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Topic: How many kids did/do YOU want?
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Debby4
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posted January 25, 2013 09:59 PM
  
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Originally posted by LuvinU:
thx Debby4 but there is nothing to be sorry about, life goes on :-)sidebar: It's interesting to see people who have empty 5th houses who have children and people with planets in the 5th house who don't. It just goes to show that just because you have an 'empty' house doesn't mean it can't be active.
Yup!  Hmmmm... Maybe it's b/c their is a void. Ya know? IP: Logged |
Debby4
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posted January 25, 2013 10:00 PM
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Originally posted by MoonWitch:
I've always wanted kids.I'm 40 now. I have one 13 year old from a previous marriage. My husband and I are trying very hard to have one of our own. We're undergoing in vitro fertilization. I would not mind adopting but my husband wants biological children and I probably prefer that as well (for now). Neptune in the 5th House in Sagittarius. Moon in the 7th House in Aquarius.
I hope you get a child soon! ^_^ And O.O hmmm... IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted January 26, 2013 12:18 AM
Oh, my boyfriend who is also childfree also has Uranus and Saturn in the fifth in addition to Mars and Pluto - a loaded fifth house.IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
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posted January 26, 2013 02:44 PM
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Originally posted by Debby4:
I hope you get a child soon! ^_^ And O.O hmmm...
Thank you  I never thought I'd be able to give myself shots in the belly but the desire for a baby trumps everything! IP: Logged |
thinkingitover
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posted January 26, 2013 03:05 PM
I have four planets in my fifth house and i dont want kids. Ill stick with having cats IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 26, 2013 03:13 PM
I've never wanted kids. Ever. I like kids, but if I had one it would probably be out of boredom and instead of something romantic like starting a family and wanting to experience the joys of parenting. Having a kid would be the most nerve wracking thing ever. I don't even know how to go about training a puppy much less a verbal, growing human being. The responsibility is terrifying but of course, I applaud those who carry it out successfully. I can appreciate parenting but it's definitely not for me! Moon opp. Pluto (11H/5H)
Moon trine Saturn, Uranus, Neptune (11H/7H)
Sun square Saturn (11H/7H)
Venus square Saturn (11H/7H) IP: Logged |
Debby4
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posted January 26, 2013 03:41 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I've never wanted kids. Ever. I like kids, but if I had one it would probably be out of boredom and instead of something romantic like starting a family and wanting to experience the joys of parenting. Having a kid would be the most nerve wracking thing ever. I don't even know how to go about training a puppy much less a verbal, growing human being. The responsibility is terrifying but of course, I applaud those who carry it out successfully. I can appreciate parenting but it's definitely not for me! Moon opp. Pluto (11H/5H)
Moon trine Saturn, Uranus, Neptune (11H/7H)
Sun square Saturn (11H/7H)
Venus square Saturn (11H/7H)
so are you more focused o friends and relationships? .o. kids out of boredom? thatd the first time I heard someone say that.
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hannaramaa
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posted January 26, 2013 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by Debby4:
so are you more focused o friends and relationships? .o. kids out of boredom? thatd the first time I heard someone say that.
Definitely. It's not even constricted to just my own family and friends but I have dreams of helping the public through whatever kind of social movement somehow after I get out of school. Plus I feel stifled by romantic relationships and the traditions placed on them. I don't like tradition very much. IP: Logged |
heartsandheels
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From: San Diego
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 26, 2013 06:20 PM
I think I'd rather have boys...girls are too much drama :P Scorpio in 5th house. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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posted January 26, 2013 06:47 PM
Have Uranus in Scorpio in 5th, I use to not want kids because I thought they would take away my freedom, but now that I am married I really want at least two children. Mabe even twins, since they run in my family IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 26, 2013 08:18 PM
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Originally posted by heartsandheels:
I think I'd rather have boys...girls are too much drama :P Scorpio in 5th house.
