posted May 06, 2013 04:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Guys who wear sagging pants.Seriously.What in the world is wrong with wearing well cut pants or jeans?

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On the off chance you'd actually be interested, I heard somewhere that some guys find such jeans convenient to help hide their frequent arousal (and if this is the case then he also likely wears long shirts).

posted May 06, 2013 05:19 AM            

I believe my strong Sag also makes it so that I don't appreciate constant clinginess (which includes constant texting, especially if a person texts while driving or expects someone else to). However, this doesn't bother me in others, if that's what they want with each other then more power to them, but I don't deal well with it. And I know many people who are constantly texting each other and it doesn't bother me (usually), though I did get furious when one guy demanded my BFF text him even though he knew she was driving, and it was for an incredibly moronic question (I suspect he just wanted attention and/or it was seeking a sense of power he got from controlling her).

And I believe it's my Libra that makes me hate bullies that try to dehumanize & destroy others through a variety of methods, from violent to diabolically subtle. This is also the likely reason why I sometimes become so annoyed with head games that people play on each other (which are inherently dishonest & unfair), especially if the head game player gets angry at their victim for not getting the response they hoped to engineer.

posted May 07, 2013 03:59 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
On the off chance you'd actually be interested, I heard somewhere that some guys find such jeans convenient to help hide their frequent arousal (and if this is the case then he also likely wears long shirts).

That said, enough authority figures hate them and try to outlaw them that they just become that much more appealing to boys under a certain age.

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Initially it turns me off,then it amuses me

posted May 07, 2013 05:48 AM            

Guys who talk about dieting (I don't care about the actual dieting, I just don't want to hear about it)
I generally like a guy with a hearty appetite.

posted May 07, 2013 05:56 AM            

• Lack of curiosity.
  
• Lack of a sense of humor.
  
• Lack of intelligence - there's my form of shallowness.
  
• Pre-Copernican view of himself in relation to others
  
• Too prissy.
  
• Too crude.
  
• Lack of passion - it doesn't have to be sensual, but he has to be passionate about something.

posted May 07, 2013 07:28 AM            

-Guys who aren't on some level spiritual. I don't really care for religious guys, but atheists or practical guys (ones who aren't even open to exploring various beliefs or learning about it) blech. Boring, and I see them as fearful.

-Guys that waste my time with stupid conversation. I hate fluff in conversation. Let's talk about the news, the dream you had last night, your mom's surgery...I guess the other half of this is guys who are not genuine or open. I would like to think I have the kind of honest energy that if someone asked about me or my life, they knew what I said was true.

-Dirty hands. That's gross...clean your nails up.

-Insecurity. It destroys almost every moment within a relationship because (in my experience) the person was always trying to overcompensate for their lack of confidence in their worth, but since I thought they were fine to begin with it just comes off condescending, pretentious, superior, etc.

posted May 07, 2013 07:31 AM            

Oh, and I don't like it when guys need to have an alcoholic drink at every meal. I didn't grow up with parents who "unwound" that way, and maybe they didn't either, but it's not my first pick when I'm trying to de-stress.

posted May 07, 2013 07:46 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Heavy use of logical errors, frequent or grievous appeals to emotion that sabotages clear thought, or any loud, obnoxious behavior (such as name calling) annoy me be it in real life or online.

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^ This.

Also when I was single, if a guy was very late to pick me up for a date and didn't apologize, we were finished. I broke up with two boyfriends (both of whom I was really attracted to) for that reason. I just figured they weren't that into me, so why waste our time?

(ETA: I'm a Cap sun, forgot to say that.)

Otherwise, I'm very tolerant for the most part (Pisces moon, Venus conjunct Neptune), and even if someone does something that turns me off, I'm not totally off. I recently had a class with a guy who snorted (inhaled mucus) loudly instead of blowing his nose. That's disgusting. But otherwise he had his act together, and nobody is perfect; my good opinion of him remains intact.

posted May 07, 2013 04:12 PM            

What can i say - I like long walks and those are usually more enjoyable with a woman that wears conformable shoes.

posted May 07, 2013 07:39 PM            

But anyways

(Very) Low intelligence or lack of interests.. you don't have to be Einstein or a renaissance man but please tell me you care or think about more than just Call of Duty and college football

Unfunny and has the nerve to say "lighten up" when someone calls them on it

Bullies

All kinds of immaturity!!!! Emotional, mental, all of it!

Randomly tells women to "smile" instead of actually doing something worth causing the gesture

Bad attitude and/or chip on the shoulder

Too much anger and (extreme) volatility of moods... I understand we all have baggage in our lives but a guy who has some and takes it out on everyone... noo thank you

Misogynistic and generally insensitive towards women, and people in general

Having to prove himself all the time... I am drawn to silent confidence

Buffoonery and attention-whoring

Was this for romance or in general?
I am not really turned off by most physical things, but I am a little turned off by overly thin bodies and lack of facial/body hair. The more bear-like a man is, the better.

posted May 07, 2013 09:12 PM            

There's more, of course the obvious things also like hygiene..
That's all I can think of at the moment

posted May 07, 2013 11:03 PM            

Aries Sun, Cap Mars conj Neptune.

posted May 07, 2013 11:06 PM            

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Assuming their not a Racist, misogynist, bigot or classist.

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posted May 07, 2013 11:10 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Assuming their not a Racist, misogynist, bigot or classist.
Turn offs:
Poor hygiene
unwarranted arrogance
Constantly complaining about women this includes his mother
Zero goals or aspirations
Napoleon complex
selfish tendencies
Guys who think a high school education is all they need.
stupid guys
Religion extremists

Venus in gemini

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posted May 08, 2013 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
(Very) Low intelligence or lack of interests.. you don't have to be Einstein or a renaissance man but please tell me you care or think about more than just Call of Duty and college football

Placements relevant uhm well... I am fire dominant. Leo Sun/Mercury/Venus, Aries Moon and Sagittarius rising

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You crack me up LMBO

I'm a Leo sun/mercury/venus too I totally get what you mean lol just kudos to you for saying this *out loud*

posted May 08, 2013 03:10 AM            

Moderate turn offs:
- Bad hygiene
- Short men
- Narrow-minded and traditional
- Pettiness and constant arguing
- Hedonistic/ can’t cope with bad emotions or situations
- Weak-willed/ martyr attitude

posted May 08, 2013 07:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I like guys who have a hearty appetite too

It's NOOOOOO fun going out on a dinner date with a guy who puts a calorific value next to every dish on the menu! Major turn off for me.That's why I love guys who have some taurus placement,I know right off they like food!!

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I'll just have a salad, and hold the dressing!

Should I even attempt to respond?

OMG Call Of Duty COD FTW! Although I also like Grand Theft Auto aka GTA

posted May 08, 2013 09:20 AM              

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Originally posted by Maelstrom:
if this means turn off in the sexual sense then mine are;

1. Men without any tattoos, or worse - tattoos of cartoon characters or some such crap

2. Men who dont work out or play any type of sport - I train hard so I look for that in a man, which leads me to.....

3. Slender/skinny body frames, lack of bulk and muscle.

4. Men who wax/shave their body hair and have neat, manicured nails. I like body hair and rough calloused hands.

5. A man who cant physically fight or is afraid of fighting.

6. A man who lets me walk over him - stand up to me!

Placements:

Sun conjunct Mars in Pisces, 8th house.

Leo Rising.

Taurus moon opposite Uranus, trine Saturn.

Venus in Capricorn square Pluto, trine Saturn and opposite Jupiter.

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