posted June 16, 2013 08:02 PM            

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The guy I met online at 16 is now balding and "fat" yet the feeling is STILL THE SAME. So yes, it is love LOL!!

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Ow wow.. that's the best thing about love; it doesn't matter how fat, bald, lined or squared you are, it's all about the real you. Thanks for the reminder

posted June 17, 2013 03:18 PM            

Yes, i believe in it, it happened once when i was 15...and i still think about him. We never did anything, i was a very good little religious girl(not allowed to speak to boys), so he was up against God and he almost won! LOL, oh no! But in the end we never did anything, i did sneak out of my house just to go sit with him at a park in the middle of the night, he tried but im sure he could tell i was so shy and afraid. I think he gave up after a year of trying to go somewhere with me...but i couldnt, i was to scared God would strike me dead, but i wanted to!
Not sure of his exact birthday tho, sorry!
But i met another guy 18 years later and it felt exactly the same, maybe stronger the 2nd time, ends up they were born in same year, around the same time both had spring birthdays, so maybe some generational planets aspects similarly?
The 2nd guy and i have these aspects...

His saggy Moon@5.05
My saggy Sun@4.38

His AC cap@14
My Lust cap@14
His Valentine cap@10
My Valentine cap@10
My Eros cap@9
My IC cap@8
His Saturn taurus@11
His IC taurus@9
My Juno virgo@12
His NN pisces@11
My Osiris pisces@10

His Uranus libra@5
His Isis libra@5
My Karma libra@5
My AC libra@7

His Kaali aries@5
His Chiron aries@7
My DC aries@7
My Alma aries@9

My Kaali scorp@3
My Uranus scorp@4
His Sun taurus@3

His Karma aries@25
My Chiron aries@25
His Osiris libra@25

My S.N. taurus@22
His Merc taurus@22
His Venus taurus@25

His Psyche on my Vertex exact
My Alma on his Vertex exact

His Pluto is on my Moon
My Pluto is opposed his Chiron

posted June 17, 2013 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Oh...ya! I love "love at first sight"! LOL

Yes, i believe in it, it happened once when i was 15...and i still think about him. We never did anything, i was a very good little religious girl(not allowed to speak to boys), so he was up against God and he almost won! LOL, oh no! But in the end we never did anything, i did sneak out of my house just to go sit with him at a park in the middle of the night, he tried but im sure he could tell i was so shy and afraid. I think he gave up after a year of trying to go somewhere with me...but i couldnt, i was to scared God would strike me dead, but i wanted to!
Not sure of his exact birthday tho, sorry!
But i met another guy 18 years later and it felt exactly the same, maybe stronger the 2nd time, ends up they were born in same year, around the same time both had spring birthdays, so maybe some generational planets aspects similarly?
The 2nd guy and i have these aspects...

His saggy Moon@5.05
My saggy Sun@4.38

His AC cap@14
My Lust cap@14
His Valentine cap@10
My Valentine cap@10
My Eros cap@9
My IC cap@8
His Saturn taurus@11
His IC taurus@9
My Juno virgo@12
His NN pisces@11
My Osiris pisces@10

His Uranus libra@5
His Isis libra@5
My Karma libra@5
My AC libra@7

His Kaali aries@5
His Chiron aries@7
My DC aries@7
My Alma aries@9

My Kaali scorp@3
My Uranus scorp@4
His Sun taurus@3

His Karma aries@25
My Chiron aries@25
His Osiris libra@25

My S.N. taurus@22
His Merc taurus@22
His Venus taurus@25

His Psyche on my Vertex exact
My Alma on his Vertex exact

His Pluto is on my Moon
My Pluto is opposed his Chiron

Hmmm....we have the uranus contacts, thats always electricity!

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posted June 19, 2013 06:03 AM            

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Originally posted by bonadea33:
I know this "case": it happened more times to me.
I have data's from two men only:
My Sun is in their 7th house and their Moon in my 7th. Their Moon is in Aries (hot men!)
Bobbie

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In Aries is my DSC; Asteroids Amor, Eros and Hygeia.

posted June 19, 2013 06:23 AM            

Today we see each other again and he is around me from time to time... We just staring at each other. Ive an boyfriend so nothing will be happened but Im really interested to follow this progression whioh will be trigged by T uranus.

I checked out our PR

His PR venus 13,20 in SAG
My PR venus 13,37 in Leo

Our Composite Sun 13,47 in Libra
Our PR Composite Venus 13,27 in Libra
His PR uranus 13,33 in libra

posted June 19, 2013 09:10 AM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
so...
the harsh aspects, square and opposite between venus and uranus have a stronger effect than the trine/conjunction?

is there a difference as to how/who feels what?
like, do both feel it is destined?
or, is there something different about the uranus person versus the venus person?

