posted May 20, 2013 11:20 AM            

I read and practise :-P even googled 'how to kiss' before my first kiss.
I don't like quickies!
How much i love games! not role play.
I tend to 'fall in love' after i get physically involved with someone.
Variety-please read/watch and come so that we can try out new things.
New places, not the same old bed again!
Lazy - i prefer to take the back seat
Publicize - i get excited and tell everyone about my experience.
Experimental - not only with positions but a lot of other things not meant to be mentioned here, i guess. But then that moon needs emotional attachment and i backed out.
Aggressive
Slow - i like to take it slow, build the atmosphere and then rip clothes apart otherwise i'm a self pleaser.

posted May 20, 2013 12:36 PM            

So yeah, I do feel like I suffer a lot with my love life, I usually get attracted to needy people and have been in co-dependent relationships before which disgusts me. My Chiron also squares my ASC/DES axis. An insult to the injury...lol. I tend to attract damaged people. It doesn't make for the best sex/romantic life, let me tell you. More tissues than passion. HAH. No, really.

And it frustrates me. I feel like sex should be fun, wild and fiery. But I'm a fire void and Mars in Cancer is in my 8th making it worse for me. Because my Mars trines Pluto and sometimes, when I'm not being a moody baby, I want real passion and intensity, with problems left behind, mine and the other person's.

Anyway, I feel the Moon in Virgo does exemplify my sexuality and romantic style as I really prefer a neat, well groomed partner - I hate halitosis and bad personal habits. I hate piggish eaters. I like someone who can be both submissive and take-charge. My Moon trines Neptune and Uranus so I usually am innovative but very sensitive in bed. I don't like to be too aggressive unless the setting is right. The Virgo influence makes me unusually modest and quiet sexually at times. It's hard for me to...make noises. LOLx10

posted May 20, 2013 12:48 PM            

On top of all that, I have two planets in eight, Moon and Saturn, with moon being in exaltation and Saturn full of aspects to Venus, Sun, Mercury, Jupiter, Ascendant, MC, IC. The moon has a trine to Pluto and opposition to Neptune.

posted May 20, 2013 12:51 PM            

If I had to be completely honest I’m kind of hypocritical and two-faced about sex. On one hand I love talking about sexuality and sex. I HATE taboos and ridiculous inhibitions about human sexuality. I do consider myself a very amorous person and I do get very lustful sometimes. But on the other hand when it comes to personal experience and practice it’s like I’m a different person – I’ve been in serious relationships before but have never had sex. I feel as though I’ll be violated and used. I’m cautious to the point of being cowardly and can’t trust anyone enough to let in (literally lol).

posted May 20, 2013 02:02 PM            

sexual expression in relation to an intimate partner: 8th house

I believe both need to be looked at.

5th house in Taurus, ruler of 5th house in Capricorn squared by Pluto in 10th (ruler of 11th and 12th house)

8th house in Cancer, ruler of 8th house in Aquarius in 2nd house, quinkunx Saturn in Cancer in 8th house, which rules 2nd house.

Saturn is also trine Jupiter in Pisces in 3rd house.

In comparison to my Sag stellium, I take relationships and especially sex and everything having to do with intimacy VERY serious.
It is like I am two people sometimes. In friendships or other relationships where attraction does not play a role, I am quite Sagittarian.

However, once I feel attracted to someone, Saturn-Pluto is coming up, and it is not easy to balance these two sides.

Also with the 7th house ruler in Sagittarius in 1st house conjunct Sun, I want relationships that are very open, warm, energetic, fun, tolerant, and hate posessiveness.

But with the 8th house being so much influenced by the Cancer-Capricorn axis (I also have Vertex-ERos-Sun/Moon-mp in my 8th house, on the same degree actually), an open relationship in a sexual way is a big NO GO for me.

Be my friend, let me be myself, let`s entertain each other and keep it fun and nice and idealistic and welcoming of other people, too, but shoiuld you happen to ever just as much as think about sleeping with someone else, be prepared for the echo. LOL

posted May 20, 2013 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Oh cr@p, my 8H cusp is in Capricorn. This must be very bad

Is 8H cusp in Capricorn and 5H cusp in Virgo a sh*tty combo? I'm not crazy about the sound of it.

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posted May 20, 2013 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:

Actually, Capricorn can be very sexual, considering Mars is exalted in this sign.

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Just to find out 2 of the love/sex houses are in my least favourite signs..... is a bit too much. I'd rather be something cooler. honestly.

posted May 20, 2013 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by andstuff:
[b]Oh cr@p, my 8H cusp is in Capricorn. This must be very bad

Is 8H cusp in Capricorn and 5H cusp in Virgo a sh*tty combo? I'm not crazy about the sound of it.

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I have cap in 8th too (thanks andstuff 4 yr excellent and cheerful outlook, lol. Here's your monk clothing. Enjoy! ).
I have sag on the cusp though. Does that make a difference? Same with 5th. Leo on the cusp, but mostly Virgo.

posted May 20, 2013 04:35 PM            

I've got Neptune exactly conjunct my DSC.

posted May 20, 2013 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
@ Twirl I think 7H in Sagi is cool though, is yours there as well?

I've got Neptune exactly conjunct my DSC.

I don't think this "inhibited sexuality" thing would manifest itself in my case, given all my Venus conj Mars and trine Pluto and whatnot. I just wouldn't mind having houses in normal signs thats all. And keep Gemini rising, uh-huh

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posted May 20, 2013 04:59 PM            

funny, well, my conjunction is also 4 degrees. and it's totes a conjunction, on the tighter side. well so what can be done about this? i know it for a fact that i can't settle for uninspiring ones, so well, whatever. i want poetry and i want beauty. if i can see it where it's absent, at least i see it. and if i can't be inspired by uninspiring ones then whatever, it's their fault, no getting laid with me no stuff going on. http://caitastro.blogspot.ru/2009/05/neptune-conjunct-descendant-now-you-ask.html - have you read this?

posted May 20, 2013 05:06 PM            

Which is quite accurate, 5th house Scorpio does tend to attract interest, but the Libra side is really finicky and not just out for a one sided encounter.

posted May 20, 2013 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by meyray:
8th House - 25° Sagittarius (covers half of Capricorn as well)
Venus in Scorpio (6th House)
Mars in Leo (4th House)

If I had to be completely honest I’m kind of hypocritical and two-faced about sex. On one hand I love talking about sexuality and sex. I [b]HATE taboos and ridiculous inhibitions about human sexuality. I do consider myself a very amorous person and I do get very lustful sometimes. But on the other hand when it comes to personal experience and practice it’s like I’m a different person – I’ve been in serious relationships before but have never had sex. I feel as though I’ll be violated and used. I’m cautious to the point of being cowardly and can’t trust anyone enough to let in (literally lol).

I try to preach sexual liberty and remove the stigma from sex but promiscuity bothers me intensely. I don’t know maybe I just see sex as something with some form of integrity and in modern times it’s become something too casual and tawdry.[/b]

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posted May 20, 2013 05:13 PM              

I have a weird relationships with sex, it interests me greatly and since I was young I always read about different sex methods and even found a book about karma sutra.

But I'm verryyyy frigid when it comes to casual sex.
When I think of sex it should be to please the person I love, and hopefully they feel the same way so we can perfectly balanced.
So I don't have any first hand experience because I've never been truly in love lol.
I guess I'm abstinent (kind off)
Plus its easy pick out the losers who are only interested in sex..