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Topic: How to lure the Scorpio..?
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Hera
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From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 09:58 PM
  
Right, it's usually the other way around, but let's say I'm a stubborn one lol. I am so tired of his on again off again games. My 7 Fire planets scream that I put my foot on the ground and ask which is gonna be. However, I know that will be the beginning of the end, and exasperating as any Scorp would be to an Aries, this one methinks is special and worth hanging around a little longer. So the only alternative is to lure the little arachnid in a trap! Easier said than done, yes. What seems to be somewhat working is me initiating random conversation, oh hi, how are you, so you're going to bla-bla?.. Him, usually cryptic or monosyllabic I'm fine bla bla. Yes. You?
Me not answering back. lol Mr. Scorpio is texting few days later So, why did you ask about..?
This happened before when I asked him for his messenger ID but never added or texted him. lol Few days later he asks why did I wanted to know his ID if I wasn't gonna use it lol. This is usually the moment I screw up and get over-enthusiastic that I have his undivided attention that I go overboard and he backs off again. Bahhh!
How annoying! Still, I played my cards right this time and got him hooked. Now he is watching my every move and I am ignoring him. But what next lol? How can you lure the Scorpio for good?
I don't feel like playing games. Okay, maybe I do, but not indefinitely. And it's getting kind of ridiculous. I like him, he likes me, why is this dragging on for so long?? Jeez. Halp?  ------------------
Wisdom comes from experience and experience comes from making bad choices IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 20, 2013 10:04 PM
Because he can.  u should look for a pedestal put yourself on it. We like a challenge but then ima taurus. IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 10:10 PM
Huh? I didn't ask why, I know why. I asked HOW. HOW??? lolI AM a challenge already, that's why he liked me in the first place, but I suppose the Cap makes me a lil dull. He thinks I'm not erm.. adventurous enough. Am thinking of making him jealous. Would it work? IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 470
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 10:10 PM
Lure a scorpio? Lol no, he's the one luring you....right now! 0_0IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 10:12 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Lure a scorpio? Lol no, he's the one luring you....right now! 0_0
I have enough Pluto in me, including Mercury/Pluto to second his game. It's like friggin chess lol. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 20, 2013 10:13 PM
U need to idk.. Lure a bit more before pulling the jelly card.  IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 10:14 PM
The point is to not go down without a fight, and especially to take him with me when I go. Do you understand?  IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 470
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 10:19 PM
Good luck with that, scorpios suns are too much to deal with sometimesIP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 20, 2013 10:19 PM
No not really. This your boyfriend we talking bout? IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 10:21 PM
quote:
Originally posted by sand:
U need to idk.. Lure a bit more before pulling the jelly card.
Idk, it might backfire. He backed off when I started seeing the Gem, like total silence. Now that's almost over (with the Gem) but haven't made my decision on how to proceed next. IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 10:24 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Good luck with that, scorpios suns are too much to deal with sometimes
I know, Kerosene. Thanks. Chances are I am gonna get so annoyed with him that I will just move on. Unless he steps up the plate soon. IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 10:25 PM
quote:
Originally posted by sand:
No not really. This your boyfriend we talking bout?
No. It's THE Scorp. You know, the hot one? My bf is the Gem. Soon to be my ex, unfortunately. IP: Logged |
AshSkye
Knowflake Posts: 616
From: UK
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 10:25 PM
In my experience, sex and mind games usually keep them occupied :PIP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 10:35 PM
quote:
Originally posted by AshSkye:
In my experience, sex and mind games usually keep them occupied :P
I said no to the sex lol, though he kept on offering few times. Mind games are all I have left now. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 645
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 11:00 PM
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Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 11:40 PM
Indeed, me entering a relationship was probably a turn-off for him. At the time, that was the point lol. I had to get him out of my head. Didn't succeed. His Venus is in Virgo. It's square Neptune so I think the pedestal thing could work. He likes more submissive women, which I am not, hence the challenge. Plus I said no to him a bit too much lol. I think I annoy him a bit too. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 20, 2013 11:48 PM
U shouldn't say no outright. U maybe back that a$$ into him abit and look back.. Hmm.. Maybe! Then run away ahaha! IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 11:51 PM
lol Sandie this is serious! I think I may be falling for the guy. *gulps*IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5510
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 11:55 PM
how about just being honest with him and dropping the hard to get stuff... that might workIP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 12:00 AM
Give him the upper hand? No. Then I'd be like all the girls he's used to. Playing hard to get IS what set me apart. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5510
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 12:03 AM
well if thats what you have to do is it really worth it? playing games is stupid and thats the reason 99% of relationships are completely f**ked up .. IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 12:07 AM
I am asking myself that too. I don't want the whole relationship to be about game playing. But in the wooing stage they're kind of necessary. It's how you set the battleground that counts. Neither wants to be the vulnerable one because we're both cowards like that. This could go on forever, in which case I will pack my bags and get outta there. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 12:09 AM
why are they neccesary? please explain this to meIP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 5218
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 12:12 AM
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
why are they neccesary? please explain this to me
They're necessary in cases when one was previously so hurt that they have their walls and defenses so high that they cannot just give themselves to you, just like that. Like I said, cowards. Fits both me and him. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5510
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 12:17 AM
well all i can tell you is girls have put me through soo much bs i'm just about fed up with it... but i still continue to be honest and open.. i'll swear off relationships all together before i start playing games because having to be someone im not to get somebody is just not worth it imoIP: Logged |
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