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yes, hard aspect are always felt more, this has been covered so many times on here. Conjunctions are in that category as well.
With Uranus/Venus - both people feel absolutely the same and it's an immediate reaction. Unless there is a strong Saturn tie elsewhere in the synastry, the Uranus person soon will embark on new journeys, however.

posted June 19, 2013 10:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
yes, hard aspect are always felt more, this has been covered so many times on here. Conjunctions are in that category as well.

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thank you

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With Uranus/Venus - both people feel absolutely the same and it's an immediate reaction. Unless there is a strong Saturn tie elsewhere in the synastry, the Uranus person soon will embark on new journeys, however.

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would you please elaborate on this?
i have an idea, but, im not sure...
maybe, it means that the uranus person will have to move, for example? but what else could it be?

posted June 19, 2013 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
would you please elaborate on this?
i have an idea, but, im not sure...
maybe, it means that the uranus person will have to move, for example? but what else could it be?

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The Uranus person soon loses interest in the Venus person and moves on. The connection starts suddenly but it also ends suddenly. That is what happens if no Saturn hard aspects are present in the synastry. If Saturn is there - then the Uranus person 's affection will fluctuate from cold to hot but he will be tied in to the relationship due to the Saturn aspects and will not leave.

posted June 19, 2013 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
The Uranus person soon loses interest in the Venus person and moves on. The connection starts suddenly but it also ends suddenly. That is what happens if no Saturn hard aspects are present in the synastry. If Saturn is there - then the Uranus person 's affection will fluctuate from cold to hot but he will be tied in to the relationship due to the Saturn aspects and will not leave.

The Uranus/Venus square in the Composite makes for an exciting relationship between two people of different backgrounds - different race, culture or just two people living in different cities and thus separated physically and seeing each other only occasionaly.

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posted June 19, 2013 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
The Uranus person soon loses interest in the Venus person and moves on. The connection starts suddenly but it also ends suddenly. That is what happens if no Saturn hard aspects are present in the synastry. If Saturn is there - then the Uranus person 's affection will fluctuate from cold to hot but he will be tied in to the relationship due to the Saturn aspects and will not leave

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posted June 19, 2013 01:25 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
completely agree. my bf and i have venus conjunct uranus/pluto exact but we also have a ton of saturn, including the saturn opposite venus. i have a cap moon and he has saturn in the 7th, and my moon in his 5th house of cap, so it's really binding when saturn is there :-)

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oh, something that I always wanted to know more about - how does Saturn opposes Venus plays in a relationship. Please, do tell! Who is Saturn and who is Venus in your case? How close is the spect? Was it difficult to get the relationship started initially? I understand the opposition is different than the square so I have been looking to speak to someone with an opposition only.
Also, the Venus on Pluto aspect? Who si the Venus in your case? How do you feel it, incombination with Saturn-Venus opposition.

posted June 19, 2013 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
oh, something that I always wanted to know more about - how does Saturn opposes Venus plays in a relationship. Please, do tell! Who is Saturn and who is Venus in your case? How close is the spect? Was it difficult to get the relationship started initially? I understand the opposition is different than the square so I have been looking to speak to someone with an opposition only.
Also, the Venus on Pluto aspect? Who si the Venus in your case? How do you feel it, incombination with Saturn-Venus opposition.

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posted June 19, 2013 03:45 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I have Venus opposite Uranus natally so my Venus opposes everyone who is born near my birthday Uranuses. I think I'm immune to that because of that.

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Yeah, I was going to ask about the people who have Venus conjunct or square Uranus natally... everyone their age love must them, then?

Lucky ducks!

To answer the question:

With my ex-soulmate, I just felt like I knew him very, very well from our first conversation. We had a lot of great synastry aspects, but sun trine sun, moon sextile moon, and Mercury trine Mercury exact is what I attribute those feelings to. I think that when you are similar to a person astrologically, the communication is more effective, free of misunderstandings, and tending towards the building of trust, right from the start. It's like you can sense where things are headed and that foresight itself can be euphoric.

With my husband, the first thought I had when I met him was, "I wonder if I'll marry this guy?" I think I was overwhelmed by all the subtle impressions I was gathering right away...looking back, part of me probably recognized what was going on astrologically, even if I couldn't put it into words. For instance, I was always strongly drawn to first decan Leos without knowing why...as it turns out, my husband's degree of Leo forms a tight grand trine with my Venus and Black Moon Lilith.

Also Pluto was transiting his Saturn and my Venus (which are tightly conjunct) when we got together. That definitely added some unavoidable intensity to our first interactions.

posted June 19, 2013 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
I am Venus in the Saturn Venus opposition and it‘s at 3 degrees; the relationship was not hard to start because of the Venus-Uranus-Pluto conjunction - that attraction is just overwhelming. The opposition is like this .. .

