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Topic: ''Love at first sight''
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Odette Moderator Posts: 5470 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted June 12, 2013 07:37 PM
Guy 1: We had Uranus conj DC double whammy.Guy 2: We had Venus/Uranus aspects both ways - exact. The thing is - I don't believe in love at first sight. I see it as infatuation/attraction.. But still - there was something there at first sight with both guys lol  IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 992 From: an oasis in the desert Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 12, 2013 08:22 PM
I don't believe in love at first sight; I don't think it could ever happen. Attraction at first sight might eventually become love once you know someone, but I don't think it's love unless you really know the person and accept them completely, flaws and all. If you haven't noticed any flaws yet, I'd say you don't really know them. When you've just met someone, they're like a blank screen -- you can project anything you want onto them. That's not loving a PERSON; that's loving a FANTASY of what you're hoping the person will be.I have Mercury in the 5th house. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5151 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 01:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: I don't believe in love at first sight; I don't think it could ever happen. Attraction at first sight might eventually become love once you know someone, but I don't think it's love unless you really know the person and accept them completely, flaws and all. If you haven't noticed any flaws yet, I'd say you don't really know them. When you've just met someone, they're like a blank screen -- you can project anything you want onto them. That's not loving a PERSON; that's loving a FANTASY of what you're hoping the person will be.I have Mercury in the 5th house.
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Ariehnox Knowflake Posts: 385 From: Registered: Jan 2011
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posted June 13, 2013 01:52 AM
hmm... not love at first sight, but I knew then that I would fall in love with this person sooner or later even if I tried to avoid it... like it was the only natural thing to happen, felt like I've known this person long ago and meeting him was just like picking up where things left off. I blame Vertex and SN for that eureka moment. Maybe Sun Moon Pluto contacts too.IP: Logged |
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posted June 13, 2013 02:05 AM
I believe in love at first sight, but I also pretend to be a mermaid every time I go swimming, so shh. IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1477 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 03:14 AM
Oh yeah... it hits you like a WHAMMY!!I was walking up a set of stairs when I saw him. EVERYTHING else around me went dark & all I could see was him. (If you've ever fainted, it was a similar feeling without the actual fainting). I stared at him throughout the night and my inner voice said, "that's your future husband". That was last April. We've been engaged and living together since last July. This is BY FAR the best relationship of my life. And like someone else said, it's 100% reciprocated. Major aspects: Venus Conjunct Mars Sun Trine Moon Mercury Sextile Venus Sun Trine Jupiter Moon Trine Jupiter Mercury Opposition Ascendant Moon Sextile Ascendant Mars Opposition Saturn Moon Square Saturn Venus Square Pluto ------------------ "Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on." — Tori Amos IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl Knowflake Posts: 233 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 13, 2013 04:44 AM
I believe in love at first sight, because I experienced it. Although I didn't even had a relationship with that person.Also, my bf told me he was in love with me from the moment he first saw me... Otherwise, if you believe in past lives and soulmates then "love at fist sight" is not such a big mistery, because when you meet with a person who is a close soulmate for you (like you have been lovers in many past lives) then you can recognise this soul within a moment and feel that love again. At least I believe in this. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5151 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 05:23 AM
^^ I can relate to that. But I initially felt like running away from the person only to realize that I couldn't.IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2760 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 05:36 AM
Ok everyone knows my view on boys Eros conj girls Psyche, not much point in repeating myself As for love at first sight it's hard to explain, I don't think I loved that person the second I set eyes on him, but I could only think of our first conversation for the next several days, was as if the universe expanded. One could call it love, if love is what does it. At any rate I know that getting to know someone will never produce the same effect. If its not there the first second, it's useless trying to han around and see how it evolves Love is not us, it's something bigger than us that envelopes us. And this either can be at first sight or not at all IP: Logged |
bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 1149 From: Ex - Yu Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 13, 2013 05:44 AM
I know this "case": it happened more times to me.I have data's from two men only: My Sun is in their 7th house and their Moon in my 7th. Their Moon is in Aries (hot men!) Bobbie ------------------ To fall down is easy, but to stand up is difficult. (my own citation) IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 369 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 13, 2013 09:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Geeky: Oh yeah... it hits you like a WHAMMY!!I was walking up a set of stairs when I saw him. EVERYTHING else around me went dark & all I could see was him. (If you've ever fainted, it was a similar feeling without the actual fainting)...
