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Jessica2407
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posted May 05, 2013 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Top of my list:

#1 Guys who wear sagging pants.Seriously.What in the world is wrong with wearing well cut pants or jeans?

#2 Guys ( people in general) who make swear words a part of their grammar.Highly offensive to my ears.

#3 Guys with piercings on their faces.

#4 Guys who have poor grammar,who don't know how to text.

#5 Guys who meet me for the first time and think they can call me ''babe'' or 'honey' or some stupid endearment.Turns me off like bang am out!

Okay I think I got to stop here,else ya'll think I'm too uptight or something...hehe...blame it on my Virgo Mars.

So what are your turn offs? Let's hear them. And where is your mars?sun?venus?whatever placement you think explains them.

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Orange
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posted May 05, 2013 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
- stingy guys. I dont like men who split the penny in two.
- guys with poor hygiene. Hair in the nose abd ears
- poor grammar
- flirts too much with anyone. EWW

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Sarahwood
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posted May 05, 2013 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what turns me off simple :

1 - Low Hygene.

2 - Stupidness.

3 - Full of himself.

4 - Doesnt treat anyone right.

5 - Does not Talk much.

6 - Eats out loud.

7 - Cheater.

8 - Not mature enough.

9 - sexes and inhumane!

10 - Clinginess.

11 - Short men.

12 - Body builders men.

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Sarahwood
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posted May 05, 2013 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Sarahwood:
what turns me off simple :

1 - Low Hygene.

2 - Stupidness.

3 - Full of himself.

4 - Doesnt treat anyone right.

5 - Does not Talk much.

6 - Eats out loud.

7 - Cheater.

8 - Not mature enough.

9 - sexes and inhumane!

10 - Clinginess.

11 - Short men.

12 - Body builders men.


My venus is in Scorpio. (second house)

My mars is in Libra. (first house)

Moon in capricorn. (third house)

Sun and ascendant in Libra.

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oceaneyes9
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posted May 05, 2013 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for oceaneyes9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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oceaneyes9
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posted May 05, 2013 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oceaneyes9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
turn offs:

bad hygiene
not intellectual

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oceaneyes9
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posted May 05, 2013 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oceaneyes9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Doux Rêve
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posted May 05, 2013 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Everything mentioned.

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Jessica2407
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posted May 05, 2013 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Sarahwood:
what turns me off simple :


6 - Eats out loud.

12 - Body builders men.


That too!!!!!


Thank god,I don't think have met a guy till now who shows bad hygiene...I remember one guy who was a great texter,it was a bigggggggg turn off when I met him, when he talks he makes a schhhhh sound with his tongue that turned me off.

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posted May 05, 2013 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for unforgiven_soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1) Guys who hit on every female they meet
2) Bad hygiene
3) Disrespect
4) Show-offs
5) Men who are not into adventure or learning new things in life

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Jessica2407
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posted May 05, 2013 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by oceaneyes9:
turn offs:


pretty boys / metrosexual

weak men


Pretty boys turn you off? hehe..Guys who have better skin than me turns me off haha

What would you consider weak in a man?

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posted May 05, 2013 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jkitty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Top of my list:

#1 Guys who wear sagging pants.Seriously.What in the world is wrong with wearing well cut pants or jeans?

#2 Guys ( people in general) who make swear words a part of their grammar.Highly offensive to my ears.

#3 Guys with piercings on their faces.

#4 Guys who have poor grammar,who don't know how to text.

#5 Guys who meet me for the first time and think they can call me ''babe'' or 'honey' or some stupid endearment.Turns me off like bang am out!

Okay I think I got to stop here,else ya'll think I'm too uptight or something...hehe...blame it on my Virgo Mars.

So what are your turn offs? Let's hear them. And where is your mars?sun?venus?whatever placement you think explains them.


Yes to all of that plus:

Bad hygiene
Pierced tongues and/or mumbling
Bad attitude
Lack of self-control in ANY area: spending money, eating, drinking, sex, temper, etc.
Doesn't take care of them selves
Overly materialistic/consumer lemming

I've got Venus in Pisces in 6th house and Mars in Cancer in 9th

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posted May 05, 2013 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
- People who start/spread vicious rumours.
- Backstabbers.
- Bullies/abusive people.
- People who tell me I can’t/shouldn’t do certain things that they consider too common/conventional or weird.
- Sexist people.

