I had repeated im not opposed to being just friends if all other attempts fail miserably. However at this point I am trying to see if there is a possibility for more. I think there could be, and I reapeat.."could be". Glad you got a kick out of this post, lol. This is a first for me in dealing with the very confusing behavior of an Aries female. So without knowing much I only have this to go on. Heance the reason for the advice, at this point I am just listening to everyones different advice. Again I am A Saggie so I am always willing to listen, *We are the best listeners in the entire zodiac*. But not trying to come off hurt or angry here, everyone's different advice is always welcome. Just gathereing info. Thank you, hope it all works, but yeah im sure if it doesn't theres always another chance with someone else around the corner. And if its another Aries i'll at least know the protocall for the next time.

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posted December 02, 2012 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jlate77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So from what everyone's adivce on here about the Aries female's heart. I am taking it that Aries will lead the relationship where she wants it to go and just strap in and enjoy the ride..am I right?

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posted December 02, 2012 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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i understand mate i dated an aries girl for 10 months she went hot and cold often..

make her chase you,aries girls like a challenge and don't come across as being to wet and needy..

if that don't work make your move if she rejects you find someone else!

ahh aquarius wisdom.


oh yeah! I don't mind being nurturing and helping out sometimes...wearing the pants.

But I've learned that can make the guy expect me to be like that all the time!

I've dated some serious dead beats in my past when I had low self esteem.

It took me living with an ex for 6 months (Gemini with a triple cancer) to finally learn to stop putting up with this, and have some higher standards. And to get to know the guy first, so I know what I am getting into!

After that relationship I would give similar dead beat guys a chance. Them wanting to jump into a relationship. Asking me out on dates...I get there and am starving...and guess what? We split fried cucumbers...I didn't say anything but I was p!ssed! I mean we where young but I at least expected a meal and not an appetizer. He was good looking but he was too pushy, cheap, and he had a lot of chick friends. Yes people should be able to be friends with the opposite sex...but it can be suspicious at times. Plus his best friend was a girl. AND he told me that they tried being boyfriend and girlfriend, but he ended up telling me that it was weird so he told her they should go back to being friends, though the sex was good. That there made me cringe.

Another dude also was all like "I really like you" I told him..."you barely know me" He asked me out on a date...he worked under the table and was having issues getting payed at his job. And text me "I hope you don't have to pay for me" I let him know I was not gonna pay for him...but I could find a place where he could use a coupon.

I was not gonna start off that way, after what I have been though.

So yeah he lost interest. And is now married to his "friend/sugar mama"

and that's fine with me!

and don't get me wrong I'll pay on dates sometimes...but I don't want to pay most of the time after what I have been though. When I go out to see my guy I plan on treating him to dinner for his belated birthday. And I'm going to buy things at the store and make him pies from scratch.

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