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Topic: The Sexuality of Your Mars
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 02:12 AM
  
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Originally posted by Odette:
That's true.. Although I have to say - This does not mean that I am attracted to every single person who has ever been a 'best friend' or a 'close friend'.
Also - it doesn't mean that I can only be attracted to a best friend.
I have (rarely!) ended up having an intense emotional connection with someone who was not in the 'friend' basket... They were actually in something that is more like an 'enemy' basket. But it was still emotional, intense and close.
True because hate is an emotion. It's not always about the love.
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted March 15, 2013 02:20 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Mars in aries.
I do have a strong sex drive, I just don't act on it because sexual expression is not important to me unless I truly love someone.
I'm just like you. I also have the tendency to hide this side of me(Look really sweet and innocent) I have a Capricorn mars. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2013 02:23 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Most people, Hanna, but not me.To be a best friend means to have an emotional connection in the eyes of most people. I don't experience those kinds of connections which is probably connected to the asexuality. I am more a take it or leave it type of person. In other words, I don't feel I have a need.
What?! Dare I say I'm intrigued... I'm a triple Aries so I couldn't be void of an emotion if I tried. Tell me more! Do you have emotions in general, but not towards people? Have you always been that way? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted March 15, 2013 02:28 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What?! Dare I say I'm intrigued... I'm a triple Aries so I couldn't be void of an emotion if I tried. Tell me more! Do you have emotions in general, but not towards people? Have you always been that way?
I have emotions toward people but they are not that positive, lol. Not enough good vibes for me to want to be connected. Mostly I want to run from them and be on my own.
I am not void of emotion, in fact, I have always had too much of it and have worked to tame the salty stings and stuffy head that go along with bouts of hysteria. I just don't use the emotion to form bonds with other people. I am pretty much a loner. It's all those 12th house planets. 12th house is definitely a "gotcha" house and really messes with the psyche, emotions and ability to bond and connect. Makes me really introspective and studious as well. I have an easier time connecting to mass media, television programs, movies, books, songs, than people. Sounds strange and intimidating but it is what it is. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted March 15, 2013 02:33 AM
@peregrine lol,your cheeks look very taurean.IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted March 15, 2013 02:34 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I can go for years without sex and I consider myself asexual. No interest in sex.Mars in Sagittarius 3rd house.
Whoaaa that's crazy IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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From: Silent Hill
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 15, 2013 02:35 AM
Taurus Mars.I have a slightly hedonistic approach to sex but kind of conservative considering how far I'll go and with who.
Many of my peers have a more moralistic approach to sex where they abstain from it until Marriage/Engagement and others approach it like shaking a stranger's hand. For me it's neither... I prefer it best in the confines of a relationship and can control my drive as needed.
However, touch is something very integral to my self-expression so... if I'm not getting some I'm not that happy. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2013 02:37 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I have emotions toward people but they are not that positive, lol. Not enough good vibes for me to want to be connected. Mostly I want to run from them and be on my own.
I am not void of emotion, in fact, I have always had too much of it and have worked to tame the salty stings and stuffy head that go along with bouts of hysteria. I just don't use the emotion to form bonds with other people. I am pretty much a loner. It's all those 12th house planets. 12th house is definitely a "gotcha" house and really messes with the psyche, emotions and ability to bond and connect. Makes me really introspective and studious as well. I have an easier time connecting to mass media, television programs, movies, books, songs, than people. Sounds strange and intimidating but it is what it is.
That's really interesting because I have Mars (in Gemini) in the 12th house, and Jupiter (Gemini) there as well and connect better to the mass media as well. I shine when I'm criticizing misrepresentations of various cultures, sexes, etc. I'm also kind of a loner (I have friends and know people, but I don't hang out with a lot of them all the time.) IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 02:42 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
Whoaaa that's crazy
Well, I try  IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted March 15, 2013 02:46 AM
My Mars is in Cancer.
I will not have sex with anyone that wouldn't make a good parent of my child because I don't want to run the risk of having a baby with a loser.
I practice discrimination in choosing who I will have sex with.
Before I lost my virginity, I felt that I could have sex outside of a relationship. Once I began to have sex I realized the feelings I feel while having sex can only be shared with someone I feel safe with and care about. I now cannot imagine giving my body to a stranger.I would have sex on the first night if I'm really feeling the person. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
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posted March 15, 2013 02:51 AM
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hannaramaa: This is going to sound ignorant but... wouldn't this mean one is sexually attracted to your best friends?
