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Topic: Toxic Men
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Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 158 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by k e p h x i: He sounds hot. :P
I don´t know if you´re kidding, but the man IS hot. It´s just that he is trouble, and he seems very troubled to me. IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 158 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 02:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by lotus_flower: So OP, did you find out anymore information? What is the update? This is intriguing....
Well, that was the update. Care to explain what it is that you find intriguing? Actually, I´ll be honest. I like the guy. When I first started the thread I was so frustrated because he just sat in the back and drove me (and my friends) crazy. I could somehow feel his pain. I know it sounds nuts, but I could. But recently he´s been giving signs that he likes me. He has tried to touch me, and sat next to me. But he NEVER talks to me. That´s what bothers me. The fact that there is a tension between us, and yet we never talk. This may sound nuts, but I think we´re very inlove, but we can´t deal with it. Our composite chart is pretty intense, and not very good, although the synastry is quite hot. My main problem is that I have really fallen for this toxic guy, and I don´t know what to do. I have avoided him for months, and still do, but the attraction doesn´t go away. It was actually my mom that made me realise that I´m in love wth him. I called her one day and said that I´m having a nervous breakdown because I hate a guy in my class so much. And she said that it´s just because I´m deeply inlove.. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 939 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 02:36 PM
^^You should trust your own feelings,not your mom’s.I am not saying that your mom is wrong,she could right but what you’ve described does not sound like love to me,he could be someone that brings out your dark side,someone that represents what you fear.Pluto in first house people usually do that.IP: Logged |
greatquincunx Knowflake Posts: 84 From: Houston Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 03:35 PM
Where is the hotness? You sound infatuated ..IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 158 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 07:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: ^^You should trust your own feelings,not your mom’s.I am not saying that your mom is wrong,she could right but what you’ve described does not sound like love to me,he could be someone that brings out your dark side,someone that represents what you fear.Pluto in first house people usually do that.
Love is a complicated concept. There are different kinds of love. If you´re talking about true, compassionate love, the kind that grows over time and feels stable - then yeah - this is not it. But it´s more of a passion, and in love thing, on my part. I have pluto in 1st house. I don´t know his birth time. I wouldn´t say that he brings out my dark side, I´m actually more mellow around him (I´m generally a "dark" kind of person I guess..) But he brings out alot of passion in me. At first it manifested as irritation and hatered, but it was mixed with attraction. And now I´m so exausted that I feel numb. He also seems to have feelings of irrational dislike and attraction for me too. anonymous - do you still like that girl that you "hate"? And how are things going with her, if you don´t mind me asking? IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 158 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 07:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by greatquincunx: Where is the hotness? You sound infatuated..
Maybe it´s our synastry, idk..
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