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Topic: Platonic Female/Male Friendships
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bridgetostars23
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From: virginia, usa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 12:41 AM
  
My best friend and only person who knows the "real" me or closest to that as a person will get is a straight male.
We've been close friends for over a year now. It's been a heavy, change inducing friendship.
I'm a cap sun/scorpio moon/sag mercury/scorpio venus/pisces mars/cap ascendant.
He's a cancer sun/virgo moon/cancer mercury/virgo venus/cancer mars/aries ascendant.
He knows about my "scorpio stuff" but he doesn't seem to feel it which is why I think it stayed platonic in the beginning when it may have gone either way.Astrological indicators for male/female platonic friendships? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 12:50 AM
good question. i wonder which aspects would cause an aversion to close male/female platonic friendships, because thats the way i am.. i suspect its venus square pluto.IP: Logged |
StacyLewis
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posted January 22, 2013 12:52 AM
I'm gonna be honest...I don't really believe that a man and a woman can be strictly platonic friends and never 'go there', or never develop those types of feelings for each other at some point. Even if afterwards they decide to go back to being friends, I think eventually they're going to want to get romantically and/or sexually involved with each other.That is, if they're both straight. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 12:57 AM
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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
I'm gonna be honest...I don't really believe that a man and a woman can be strictly platonic friends and never 'go there', or never develop those types of feelings for each other at some point. Even if afterwards they decide to go back to being friends, I think eventually they're going to want to get romantically and/or sexually involved with each other.That is, if they're both straight.
it often turns into a unrequited love scenario.
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bridgetostars23
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From: virginia, usa
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posted January 22, 2013 12:59 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by StacyLewis:
[b]I'm gonna be honest...I don't really believe that a man and a woman can be strictly platonic friends and never 'go there', or never develop those types of feelings for each other at some point. Even if afterwards they decide to go back to being friends, I think eventually they're going to want to get romantically and/or sexually involved with each other.That is, if they're both straight.
it often turns into a unrequited love scenario.[/B][/QUOTE]Ah EFF! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:05 AM
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Originally posted by bridgetostars23:
Ah EFF!
huh? IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23
Knowflake Posts: 304
From: virginia, usa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:08 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
huh?
That was my reaction to either me or my friend possibly being in love with the other:
"**** !" IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 22, 2013 01:08 AM
Two close male friends I've had for years:1 - Leo/Scorpio Moon/Libra AC- Leo Merc/Cancer Venus/Libra Mars 2 - Libra/Leo Moon/Taurus AC - Scorpio Merc/Scorpio Venus/Libra Mars Me: Aries/ Capricorn Moon/ Cancer AC - Pisces Merc/ Taurus Venus/ Capricorn Mars quote:
Astrological indicators for male/female platonic friendships
Nice Moon2Moon, Moon2Venus, Mercury2Mercury aspects!
For Sun aspects - I like the trine and opposition most. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 22, 2013 01:12 AM
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I'm gonna be honest...I don't really believe that a man and a woman can be strictly platonic friends and never 'go there', or never develop those types of feelings for each other at some point. Even if afterwards they decide to go back to being friends, I think eventually they're going to want to get romantically and/or sexually involved with each other.
Maybe any close friendship can get sexual.. including same-sex ones.
But who cares?
If it's a friendship, it's a friendship.
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Odette
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posted January 22, 2013 01:15 AM
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to either me or my friend possibly being in love with the othe
Now love is a different basket of cookies...
I definitely don't think you 'always' fall in love with close-friends. I don't. But pure sex? I could hit it!
If they are very close & their heart's in the right place and all  IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23
Knowflake Posts: 304
From: virginia, usa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:15 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Two close male friends I've had for years:1 - Leo/Scorpio Moon/Libra AC- Leo Merc/Cancer Venus/Libra Mars 2 - Libra/Leo Moon/Taurus AC - Scorpio Merc/Scorpio Venus/Libra Mars Me: Aries/ Capricorn Moon/ Cancer AC - Pisces Merc/ Taurus Venus/ Capricorn Mars Nice Moon2Moon, Moon2Venus, Mercury2Mercury aspects!
For Sun aspects - I like the trine and opposition most.
We only have moon sextile venus it looks like. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:19 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Now love is a different basket of cookies...
I definitely don't think you 'always' fall in love with close-friends. I don't.But pure sex? I could hit it!
