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Topic: "you're so insensitive"
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cappy1277
Moderator Posts: 1459
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 04, 2013 11:26 PM
  
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Faith:
Ooooo I second that! Edit: Hmmm no, wait. I really have only known one terribly insensitive Gemini moon. You are not insensitive, neither is Charmaine. Ian says he is, but I've never seen him really try and hurt anyone's feelings. My daughter is a Gemini moon and very sweet to all other kids. I take it back~ 'can't say I've seen many Gemini moons being insensitive. [/QUOTE: Thanks faith! ❤ Unfortunately for people who are sensitive or even hypersensitive, they won't appreciate my candor or my honest opinion. I'm not the friend to ask if you look fat in those jeans when you do...I will give my honest opinion. If you make me mad, I will lay it all out for you and that usually leaves the person like wth? Especially my s/o with his moon/Neptune in the first house. Luckily enough, responding in forums gives us Gemini moons the ability to edit & think about what we want to say because as some can be aware there have been some people who really needed to be laid out...lol but coming from a place of compassion, I choose not to be that way. As for my friends who may need a reality check, they come to me. Lol... IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 900
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 12:28 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
what placement is this?
I think cap placements. We don't like to sugar coat things. Can come across as insensitive. That's why caps seldom fish for compliments  IP: Logged |
T
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 05, 2013 12:34 AM
I'm a Cap rising. We are sensitive, but if need be can also be very insensitive and cold.From my observation, Cap placements & Sag placements (tho, i'm not sure if the ones I've known have all had their Merc. in Cap or what). Sag's are usually pretty blunt. Couple that with Cap coldness and that may be why I've known Saggies to be insensitive as well. Though i know someone with a ton of Sag placements who is extremely sensitive. (moon & sun conj. nept. in Sag) Virgo's can cut with their words, if they want to, but it usually takes a lot to push them that far. I'm thinking of two Virgo females that I knew that could be quite b!tchy, but underneath were very sweet and sensitive. You just had to get past their .... front... IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 12:42 AM
mercury sq pluto, mercury/mars can be blunt,and cutting. I have both aspects with a cap rising. I can be a super insensitive beetch, and an emotional mop. Typing this makes me feel like am Dr Jerkyll and Mr Hyde!IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 6140
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 12:44 AM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Uhm we used to call it Manhood.Nothing wrong with enjoying aesthetics or even a fine dinner, or long talks But my goodness "insensitive" has come to mean "you do not agree with me" Uhm..probably not
huh?IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 900
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 12:48 AM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Uhm we used to call it Manhood.
Seriously??? I thought we call it 'insensitive douchebags'. IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
Knowflake Posts: 47
From: gallia, Ohio ,United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 05, 2013 12:55 AM
believe it or not i'm both really sensitive and really insensitive IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
Knowflake Posts: 47
From: gallia, Ohio ,United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 05, 2013 12:57 AM
also to reply to the above post i appreciate honesty and im very sensitive person as well. it just depends on how you present yourself i can always tell if someone is just being an ******* or if they are being real or truthfulIP: Logged |
CherryVodka
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From: gallia, Ohio ,United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 05, 2013 01:00 AM
I know a Scorpio girl with a Leo moon, squaring her pluto and Sagittarius mercury in the fourth house, she also has a Cap venus, and she's really insensitive and snappy.IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 1918
From: sand castle
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 01:10 AM
i should mention... i have mercury in aries. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 6140
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 01:26 AM
i think being insensitive is all about intent.. you have to either not care if you offend someone or purposely offend someone to be truly insensitive. some people can go through life and step on others toes and not even realize it , i wouldnt consider them insensitive , they are just clueless.IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 900
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 01:38 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i think being insensitive is all about intent.. you have to either not care if you offend someone or purposely offend someone to be truly insensitive. some people can go through life and step on others toes and not even realize it , i wouldnt consider them insensitive , they are just clueless.
So if someone ask me "am I looking fat in those hip hugging jeans?'' and I say ''yes, you do look fat'' am being insensitive? nahhhhh, I do agree with you, it's all about intent. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 6140
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 01:51 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
So if someone ask me "am I looking fat in those hip hugging jeans?'' and I say ''yes, you do look fat'' am being insensitive? nahhhhh, I do agree with you, it's all about intent.
no you would not be insensitive, because you were asked a question and answered. people should never ask a question if they arent prepared for the honest answer. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 900
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 02:19 AM
^^ yup true.do you know those air-kissing types females that kiss the air because they don't want to get their lipsticks smudged? They will probably disagree with your definition of 'insensitivity' IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 1918
From: sand castle
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 02:21 AM
^u can get warts from real cheek to cheek kisses! my family are dermatologists.IP: Logged |
magicspells
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 05:55 AM
I have virgo mercury and I've said this to someone before lolIP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 900
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 05:59 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
^u can get warts from real cheek to cheek kisses! my family are dermatologists.
