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Little Doe
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posted February 26, 2013 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a subject that is taboo. There is a guy in our class and he is new. Ever since he started going to ourclass at uni the atmosphere in the room changed. One girl after the other is falling for him, and not in a good way. And the worst thing is no one talks about it. he is taboo, lol. He has only been going in our class for a year and heīs already broken two hearts, and is in the process of breaking at least three more, no joke.

He started in our class and I was immediately DRAWN to him, but he pushed me away.

He is the guy that sits in the back and observes everyone, like heīs Dracula, and he never interacts with women. He creates a tension in the room, and I have noticed that all and I mean ALL my female friends have changed, since he came into our class. They have become more irritable, the always look around to see where he is. And the worst thing is, they hae become competitive, and paranoid. He is sucking all us females dry of our energy!

I looked into his chart and he has alot of pluto, among other things he has

Mars in scorpio
Sun square pluto
Mars conjunction pluto

and i BET he is a scorpio rising, so he has pluto conjunction asc in nata.

You know what Iīm talking about - the guy that sits in the back and never talks, but his energy is so powerful and unfortunately, so dark (plutonic) that it dominates the whole room.

I am plutonic myself, so I am familiar with this energy, I have it too. But not as much as him.

He is not a bad person, just misguided, but because he has power, he is toxic.

I just wanted to share this.

I feel like he is possesing me with his mind. His pluto conjuncts my ascendant, and meny other planets too, including sextiles my sun. Exausting.. I have to see him every day. Boy, this is so hard..

Can anyone relate?

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Little Doe
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posted February 26, 2013 11:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 26, 2013 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like he is a reptilian jk,I would love to be him lol.

I have pluto in first,sun square pluto,scorpio rising like him and plenty of other aspects to pluto but I dont attract girls like him lol.I do observe people quite a lot and I also sit in the back.Is he very handsome or is it just his raw magnetism attracting everyone?Change in atmosphere definitely sounds like the job of a pluto conjunct ascendant person.His pluto conj. ur ascendant will probably result in him wanting to control you.Sounds very interesting,tell me more if you dont mind.

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Little Doe
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posted February 26, 2013 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Kerosene
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posted February 26, 2013 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe he's a demon or a spawn of one... lol jk idk. You know i've never met anyone so toxic before. Its all that pluto. I have met individuals with strong pluto but never that deadly, check what his lilith is doing..

Although I dated a guy who is like yours but an angel, he was breathtakingly good looking and everyone admired his beauty, but he was also so sweet, warm, but mysterious and shy. A lot of people were obsessed with him like your guy.
He was a pisces, go figure and had venus/mars conjunct uranus & neptune.
I still think about him sometimes. I suppose he is toxic also..

Outer planet individuals are so dangerous...

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posted February 26, 2013 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When i read the title i was gonna say pluto lol!

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posted February 26, 2013 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe he is Dracula

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posted February 26, 2013 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Little Doe:

What can I say? The man is toxic! He is a manipulator. He is very handsome, and extremply athletic. He looks like a pornstar. Itīs bad..
BUT, there are other hot guys at uni too, and they donīthave any power over women. So... it must be more than his looks. Idk, but I belive the reason why women are obsessed with him is because he is obsessed with them..

EUGH:::

When he pushed me away youīd think heīd leave me alone, but he has been starting at me, and if I ignore him he rolls his eyes and makes me feel guilty for being a ***** . And I donīt even know the guy!!

He came and sat next to me the other day after giving me the evil eye for months and I felt this energy coming from him, like I wanted to throw up.

The end, lol.

(I hope you are not like him, because I think heīs miserable)

I think itīs his sun sqare pluto that makes him have love/hate relationships. If a woman gives him attention and love heīs bored. If sheīs a ***** he hates her, but loves her too. Poor guy.. he can only love the women he hates. LOL! Do you feel this way too?


Yeah I do love the girl I hate.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
interesting name above me.

this guy sounds like the cool guy. Like Fonzi. Do you know who Fonzi is from Happy Days?

He looks like a porn star? a male one? I mean, I dont know what kind of male pornographic stars that you have been looking at but the ones that I have seen are "polite" at best.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Maybe he's a demon or a spawn of one... lol jk idk. You know i've never met anyone so toxic before. Its all that pluto. I have met individuals with strong pluto but never that deadly, check what his lilith is doing..

Although I dated a guy who is like yours but an angel, he was breathtakingly good looking and everyone admired his beauty, but he was also so sweet, warm, but mysterious and shy. A lot of people were obsessed with him like your guy.
He was a pisces, go figure and had venus/mars conjunct uranus & neptune. He is toxic in a way too...

Outer planet individuals are so dangerous...



I am quite intuitive so I can understand people pretty well. (Idk if itīs because I have moon in scorpio + everything else in scorpio too, lol..)

So I think I understand him in a way. Heīs VERY sensitive. He doesnīt mean to create drama, but he does. And I feel sorry for him sometimes. Still I think in some way heīs using his power for selfish reasns. If he really used them for good he would make friends with all these women that like him, including me. I admit, I really like him, thatīs the point of this post, but he was rude to me. I just wanted to be friends after he pushed me away. I donīt have to be his gf, I donīt even know if I like him that much. All I know is that there is an energy between us, a tension, and I wanted to release the tension by being friends, but itīs impossible. I think we resent eachother too much..

He is quite a tragic character. And I donīt know what to do..

We have a very hostile synastry.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venuasianman:
interesting name above me.

this guy sounds like the cool guy. Like Fonzi. Do you know who Fonzi is from Happy Days?


Thatīs exactly him! Heīs Fonzi! :P

Oh man, I just want to quit shool..

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posted February 26, 2013 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Yeah I do love the girl I hate.

