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aquaguy91
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posted February 08, 2013 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what aspects or placements would indicate this? this is a major pet peeve to me lol.

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peregrine
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posted February 08, 2013 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i am incapable of this under certain circumstances. it's not that i can't. i just don't want to. no air.

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posted February 08, 2013 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^Me too.I find it fake.

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posted February 08, 2013 10:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what i dislike are people that scan you for a compliment. so obvious they just want to give u a compliment to make you feel nice. #peoplepleaser

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posted February 08, 2013 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
people that ask me the time. i give the time. they want to chat further gtfo away from me you creepy lil sycophant!

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aquaguy91
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posted February 08, 2013 11:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
how is having a real conversation fake?

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SaturnineMoth
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posted February 08, 2013 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I told you what to do in those circumstances, 007. >.>; lmao

aspects~ Jupiter - Moon, Jupiter - Mercury
Saturn - Mercury~ 3rd house. (major aspects)

weak in air/water
too much fire/earth (for very different reasons)

extremely unbalanced elements~

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posted February 08, 2013 11:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought you meant back and forth convos with strangers.

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posted February 08, 2013 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
I told you what to do in those circumstances, 007. >.>; lmao

aspects~ Jupiter - Moon, Jupiter - Mercury
Saturn - Mercury~ 3rd house. (major aspects)

weak in air/water
too much fire/earth (for very different reasons)

extremely unbalanced elements~


what if i did that to you mothballs? u might like it akshully...

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posted February 08, 2013 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
what aspects or placements would indicate this? this is a major pet peeve to me lol.

Omg it annoys me too!

Umm I know one guy like this. He has mercury in cancer opposite Neptune.

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posted February 08, 2013 11:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ I was going to say Mercury-Neptune. They can just float away if the conversation isn't "dreamy" enough for them.

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posted February 08, 2013 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by peregrine:
what if i did that to you mothballs? u might like it akshully...

oh bebe!~ Oui, monsieur! My Mars-Pluto would, indeed!

don't put thoughts in my dirty birdy brain~

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posted February 08, 2013 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have read that people with mercury-saturn especially hard aspects have trouble having back and forth converstation,they find writing and texting more comfortable.

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posted February 08, 2013 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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aquaguy91
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posted February 08, 2013 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I thought you meant back and forth convos with strangers.

who said anything about strangers? besides i dont even recognize the concept of strangers.

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posted February 08, 2013 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
>.>; if they're not acquaintances, and they're not relatives, and they're not peers, and they're not coworkers, and they're not friends....

what the heck are they!? ^^ <3

You mean people who like to hear themselves talk and not actually converse back and forth with discussions, or do you mean people who have difficulty in conversing in general (for one of a myriad of other reasons, emotionless stiffs, boredom/hyperactive types, daydreamers, personality disorders, bad personalities in general~ hah there's too many suspects for this for me to list... I think I'm one of them... oh dear! >.<; bahhh)...

I kinda thought you meant the first~ but, the second can be explained with Mercury - Saturn and 3rd house placements on the receiving end of some bad aspect(s) or other. ^^;

*edit (gonna pretend I didn't just make the same mistake like 6x in a row*

time for bed... ughhhhh >.<;

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posted February 08, 2013 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bridgetostars23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I have read that people with mercury-saturn especially hard aspects have trouble having back and forth converstation,they find writing and texting more comfortable.

Mercury conjunct Saturn.....I agree with what you have said.
Also, no air (except Chiron.)

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posted February 08, 2013 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thats why there is“I THOUGHT”,and anyway I was agreeing with sand that in certain circumstances I dont want to and I find it fake.

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posted February 08, 2013 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I have read that people with mercury-saturn especially hard aspects have trouble having back and forth converstation,they find writing and texting more comfortable.

Hmm. That doesn't apply to me.

Saturn opposes my Mercury

Sometimes I kick myself for what I said or didn't say, after the fact, but I can keep up a conversation for hours...in any medium.

Some people can be aggressive in conversation however, seeming to want something from me...so I will dodge those types, by scampering off topic at first, and vanishing completely if need be.

#Rabbit

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posted February 09, 2013 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
who said anything about strangers? besides i dont even recognize the concept of strangers.

Me tooooooooooo haha <3

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posted February 09, 2013 01:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Isn't that like a disability?
I'm being serious...

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posted February 09, 2013 01:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I have read that people with mercury-saturn especially hard aspects have trouble having back and forth converstation,they find writing and texting more comfortable.

no, not at all for me. Merc conj saturn

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posted February 09, 2013 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
Hmm. That doesn't apply to me.

Saturn opposes my Mercury

Sometimes I kick myself for what I said or didn't say, after the fact, but I can keep up a conversation for hours...in any medium.

Some people can be aggressive in conversation however, seeming to want something from me...so I will dodge those types, by scampering off topic at first, and vanishing completely if need be.

#Rabbit



yeah me too, also if they use a lot of profanity. I HATE people using profanity in their speech. I find it off putting and extremely crass. I've deleted a 2 guys on my Facebook because every time they chat with me I painfully feel my teeth grinding, but I never told them that I don't like their overuse of swear words, I'll just cut them off. Now that i think about it- was I mean?..well anyways...

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posted February 09, 2013 01:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it happens with people you have bad or non-existent Mercury aspects with in synastry...

I'm pretty sure!!

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posted February 09, 2013 01:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
what aspects or placements would indicate this? this is a major pet peeve to me lol.

on topic.

since you said it doesn't apply to strangers or people who come on to you with stupid liners( for them I guess it would be smart liners) like ''what's the time?'' and expect you to start off a convo with them. This is a major pet peeve of mine too.

I think Mercury in cap doesn't like to engage in spontaneous conversations, or back and forth exchange. They are uncomfortable,because they have to process how they feel and they do watch out what they say a lot, very meticulous in their choice of words.They like to think for ages,before they speak so for them it's difficult to have a flow of words maintained for a long time as in chats.

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