posted December 09, 2012 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
well thank you ma'am!

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posted December 09, 2012 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I thank you and appreciate your sentiments and impeccable manners. However, I'm male.

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posted December 09, 2012 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
Aaah I'm embarrassed!

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posted December 15, 2012 06:30 PM            

Today I was in control of the department selling xmas trees, we sold 74 trees and made £3500, yet still so far I am not a manager.

This Capricorn needs some promotion and extra wages £££ .. or I will move on to elsewhere where I get it for my effort.

They say the motto for us is "I use"

posted December 15, 2012 06:41 PM            

capricorns need success because they were made to feel they could never achieve it when they were young. and they were pressured so much to achieve it (usually bc of big financial problems..they dont feel worthy of it), that they feel worthless if they dont. Like i'm talking about "status" success. Stuff that gives u a high status in society. it's not success like "i am doing what makes me happy and thus am successful at life" its like...i am rich and people know me, and im important and i own nice things, and everyone envies me, therefore i am succesful. But its not in a totally show-offy way. They are pretty nonshoffy. Its not like libra or leo or gemini etc etc who are dramatic and eccentric and love attention and showing off. They are usually too guilt ridden about vanity to do that. But they need to feel like they achieved something big, u know? its more for themselves, than for others. Sadly, i feel, the more successful they become...the sadder they grow..

I have saturn afflicting my sun, mercury, 3rd house, mars and venus.

posted December 15, 2012 07:05 PM            

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capricorns need success because they were made to feel they could never achieve it when they were young. and they were pressured so much to achieve it (usually bc of big financial problems..they dont feel worthy of it), that they feel worthless if they dont. Like i'm talking about "status" success. Stuff that gives u a high status in society. it's not success like "i am doing what makes me happy and thus am successful at life" its like...i am rich and people know me, and im important and i own nice things, and everyone envies me, therefore i am succesful. But its not in a totally show-offy way. They are pretty nonshoffy. Its not like libra or leo or gemini etc etc who are dramatic and eccentric and love attention and showing off. They are usually too guilt ridden about vanity to do that. But they need to feel like they achieved something big, u know? its more for themselves, than for others. Sadly, i feel, the more successful they become...the sadder they grow..

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posted December 15, 2012 07:33 PM            

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Originally posted by HappyCap:
I am not all about work work work work work. I like to play! I am kinda a procrastinator like to the T. If it was a subject I would ace it. Though I do have to say when I am under extreme pressure my work comes out a lot better. I do like to learn new things I am not opposed to that I like having random knowledge of sometimes the most useless information. I don�t strive to be the best but I do like the praise when I do. Hey who doesn�t? I am a very laid back individual who likes to sleep in and cuddle all day and watch movies, to just being outside going for hikes. It is true that if I have been betrayed by someone it takes a lot for me to warm up to them again. I also have a tendency to always feel that I am being betrayed afterwords and I have anxiety that I am going to get hurt. (thank you relationships) I am a big softy and yet I do in fact�wear my heart on my sleeve.

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posted December 15, 2012 07:36 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
It's not even like that...

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oh no? then..what is it like.

posted December 15, 2012 08:10 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Actually, I don't even care what anyone thinks of nice things or an abundance or lack thereof. I not into status either. Because I don't give two pennies what anyone thinks of me. I just like stuff. Good stuff. Lots of stuff. Makes me happy. Honestly don't give a sh t if there is envy or admiration or contempt or whatever. If I can buy a purple and lime green HumVee with no mufflers, if it makes me happy, if I have the dough, I'll do it to appease myself. I honestly don't care what anyone else thinks or feels or says about me or whatever reputation I have, or lack. Money. Lots of it. If I can sit on my bum on the beach and I have lots of it, work can kiss my a$$.

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My quibble with that is simply that appeasing oneself is not actually progressing in life YTA.

Not saying shave ones head and become a monk, am suggesting that retail therapy, no matter the price, winds up being unsatisfying.

posted December 16, 2012 06:26 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Capricorn isnt about work. I would say it's the opposite. they are pretty lazy :P
But they do need that feeling of "status."

capricorns need success because they were made to feel they could never achieve it when they were young. and they were pressured so much to achieve it (usually bc of big financial problems..they dont feel worthy of it), that they feel worthless if they dont. Like i'm talking about "status" success. Stuff that gives u a high status in society. it's not success like "i am doing what makes me happy and thus am successful at life" its like...i am rich and people know me, and im important and i own nice things, and everyone envies me, therefore i am succesful. But its not in a totally show-offy way. They are pretty nonshoffy. Its not like libra or leo or gemini etc etc who are dramatic and eccentric and love attention and showing off. They are usually too guilt ridden about vanity to do that. But they need to feel like they achieved something big, u know? its more for themselves, than for others. Sadly, i feel, the more successful they become...the sadder they grow..

