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Topic: How to lure the Scorpio..?
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 12:24 AM
  
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Originally posted by Hera:
I said no to the sex lol, though he kept on offering few times. Mind games are all I have left now.
You said no, smart lady. That'll l keep him intrigued.
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Hera
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From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 12:15 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
well all i can tell you is girls have put me through soo much bs i'm just about fed up with it... but i still continue to be honest and open.. i'll swear off relationships all together before i start playing games because having to be someone im not to get somebody is just not worth it imo
Who says I am behaving like someone I'm not? I have enough Scorp in me too. And I am Cap rising, those have high walls too. Actually if there's something Cap and Scorp resemble is their defenses. I am different type of people, all inside myself. I switch between them as I see fit.  Indeed it may seem on the outside that I am not acting like "myself" but that's only because they haven't seen all my true colors. IP: Logged |
Hera
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From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 12:24 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
You said no, smart lady. That'll l keep him intrigued.
Haha, maybe. He tried to make it sound as a challenge, like If you're saying no because you're scared you've bitten more than you can chew, I understand (lols - didn't work on me) or While you're playing safe, fun is out there etc etc. He casually gave me his phone number, said he'd be logging off and I should hang onto it in case I need someone to sate my fire later on lmao. I never called him. Stuff like that. I am madly attracted to him but controlled myself so far. I can't say how very tempted I was to take him up on his many offers. Oh well.. hope delayed gratification is all it's said out to be. IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 111
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 12:41 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Right, it's usually the other way around, but let's say I'm a stubborn one lol. I am so tired of his on again off again games. My 7 Fire planets scream that I put my foot on the ground and ask which is gonna be. However, I know that will be the beginning of the end, and exasperating as any Scorp would be to an Aries, this one methinks is special and worth hanging around a little longer. So the only alternative is to lure the little arachnid in a trap! Easier said than done, yes. What seems to be somewhat working is me initiating random conversation, oh hi, how are you, so you're going to bla-bla?.. Him, usually cryptic or monosyllabic I'm fine bla bla. Yes. You?
Me not answering back. lol Mr. Scorpio is texting few days later So, why did you ask about..?
This happened before when I asked him for his messenger ID but never added or texted him. lol Few days later he asks why did I wanted to know his ID if I wasn't gonna use it lol. This is usually the moment I screw up and get over-enthusiastic that I have his undivided attention that I go overboard and he backs off again. Bahhh!
How annoying! Still, I played my cards right this time and got him hooked. Now he is watching my every move and I am ignoring him. But what next lol? How can you lure the Scorpio [b]for good?
I don't feel like playing games. Okay, maybe I do, but not indefinitely. And it's getting kind of ridiculous. I like him, he likes me, why is this dragging on for so long?? Jeez. Halp?  [/B]
First of all is he a Scorpio 100%, because if you don't know his other planet placements chances are there is more in him than his sun sign. Anyway, my ex boyfriend was a Scorpio, and I got him lured through physical chemistry, if you know what I mean. This, and he also liked it a lot when I cooked for him and took care of him. But I think sex is very important for Scorpios. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 284
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 02:33 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
well all i can tell you is girls have put me through soo much bs i'm just about fed up with it... but i still continue to be honest and open.. i'll swear off relationships all together before i start playing games because having to be someone im not to get somebody is just not worth it imo
Are there any clones of you out there??!!  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5510
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 02:49 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
Are there any clones of you out there??!!
haha idk IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 02:54 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Who says I am behaving like someone I'm not? I have enough Scorp in me too. And I am Cap rising, those have high walls too. Actually if there's something Cap and Scorp resemble is their defenses. I am different type of people, all inside myself. I switch between them as I see fit. Indeed it may seem on the outside that I am not acting like "myself" but that's only because they haven't seen all my true colors.
no matter how ya try to sugarcoat it playing games is immature. SMHIP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 21, 2013 04:01 PM
Hi girl!
Just take it easy and do not try it too hard...especially if you kinda have a guy And for your own sake, do NOT make him jealous, because he will never forgive it to you... he might try to make YOu jealous (Scorpio double standard), because its his weapon, but thats it. If he is serioDus about you, he will make a straight move. If he does not do it, then just let it go... Anyway, hope you will have better luck with Scorp man than I had IP: Logged |
Hera
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From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 07:18 PM
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Originally posted by its_aqua:
First of all is he a Scorpio 100%, because if you don't know his other planet placements chances are there is more in him than his sun sign.Anyway, my ex boyfriend was a Scorpio, and I got him lured through physical chemistry, if you know what I mean. This, and he also liked it a lot when I cooked for him and took care of him. But I think sex is very important for Scorpios.
He's in the duad of Scorpio (his Sun is, I mean), so he's definitely 100% Scorpio. I know his placements, don't know his angles. And sex is kind of how we met (erm.. fetish party). IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 07:21 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
no matter how ya try to sugarcoat it playing games is immature. SMH
Hahaha, I used to think so too. Idk now, I guess sometimes they're still useful, especially when you encounter them in others. Others that are important to you. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5510
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 07:24 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Hahaha, I used to think so too. Idk now, I guess sometimes they're still useful, especially when you encounter them in others. Others that are important to you.
but thats the thing... if people are playing games they arent worth your time, they have their head up their a** IP: Logged |
Hera
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From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 07:25 PM
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Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl:
Hi girl!