Aries moon 3rd house
Capricorn venus 12th house
Taurus mars 5th house

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Maelstrom
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posted May 05, 2013 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maelstrom     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
if this means turn off in the sexual sense then mine are;

1. Men without any tattoos, or worse - tattoos of cartoon characters or some such crap

2. Men who dont work out or play any type of sport - I train hard so I look for that in a man, which leads me to.....

3. Slender/skinny body frames, lack of bulk and muscle.

4. Men who wax/shave their body hair and have neat, manicured nails. I like body hair and rough calloused hands.

5. A man who cant physically fight or is afraid of fighting.

6. A man who lets me walk over him - stand up to me!

Placements:

Sun conjunct Mars in Pisces, 8th house.

Leo Rising.

Taurus moon opposite Uranus, trine Saturn.

Venus in Capricorn square Pluto, trine Saturn and opposite Jupiter.

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charlie
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posted May 05, 2013 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dirty fingernails and feet. Bad grammar. Picky eaters as in they only like certain foods.

Can't be bothered with my placements but I am sadly Virgo inflicted with a pinch of Pluto and Uranus..

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1.)Homophobia
2.)Any kind of hardcore bigotry or dogmatic mindset/behavior
3.)Pushiness, trying to tell other people what to do and/or pushing you will onto them.
4.)Emotionally Manipulative people, the types that will do unacceptable/crazy stuff then when they're called on it, they start crying and telling you about how they were bullied in high school and molested when they were five, to try and get out of trouble with you.
5.)People who are hyper-critical of others, and go around telling everybody what they think they need to change about themselves - and actually expecting people to do it.
6.) Judgmental People
7.) Cold people
8.) People with very dry, sarcastic and cruel humor.
9.) Jealous-hearted and overly-competitive people who see every interaction with another person as a contest of wills and try to gain dominance and one-up you. Especially the type that if they feel you have something they don't, they try to make your life miserable.
10.) People who don't just say what they mean, clearly and plainly - lying, being cryptic or evasive; game-playing.
11.) People who have a chip on their shoulder because they've had a hard life so they think the rest of the world owes them something.
12.) Psychologically unstable people
13.) People who get off on seeing others be unhappy
14.) People who are underhanded and "fight dirty" and don't have a point they won't go beyond
15.) People who are obsessed with popularity/desperate for public approval and acceptance, worry what people say about them. People that are obsessed with outside appearances.
16.) Liars - especially if they're the type that likes to try and act like they're innocent and sweet and just want what's best for them and everyone around them...when privately they're the exact opposite. Duplicity. Acting like you're an angel when you're really the devil. Bullies.
17.) People who live their entire lives based on what they think other people will think about their choices - weak-minded people, basically. Conformists.
18.) People who try to force me to be what they want me to be instead of letting me be who I am.
19.) People who threaten to kill me. I'm serious lmao. I could tell you stories about this fat chick that would take hours to get from start to finish.
20.) People who constantly fish for praise. The types who go on and on about how insecure they are about their : weight/whatever and do it purely so everyone will kiss their ass and stroke their ego.
21.) Armchair activists. People who like to jump on everyone else screaming at them about how they should conserve water or electricity or recycle...or spend all day ranting about world issues, but don't actually DO anything other than talk and judge other people and say they don't care about the world, while all that time, they aren't actually trying to improve things themselves either.
22.) People who change their mind all the time and run hot and cold and can't sit still.
23.) People who think they're deeper than everybody else and that spiritual growth is a contest, and go around saying how deep they are all the time and how shallow everybody else supposedly is.
24.) People who don't like to talk.
25.) People who can't handle emotions.
26.) People who harp on the past and whine and cry all the damn time about what this that and the other did to them like 20 years ago. Bitter people.

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posted May 05, 2013 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just don't like people who ask too many questions, judgmental types, people who make a lot of demands. I don't like it when people are critical and hard to please.

What I do like are easy going, friendly, accepting, non judgmental people. Those are my favorites.

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posted May 05, 2013 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by charlie:
Dirty fingernails and feet. Bad grammar. Picky eaters as in they only like certain foods.

