posted January 21, 2013 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Are there any clones of you out there??!!

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posted January 21, 2013 08:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
The trap that typically works with water sign men - is having psychological/emotional problems and being on the brink of suicide so they can play the role or caretaker and save your life.
Anything that shows serious emotional problems like taking drugs, not wanting to eat anymore, not wanting to go out anymore etc..
You'll attract Cancers, Pisces and Scorpios by the bucketload with this behaviour ^ not just this Scorpio.
Even better if it stems from a problem with your parents or other authority figures.. or perhaps bullies who have put you down..?
A Scorpio is MUCH more likely to sleep with a girl who is terrified of sex because she was raped by a trusted friend.. than a girl who is normal, strong and healthy.

Not suggesting you should do this.. but it *does* work... just sayin'

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posted January 21, 2013 11:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
The trap that typically works with water sign men - is having psychological/emotional problems and being on the brink of suicide so they can play the role or caretaker and save your life.
Anything that shows serious emotional problems like taking drugs, not wanting to eat anymore, not wanting to go out anymore etc..
You'll attract Cancers, Pisces and Scorpios by the bucketload with this behaviour ^ not just this Scorpio.
Even better if it stems from a problem with your parents or other authority figures.. or perhaps bullies who have put you down..?
A Scorpio is MUCH more likely to sleep with a girl who is terrified of sex because she was raped by a trusted friend.. than a girl who is normal, strong and healthy.

Not suggesting you should do this.. but it *does* work... just sayin'

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posted January 21, 2013 11:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
First of all we don't know that he is such a jerk. This is Hera's interpretation. They are different people. She is extra fiery - full of Aries and he is a Scorpio with Taurus Moon.
they could easily have mis-communications happening between them.

She believes she has to play these games. I agree with you that it's stupid.. at least from my perspective.

But please don't generalise again.. because it is not 'all' girls. People are *different*. If you don't see that it's your own problem.
I have told you SOOOO many times that I don't play games and I'm not interested in anyone immature.. and I *am* a girl. So obviously it is not "all" girls.

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posted January 22, 2013 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Right, it's usually the other way around, but let's say I'm a stubborn one lol. I am so tired of his on again off again games. My 7 Fire planets scream that I put my foot on the ground and ask which is gonna be. However, I know that will be the beginning of the end, and exasperating as any Scorp would be to an Aries, this one methinks is special and worth hanging around a little longer. So the only alternative is to lure the little arachnid in a trap! Easier said than done, yes.

What seems to be somewhat working is me initiating random conversation, oh hi, how are you, so you're going to bla-bla?.. Him, usually cryptic or monosyllabic I'm fine bla bla. Yes. You?
Me not answering back. lol Mr. Scorpio is texting few days later So, why did you ask about..?

This happened before when I asked him for his messenger ID but never added or texted him. lol Few days later he asks why did I wanted to know his ID if I wasn't gonna use it lol. This is usually the moment I screw up and get over-enthusiastic that I have his undivided attention that I go overboard and he backs off again. Bahhh!

How annoying! Still, I played my cards right this time and got him hooked. Now he is watching my every move and I am ignoring him. But what next lol? How can you lure the Scorpio [b]for good?

I don't feel like playing games. Okay, maybe I do, but not indefinitely. And it's getting kind of ridiculous. I like him, he likes me, why is this dragging on for so long?? Jeez.

Halp?

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That was an exhausting read. People actually do all that?

posted January 22, 2013 04:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Who says I am behaving like someone I'm not? I have enough Scorp in me too. And I am Cap rising, those have high walls too. Actually if there's something Cap and Scorp resemble is their defenses. I am different type of people, all inside myself. I switch between them as I see fit. Indeed it may seem on the outside that I am not acting like "myself" but that's only because they haven't seen all my true colors.

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posted January 22, 2013 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
If you really like him - show him your true colors... if he's wiling to do the same and they blend in - you can take it from there. If you're to much for him... or - not enough... your decision will feel easy at that point - or at least... easier. Good luck.

