posted February 28, 2013 10:04 PM              

In some cultures quickie marriages are not a big deal..
A lot of cultures do not believe in concept of dating :P

posted February 28, 2013 10:23 PM              

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^^LOL,very interesting,does she have venus-uranus aspect?

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Venus trine uranus.. interesting. Isn't that aspect suppose to make an individual appealing to the opposite sex?
She's had very weird experiences with men.
Its a long story but basically this dude was obsessed with her and when the train started leaving he ran after it screaming, "I WILL COME FOR YOU"

posted February 28, 2013 10:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Love it. So true. Not all crazy Uranus synastry and transits will lead to a sudden marriage. Often it could simply be a sudden romance that quickly fizzles. But when you have Saturn as part of the picture too, it so makes sense that not only would there be a sudden relationship, but that this relationship would actually result in a lasting commitment: Marriage. If the Uranus energy is not balanced somehow by Saturn, I can see how the there may fail to be a lasting, consistent result.

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exactly! You summed it up nicely

posted February 28, 2013 10:58 PM            

~ I just thought I'd pop in, I did a quick check with emphemeris

though I met my husband online (very Uranian, ne?) lol At an earlier time...

We officially met in January of 2006, at that exact time Uranus was cnj my Descendant node, which is in his 6th house though, (both Virgo risers, diff decans). Uranus rules his 5th house, and my 6th house, but is natal conjunct my Venus-S.Node in 4th house Sadgittarius.

3 days after meeting (well technically less than 48 hours later)~ he'd proposed.

We married the following year (Uranus was still in our 6/7th houses. but we had aspects to all of our Sagittarius planets from Neptune in Aquarius (5/6th houses) as well, our Desc ruler.
Neptune sextile Neptune (our natal/transit)

At the time of his proposal, Sun, Mercury, Venus were all conjunct my Sun, which, I need to mention, my Sun, is tight conjunct his Juno.

If that isn't enough, Saturn was conjunct my 12h cusp, and Anti-vertex, at that time, his Mars is on my Vertex in synastry. The Moon was in opposition to my Sun and his Juno (what this means is beyond me right now, sorry.)

Jupiter was conjunct my Saturn-Eros. Pluto was conjunct his Sun/Neptune. Mars was conjunct my Lust. (*danger/danger*) lol

Then, at the time of our marriage..
the Sun was conjunct my North Node, the Moon was conjunct his nSun and Neptune.

Sadly, tMercury was opposed to our Venus, and Mercuries at that time, as well as tVenus opposite my Sun, his Juno... /sigh - *things we wish we could have known when they were happening* For better or worse, Mars was closely conjunct my/our Eris and my Pholus, trine my S.Node-Venus(sxt NN). Jupiter was exact conjunct my Venus-S.Node in 4th house - exact!!!) u.u - Saturn was square my nMoon.
Uranus was still in our 7th, (as I mentioned), and Neptune was retro in our 5/6th houses, (mentioned, I think). Pluto was now in the midst of my stellium, and near to his Mercury, and widely that nVenus of his). tNode cnj my Desc Node. BM Lilith Square Sun/Juno.

--- our marriage has lasted, yes. And, we can't go to a single family event without someone making some kind of (sometimes quite snide) remark about how surprised they are that it has. BUT - it's anything but "happily ever after" fairytale romance-y... no.

It's a very Saturn and BM Lilith-filled marriage... for many reasons.

But, yes we met unconventionally, that's indisputable, very Aquarian/Uranian (Neptune/Uranus and our Desendants played a huge role indeed, it would appear) - as well as each house ruler of our 4th, 5th, and 7th being in multiple aspect to eachother by transit). And, we did have a shotgun wedding, contrary to the normal long planned and laboured over marriage fiasco these old fashioned European families are use to. HAH

Our synastry is considered "hot" by most counts... we have really good synastry, for the most part... but, the composite is complicated, and not so dreamy... still steamy, but not dreamy...

I think it would have helped to been more aware of transits and how they work, at that time (when we were wed)... because, looking back over things now,things really are spelled out that came to light just afterwards... that could have been avoided...(possibly) - and then, we'd have that wonderful, blissful, fairytale romance today. Instead the conflict in our charts to the transits at the time, matched toe to toe with the conflicts in our hearts and what soon followed...

Maybe it's not good to marry under hard transits from Moon to Moon...? idk

But, it was fascinating to look back over things, though I may have missed things, and I didn't look at all of his placements in comparison yet. -anothertime-

sorry so long, per usual.

>.< good grief. ^^;

tc!~ <3

posted March 01, 2013 06:13 AM            

It wasn’t exactly a fairy tale, it was quite crazy at times (hard pluto aspects in natal charts) and we “broke up” so many times. I got mad and went home, he went after me ....etc...etc . We both have hard Uranus/venus, Neptune/venus aspects in our natal charts, so yeah. We worked it out though, and now the relationship is quite peaceful and more harmonious.

posted March 01, 2013 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
basically this dude was obsessed with her and when the train started leaving he ran after it screaming, "I WILL COME FOR YOU"

You have to realize middle eastern guys are like this dramatic and oblivious...

