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Topic: The Sexuality of Your Mars
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1685 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 12:18 AM
State your Mars sign and how you perceive sex. Are you the type that only has relationship sex or can you have casual sex? How you prefer to have sex?I'm trying not to sound explicit I don't want my topic to be deleted. IP: Logged |
Jim Knowflake Posts: 155 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 15, 2013 12:26 AM
I see sex as many things, im mars in gemini, i can understand how sex can be something fun, something thats done just for pleasure, or something thats pure to unite a couple even more, something to get to a deep level with another person, i can understand both positions, BUT FOR ME i see sex as for pleasure i wouldnt mind having casual sex just for pleasure.IP: Logged |
swampys Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Missouri Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 15, 2013 12:38 AM
Mars in Capricorn! I take sex VERY seriously!!!! I know it can be pleasurable but it should only be practiced between you and your long-term committed partner! Nothing should be publicly sexualized ever! Never ever ever!!!!! I'm waiting until marriage! If you have sexual desires you should do that one thing when you're alone. Really, though, I'm hedonistic and would probably think highly of the pleasure but I think sex is hyped up and I hate anything hyped up!!!!! I don't think people should state anything sexual in public. It should also only be TALKED about with your long-term committed partner/potential long-term partner. I'm very old-fashioned when it comes to sex stuff; not acts, just how it's expressed.EDIT: And casual sex seems disgusting to me and superficial. If you're single... touch it don't use it on other people. EDIT AGAIN: Mars in Capricorn at 29 degrees. ------------------ I'm on my phone! Forgive my typos! IP: Logged |
Kerosene unregistered
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posted March 15, 2013 12:45 AM
Mars in aries. I do have a strong sex drive, I just don't act on it because sexual expression is not important to me unless I truly love someone.IP: Logged |
swampys Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Missouri Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 15, 2013 12:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Mars in aries. I do have a strong sex drive, I just don't act on it because sexual expression is not important to me unless I truly love someone.
Awwwww! ------------------ I'm on my phone! Forgive my typos! IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 12:56 AM
Ares in Leo! Just have fun damn it. I want to be touched all over by cutiepies and hotties who catch my eyes, and that is that! If someone is sexually active, good. If someone saves themselves only for relationships, then that's good too! I'm pretty mellow either way, truthfully. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 15, 2013 12:57 AM
Leo marsSex is extremely important, I couldn't love or fall in love with someone before sex... Sex is bonding and pleasurable... It gets better when feelings kick in... But hey lust isn't that bad..lol Sex is form of connecting with another person... It also relives stress..haha IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 12:58 AM
^Love it! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 12:59 AM
I have a Taurus Mars. I'm a virgin and casual sex doesn't interest me. I want to do it with someone I'm in love with and vice versa but only if we're in a relationship. I have a normal, sometimes even high libido but I cope somehow When I start my sexual life I'll probably kill the poor guy The bull will be very hungry when it finally wakes up.------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 15, 2013 01:03 AM
IMO.... All that long term and waiting will change when ur 40... I'm just sayin...lol
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starfairy Knowflake Posts: 814 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 15, 2013 01:04 AM
Mars in aqua.I very comfortable with both. I don't need an emotional connection; it can just be for fun and pleasure IP: Logged |
swampys Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Missouri Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 15, 2013 01:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: IMO.... All that long term and waiting will change when ur 40... I'm just sayin...lol
What will it become? :'( ------------------ I'm on my phone! Forgive my typos! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9169 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:06 AM
Mars in Sagittarius and you don't even want to know IP: Logged |
virgolotus Moderator Posts: 1395 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jim: I see sex as many things, im mars in gemini, i can understand how sex can be something fun, something thats done just for pleasure, or something thats pure to unite a couple even more, something to get to a deep level with another person, i can understand both positions, BUT FOR ME i see sex as for pleasure i wouldnt mind having casual sex just for pleasure.