I have saturn afflicting my sun, mercury, 3rd house, mars and venus.

but with cap south node, and a cancer sun...i am learning in this life time to adopt the totally opposite life view.

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posted December 16, 2012 01:36 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Capricorn isnt about work. I would say it's the opposite. they are pretty lazy :P
But they do need that feeling of "status."

capricorns need success because they were made to feel they could never achieve it when they were young. and they were pressured so much to achieve it (usually bc of big financial problems..they dont feel worthy of it), that they feel worthless if they dont. Like i'm talking about "status" success. Stuff that gives u a high status in society. it's not success like "i am doing what makes me happy and thus am successful at life" its like...i am rich and people know me, and im important and i own nice things, and everyone envies me, therefore i am succesful. But its not in a totally show-offy way. They are pretty nonshoffy. Its not like libra or leo or gemini etc etc who are dramatic and eccentric and love attention and showing off. They are usually too guilt ridden about vanity to do that. But they need to feel like they achieved something big, u know? its more for themselves, than for others. Sadly, i feel, the more successful they become...the sadder they grow..

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posted December 16, 2012 05:34 PM            

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His response is I will rest when im dead.

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I say this all the time... my husband calls me robo-mommy cause I barely, eat/sleep --- programmed to keep working... it's about providing though, more than actually gaining any material profit, or status, or success...

--- single-minded Capricorn drive/ambition --- provide the best for ourselves, and those we love... everything else becomes secondary... 'specially once you have a family of your own... kicks into high gear!~

IMPE that is~ --- still, kinda freaky hearin' someone else has the same mantra~ lol

posted December 16, 2012 05:59 PM            

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--- single-minded Capricorn drive/ambition --- provide the best for ourselves, and those we love... everything else becomes secondary... 'specially once you have a family of your own... kicks into high gear!~

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posted December 16, 2012 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Capricorn isnt about work. I would say it's the opposite. they are pretty lazy :P
But they do need that feeling of "status."

capricorns need success because they were made to feel they could never achieve it when they were young. and they were pressured so much to achieve it (usually bc of big financial problems..they dont feel worthy of it), that they feel worthless if they dont. Like i'm talking about "status" success. Stuff that gives u a high status in society. it's not success like "i am doing what makes me happy and thus am successful at life" its like...i am rich and people know me, and im important and i own nice things, and everyone envies me, therefore i am succesful. But its not in a totally show-offy way. They are pretty nonshoffy. Its not like libra or leo or gemini etc etc who are dramatic and eccentric and love attention and showing off. They are usually too guilt ridden about vanity to do that. But they need to feel like they achieved something big, u know? its more for themselves, than for others. Sadly, i feel, the more successful they become...the sadder they grow..

I have saturn afflicting my sun, mercury, 3rd house, mars and venus.

but with cap south node, and a cancer sun...i am learning in this life time to adopt the totally opposite life view.

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posted December 16, 2012 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by bridgetostars23:
What sign do you guys attract the most?

Cap sun/scorpio moon/cap asc

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i get tons of aquas coming my way and scorps too. i think it might have to do with the mysterious, more quiet nature most caps and cap moons project; aquas and scorps like to solve mysteries and maybe they think we are one

posted December 16, 2012 09:22 PM            

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Originally posted by bridgetostars23:
What sign do you guys attract the most?

Cap sun/scorpio moon/cap asc

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Aries! And Gemini.
I think.

posted December 16, 2012 09:31 PM            

I do very well with instruction, but not orders.

I especially hate being told what to do when I'm already going to do it.

I don't do well writing papers in class that come with rubrics because I want to write the paper MY WAY.

posted December 17, 2012 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
So Padre,, so I should just aspire to be like everyone else?

It's not even about me. It's about being the best possible family provider. Nothing but the best.

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Not at all I personally celebrate positive uniqueness, my thrust is more that the "best" does not mean "makes people the happiest".