Just take it easy and do not try it too hard...especially if you kinda have a guy And for your own sake, do NOT make him jealous, because he will never forgive it to you... he might try to make YOu jealous (Scorpio double standard), because its his weapon, but thats it. If he is serioDus about you, he will make a straight move. If he does not do it, then just let it go... Anyway, hope you will have better luck with Scorp man than I had
Hehe! Thank you, girl! With my luck with men, I kind of doubt it lol. As you know, my experience with previous Scorps hasn't been that great either. But that one was much different (older) though I think their Suns are kind of the same degree-ish. IP: Logged |
Hera
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From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 07:29 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
but thats the thing... if people are playing games they arent worth your time, they have their head up their a**
Well, maybe. But I used to be one of them. I understand the reason behind the game playing. I can't judge them too harshly for something I used to do myself even though it's wrong. IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 07:30 PM
The trap that typically works with water sign men - is having psychological/emotional problems and being on the brink of suicide so they can play the role or caretaker and save your life.
Anything that shows serious emotional problems like taking drugs, not wanting to eat anymore, not wanting to go out anymore etc..
You'll attract Cancers, Pisces and Scorpios by the bucketload with this behaviour ^ not just this Scorpio.
Even better if it stems from a problem with your parents or other authority figures.. or perhaps bullies who have put you down..?
A Scorpio is MUCH more likely to sleep with a girl who is terrified of sex because she was raped by a trusted friend.. than a girl who is normal, strong and healthy.Not suggesting you should do this.. but it *does* work... just sayin' IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 07:34 PM
Playing these games won't work... because there is a lack of affection. Water men will treat you right when they feel *affectionate* and emotionally involved with you.
The game-playing only leads to bitchi*ness between the two of you.
You need a story that makes him cry! Take it from my Cancer AC !IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5510
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 07:36 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
The trap that typically works with water sign men - is having psychological/emotional problems and being on the brink of suicide so they can play the role or caretaker and save your life.
Anything that shows serious emotional problems like taking drugs, not wanting to eat anymore, not wanting to go out anymore etc..
You'll attract Cancers, Pisces and Scorpios by the bucketload with this behaviour ^ not just this Scorpio.
Even better if it stems from a problem with your parents or other authority figures.. or perhaps bullies who have put you down..?
A Scorpio is MUCH more likely to sleep with a girl who is terrified of sex because she was raped by a trusted friend.. than a girl who is normal, strong and healthy.Not suggesting you should do this.. but it *does* work... just sayin'
for gods sake, if you have to do all that its not worth it.
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 07:38 PM
facepalm*IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 21, 2013 07:40 PM
I don't think it's worth it either.. but it does work.I am simply being honest. This is the kind of woman a water sign man is MOST likely to fall in love with. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 07:48 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
I don't think it's worth it either.. but it does work.I am simply being honest. This is the kind of woman a water sign man is MOST likely to fall in love with.
it just frustrates me because that crap reminds me of just about every girl i have ever known... i dont understand why women insist on investing themselves on guys who have their heads up their a**es... whats wrong with men who arent immature? IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 07:51 PM
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playing games is stupid
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Give him the upper hand? No. Then I'd be like all the girls he's used to. Playing hard to get IS what set me apart.
I'm not so sure that this would set you apart.. because other women may have played hard to get as well
Even if it does set you apart… it's not setting you apart in a positive EMOTIONAL way. Water signs *need* emotion.
This sets you apart in a bit*chy/feisty kind of way. This is never going to get emotion out of him. Do you want this guy to care about you?
Or do you want him to be in a war-like situation with you? IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 21, 2013 07:55 PM
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i dont understand why women insist on investing themselves on guys who have their heads up their a**es
First of all we don't know that he is such a jerk. This is Hera's interpretation. They are different people. She is extra fiery - full of Aries and he is a Scorpio with Taurus Moon.
they could easily have mis-communications happening between them. She believes she has to play these games. I agree with you that it's stupid.. at least from my perspective. But please don't generalise again.. because it is not 'all' girls. People are *different*. If you don't see that it's your own problem.
I have told you SOOOO many times that I don't play games and I'm not interested in anyone immature.. and I *am* a girl. So obviously it is not "all" girls. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 07:58 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
First of all we don't know that he is such a jerk. This is Hera's interpretation. They are different people. She is extra fiery - full of Aries and he is a Scorpio with Taurus Moon.
they could easily have mis-communications happening between them. She believes she has to play these games. I agree with you that it's stupid.. at least from my perspective. But please don't generalise again.. because it is not 'all' girls. People are *different*. If you don't see that it's your own problem.
I have told you SOOOO many times that I don't play games and I'm not interested in anyone immature.. and I *am* a girl. So obviously it is not "all" girls.
haha well you need to move to the states then
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Odette
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posted January 21, 2013 08:02 PM
LoLL I'm pretty sure we'd be friends
I think you'd be a lot happier if you had me as a friend. You wouldn't bi*ch and moan about women as much as you do haha
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 08:04 PM
my moon in taurus opposite pluto wants you haha IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 21, 2013 08:13 PM
tee hee IP: Logged |
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