lol i experienced the exact same thing. you feel like you are about to pass out. that is what happened the time my first (and only) real boyfriend and i saw each other; time stopped and everything surrounding him turned blurry. a reciprocal intense, inmmediate infatuation. we both had natal sun sextile pluto (same age birthdays four days apart, so we share that aspect with each other and anyone the same age as us.) my natal venus sextile my/our pluto... my draco venus opposes my/our pluto i had venus sqaure uranus with another dude. energy was kind of the same thing there. never dated him mind you but we fancied each other. the attraction was rather "high volatge". yes he was super hot and there were butterflies a-go-go but it wasn't magnetising like my ex-boyfriend. when i first got into astro, i did the quick cafeastrolgy.com comaptibility chart for my ex and i and, curiously, the "sun sextile pluto" description comes up only for him and noone else. even though i have fancied other guys our age and our suns aspect others pluto's, that "love at first sight" description still only comes up for him and i was floored because what it said was absolutely true. it definatley wasn't love just a brief period when time stood still, lots of dizziness, a brain-being-deprived-of-oxygen visual sensation, becoming frozen in crippling infatuation with a complete stranger. its just the greatest thing ever when it is reciprocal  IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1477 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 10:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by iliketurtles: ...a brain-being-deprived-of-oxygen visual sensation, becoming frozen in crippling infatuation with a complete stranger. its just the greatest thing ever when it is reciprocal 
Indeed. =D ------------------ "Most people would rather be sheep and have company than stand out on their own with antlers on." — Tori Amos IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1671 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 13, 2013 10:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Geeky: Oh yeah... it hits you like a WHAMMY!!I was walking up a set of stairs when I saw him. EVERYTHING else around me went dark & all I could see was him. (If you've ever fainted, it was a similar feeling without the actual fainting). I stared at him throughout the night and my inner voice said, "that's your future husband". That was last April. We've been engaged and living together since last July. This is BY FAR the best relationship of my life. And like someone else said, it's 100% reciprocated. Major aspects: Venus Conjunct Mars Sun Trine Moon Mercury Sextile Venus Sun Trine Jupiter Moon Trine Jupiter Mercury Opposition Ascendant Moon Sextile Ascendant Mars Opposition Saturn Moon Square Saturn Venus Square Pluto
i had literally just met my guy and my inner voice immediately said 'he's the one'. i was like - WTF? my whole body and mind knew just by seeing him the first time and not even a hello had been exchanged yet, it's bizarre. I wonder if 'hearing' a voice is common amongst those who have actually experienced this?? I recall going home and writing this down in a diary (along with what the inner voice had said) because I knew it was something tremendous happening IP: Logged |
foxxyxo Knowflake Posts: 392 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted June 14, 2013 04:21 AM
it is so real and no its not lust!!!! you feel like you know their soul the first minute you get lost in their eyes. and i mean you get really lost, like you become speechless just gazing in each others eyes, you know its weird but at the same time it feels comfortable so you just keep staring and you see yourself in him vice versa...all of that in first meeting, first eye contact. the little voice inside my head said "theres something i really like about him" before we made eye contact and then once we did the voice in my head said "ur just like me" lol idk weird stuff mannnnnnnnive only had this happen once. 4 of his planets fall in my 12th his pluto conjunct my venus. my venus conjunct his NN and Pluto. my moon conjunct his vertex. my venus conjunct his ASC. moon trine venus yadayadayadayada much more but those were the main. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1631 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 14, 2013 05:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: I don't believe in love at first sight; I don't think it could ever happen. Attraction at first sight might eventually become love once you know someone, but I don't think it's love unless you really know the person and accept them completely, flaws and all. If you haven't noticed any flaws yet, I'd say you don't really know them. When you've just met someone, they're like a blank screen -- you can project anything you want onto them. That's not loving a PERSON; that's loving a FANTASY of what you're hoping the person will be.I have Mercury in the 5th house.
I've had 3 soulmate relationships so far, really deep ones, but I still believe real love takes time. Because love is about REALLY knowing a person, inside and out.