WHY? Why do you love/hate her? Do you rollyour eyes at her too?

You should tell us more about sun square pluto when you have time.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you want to quit school because of a man?

that is like me saying I want to quit drugs because I want to be smarter.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venuasianman:
you want to quit school because of a man?

"puny humans" It is a song.


Thanks for the reality check.

(What can I say.. Iīm quite sensitive)

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posted February 26, 2013 12:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
then quit school. Maybe he is a figment of your imagination. His only reason for existing is so that you will quit school.

does he have a sense of humor or is he always serious?

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posted February 26, 2013 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venuasianman:
then quit school. Maybe he is a figment of your imagination. His only reason for existing is so that you will quit school.

does he have a sense of humor or is he always serious?


He has a sense of humor, and heīs so sweet. BUT when heīs around wome nthat are attracted to him he gets nervous and therefore rude!

Poor thing.. I think I love him. Thatīs my problem, really.

Thanks guys for listening. Iīll try to figure out some way to deal with this.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hmmm. You are giving contradictory descriptions of this guy but yet you write that he possesses a certain fixed quality about him. That doesn't make much sense. I am sure you will figure everything out. Good luck. Sorry I couldn't be much help.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How is he a toxic man if all he does is sit there? So all the other girls pay attention to him? who cares! most girls will pay attention to what they find attractive.It sounds like your annoyed by the thought that he stung you,so your starting a thread about how toxic he is because he`s not interested in you.

Nobody has the influence to effect how we feel,we don`t have to let somebody make us feel drawn to them or afraid or intimidated. My suggestions because i think maybe your not comfortable with him is to ignore him.

P.s never quit school because of a man it`s not the best solution...just ignore him.If the other girls are acting dumb let them,if they jumped off a cliff would you?

You mentioned that you have plutonic energy yourself maybe it`s your own energy that is making something of him.I do still think that it has a lot to do with your own obsessiveness over him...because it`what this sounds like to me because you like him but he`s just not that interested in you.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol gurl....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLvK5nKbo6w

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How is he a toxic man if all he does is sit there? So all the other girls pay attention to him? who cares! most girls will pay attention to what they find attractive.It sounds like your annoyed by the thought that he stung you,so your starting a thread about how toxic he is because he`s not interested in you.

Nobody has the influence to effect how we feel,we don`t have to let somebody make us feel drawn to them or afraid or intimidated. My suggestions because i think maybe your not comfortable with him is to ignore him.

P.s never quit school because of a man it`s not the best solution...just ignore him.If the other girls are acting dumb let them,if they jumped off a cliff would you?

You mentioned that you have plutonic energy yourself maybe it`s your own energy that is making something of him.I do still think that it has a lot to do with your own obsessiveness over him...because it`what this sounds like to me because you like him but he`s just not that interested in you.


What this guy said.

But its quite possible that this story is just.......that.

I hope the best for her though.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
lol gurl....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLvK5nKbo6w

Aw, you are too sweet! <3

You know what, I stumbled across a thread where you showed you eye, and he has eyes/gaze similar to yours! They are beautiful.

And thanks for the link.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Plutonians attract each other.There is this girl who stares at me,we are not friends,she just stares.I just knew from her stare that she has scorpio somewhere,I have found out that she is a scorpio moon with lot of pluto aspects.I think we are similar.She is like my female version,he has probably sensed that in you.He was probably testing you by pushing you away and staring at you.My sun square pluto aspect is probably the reason for me not being able to compromise in relationships.I like to win,he probably likes it as well and you know what happens when you dont compromise and are obsessed with winning in relationships.

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posted February 26, 2013 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venuasianman:
What this guy said.

But its quite possible that this story is just.......that.

I hope the best for her though.


You are right! This is real, not just a story. Trust me..

What can I say.. I am unhappily in love, thanks for making me realize this.

Let me just clarify.. I called him dracula and all that kind of jokingly. Of course I realize that the problem is within me.

Yes, the other girls have the same problem, but itīs not his fault they are attracted to him.

Itīs just that, something feels of with him sometimes. Maybe God just gave him this power and he is enjoying it, idk.. But please donīt misunderstand me and think that I am vengeful. I really want the best for him, and I am usually a peaceful and kind person, who loves everybody. I just wish he didnīt have this effect on me. I guess I just need to learn to deal with it. thanks.

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posted February 26, 2013 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Plutonians attract each other.There is this girl who stares at me,we are not friends,she just stares.I just knew from her stare that she has scorpio somewhere,I have found out that she is a scorpio moon with lot of pluto aspects.I think we are similar.She is like my female version,he has probably sensed that in you.He was probably testing you by pushing you away and staring at you.My sun square pluto aspect is probably the reason for me not being able to compromise in relationships.I like to win,he probably likes it as well and you know what happens when you dont compromise and are obsessed with winning in relationships.

Thanks so much for clarifying! Yes, you sound like him. Does your name start with a B? LOL j/k

And I sound like that girl. I guess I am pretty close of being a female version of him. But I am more evolved, or so I think.

Idk if he is pushing me away to test me though. My intuition says, he usedto like me, but now Iīm not sure, cuz heīs back to avoiding me again. I also have issues of intimacy myself, so I know I am also guilty for the tension between us, and maybe I am the toxic one too, idk! I also have issues about my looks. And Iīm jealous. I have 5 planets in scorpio.

I suggest you go up to the girl and tell her to come eat lunch with you, or something! You should make a move! I bet she likes you, if she stares at you. Trust me. I wish you the best! >3 <3

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posted February 26, 2013 01:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this thread reminds me of that one Britney Spears song........you know......"ya yaad yaya, taste of your poison paradise, I'm addicted to you, cause you know that you're......" Oh, what is the name of that song!?

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