do you know how many microbes there are in the air? am a microbiologist duck faces crack me up IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 1918
From: sand castle
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 07:31 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
duck faces crack me up
don't make me post one!  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 05, 2013 07:39 AM
You cannot judge sensitivity or lack thereof on an electronic forum. It allows one to give pause and consider what to say, and then change minds and edit out whatever is offensive.Look at me operate in my domain, which is the business floor. I speak instantly and speak my mind 100% of the time. Speaking with candor is brutally insensitive, especially when dealing with subordinates. There is no sugar coating. You can't polish turd and turn it into gold. And there isn't an edit feature when speaking to bosses. My combination of Capricorn, Virgo and Gemini Moon makes me an in-your-face individual. IP: Logged |
Mandy pie
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posted March 05, 2013 07:27 PM
I don't think a NATAL aspect can really cause this... only a synastry one.Someone's Mars square someone's Moon would eventually cause this. I've been both the Moon and the Mars person in such relationships... TERRIBLE synastry aspect. Considered one of the worst in fact. It gives great sexual tension, but once a real relationship gets going the Mars person tends to unknowingly bring out the Moon person's vulnerabilities making moon a bit more sensitive and insecure. But the mars person isn't inspired to console moon with the square because with this aspect mars only sees a cry-baby and a pu**Y so they don't care about hurting the person... in fact they might be a little disgusted by moon's tears. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 1158
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 07:37 PM
I can be insensitive but I'm still charming.
I worked at a clothing store and if someone asked me if they looked good I would just say I don't know that much about fashion and I just work here (even when I was thinking of majoring in fashion merchandising)IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1390
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 08:16 PM
I completely agree with all who have said that at times - though not 100% of the time of course - Sagittarius and Capricorn influenced indiviuals can be quite blunt, to the point, not worried if words could maybe make someone sad or offended, and just 'insensitive'. Why? Sag tells it as it is, Capricorn is also this way but in a more pragmatic and less fiery sense. I've seen Saturn-ASC, Sagittarius and Cap Rising, Mercury in Cap or Sag, and Mercury-Saturn all come off as 'insensitive' and not politically correct at times, too dry and just not thinking that some can have a thin skin when it comes to the words they'll say. I am one of these people and so is my Aunt. She is a Sag Sun, Merc in Cap. She is a Pisces Rising which really tones it down and she can be sensitive sometimes but she's very blunt and to the point like me, she can also make inappropriate jokes about sensitive things like people's problems that just aren't funny but are funny to her. I'm also guilty of this but more so just blunt speech. [Sag rising, Merc-Saturn, Saturn-ASC.] I've also noticed that Mercury in Scorpio, despite being a water sign Merc, can occasionally come off as insensitive due to the intensity of their statements and how they get to the depths of things. They can strike a nerve by putting the truth out there less bluntly than Sag but still full-force all the same. IP: Logged |
Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 1295
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Seriously??? I thought we call it 'insensitive douchebags'.
Sure, the guys with Facebook pics with no shirts on are more than likely DB's. What has happened to many men (imo) is they have gotten soo sensitive and so "let's do things together" that they forgot to actually BE men. Let your "no" mean "no", if the GF/Wife wants to drag you along to whatever it is, and one does not want to go..just say "nope, not interested in going" I will listen to anyone about nearly anything, when it becomes tiresome, Imo it is not insensitive to just be blunt and say "look, we've been over that" "Insensitive" has come to mean "won't passively listen to her crap about it any more" When in reality, men just are not wired to run over the same thing over and over and over..we are just not wired that way. Make a decision, go with it, be open to adjusting, but my goodness don't just be like an open well with people speaking down day after day after day IP: Logged |
Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 1295
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 08:38 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
You cannot judge sensitivity or lack thereof on an electronic forum. It allows one to give pause and consider what to say, and then change minds and edit out whatever is offensive.Look at me operate in my domain, which is the business floor. I speak instantly and speak my mind 100% of the time. Speaking with candor is brutally insensitive, especially when dealing with subordinates. There is no sugar coating. You can't polish turd and turn it into gold. And there isn't an edit feature when speaking to bosses. My combination of Capricorn, Virgo and Gemini Moon makes me an in-your-face individual.
Yep, pretty much. That does not mean one does not give a half a care, it is more that there are needed social and personal boundaries that one just sticks to, if that seems insensitive that is not a man's problem. IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 1918
From: sand castle
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 08:42 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
You cannot judge sensitivity or lack thereof on an electronic forum. It allows one to give pause and consider what to say, and then change minds and edit out whatever is offensive.Look at me operate in my domain, which is the business floor. I speak instantly and speak my mind 100% of the time. Speaking with candor is brutally insensitive, especially when dealing with subordinates. There is no sugar coating. You can't polish turd and turn it into gold. And there isn't an edit feature when speaking to bosses. My combination of Capricorn, Virgo and Gemini Moon makes me an in-your-face individual.
the incidents were IRL. online... hmm... the flippant comment was online and i suppose i belittle people by talking about how much they are into me (online) lulz. #douche IP: Logged |
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