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watermonkey
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posted January 03, 2013 04:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for watermonkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well so my purpose is to find out more about virgo sun females-their thoughts and feelings preferably towards a gemini sun guy. Below are my superficial views on different sun females based on my interaction and experiences with them for the past 20 years of my life from a gemini point of view so pardon me if i do offend anyone

Gemini - playful, attention seeking,
Aries- domineering, bossy, thinks they can do whatever a man can do
cancer- extremely emotional and sensitive
Aquarius- Good to chat with can talk about almost anything, but they can be quite unpredictable and weird, enjoys freedom
Libra - fun but they are the sort that like to pamper themselves and seeks comfort and luxury, can get along great though.
Saggitarius - Probably the only sign that can talk to any gemini sun guys on the phone for days- they are honest and fun but sometimes selfish and stubborn and think their way is right although it might not be.
Pisces- They like to avoid conflicts by changing subjects and they are very good at doing it subtly, but they are kind and compassionate to the extent of being like a people pleaser but a bitter one,i think they daydream alot and indulge alot in fantasies which they think it could be reality lol.
Scorpio- smart, capable, in relationship may be abit manipulative and likes to be controlling to feel secure

This leave me with a few sun signs that i havet yet to know off, probably dont click well enough and never seem to understand which are the taurus,capricorn,leo, and virgo.

So obviously there are some similarities among them with capricorn, taurus and virgo which are all earth signs and leo which is a fixed sign which i conclude are too stable and serious for me which i think they see as not attractive to them?? But amongst them lies one that has intrigued me which are the virgo female and i realised although they are earth sign they are also mutable which was they reason why i still do get fun moments with them. But sometimes i feel they are too filial and they always put their families above everything, they can be selfish and the things they are selfish about are always their family or themselves not their friends or maybe even partners. They are very rational in the realistic/practical sense and are not like gemini who are abit more creative/idealistic which sometimes can shut off a gemini during conversations. The initial attraction with them is great for some reason which i cant explain why i just feel this way with a couple of virgo females, and i feel the need to understand them better and how they work. So any virgo sun females can share their views on gemini sun guys? or any gemini guys here have any experiences with a virgo female??


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posted January 03, 2013 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo sun here...

Gemini sun was my first honest/real love. He was my favorite BF... we really could talk about anything into the wee hours of the night on any night of the week. Youth and our foolishly moving too fast in the relationship was ultimately what broke us up but there were no hard feelings & nothing drama-filled. We are still friends (16 years later).

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posted January 03, 2013 05:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by watermonkey:
The initial attraction with them is great for some reason which i cant explain why i just feel this way with a couple of virgo...

Well... Virgo ladies are known for their sex appeal even if we don't present ourselves as sexy. That may be a part of it anyway.

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posted January 03, 2013 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KAMcA10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo women are like this with everyone, I think.

The main thing I notice about Virgo women (as a Taurus with Virgo Asc) is that they give off the impression of not being very ambitious, and of not doing just a ton to advance themselves in life. They analyze and judge people, however, according to a pretty high standard - including themselves. Virgo is the calculating and practical side of Mercury. If a Virgo woman gets the idea that you don't measure up to something important to her or didn't do something exactly right that she cared about, she'll figure that she won't be able to get what she wants through a relationship with you.

In all, it's pretty tough to do everything right, especially if you don't know the girl all that well. So focus on being confident, initiating things, and figuring out how you feel about who she is - and what to do about it. I think if you show confidence and leadership in the interaction - and especially in the romantic and sexual aspects of it - you'll be in as good of stead with Virgo women as any other. Good luck!

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posted January 03, 2013 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for watermonkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geeky:
Virgo sun here...

Gemini sun was my first honest/real love. He was my favorite BF... we really could talk about anything into the wee hours of the night on any night of the week. Youth and our foolishly moving too fast in the relationship was ultimately what broke us up but there were no hard feelings & nothing drama-filled. We are still friends (16 years later).


May i ask what sign did you end up with

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posted January 03, 2013 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for watermonkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geeky:
Well... Virgo ladies are known for their sex appeal even if we don't present ourselves as sexy. That may be a part of it anyway.


Well i dont really find them sexy but more of purity lol

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posted January 03, 2013 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for watermonkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KAMcA10:
Virgo women are like this with everyone, I think.

The main thing I notice about Virgo women (as a Taurus with Virgo Asc) is that they give off the impression of not being very ambitious, and of not doing just a ton to advance themselves in life. They analyze and judge people, however, according to a pretty high standard - including themselves. Virgo is the calculating and practical side of Mercury. If a Virgo woman gets the idea that you don't measure up to something important to her or didn't do something exactly right that she cared about, she'll figure that she won't be able to get what she wants through a relationship with you.

In all, it's pretty tough to do everything right, especially if you don't know the girl all that well. So focus on being confident, initiating things, and figuring out how you feel about who she is - and what to do about it. I think if you show confidence and leadership in the interaction - and especially in the romantic and sexual aspects of it - you'll be in as good of stead with Virgo women as any other. Good luck!