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posted January 22, 2013 07:07 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Hera, dear. I would drop kick the whole issue. But it's your life and I'm not telling you what to do.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8Tiz6INF7I

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posted January 22, 2013 09:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
The trap that typically works with water sign men - is having psychological/emotional problems and being on the brink of suicide so they can play the role or caretaker and save your life.
Anything that shows serious emotional problems like taking drugs, not wanting to eat anymore, not wanting to go out anymore etc..
You'll attract Cancers, Pisces and Scorpios by the bucketload with this behaviour ^ not just this Scorpio.
Even better if it stems from a problem with your parents or other authority figures.. or perhaps bullies who have put you down..?
A Scorpio is MUCH more likely to sleep with a girl who is terrified of sex because she was raped by a trusted friend.. than a girl who is normal, strong and healthy.

Not suggesting you should do this.. but it *does* work... just sayin'

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posted January 22, 2013 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
I would too, but you see the story is not complete. I left out the cheesy details or how we "clicked"/deja-vu-ed in the first minute of meeting. To say we have a special connection is a bit of an understatement...

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I hate to sound bratty but I think those type of meetings and encounters are typical with Scorpios. My Scorpio guy friends all have stories that start out like movies and end with restraining orders (against them).

posted January 22, 2013 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
I hate to sound bratty but I think those type of meetings and encounters are typical with Scorpios. My Scorpio guy friends all have stories that start out like movies and end with restraining orders (against them).

I even have a Scorpio-clicky-deja-vu story here, middle of the page. It starts out "Even though I talk a bunch of junk about my Scorpio ex there was something “special” about how we met, too many coincidences..."

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posted January 22, 2013 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
The trap that typically works with water sign men - is having psychological/emotional problems and being on the brink of suicide so they can play the role or caretaker and save your life.
Anything that shows serious emotional problems like taking drugs, not wanting to eat anymore, not wanting to go out anymore etc..
You'll attract Cancers, Pisces and Scorpios by the bucketload with this behaviour ^ not just this Scorpio.
Even better if it stems from a problem with your parents or other authority figures.. or perhaps bullies who have put you down..?
A Scorpio is MUCH more likely to sleep with a girl who is terrified of sex because she was raped by a trusted friend.. than a girl who is normal, strong and healthy.

Not suggesting you should do this.. but it *does* work... just sayin'

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I have a water sign brother(whos big three are all water) 3-4 water sign cousins and lots of close water sign friends.

That does not make any sense or ring true for even a single one of them. All three of my cousins are happliy married to fire sign women who are strong , healthy and equally as as independent as them. My brother, also, only considers the same type. Maybe becuase thats the way we are in my family, which brings me to my other point, astrology is not the only factor. In fact,imo, many other things have a stonger influence in a persons general preferences.

Imo,singling out your opinions only based on astrological indications is also bias.

I feel like all the astrological cliche's based on various skeptical(or not) "drisciptions" are overly emphasized. Yes, Water Sign Men maybe(or not) look for a emotional bond over others but that does not make in a necessity in any way that all the negative triats of their signs are also always carried out.

For me, all my proof is in all my real experiences. The point of any kind of study is to expand your mind further, not to become one tracked about it.

posted January 22, 2013 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
Idk Hera but it sounds like you should leave this one alone. More trouble than its worth. Why do Aries ladies have to work so hard at love? god I just want to sit back and be wooed, pursued and happy one day. Good luck.

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posted January 22, 2013 10:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
My "work" is on the inside, AriesKat. If you'd ask him, he'd probably say I'm not quite interested. After all, I rejected him several times and started dating someone else. I'm not exactly the innocent victim here.

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posted January 22, 2013 10:32 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
I feel you. I just hear alot of Aries woman complaining about love myself included. Its just never seems to easy.

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posted January 23, 2013 08:35 AM            

Be Less judgmental of him and yourself. Enjoy the process of knowing each other.

posted January 23, 2013 08:59 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
... love ... Its ... never ... easy.

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=)

Good luck Hera.

posted January 23, 2013 11:13 AM            

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
I am Scorpio Woman married with Aries Man. Lure him with your depth of life. Be Philosophical and you would have his attention. Triviality bores him. Too much detail and criticism by Capricorn influence
can be bad too. We are idealistic and we believe in our dreams. Do you just want to play a game? He might have long understood that and put you in a box. Be unpredictable and yet be genuine.

Be Less judgmental of him and yourself. Enjoy the process of knowing each other.

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THAT I can do! And no, I don't want just to play games! Those were just to keep me safe while I figured him out. You understand that, right?

posted January 23, 2013 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
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Good luck Hera.

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posted January 23, 2013 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
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Good luck Hera.

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I suppose but some have it easier than others