Mars in Gemini 8H. I agree with Jim.. Although I've never had 'relationship sex' where it unites us as lovers since I've never been committed, I do believe it's very capable of doing that. IME, sex just creates a deeper bond between two people in general. I would prefer to be in a relationship over causal sex but ehh... I haven't met the right person yet. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 15, 2013 01:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by swampys: What will it become? :'(
Ur attitude towards sex changes as u get older, especially with women.... Women hit their sexual prime at 35.... As u grown in experience and confidence, it's just a different ball game... Everyone is different, but I've seen it happen to every female... I had a friend stayed a v until 26 or so, swore up and down one person ever only.... Now she sells sex toys and well not one person only... You just change with experience.. Nothing wrong with it... Your thinking actions change as u get older. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 7920 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:14 AM
Mars in aquarius,I don’t mind having casual sex.I’ve high sex drive and I can’t go on for a long time without sex.When I am with my lover I use sex to explore the depths and know her as well.Sex is very important in relationships for me.I am kinky as well and although I am not so experienced I am quite experimental.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9169 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:18 AM
I can go for years without sex and I consider myself asexual. No interest in sex.Mars in Sagittarius 3rd house. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 6854 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:18 AM
quote: State your Mars sign and how you perceive sex.
Food. Water. Sex. LoL that's my basic perception Mars in Capricorn here & a low sex drive. quote: Are you the type that only has relationship sex or can you have casual sex?
Relationship sex because casual sex does not turn me on. On a purely moral level - it's a non-issue for me. I could easily have casual sex since I could care less about social & religious norms concerning that... But I have no desire or drive to go there. I don't find it kinky. I'm generally completely disinterested in strangers/people I don't know well, from a sexual point of view. By relationship - I just mean a close, long-term connection with the other person. It does not have to be a traditional romantic, monogamous kind of relationship. It can be fwb or whatever. Trust is probably the most important thing for me. if I do not trust someone - I have no physical reactions to them. My body is stone-cold. If I was a guy, I would say: lack of trust = I can't get it up. Literally ^ lol So whatever the female version of that is, that is exactly how I feel. quote: How you prefer to have sex?
Rough! IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 6854 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:20 AM
quote: I consider myself asexual.
I consider myself demisexual. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9169 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:20 AM
I prefer to have sex in my mind, only, lol. I am physically asexual, though.Demisexual? What is that? IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 15, 2013 01:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: IMO.... All that long term and waiting will change when ur 40... I'm just sayin...lol
Bull... I'm too serious about it. And I'm not saying I would wait a year or more so that I'm sure it's long-term. Besides, it would be a little difficult considering that I'd be with someone that turns me on just by being in the same room ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
swampys Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Missouri Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 15, 2013 01:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Ur attitude towards sex changes as u get older, especially with women.... Women hit their sexual prime at 35.... As u grown in experience and confidence, it's just a different ball game... Everyone is different, but I've seen it happen to every female... I had a friend stayed a v until 26 or so, swore up and down one person ever only.... Now she sells sex toys and well not one person only... You just change with experience.. Nothing wrong with it... Your thinking actions change as u get older.
I'm just going to think I'm too moral to change. I have aspects that may make me cheat but I'd never just have casual sex. If I'm going to cheat, it would be with a lover who brings me emotional security. ------------------ I'm on my phone! Forgive my typos! IP: Logged |
Kerosene unregistered
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posted March 15, 2013 01:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by swampys: Mars in Capricorn! I take sex VERY seriously!!!! I know it can be pleasurable but it should only be practiced between you and your long-term committed partner! Nothing should be publicly sexualized ever! Never ever ever!!!!! I'm waiting until marriage! If you have sexual desires you should do that one thing when you're alone. Really, though, I'm hedonistic and would probably think highly of the pleasure but I think sex is hyped up and I hate anything hyped up!!!!! I don't think people should state anything sexual in public. It should also only be TALKED about with your long-term committed partner/potential long-term partner. I'm very old-fashioned when it comes to sex stuff; not acts, just how it's expressed.EDIT: And casual sex seems disgusting to me and superficial. If you're single... touch it don't use it on other people. EDIT AGAIN: Mars in Capricorn at 29 degrees.
I don't judge people who have casual sex but personally it does not seem that appealing. I mean even when the person I truley care about strokes my hair I feel this strong rush of adrenaline and excitement. I could just masturbate if I wanted to get off lol. I think when two souls have a bond sex is 10 times out of this world. I would rather be celibate than empty meaningless sex.. IP: Logged |
peregrine unregistered
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posted March 15, 2013 01:24 AM
*enters thread*hmm... *exits thread* IP: Logged |
swampys Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Missouri Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 15, 2013 01:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: I prefer to have sex in my mind, only, lol. I am physically asexual, though.Demisexual? What is that?
I'm like this, too! ------------------ I'm on my phone! Forgive my typos! IP: Logged |