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Topic: The Sexuality of Your Mars
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I'm so cappy
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From: Death Star
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:25 AM
  
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I would rather be celibate than empty meaningless sex
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Xiiro
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posted March 15, 2013 01:28 AM
Mars in Leo 5HSex as an expression of worship. It is an opportunity to creatively communicate to the object of your affection, just how much you appreciate them. Sex is a way to experience the genius, "thus-ness", or unfiltered vulnerability of a person and a way to convey things which are impossible to express in words. You can tell a person they are safe with you, but you can prove the point through sexual intimacy. Sex can be scored cheap anywhere, but the best quality shtuff can only be found where the connection is deep and well traveled.
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swampys
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posted March 15, 2013 01:29 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
*enters thread*hmm... *exits thread*
This made me giggle a lot!  Mr. Silly! ------------------
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12muddy
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posted March 15, 2013 01:31 AM
Mars in taurusSex can be a way to connect/merge with someone, or it can be just for pleasure. For me, until this point in my life I've only had sex with the one I love, and I'd like to stay this way. I like sex in a romantic setting. A bit kinky and adventurous. I'm quite open to "new ideas" too. Teehee. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted March 15, 2013 01:32 AM
I love your post Xiiro.I wish I were demisexual...It would work perfect for me. ------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2013 01:32 AM
I have Mars in Gemini but it's in the 12th house. Despite it sextiling my Sun, Mercury, and Venus in the 11th and conjunct my ASC. I am somewhat fearful towards sex. I can talk about it openly with people, I practice sexuality, but I think for my first time I would like it to be with someone random (in theory, hear me out). I want to practice and be really good at it. Then when I find someone I love I can appreciate them the way I always wanted to without inhibition and with confidence. Maybe that's a better way to sum up my Mars. My confidence in sex is shaky and so I don't do much of it.As for whether relationships or not. I used to think I had to wait for that special guy and it was going to be magical and in love, but after some tawdry experiences (without going all the way) and being lovelorn, and realizing relationships are work and not all loving and fun all the time... I'm caring less about that. I don't know. I'm not a very sexual person with other people. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 15, 2013 01:34 AM
@Xiiro
I love your take on it..
Thats exactly what I wished other thought.
I just stopped seeing this guy because he would not stop pressuring me.
If you respected me as person than you would respect my wishes.
It makes me feel cheap and disposable like Im not worth getting to know or care about..
I always seem to attractive sex addicts thou, men and women... IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
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posted March 15, 2013 01:38 AM
@Xiiro; what you said had me a liiiittle hot and excited.  IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted March 15, 2013 01:40 AM
@peregrine lmfao!you are getting wiser.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 15, 2013 01:46 AM
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Demisexual? What is that?
Demisexuality IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 15, 2013 01:48 AM
So are you attracted to people regardless of how they look too? Thats very interesting, I have not met a lot of people like that.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 15, 2013 01:49 AM
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So are you attracted to people regardless of how they look too?
Well yeah, obviously. But having an earthy chart - for health-related reasons I'd prefer to be in a serious relationship (and have kids with) a person who is physically *fit*. It means nothing in terms of sexual attraction though. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:51 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Demisexuality
Thanks! Google is my friend huh  IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 15, 2013 01:54 AM
LoL ^^Well I don't really want to explain it in so many words, as I have previously.. It probably bores people lol
I think the definition on that page is well written. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2013 01:54 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Demisexuality
This is going to sound ignorant but... wouldn't this mean one is sexually attracted to your best friends? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted March 15, 2013 01:56 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
This is going to sound ignorant but... wouldn't this mean one is sexually attracted to your best friends?
Maybe only if you feel a deep, emotional connection? Sounds like the emotions play a major role in demisexuality, not so much appearance, gender or other superficial qualities.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 15, 2013 01:56 AM
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This is going to sound ignorant but... wouldn't this mean one is sexually attracted to your best friends?
You really got me 100% on that.
The people I have been most strongly sexually attracted to in my life - I consider best friends. IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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From: Gaea's Omphalos
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:59 AM
what both anonymidarkness & xiiro said!!!!  my mars is lazy under Saturn transit... forgive me not quoting~ (literally it's right on top of it now) ; ; ironing out the kinks I guess~ taskmaster all day - mama gotta let her hair down. Not sleeping good lately either~ X____X (think it's the retro action that doesn't agree with me, plus Pisces planets being a drain) ~__~; /sigh
Mars in Scorpio -
it needs channeling - but there's always (always) a desire there... =x to my detriment - I tend to like Aqua Martians fairly often, (often fire Mars too) - like my husband... square but paired - it's a strange match - when it works - it works perfectly (like Anon said - Aqua Mars is good for experimenting, very good I might say - and Scorpio Mars likes to investigate~!)- when things fail though, no catalyst.... *cold Pluto puts the chasity belt on Mars* I'm sexually temperamental, what can I say!? ^^ Mars rules my 8h. all or nothing~ -really tired! <3 forgive my awkward sentence structure, rambling, please! Z_Z thanks tc!
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Cynnared
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posted March 15, 2013 02:01 AM
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Originally posted by swampys:
Mars in Capricorn! I take sex VERY seriously!!!! I know it can be pleasurable but it should only be practiced between you and your long-term committed partner! Nothing should be publicly sexualized ever! Never ever ever!!!!! I'm waiting until marriage! If you have sexual desires you should do that one thing when you're alone. Really, though, I'm hedonistic and would probably think highly of the pleasure but I think sex is hyped up and I hate anything hyped up!!!!! I don't think people should state anything sexual in public. It should also only be TALKED about with your long-term committed partner/potential long-term partner. I'm very old-fashioned when it comes to sex stuff; not acts, just how it's expressed.EDIT:
And casual sex seems disgusting to me and superficial.
If you're single... touch it don't use it on other people. EDIT AGAIN:
Mars in Capricorn at 29 degrees.
My sentiments exactly.......sex and public = no good.... But to answer the question - I also have Mars in Capricorn in the 8th).....when I am without a partner, I am asexual. I usually don't care if I ever have sex again in my life.....but with a committed, long term partner, then I am fine ....with bouts of asexuality. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2013 02:01 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa:
[b] This is going to sound ignorant but... wouldn't this mean one is sexually attracted to your best friends?
Maybe only if you feel a deep, emotional connection? Sounds like the emotions play a major role in demisexuality, not so much appearance, gender or other superficial qualities.[/B][/QUOTE] Lol. I think most people have a deep emotional connection with their best friends, no? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 02:02 AM
Most people, Hanna, but not me.To be a best friend means to have an emotional connection in the eyes of most people. I don't experience those kinds of connections which is probably connected to the asexuality. I am more a take it or leave it type of person. In other words, I don't feel I have a need. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted March 15, 2013 02:03 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
@peregrine lmfao!you are getting wiser.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9169
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 02:04 AM
Things have kind of turned philosophical...IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 15, 2013 02:07 AM
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To be a best friend means to have an emotional connection.
That's true.. Although I have to say - This does not mean that I am attracted to every single person who has ever been a 'best friend' or a 'close friend'.
Also - it doesn't mean that I can only be attracted to a best friend.
I have (rarely!) ended up having an intense emotional connection with someone who was not in the 'friend' basket... They were actually in something that is more like an 'enemy' basket. But it was still emotional, intense and close. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 15, 2013 02:08 AM
hahaha the perfect photo for this thread sand! loll IP: Logged |
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