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 19557 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 14, 2013 05:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: i had literally just met my guy and my inner voice immediately said 'he's the one'. i was like - WTF? my whole body and mind knew just by seeing him the first time and not even a hello had been exchanged yet, it's bizarre. I wonder if 'hearing' a voice is common amongst those who have actually experienced this?? I recall going home and writing this down in a diary (along with what the inner voice had said) because I knew it was something tremendous happening
I know about that voice. I`ve heard it, but I was so not ready and so scared that I pushed it way down deep deep. Impossible. Not Now. Not him. But well, I do cross paths with him now and then still (have been doing so for many years), and everytime he is in my physical proximity, it is the same. It might not be technically love at first sight, but I get the feeling that there is something "electric" going on. It`s hard to describe. Interestingly over the course of these very short superficial "pathcrossings" I made a very personal journey, which led me to being much more open and very much less scared and wanting to run away. Now I am mostly intrigued and curious, as to why exactly I am getting these electric surges around him, accompanied by very strong spiritual experiences (and he doesn´t seem even seem to be such a spiritual person himself), and why it is happening STILL. Shouldn`t it had completely faded away? I mean the first time I layed eyes on him (wel in real life, I dreamed of him before though) was like 7 years ago. So, why it may not be love at first sight, there is something that is pretty intriguing to me, about him, about that unexpected "connection". IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9265 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 14, 2013 05:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by Haplesschild*: I still believe real love takes time. Because love is about REALLY knowing a person, inside and out.
I think I agree with that. But does real love even exist? I don't mean to sound super skeptical but once you get to really know someone and alllll their flaws, it's quite difficult to feel the "love" and not get bored / irritated / frustrated after some time. Or is it just me? Maybe it really is about "finding the right person".. Ceri,
Your story is absolutely crazy (if you're talking about the same person I have in mind, haha). I still remember the charts and all.. insane!
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spanishlover Newflake Posts: 15 From: united states Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 14, 2013 06:06 AM
would venus conjunct south node (synastry) also produce the feeling of love at first sight?but more of a familiarity? IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1631 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 14, 2013 06:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I think I agree with that. But does real love even exist? I don't mean to sound super skeptical but once you get to really know someone and alllll their flaws, it's quite difficult to feel the "love" and not get bored / irritated / frustrated after some time.Or is it just me? Maybe it really is about "finding the right person".. Ceri,
Your story is absolutely crazy (if you're talking about the same person I have in mind, haha). I still remember the charts and all.. insane!
Well 'really' loving someone is liking them for them, flaws and all. Afterall, it's their quirks that makes them so endearing. If you start finding them irritating after getting to know them well, then that probably ain't love haha. IP: Logged |
bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 1149 From: Ex - Yu Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 14, 2013 07:44 AM
In the books about love there is description that cusp of 7th in Aries means love at first sight! In my case that is right.There is no love at 2nd, 10th or 20th sight! Sun in Taurus Moon in Pisces Ascendant Libra ------------------ To fall down is easy, but to stand up is difficult. IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 1440 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 14, 2013 08:35 AM
I've experienced this twice in my life.Once with the person I believe to be my twinflame and again with my fiance. There is a HUGE difference between what happened in those instances and "lust at first sight." With my tf it was like somebody set me on fire and sent 10,000 volts of electricity through me when we first met, and every time we interact for that matter. It's disgusting. My brother makes fun of me for it because it's REALLY obvious how this person affects me. We didn't even speak the first time we met, just stared at each other until my bff's brother almost literally dragged me away from him. I felt like I'd found a piece of me that I'd lost. His Leo ASC, Venus, Merc, and Sun are conjunct my Leo ASC and trine my Venus. His ASC is trine my Sun/Merc. His Mars opposite my Mars/Uranus. His Moon conjunct my Saturn. 10 individual combinations of 3 planets that form grand trines in our synastry, all right on top of each other. His Juno opp my Juno/Vertex. The Juno-Juno opposition is almost exact, only a 6 minute difference. His Vertex/Neptune is conjunct my Juno/Vertex on one side and my Uranus/Mars on the other. Ah, and a Saturn-Neptune DW.. Our composite is a sight to behold, too, with Uranus opposing Jupiter/Chiron/Merc/Sun/and Venus, trine ASC and square Moon.. With my fiance, all he had to do was smile at me and I was freakin' hooked. I walked in the door at a mutual friend's house and he was there in all his amazingness playing d.j. for the little get together we were having. He looked up at me and smiled when I came in and I couldn't have imagined a more perfect feeling than I had at that moment. I knew him, I loved him, he was mine and I was his in a barely measureable amount of time. It was never discussed whether or not we were together/dating...we just were. Sun-Venus DW, both aspects less than 1 degree. His Sun/Merc semisquare my Uranus. His Uranus square my Sun/Merc. His Sun/Merc/Venus sextile my Venus. His Saturn quincunx my Neptune. And in composite we have the love stellium with Jupiter included, and also another stellium of Vertex/Saturn/POF/Mars/and Juno. That second stellium all falls within less than a 5 degree span and conjuncts my natal Saturn and Vertex.