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lol.....

I think that is romantic actually. To run after someone and profess your love. hehe

Hey it happens in the movies and looks good.

But it is a lot better than the common guys that play by the rules: 2 day wait then call, no contact to make her jealous, act like she isnt that important, give a little then ignore her to make her chase you.....

What does all that bull lead to?

Anyway, I think that in our culture we over analyze things and are way way too shrewd. In other cultures it is a lot more innocent and not preplanned or well thought out sure....That isnt a bad thing; it just means it came direct from the heart factory.

Anyway, I have venus trine uranus and I actually was involved with a Lebanese guy...lol (He broke my heart but oh well...:P)

I hope that my venus trine uranus gets me married pronto asap like your mom.

posted March 01, 2013 01:19 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
We met through a friend and chatted online a bit. 1 month later, he asked me to marry him without having met me in person. 2 months later I packed my bags, and got a one-way plane ticket to the country where he lives. We've been together for more than 4 years and we're now officially married. My friends still make jokes about the whole event, they often say that I could have met a serial killer and could have ended up under the bridge for all they know =)

It wasn’t exactly a fairy tale, it was quite crazy at times (hard pluto aspects in natal charts) and we “broke up” so many times. I got mad and went home, he went after me ....etc...etc . We both have hard Uranus/venus, Neptune/venus aspects in our natal charts, so yeah. We worked it out though, and now the relationship is quite peaceful and more harmonious.

There are some Uranus and Pluto aspects in our synastry chart, a few heavy Chiron and lilith aspects. We have some Venus/venus, mars/mars, mars/venus double whammy and some very strong Saturn aspects personal planets. Most of his planets are on my ascendant and MC and vice versa. Most of my planets are on his moon and sun.

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posted March 01, 2013 01:36 PM              

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
lol.....

I think that is romantic actually. To run after someone and profess your love. hehe

Hey it happens in the movies and looks good.

But it is a lot better than the common guys that play by the rules: 2 day wait then call, no contact to make her jealous, act like she isnt that important, give a little then ignore her to make her chase you.....

What does all that bull lead to?

Anyway, I think that in our culture we over analyze things and are way way too shrewd. In other cultures it is a lot more innocent and not preplanned or well thought out sure....That isnt a bad thing; it just means it came direct from the heart factory.

Anyway, I have venus trine uranus and I actually was involved with a Lebanese guy...lol (He broke my heart but oh well...:P)

I hope that my venus trine uranus gets me married pronto asap like your mom.

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hehe It looks good if the guy is leonardo Dicaprio circa titanic

She has a venus in aries so she's not impressed by that stuff, not a single romantic bone in her body.

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posted March 03, 2013 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
doesn't synastry need some degree of time to develop? if the partners marry fast then it'd have to be natal influences compelling the behavior since they may not even know each other well enough for synastry to be 'working' on them. i consider 'fast' would be marrying in 1-4 months after meeting, not anything beyond that.

my bf and i have a ton of uranus contacts and uranus conj. venus exact. he's also aqua in three of his closest planets but my cap moon and his 7H saturn seems to mitigate any impulsive behaviors, so even very tight uranus-venus or uranus contacts do not equal fast marriage/partnership all the time

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You're confusing the way a composite functions with the way synastry function -

the composite represents a "founded/established" relationship - synastry is the interaction between two or more individuals in any circumstance.. you can even read synastry between the deceased, and with people you have not met... not to mention synastry and composites can be used for nonorganic and multiple subjects too!! There are no rules for applying syanstry to a person, group, place, or thing... but there are some general rules involving composite charts... and establishing a connection that forms an entity deserving of its own chart, is probably /the/ front runner here.

You ever meet somebody and straight away, you thought, "hey, she's good people" or "I can't stand that annoying b-tard" - then you check your synastry and see a boat load of bad aspects or great aspects --- that's synastry ---

then you form a friendship with the person you get on well with, and a year later they come all unglued/unhinged... you check your transits, and their transits to your composite, their own chart and your progressed charts and you see that they are going through a rough transitional phase, and you are (by) progressed into a bad synastry, plus your negative composite aspects are starting to play out because transits here are triggering them/emphasizing those negative energies...

And your friendship/relationship bombs...

that's how the charts work.

synastry can be seen in an instant~ especially one that leaves a strong overall impression... whether good or bad.

Of course you can still view them (the other person/thing) from their Ascendant, MC, and rulership/dominance... but you together will "feel" the synastry aspects as they are...

Composites are established when the relationship is also established/fortified...

so - composite /needs to be created/, but a synastry /already exists/.

that's the difference...

but - you will always be at the mercy of the transits, and progressions as well.

I have Venus-Uranus in natal, and a wide same with my husband's Uranus... My Venus cnj SN though, and lies within 4h Jupiter... when you look at what houses are ruled by each planet for both people, and look at the synastry elements alone, that says nothing for how we met and how we came to marry so suddenly... it's the transits that made it a pivotal time for a union... the synastry only backed that connection... ^^; getme???