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Thanks for that! I've witnessed Venus/Saturn square through my sister's marriage and my parents as well. Never seen the opposition, however.
With my sister - her Saturn squares her husband's Venus and while she is always the tough one who takes charge of everything, she is completely and utterly vulnerable to him in the love department. The moment he displays some sort of disappointment, she freaks out and tries to please him as much as possible. She acts as if she is terrified that him, the Venus person, might stop loving her, and she walks on pins and needles around him. They have been married for 18 years now and seem to be happy and in love.
With my parents - mom's the Saturn in square to my father's Venus. Again, the same dynamic - my mom's always in charge and does wear the pants in the house. She is, however, completely in love with my Pisces dad and hasn't stopped loving him for the duration of their 30+ years of marriage. He cheated on her a few times, I guess. She loves him maybe twice more than vice versa.

I was asking you, because I've been recently obsessing over someone new and while my Pluto opposes his Venus at exact 0'01 degree and squares his Moon, his Saturn opposes my Venus at 2.5 degree. Similar to your aspects, but in this case I am the Pluto and he is the Saturn and each of our Venuses are affected.

posted June 19, 2013 04:32 PM            

We share the same culture, and we lived very close to one another. In fact we lived in each other's old neighborhoods (it's like we switched places, haha). We also went to the same Jr. HS. However, in our case I guess Uranus means meeting on the Internet.

In a lot of cases it's hard to forget about that person for some reason: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/204904.html

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Originally posted by Orange:
The Uranus person soon loses interest in the Venus person and moves on. The connection starts suddenly but it also ends suddenly. That is what happens if no Saturn hard aspects are present in the synastry. If Saturn is there - then the Uranus person 's affection will fluctuate from cold to hot but he will be tied in to the relationship due to the Saturn aspects and will not leave.

The Uranus/Venus square in the Composite makes for an exciting relationship between two people of different backgrounds - different race, culture or just two people living in different cities and thus separated physically and seeing each other only occasionaly.

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posted June 19, 2013 04:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Thanks for that! I've witnessed Venus/Saturn square through my sister's marriage and my parents as well. Never seen the opposition, however.
With my sister - her Saturn squares her husband's Venus and while she is always the tough one who takes charge of everything, she is completely and utterly vulnerable to him in the love department. The moment he displays some sort of disappointment, she freaks out and tries to please him as much as possible. She acts as if she is terrified that him, the Venus person, might stop loving her, and she walks on pins and needles around him. They have been married for 18 years now and seem to be happy and in love.
With my parents - mom's the Saturn in square to my father's Venus. Again, the same dynamic - my mom's always in charge and does wear the pants in the house. She is, however, completely in love with my Pisces dad and hasn't stopped loving him for the duration of their 30+ years of marriage. He cheated on her a few times, I guess. She loves him maybe twice more than vice versa.

I was asking you, because I've been recently obsessing over someone new and while my Pluto opposes his Venus at exact 0'01 degree and squares his Moon, his Saturn opposes my Venus at 2.5 degree. Similar to your aspects, but in this case I am the Pluto and he is the Saturn and each of our Venuses are affected.

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posted June 19, 2013 04:51 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
very interesting. seems like with the square venus retains power over the saturn person whereas with the opposition that isn't the case and perhaps, why many saturn opposite venus relationships don't last?

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I haven't witnessed the opposition, but I expect it to be similar to the square - step by step, Saturn loses the power as Venus starts to drift away and the more Venus loses interest and distances themselves from Saturn, the more Saturn will increase the grip.
Just wait and see - the moment your bf senses that you start to rebel against his dictature, he will freak out and try his best to keep you close to him.

posted June 22, 2013 04:12 AM            

The other one was recently met accidently , he has his leo mars exact conjunct my leo venus ...this was also the similar ( but not intense) feeling , no any emotinal attachment last long at all.

posted June 22, 2013 08:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I haven't witnessed the opposition, but I expect it to be similar to the square - step by step, Saturn loses the power as Venus starts to drift away and the more Venus loses interest and distances themselves from Saturn, the more Saturn will increase the grip.
Just wait and see - the moment your bf senses that you start to rebel against his dictature, he will freak out and try his best to keep you close to him.

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orange (or anyone), you're very knowledgeable...how would the following be experienced?

posted June 27, 2013 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
orange (or anyone), you're very knowledgeable...how would the following be experienced?

A's saturn opposing B's venus
B's saturn conjuncting A's venus
a DW, no?

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Hi, honey

yes, this is a DW

I'm not sure how close is the orbite of these aspects but if the planets are aspecting each other closely, these two people will be practically impossible to separate. As with all Saturn aspects, the relationship may take some time to take off but if it does, it will be for the long run. The two ppl will be connected with an invisible cord which flexes with the relationship evolvment but hardly able to break. Much love.

posted June 27, 2013 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
very interesting. seems like with the square venus retains power over the saturn person whereas with the opposition that isn't the case and perhaps, why many saturn opposite venus relationships don't last?

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