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meissieri Knowflake Posts: 1380 From: Neptune with Faith, Bella, Muddy and Doux. Commuting between that and Chiron. Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 14, 2013 09:15 AM
Looking back, I've had it with one of my exes. His Uranus squared my Venus, setting off my own Venus square Uranus. It really did feel amazing at first, as if we'd known each other for ages. Rushed into things too, which covered up a lot of things that were wrong with the relationships. It really is a hit-or-miss aspect. Obviously, it can also go the other way, feeling almost surreal and like you just got shocked back to life. It didn't work out for me, but for a while I did think he was my soulmate. I relate to all you guys' stories here.  Could it also be about platonic relationships, by the way? Like you meet them and you just know you'll get along on the first time of talking? If that counts, haha. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9265 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 14, 2013 10:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by meissieri: Could it also be about platonic relationships, by the way? Like you meet them and you just know you'll get along on the first time of talking?
It wasn't love at first sight but definitely a strong interest - with my former best friend. I remember the first few times I saw her, it was very intense, and we were just kids at the time. There was so much fascination from my part, it's like I was in awe. We have ASC exactly conjunct DSC, and her ASC falls on my NN. My Sun/Mars/Pluto in her 12th, her Venus in my 8th. Her Moon (widely) conjunct my ASC, and her Mercury conjunct my DSC. It was a strong friendship that lasted several years. Now we've drifted apart but she's definitely a special person to me. My current best friend, who I haven't met in real life yet (yes, we "met" on the internet - here on LL, actually) and I share a strong bond, which I pretty much felt from the beginning. I knew I could trust her, things just unfolded naturally. Her Moon/Pluto on my Vertex My Mercury opposite her Vertex loads of oppositions my Venus/Jupiter conjunct her Moon/Pluto/Saturn in her 1st her Jupiter/Uranus conjunct my DSC/NN her Sun, Mars & Mercury in my 12th
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starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1671 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 14, 2013 10:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by LionFish: I've experienced this twice in my life.Once with the person I believe to be my twinflame and again with my fiance. There is a HUGE difference between what happened in those instances and "lust at first sight." With my tf it was like somebody set me on fire and sent 10,000 volts of electricity through me when we first met, and every time we interact for that matter. It's disgusting. My brother makes fun of me for it because it's REALLY obvious how this person affects me. We didn't even speak the first time we met, just stared at each other until my bff's brother almost literally dragged me away from him. I felt like I'd found a piece of me that I'd lost. His Leo ASC, Venus, Merc, and Sun are conjunct my Leo ASC and trine my Venus. His ASC is trine my Sun/Merc. His Mars opposite my Mars/Uranus. His Moon conjunct my Saturn. 10 individual combinations of 3 planets that form grand trines in our synastry, all right on top of each other. His Juno opp my Juno/Vertex. The Juno-Juno opposition is almost exact, only a 6 minute difference. His Vertex/Neptune is conjunct my Juno/Vertex on one side and my Uranus/Mars on the other. Ah, and a Saturn-Neptune DW.. Our composite is a sight to behold, too, with Uranus opposing Jupiter/Chiron/Merc/Sun/and Venus, trine ASC and square Moon.. With my fiance, all he had to do was smile at me and I was freakin' hooked. I walked in the door at a mutual friend's house and he was there in all his amazingness playing d.j. for the little get together we were having. He looked up at me and smiled when I came in and I couldn't have imagined a more perfect feeling than I had at that moment. I knew him, I loved him, he was mine and I was his in a barely measureable amount of time. It was never discussed whether or not we were together/dating...we just were. Sun-Venus DW, both aspects less than 1 degree. His Sun/Merc semisquare my Uranus. His Uranus square my Sun/Merc. His Sun/Merc/Venus sextile my Venus. His Saturn quincunx my Neptune. And in composite we have the love stellium with Jupiter included, and also another stellium of Vertex/Saturn/POF/Mars/and Juno. That second stellium all falls within less than a 5 degree span and conjuncts my natal Saturn and Vertex.
so why are you not engaged to your tf? IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5151 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted June 14, 2013 10:56 AM
' did you fall in love with me yet or should I go out and enter the room again?'I so wanted to say this  IP: Logged |