From what I gather, a demisexual person needs an emotional bond to begin experiencing sexual attraction. That doesn't mean, though, that an emotional bond will always lead to sexual attraction.  IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted March 15, 2013 02:52 AM
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Originally posted by Jim:
I see sex as many things, im mars in gemini, i can understand how sex can be something fun, something thats done just for pleasure, or something thats pure to unite a couple even more, something to get to a deep level with another person, i can understand both positions, BUT FOR ME i see sex as for pleasure i wouldnt mind having casual sex just for pleasure.
My boyfriends Mars is in Gemini and I get this from him. He's had a couple of flings but he prefers relationship sex (he has a lot of 7th house placements). I notice the flexibility of his Mars too. One day we can have deep, bonding sex, and another we can have totally detached sex. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted March 15, 2013 02:54 AM
Even when my boyfriend gives me totally detached sex, I'm thankful he even touched me.IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted March 15, 2013 03:00 AM
Any of y'all have retrograde Mars?IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted March 15, 2013 03:08 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
Any of y'all have retrograde Mars?
I do. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted March 15, 2013 03:08 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
@peregrine lol,your cheeks look very taurean.
r u calling me fat again lulz? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted March 15, 2013 03:21 AM
I only have one retrograde planet and it is THE one to have retrograde Saturn!!! No retrograde Nodes either. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 15, 2013 03:29 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
Even when my boyfriend gives me totally detached sex, I'm thankful he even touched me.
WTF..... You should talk to him about that...
He's should be lucky that he's even getting any.
I would totally be ****** about that haha I noticed I do not like air mars signs especially gemini even thou my venus is in gemini IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 15, 2013 03:30 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
r u calling me fat again lulz?
They're full and lush. IP: Logged |
Xiiro
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From: San Diego CA, USA
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 15, 2013 03:45 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
@Xiiro
I love your take on it..
Thats exactly what I wished other thought.
I just stopped seeing this guy because he would not stop pressuring me.
If you respected me as person than you would respect my wishes.
It makes me feel cheap and disposable like Im not worth getting to know or care about..
I always seem to attractive sex addicts thou, men and women...
Thanks, I bump into that same problem occasionally. I think for me, having a fire Mars makes me playful and flirtatious, but sometimes people feel that warm radiation and they forget there is a person behind the feeling. I can see this especially being a problem with Mars in Aries. The last sexual arrangement I was in ended partially because he just didn't know how to read me. Even when I said no all he heard was yes. He had Venus in Aries, Mars in Capricorn though. Once he identified that sexuality in me, it became a goal that he constantly wanted to achieve. For me, it felt superficial and being seen as a sexual vending machine ruined the whole thing. IP: Logged |
Xiiro
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Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 15, 2013 03:47 AM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
@Xiiro; what you said had me a liiiittle hot and excited. 
The words "Sex" and "Worship" participated in the same sentence. What Manticore could resist that? =D IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 15, 2013 03:58 AM
Exactly!! I think as mars in aries natives we appear sexual and provocative, since aries is passionte and mars is the planet of passion too.
This does not mean just anyone is worthy enough to bask in all my sexual glory ahahahaIP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
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posted March 15, 2013 04:15 AM
LMfao!!!!!! Well maYBE I had a little hard lemonade. And my friends are tryhing to make buttery nipples but they don't even hav ebuttershots liqueur. It wasn't evne the sex and worship bit, it just sounded so deep and romancetic.  For a scOrpio/Leo Ares, I'm pretty meh about sex. I rly on't care too much about it at times. In my relationships, sure I'd have their hands on me during da nights, but mostly, they were almost like friends.Maybet ifwas my Aquarus Artemis. Like friends. Sex is pretty whatever. Casual = whatever, soul touching = a touching whatever. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted March 15, 2013 04:22 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Exactly!! I think as mars in aries natives we appear sexual and provocative, since aries is passionte and mars is the planet of passion too.
This does not mean just anyone is worthy enough to bask in all my sexual glory ahahaha
when i think mars in aries i think sex immediately. also the same for sag sun. u know at least they will want to test drive you. but i suppose it isn't like that for all. also sun in aries- rough
mars in gem- phone
mars scorpio- as far as you'll let 'em
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peregrine
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posted March 15, 2013 04:23 AM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
LMfao!!!!!! Well maYBE I had a little hard lemonade. And my friends are tryhing to make buttery nipples but they don't even hav ebuttershots liqueur. It wasn't evne the sex and worship bit, it just sounded so deep and romancetic. For a scOrpio/Leo Ares, I'm pretty meh about sex. I rly on't care too much about it at times. In my relationships, sure I'd have their hands on me during da nights, but mostly, they were almost like friends.Maybet ifwas my Aquarus Artemis. Like friends. Sex is pretty whatever. Casual = whatever, soul touching = a touching whatever.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wa5B22KAkEk IP: Logged |
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