If they are very close & their heart's in the right place and all
haha now that sounds like a good friendship IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 22, 2013 01:25 AM
yup  a very satisfying friendship lol IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:32 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
yup a very satisfying friendship lol
definitely.. that actually sounds very appropriate for my aqua venus.. because its basically the same thing as a relationship except theres no label on it IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23
Knowflake Posts: 304
From: virginia, usa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:32 AM
I think his virgo moon
analyzed and discussed and dissected my scorpio moon and venus, putting it all out there on the table, and in the light of day it was not very seductive? But it made us good friends because I had no where to hide and also my scorpio moon does the same thing (just tends to not divulge the results of my finds.)IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23
Knowflake Posts: 304
From: virginia, usa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:34 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
yup a very satisfying friendship lol
This guy has himself a sweet ol' libra. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 22, 2013 01:47 AM
My closest guy friend is an Aries with Sag ASC, Gemini moon, Mercury in Pisces, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Capricorn.I have a Gemini ASC, Aries sun, Taurus Moon, Mercury in Aries, Mars in Gemini. For whatever reason, he's smitten with me and has been for years. He's not bad, but I just couldn't bring myself to hit it. He's still a good guy though. IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23
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From: virginia, usa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:48 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
My closest guy friend is an Aries with Sag ASC, Gemini moon, Mercury in Pisces, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Capricorn.I have a Gemini ASC, Aries sun, Taurus Moon, Mercury in Aries, Mars in Gemini. For whatever reason, he's smitten with me and has been for years. He's not bad, but I just couldn't bring myself to hit it. He's still a good guy though.
Oh no! The unrequited love thang. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 22, 2013 01:49 AM
I can't with someone attractive. I will pretend to really love this one song.. And it happens to be sexy, then dim the lights and gofer a kiss.  Friends though is the route I mostly take. I like to start out as that. My astrologer said I sleep with all my friends, but i forget what it was in my chart, true. Well not all but I think 3 is a large number for a group. I think I had to leave eventually lol! So now I have no lady friends. Yay!  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5404
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:49 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
My closest guy friend is an Aries with Sag ASC, Gemini moon, Mercury in Pisces, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Capricorn.I have a Gemini ASC, Aries sun, Taurus Moon, Mercury in Aries, Mars in Gemini. For whatever reason, he's smitten with me and has been for years. He's not bad, but I just couldn't bring myself to hit it. He's still a good guy though.
lol good god im glad those days are over for me
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bridgetostars23
Knowflake Posts: 304
From: virginia, usa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 01:56 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
I can't with someone attractive. I will pretend to really love this one song.. And it happens to be sexy, then dim the lights and gofer a kiss. Friends though is the route I mostly take. I like to start out as that. My astrologer said I sleep with all my friends, but i forget what it was in my chart, true. Well not all but I think 3 is a large number for a group. I think I had to leave eventually lol! So now I have no lady friends. Yay!
Ah geez. Fine. You reminded me of something. I did ask for a massage from him one time. Haha. But I couldn't bring myself to let anything happen because we were already close. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 22, 2013 02:01 AM
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Originally posted by bridgetostars23:
Ah geez. Fine. You reminded me of something. I did ask for a massage from him one time. Haha. But I couldn't bring myself to let anything happen because we were already close.
Puts hand on mouth.. Shhhh.. Whispers just let it happen.. I mean that's what I would do.  If she were not pretty I might just tag her along for attention that my Leo moon needs lol horrible I know. Kinda like the female version of a nice guy. Some though. Attractive to others. Cool thoughts, hobbies, fun. But not attractive to me. I think that could work. I had some of those in the circle I left. But not of more depth compared to others in the group. Like I'd say the same thing to another lady friend if u know what I mean. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 22, 2013 02:16 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa:
[b]My closest guy friend is an Aries with Sag ASC, Gemini moon, Mercury in Pisces, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Capricorn.I have a Gemini ASC, Aries sun, Taurus Moon, Mercury in Aries, Mars in Gemini. For whatever reason, he's smitten with me and has been for years. He's not bad, but I just couldn't bring myself to hit it. He's still a good guy though.
lol good god im glad those days are over for me[/B][/QUOTE]He still tries too, I'm like "Dude...I will never come over to your house. Ever." IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5404
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 02:23 AM
^ well why do you hang out with the guy if you know that? why dont you like him? is it a personality or looks thing?IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23
Knowflake Posts: 304
From: virginia, usa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 02:26 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Puts hand on mouth.. Shhhh.. Whispers just let it happen.. I mean that's what I would do. If she were not pretty I might just tag her along for attention that my Leo moon needs lol horrible I know. Kinda like the female version of a nice guy. Some though. Attractive to others. Cool thoughts, hobbies, fun. But not attractive to me. I think that could work. I had some of those in the circle I left. But not of more depth compared to others in the group. Like I'd say the same thing to another lady friend if u know what I mean.
Yeah. I know what you mean...if he had given in to my "I'm just one of the guys/give me a massage game" I think I used to kind of play...we would not be good friends right now. IP: Logged |
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