I have Pluto in Scorpio in the 5H and I always wanted boys too! IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 26, 2013 08:24 PM
I want 3, and I got told by a few psychics I'll have 3 too, two girls, one boy. Supposedly it'll be twins, then after 7-8 years I'll have my last one (a girl).
Will see I guess! I like kids, and are good with them, comes pretty naturally.I have Leo in my fifth house, and a bit of Cancer too. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 26, 2013 09:21 PM
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What's in your 5th house? What's the sign on your 5th house cusp? Would you ever adopt? Have you adopted? What sign and house are your moon and ceres (and other parenting/mother planets)? Sorry I don't know much about paternal planets.
Pluto/SN are in my 5th in Scorpio. 5th cusp is Libra, ruler: Venus in Taurus on NN (in the 11th). I'd like to have two or three kids, but only if I meet someone who I feel is right for me. I want both girls & boys... but if I only had girls or only boys, that would still be cool!
I would definitely be open to adopting as well when I'm practically/financially ready for that. I absolutely love kids 
I have a puppy who I treat like a kid anyway hahah He has SO much personality!! My Moon is in Capricorn and Ceres in Virgo, Cancer AC. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 26, 2013 09:33 PM
Interesting thread, some posted 5th but nothing to do with their Moon which adds a lot to the picture.
Would've also been interesting to see more people posting their Ceres by sign/house.--- One child, I have political/ethical reasons for such that I strongly uphold that aren't up for debate. It's important to me to deeply invest, from birth, in the enrichment of one individual. Strong desire for a biological child, would only adopt if I'm unable to naturally conceive, and then with some obvious trepidation. I would want the biological parents/grandparents to be completely out of the picture, preferably dead, as in no chance of coming back to try to wreck my family and the bond that's been built. Placidus 5th Scorpio, Sagittarius intercepted therein,
-Uranus in Sagittarius, conjunct Vertex
-Neptune in Sagittarius, conjunct Juno
5th ruler, Pluto Libra, 4th
5th co-ruler, Jupiter Scorpio, 4th
Capricorn Moon, 6th
Scorpio Ceres, 4th IP: Logged |
inaworldofsong
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posted January 27, 2013 03:58 AM
I've never wanted kids. Ever. It's never even occurred to me and to be quite honest I'm kind of offended when people do the "Oh well, you'll change your mind when you're older/When the right man comes along/But babies are so cute!/You're so good with kids, though!/etc." thing.Babies are not cute, they are creepy little parasites that invade your body, live off of you for nine months before being painfully expelled to torture your every waking hour for what is likely the rest of your life. No thank you. The only way I would ever have a child would be if I adopted a child when I was much older, stabler, and financially secure or if my partner and I had an ~accident~ and we were both 100% okay with keeping it. 5H Leo cusp
5H ruler: Sun in Sagittarius on the 7/8H cusp
5H Leo Mars
5H Leo Ceres
6H intercepted Libra Moon Mars squares my 7H Scorpio stellium
Moon sextiles my Sun
Ceres widely square my NN IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 27, 2013 04:03 AM
"Oh well, you'll change your mind when you're older"
---Ha, yea, as if there will be some awesome brain transformation happening to the point where you'll begin to think exactly like them. Hate that comment.IP: Logged |
Debby4
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From: TX,USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by MoonWitch:
Thank you I never thought I'd be able to give myself shots in the belly but the desire for a baby trumps everything!
That's how dedicated you are  IP: Logged |
Debby4
Knowflake Posts: 567
From: TX,USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by heartsandheels:
I think I'd rather have boys...girls are too much drama :P Scorpio in 5th house.
Lmao! Everyone says that xD Boys can be drama too :O IP: Logged |
Debby4
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 12:39 PM
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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Have Uranus in Scorpio in 5th, I use to not want kids because I thought they would take away my freedom, but now that I am married I really want at least two children. Mabe even twins, since they run in my family
Again with the fifth house! xD :O What about triplets? IP: Logged |
Debby4
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From: TX,USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 12:40 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Definitely. It's not even constricted to just my own family and friends but I have dreams of helping the public through whatever kind of social movement somehow after I get out of school. Plus I feel stifled by romantic relationships and the traditions placed on them. I don't like tradition very much.