Hehe thanks! seems like virgo girls are a pretty tough catch with lots of challenges, well i am just trying to understand them better though

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posted January 03, 2013 07:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Libra girl, but its different. I act like a Virgo, because I'm shy and critical but my social nature wasn't fully tHERE, until recently when I realized that everyone has insecurities. And the human theory isn't to be outfront about it.

To me BOTH mercury ruled signs arent nearly the same as water even if its chinese. Because Gemini energy is so scattered and careless.

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posted January 03, 2013 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hahaha your descriptions of the signs are pretty accurate

Virgos always have an aura of purity, and they're always independent, often very intelligent and have strong opinions, even if it may not be clear at the start. They are quite stubborn and aren't the weak type. They appear quite controlled, and that's because they actually have a very soft center they feel uncomfortable showing, UNLESS they trust you.
They can be hard to get to know, and hard to get emotionally, but they are very passionate, attentive and love to chat for ridiculous amounts of time when you get to know them better. I feel if you want something stable and long term, earth sign females are generally better. They're more consistent and no nonsense.

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posted January 03, 2013 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also find that Virgos can be very promiscuous, or sway to the other end of the spectrum. Either way, they're complex.

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posted January 03, 2013 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by watermonkey:
May i ask what sign did you end up with

I ended up with a Cappy sun - Gemini rising.

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posted January 03, 2013 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I also find that Virgos can be very promiscuous, or sway to the other end of the spectrum. Either way, they're complex.

Indeed. And usually we complicate ourselves. It's pretty ridiculous at times LOL!

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posted January 03, 2013 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not a solar Virgo but a Virgo rising, anyway...I already feel sorry for you lol. Expectations might be hiiiigh And it may take a lot of time to gain her trust if you wanna be more than friends.

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posted January 03, 2013 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hahaha your descriptions of the signs are pretty accurate

Virgos always have an aura of purity, and they're always independent, often very intelligent and have strong opinions, even if it may not be clear at the start. They are quite stubborn and aren't the weak type. They appear quite controlled, and that's because they actually have a very soft center they feel uncomfortable showing, UNLESS they trust you.
They can be hard to get to know, and hard to get emotionally, but they are very passionate, attentive and love to chat for ridiculous amounts of time when you get to know them better. I feel if you want something stable and long term, earth sign females are generally better. They're more consistent and no nonsense.



Agreed to that, sistah!

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posted January 03, 2013 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by watermonkey:
Well i dont really find them sexy but more of purity lol

Virgo ladies I think are sexy:

Salma Hayek, Amy Yasbeck, Ingrid Bergman, Lauren Bacall (meow!!!) Cameron Diaz, Evan Rachel Wood, Faith Hill, Pink, Jane Greer (my birthday woot!), and Sophia Loren...

Just to name a few! =D

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posted January 03, 2013 09:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Karmic Soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:

Virgos always have an aura of purity, and they're always independent, often very intelligent and have strong opinions, even if it may not be clear at the start. They are quite stubborn and aren't the weak type. They appear quite controlled, and that's because they actually have a very soft center they feel uncomfortable showing, UNLESS they trust you.
They can be hard to get to know, and hard to get emotionally, but they are very passionate, attentive and love to chat for ridiculous amounts of time when you get to know them better. I feel if you want something stable and long term, earth sign females are generally better. They're more consistent and no nonsense.


Yes. (But we could be worth it.)

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posted January 04, 2013 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blackbird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Scorpio Sun, but I have Venus and Mars conjunct in Virgo.


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Originally posted by KAMcA10:
Virgo women [...] give off the impression of not being very ambitious

Virgo is a mutable sign. Virgo energy doesn't usually lead or initiate.


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They analyze and judge people, however, according to a pretty high standard - including themselves.

I do this too.


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If a Virgo woman gets the idea that you don't measure up to something important to her or didn't do something exactly right that she cared about, she'll figure that she won't be able to get what she wants through a relationship with you.

I feel this way too. But keep in mind the self-critical aspect. Virgo is trying hard to be and to do everything right. One of the best things you can probably do for a Virgo is give them a sincere complement, or ask them for advice. Show that you noticed their attention to detail.


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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
mercury ruled signs

Bingo. Here's the common ground. Both Gemini and Virgo are ruled by Mercury, and both are mutable signs.


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I also find that Virgos can be very promiscuous, or sway to the other end of the spectrum. Either way, they're complex.

I'm on the other end of the spectrum.


To the original poster:

It sounds like you're just looking at sun signs. There is more to synastry (astrological compatibility) than the sun. What are your and your romantic interests' ascendant/rising sign? Moon sign? Mercury? Venus and Mars? These may tell you more about compatibility than just checking sun signs.


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posted January 04, 2013 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for indigomoon8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo sun female here...my longest and most serious boyfriend of almost 2 yrs is a Gemini sun. There is so much love in the friendship kind of way. We both like to laugh and play like kids. My criticism bothers him a lot and causes arguments. He tends to irritate me. Arguments can get very verbally bad but conversations last hours. Every Virgo-Gemini pair I know we're some the longest and loving relationships for Virgo and Gemini is absolutely smitten over Virgo. The pair leads to a lovers and best friends.