Uranus isn't all we're looking at here~ if I may say so...

we're looking at the house interplay, the rulership, and the syanstry... that will drive a certain relationship to suddenly bloom or burst - Uranus is the creative force in astro-mythology - but also chaos... he is only one component that leads to the hurried/shotgun wedding~ and not just by synastry and natal - we are not saying that it is in just one - we're looking at the transits to the two individuals in these circumstances that lead/led them to marry quickly. We're also looking at the other passing transit elements that lead to this... not just Uranus... not at all...

Just because you have synastric Uranus contacts or heavy natal Uranus -- does not indicate a rushed relationship of any kind... (in fact most modern astrology would say this indicates the opposite tendency and pattern repeating) lol ^^;

And Lunae - we're not looking at fairytale romance aspects here, either... just early/fast "proposals"...

spontaneous attraction is one thing all its own. Another thread, and different transits and aspects go into this.

I digress - Neptune, and Uranus by natal, by synastry, by transit, and house/rulership involving NOT just those two but particularly the 5th and 7th houses are the key to these circumstances.

Uranus and Neptune are slow motion planets~ in transit and within certain relationships you are going to experience them for xxxx amount of time in any house, to another... what brings these things together is favourable aspects from other house ruling transit planets and natal positions, all backed by a "strong" synastry of one sort or another...

it's a bit tricky for me to explain any further without going over everything everyone has already stated piece by piece... and explaining why 1+2=3, or 4-6= -2, my Jupiter-Mercury would explode after going through each possibility one by one...
(It's why I'll never do personal readings) lol

It is important not to single out one theme or aspect and relate those to only one definition and outcome... when astrology is not that clean, simple. And, you'll miss any number of other things by dong this... at any given time there are a myriad of different elements to consider. ^^;

that's just my 2 nickels worth~ <3

posted March 22, 2013 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
We agreed to get married 23 days later. It's been almost 20 years. Venus to Uranus in play.

Edit: We got married 11 weeks after meeting.

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posted October 20, 2015 11:25 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Ask Faith. She and her husband decided to get married the next day after meeting.

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Just looking for another thread and found this!

Not true!

I knew my husband casually for a few months, then had a crush on him for about two months, then he asked me out.

We went out the next day.

A few nights after that we talked on IM and decided to get married.

So, before our second date.

Still a little weird though.

posted October 21, 2015 09:11 AM            

With Venus in these places, there is immediate "certainty" when that connection is made.

An ex of mine has Venus in aspect to Pluto(opposition). And with my Pluto in 7th, it was a case of 'I want to be with you now and forever' thing going on.

I think a strong aspect to Venus creates those strong feelings as Venus is how one responds to love(or at-least what one believes is love)

posted October 21, 2015 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
so...

has anyone ever heard of the story of 'person a' meets 'person b', and...a few weeks or months later, they marry and the rest is a fairytale?
i mean, ive heard of these stories, but, ive never met a couple like that. sure, i find it bizarre because im all about 'taking your time before marriage'
but, it does seem there are exceptions out there...of couples who dont even need to date...they just know they've met the one, get marry, and live happily ever after.

what are the placements behind this phenomenon?

what i find peculiar is that, there are married couples out there that get along perfectly, and dont even marry that fast. i ask myself, shouldnt people with great synastry-composite have the quickie marriage automatically?
(excluding life circumstances and obstacles that may impede a quickie marriage)

the quickie marriage...does this have to do with synastry-composite?
or is it just a placement apart from the basic good synastry and composite?
since marriage has to do with institutions, making things official...i wonder if saturn-cap has to do with this.
but, saturnian-cap energy likes to verify and to make sure things will be long-term, it is not an impulsive energy like that...
so, what gives?
share your theories....

again, im talking about people who get married in a whim and surprisingly, shock everyone else (everyone else was skeptical) because the marriage lasted/still lasting.

thanks!

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My take on this is that, whether or not a marriage ensues, this kind of quick adoration (infatuation) is actually really common, and the journey tends to be similar - while one couple may actually embark on marriage from this feeling, they will still have to deal with the realities of the relationship ---- particularly that it is NOT a fairytale.

For others who feel this instant connection, they may wait longer for actual marriage but feel exactly the same as the couple who did decide to take the step to marriage faster for whatever reasons. The actual marriage part is not necessarily a sign that one couple is feeling that instant thing faster than another -- it just depends on what each couple sees as a full commitment (not everyone believes in marriage, for instance).

ANYWAY stepping off my soapbox on that, I do think Uranus/ Venus and Neptune/Venus are huge factors with the 'love at first sight' thing.

posted October 21, 2015 09:39 AM            

I think some of the rush to the altar in my case had to do with astrological circumstances, though I had no idea at that time. I forget all the particulars and degrees but roughly speaking:

-My pr sun was exactly conjunct tr Uranus in Aquarius, on my natal DSC, while
-Tr sun conjunct my pr Uranus, forming a t-square with...
- His pr Uranus.

When I married him, my pr Juno was conjunct his pr sun, exact to the minute.