Just want to be a bird, eh? IP: Logged |
Debby4
Knowflake Posts: 567
From: TX,USA
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posted January 27, 2013 12:41 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I want 3, and I got told by a few psychics I'll have 3 too, two girls, one boy. Supposedly it'll be twins, then after 7-8 years I'll have my last one (a girl).
Will see I guess! I like kids, and are good with them, comes pretty naturally.I have Leo in my fifth house, and a bit of Cancer too.
;D Leo fifth house are always fun with children! IP: Logged |
Debby4
Knowflake Posts: 567
From: TX,USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 12:43 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Pluto/SN are in my 5th in Scorpio. 5th cusp is Libra, ruler: Venus in Taurus on NN (in the 11th).I'd like to have two or three kids, but only if I meet someone who I feel is right for me. I want both girls & boys... but if I only had girls or only boys, that would still be cool!
I would definitely be open to adopting as well when I'm practically/financially ready for that. I absolutely love kids
I have a puppy who I treat like a kid anyway hahah He has SO much personality!! My Moon is in Capricorn and Ceres in Virgo, Cancer AC.
:O You got it all planned out? That's good to wait to meet someone and be financial stable. Kids are EXPENSIVE!! IP: Logged |
Debby4
Knowflake Posts: 567
From: TX,USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 12:45 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Interesting thread, some posted 5th but nothing to do with their Moon which adds a lot to the picture.
Would've also been interesting to see more people posting their Ceres by sign/house.--- One child, I have political/ethical reasons for such that I strongly uphold that aren't up for debate. It's important to me to deeply invest, from birth, in the enrichment of one individual. Strong desire for a biological child, would only adopt if I'm unable to naturally conceive, and then with some obvious trepidation. I would want the biological parents/grandparents to be completely out of the picture, preferably dead, as in no chance of coming back to try to wreck my family and the bond that's been built. Placidus 5th Scorpio, Sagittarius intercepted therein,
-Uranus in Sagittarius, conjunct Vertex
-Neptune in Sagittarius, conjunct Juno
5th ruler, Pluto Libra, 4th
5th co-ruler, Jupiter Scorpio, 4th
Capricorn Moon, 6th
Scorpio Ceres, 4th
:O The parents dead really? .-. Why so serious? ;D Jk  but that actually sounds like a pretty good plan! Very Scorpio/Capricorn/Sagittarius like IP: Logged |
Debby4
Knowflake Posts: 567
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 12:48 PM
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Originally posted by inaworldofsong:
I've never wanted kids. Ever. It's never even occurred to me and to be quite honest I'm kind of offended when people do the "Oh well, you'll change your mind when you're older/When the right man comes along/But babies are so cute!/You're so good with kids, though!/etc." thing.Babies are not cute, they are creepy little parasites that invade your body, live off of you for nine months before being painfully expelled to torture your every waking hour for what is likely the rest of your life. No thank you. The only way I would ever have a child would be if I adopted a child when I was much older, stabler, and financially secure or if my partner and I had an ~accident~ and we were both 100% okay with keeping it. 5H Leo cusp
5H ruler: Sun in Sagittarius on the 7/8H cusp
5H Leo Mars
5H Leo Ceres
6H intercepted Libra Moon Mars squares my 7H Scorpio stellium
Moon sextiles my Sun
Ceres widely square my NN
:O That's exactly what I say (the parasite thing) when I'm going through my "I don't want kids phase" Hmmmm... Scorpios and Leos (5th house) don't seem like you guys want kids much? IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 27, 2013 12:55 PM
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Originally posted by Debby4:
None? Really? :O I see you with a lot. xD Ahahah!
I just have this feeling that somehow I'll always end up alone. Kids are not going to be beneficial to me bazi wise. They are ruled by the time pillar. The time u were born. I have a 7k star in that pillar. IP: Logged |
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