posted May 22, 2013 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
My 8th house cusp is in Libra but the biggest part belongs to Scorpio. So my 8th house is like this:
Moon: Scorpio
Jupiter: Scorpio
Saturn: Libra
Pluto: Libra

Actually I'm confused of who's the ruler here...

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Venus.

posted May 22, 2013 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Yes, exactly, in your case it probably doesn`t make that big of a difference since the ruler is also in Leo. Very warm, creative, protective, sensual, fiery in a stable way. And of course dramatic. lol

Also if something is conjunct the ruler it becomes merged with it. The other aspect might also colour it, but not in this strong sense of identification.

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Thanks for the explanation!

posted May 22, 2013 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
Venus.

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Thank you 7thGuardian!

posted May 22, 2013 10:54 PM            

baby,

talk dirty to me

*guitar solo

also... Mars in Aqua so... lol

posted May 23, 2013 05:36 AM            

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Originally posted by sharpei:
i ALWAYS seem to like the one guy who snubs me- its like as soon as a guy shows a lack of interest i get all obsessed with him ugh hate it- soo many great guys are interested in me but i of course focus on the ONE guy who does not seem bothered....

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haha me too

posted May 23, 2013 06:15 AM            

i'm more Scorpionic, pretty magnetic in this department but without the stings.

posted May 27, 2016 11:58 PM            

My Moon is in Pisces.

I have an intense sexuality - but I've never been able to fully handle it. As I've matured I'm starting to feel more confident and express it more and I have a all or nothing attitude when it comes to sex. I'd rather have no sex than bad sex.

posted May 28, 2016 12:11 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
haha me too

when they act too interested it's soooo... i don't know. so not hot

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That's females all over. Classic women trait.

Want what you can't have.

posted May 28, 2016 12:18 PM            

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Originally posted by sharpei:
i ALWAYS seem to like the one guy who snubs me- its like as soon as a guy shows a lack of interest i get all obsessed with him ugh hate it- soo many great guys are interested in me but i of course focus on the ONE guy who does not seem bothered....

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posted May 28, 2016 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by deptic:
That's females all over. Classic women trait.

Want what you can't have.

So sad.

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I consider that to be a classic Venus in Aries trait.

posted May 28, 2016 02:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
How do you find the ruler of your 8th house? My Venus is in Pisces and I have Venus in the 8th house.

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Dopgang, it's sad but true and those 'nice' guys never get why we like the 'bad boys'. SMH
I've seen girls go from no interest at all in a guy, looking down on him even, to being infatuated after he insulted her. THAT makes no sense to me but I've seen the biggest losers use it and it work like a charm. Really lowers my respect for some females.

posted May 28, 2016 03:33 PM            

I am bi-sexual.

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I noticed some confusion over finding the 8th house ruler. Here is a list of which planet rules which sign in the 8th house.

posted May 28, 2016 09:11 PM            

I am a freak in bed. I love rough sex, talkin dirty, risky situations, aggressive dominant men, toys, porn, bondage, being really really dirty and raw.

But I also want a deep connection and I must know that I'm affecting my partner on a deep level..otherwise I feel inadequate and insecure. I have Mars and Eros in Pisces.

posted May 28, 2016 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[b]How do you find the ruler of your 8th house? My Venus is in Pisces and I have Venus in the 8th house.

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Dopgang, it's sad but true and those 'nice' guys never get why we like the 'bad boys'. SMH
I've seen girls go from no interest at all in a guy, looking down on him even, to being infatuated after he insulted her. THAT makes no sense to me but I've seen the biggest losers use it and it work like a charm. Really lowers my respect for some females.

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Ohhhhhhh. No I didn't do anything like that.
An example is that a couple of women from a few years back. At work, a lot of men were chasing them. I acknowledged them and was friendly, but I made no effort to flirt or anything else. Like I said, I was friendly and made conversation. I treated them with respect without seeming like I wanted in their pants. Bam, they ignored everyone else and would pursue me.

One was Aqua sun, Aries moon, pisces Venus, Aries Mars.
Another was Libra Sun, moon, Venus, and Virgo mars. (we had exact pluto/venus! I was pluto)

Those two stand out as having pursued me while many others pursued them. Well... The Aqua I guess I was a little more forward with, which perhaps their Aries appreciated.

posted May 29, 2016 06:27 AM            

I find bruises on body and face sexy. I like rough, angry, fierce men but I'm also slightly afraid of them.

I like sweaty muscular bodies or watching men doing some physical work.

posted May 29, 2016 08:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
Ruler of the 8th in the 7th.

Umm.

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I have the same position. Can you explain how it affects you and which planet?

posted May 29, 2016 08:39 AM            

Wasn't sure how to answer this at first but I think that's the dispersive quality of Neptune.

I take cues from the other, am responsive rather than initiating and only feel centred through the others state. Guess that's the reflecting moon.

when I do try be in control, I do have some sag because I try introduce something adventurous .. Especially like outdoors - 2nd house, I suppose.Another way the sag could be relevant ... Ive intersected a spiritual state with a sexual one, have played a lot with beliefs and devotion. (Vesta conjunct Neptune)

posted May 29, 2016 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Leonisces:
I have the same position. Can you explain how it affects you and which planet?

In my case it is Venus

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Mine too!

Venus ruler of the 8th is bad enough. Now put that in Venus' house and you have a ton of *relationship* drama to sort through.

The way it's supposed to work is, the 8th house issues 'serve' the agenda of the 7th. --> And it does work that way for me. So, I bring my 8th-housey things (such as intensity, the urge for deep transformation, exploration of taboos and of course, sexuality) to the table as a way of relating (7th house agenda). It's not a conscious thing, but I've seen it happen, in hindsight. As soon as I'm involved in one-on-one relating, beyond the superficial 'acquaintance' level - whether close friend or lover, or whatever, it's like a switch is flipped, and my 8th H self emerges. The Asc diminishes, in a way (and I show myself to be the monster I really am? ).

With the ruler of the 8th in the 7th, we *transform*, in an effort to understand and relate with the other. We might become emotionally entangled with our 'open enemies' (which are also represented by the 7th). --> This too actually happened for me. I wouldn't want to call them 'enemies' though, it's complicated.

My brain's kinda fuzzy right now, so that's the best I could come up with... What's it like for you??