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posted January 04, 2013 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for watermonkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@blackbird Lol my point here is not seeking for a love interest but just to understand virgos sun girls better, and sun is the only information i can get from them, i mean who will give out their time of birth haha, i tried asking once for fun and she said she wasnt comfortable which was completely expected.

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posted January 04, 2013 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for watermonkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Karmic Soul:
Yes. (But we could be worth it.)


Heh no offence though, but imo not really worth it if you consider/weigh the amount of effort vs gains after unlocking a critical and shy virgo girl which is so hard compared to the other signs available..

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posted January 04, 2013 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ well since you've never really gotten that far with a Virgo chick how would you know they're 'not worth it?'

Virgo girls love deep unlike a lot of other signs that are more frivolous with their emotions.

But then again, Gemini guys have the attention span of a goldfish lol so yeah, better stick to Aries, Sag and Aqua.

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posted January 04, 2013 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for watermonkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by indigomoon8:
Virgo sun female here...my longest and most serious boyfriend of almost 2 yrs is a Gemini sun. There is so much love in the friendship kind of way. We both like to laugh and play like kids. My criticism bothers him a lot and causes arguments. He tends to irritate me. Arguments can get very verbally bad but conversations last hours. Every Virgo-Gemini pair I know we're some the longest and loving relationships for Virgo and Gemini is absolutely smitten over Virgo. The pair leads to a lovers and best friends.

Sounds good

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posted January 04, 2013 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress299     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Virgo with some experience with Geminis. I dated a Gemini guy once, but on top of that, I've been friends with several Geminis (mostly female Geminis though). Personally, I think the main differences lie in the fact that Geminis do tend to have a shallow understanding of a lot of things and they flit around too much from one thing to another. Virgos are thorough and enjoy deeper knowledge and understanding. Virgos are readers and Geminis are talkers (that's the best way I can describe it). Geminis typically don't seem to have time for deeper knowledge because their social schedules don't permit it (Geminis are often off pleasing other people, whereas many Virgos really don't give a crap about what other people think). Geminis are fun for awhile... But they can get tedious because they don't really have any serious attachment to most things and/or people. It can make them seem disingenuous about who they are. Virgos are really cut the crap types and so while it is fun to play with Geminis for a little while, we get tired of having to deal with excuses, lies, etc (not all Geminis do this, btw) about why they aren't there for you when you need them to be. I've only had ONE Gemini that was a genuinely good friend to me and was there for me when I needed her. The rest of them seemed to be a bit TOO changeable.

It is true that Virgos are also mutable signs, but we're still earth signs and we build solid foundations in our relationships. If a Virgo thinks that you are going to ditch them when the next shiny thing/person comes along, they will tend to shut off to you because internally they attach very deeply and are very sensitive. That may be why you have a good initial attraction to them (in terms of friendships or whatever), but if you don't fit into that Virgo's 'system' (and yes, a lot of Virgos have internal 'systems' that you probably don't know about), then chances are the Virgo isn't going to stick around. You have to show them that you are going to be reliable in SOME manner. The whole Gemini- 'creative/idealistic/fun' thing is only fun to us when it's got some depth and action behind it. Otherwise it's just talk and castles in the sky...

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posted January 04, 2013 08:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Damn straight!
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Originally posted by enchantress299:
I'm a Virgo with some experience with Geminis. I dated a Gemini guy once, but on top of that, I've been friends with several Geminis (mostly female Geminis though). Personally, I think the main differences lie in the fact that Geminis do tend to have a shallow understanding of a lot of things and they flit around too much from one thing to another. Virgos are thorough and enjoy deeper knowledge and understanding. Virgos are readers and Geminis are talkers (that's the best way I can describe it). Geminis typically don't seem to have time for deeper knowledge because their social schedules don't permit it (Geminis are often off pleasing other people, whereas many Virgos really don't give a crap about what other people think). Geminis are fun for awhile... But they can get tedious because they don't really have any serious attachment to most things and/or people. It can make them seem disingenuous about who they are. Virgos are really cut the crap types and so while it is fun to play with Geminis for a little while, we get tired of having to deal with excuses, lies, etc (not all Geminis do this, btw) about why they aren't there for you when you need them to be. I've only had ONE Gemini that was a genuinely good friend to me and was there for me when I needed her. The rest of them seemed to be a bit TOO changeable.

It is true that Virgos are also mutable signs, but we're still earth signs and we build solid foundations in our relationships. If a Virgo thinks that you are going to ditch them when the next shiny thing/person comes along, they will tend to shut off to you because internally they attach very deeply and are very sensitive. That may be why you have a good initial attraction to them (in terms of friendships or whatever), but if you don't fit into that Virgo's 'system' (and yes, a lot of Virgos have internal 'systems' that you probably don't know about), then chances are the Virgo isn't going to stick around. You have to show them that you are going to be reliable in SOME manner. The whole Gemini- 'creative/idealistic/fun' thing is only fun to us when it's got some depth and action behind it. Otherwise it's just talk and castles in the sky...


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I have very good virgo male and female friends.

I cant say for sure but I think Virgo and Gemini are a decent match.

Plus, over all synastry is the difference as well.

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