Can't be bothered with my placements but I am sadly Virgo inflicted with a pinch of Pluto and Uranus..


dirty fingernails and feet..check

uh.."picky eaters as in they like only certain foods"......what?

oooh, you are more Virgo than me

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posted May 05, 2013 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
- ignorance/dense
- sweat
- serious/dull/awkward
- bad fashion sense
- hairy/beards
- stuttering
- bad skin/ hygiene
- Too much product, greasy hair, makeup etc
- Strong cologne or perfume.
- stupid tattoos
- clinginess
- obesity lol
- insecurity
Gemini sun, Aries mars, Gemini venus

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posted May 05, 2013 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1. Condescending people.
2. People who criticize things about others that can't be changed.
3. People who have to scream everything they say.
4. People who pretend to be your friend, then turn on you for apparently no reason at all.
5. Being called stupid for not sharing the same views as someone else
6. People who act like everyone should know what they already know
7. Insincerity
8. Judgmental people
9. People who laugh at another person's misery
10. Gossiping
11. Manipulative people

cancer sun, 4th house Scorpio moon, 8th house Venus in Gemini, 3rd house Mars in Aries 1st House

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posted May 05, 2013 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
dirty fingernails and feet..check

uh.."picky eaters as in they like only certain foods"......what?

oooh, you are more Virgo than me


Sighs...yeah....I'll have a PERFECT pStellium in 4 years containing Sun, Venus, Mars, Mercury, Juno and Rising in Virgo (12H). I feel the need to celebrate now before I have to officially commit myself to nearest psych ward

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posted May 06, 2013 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
People who chew with their mouth open
Pessimistic people
People who don't have their own opinions
People who take too dang long to get to the point.
People who get offended by an answer to a question that they asked!!
Homebodies - I want to go out and explore new places..not watch a documentary about them.
Lazy people.
People who scream curse words at their children. I hate hearing that. Anger begets anger, not obedience.
People who have no respect for their elders.
Rudeness.
Poor hygiene.
Poor grammar/literacy skills.
Really Baggy clothing on guys. Me to my nephew: "why did you just spend $70 on jeans that are too big for you?" Him: "Because they look better this way and I can just get a belt to hold them up." me: "You look like a clown. You know that started in prisons as a way of letting other men know you were "available", right?" Him: "Will you take me back to get a different pair?" Score one for team My-Clothes-Fit-Me.
People who can't bother to brush their hair before they leave the house.
Unkept dye jobs.
Poor oral hygiene...ugh... that should be Number 1. A guy has to have a nice smile/teeth for me to even consider dating him. I can't date somebody I can't kiss (I'm super affectionate) and the thought of kissing a dirty or rotting mouth just...ugh, that's enough to make me sick.
People who are angry/yelling all the time.
People with no self-esteem/self-worth.


I feel like I've contributed enough lol...

Pisces Sun, anything that has to do with calm and peace on that list I think is attributed to my Pisces Sun/Merc or maybe my Taurus Moon, too.
Everything else can probably be summed up by my Leo ASC, Aries Venus 9H, Sag Saturn 5H grand trine..

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posted May 06, 2013 03:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1) cologne
2) metrosexuals
3) hippie, goth and most other subcultures
4) agree about stringy, guys who go out of their way to split bills at cafes when they don't pay, which is fine, I don't expect to be paid for, but once they actually start counting every penny to make sure they don't pay a little bit on top of what they should.... that's not very dignified is it
5) more than 3 years older than myself
6) stubble/facial and other hair
7) shy/timid/ insecure
8) too proud of their achievements and thinking they are entitled to more than others as a result thereof
9) lonely-looking, miserable-looking


Venus in aqua in the 10th, moon in Taurus in the 12th

There's bound to be more, but I can't remember now

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posted May 06, 2013 04:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries Eagle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My major turn off is any one look at me as an ATM Machine, i mean just for my money, if it was a friend or anyone else GET OUT OF MY LIFE! and im not a selfish person at all.

Aries Sun Cancer Moon Pisces Venus Taurus Mars Aries Jupiter
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posted May 06, 2013 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for acousticbob     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The one turn off that springs to mind is women talking to me about sexual encounters with other men. It seems that in particular the Mars in Leo women I know think that this is a turn on- but my Venus in Scorpio is turned off immediately! Like a bucket of cold water!

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